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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Manners dude. Manners  "
Really?
Manners. Iam well aware what they are,when to use and apply.
It is not a job application or any other professional correspondence of any kind. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Manners dude. Manners
Really?
Manners. Iam well aware what they are,when to use and apply.
It is not a job application or any other professional correspondence of any kind. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If not your cuppa/ delete/ why reply to say sorry nice but not for me.
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You can't win on here!! Men complain about getting blocked or left on read.
They even complain about not getting a "no thanks".
I give up, I just block.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This is a joke thread right?  "
No joke at all.
I have viewed many a post. And most parts of the forum.
So was just gauging what it's all about.
If I send a message
. No reply I move on. If I get blocked well even more easier for me.
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"Manners dude. Manners
Really?
Manners. Iam well aware what they are,when to use and apply.
It is not a job application or any other professional correspondence of any kind. "
So you only apply your ‘manners’ when applying for a job or acting ‘professionally’ WOW  |
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"This is a joke thread right?
No joke at all.
I have viewed many a post. And most parts of the forum.
So was just gauging what it's all about.
If I send a message
. No reply I move on. If I get blocked well even more easier for me.
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Or you can just block those that don't reply |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If not your cuppa/ delete/ why reply to say sorry nice but not for me.
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Oh god, we can't win can we, whatever we do is going to cause someone to have a bitch |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If not your cuppa/ delete/ why reply to say sorry nice but not for me.
You can't win on here!! Men complain about getting blocked or left on read.
They even complain about not getting a "no thanks".
I give up, I just block.
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There is a truth and proof in the very put in . When somebody does want to on a wavelength they will find a way to text/chat/message and otherwise.
When nit. There is silence.
Oh they opened it and read it. But I am waiting for a reply.
And have read manytime. Some get abused for it all.
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"Manners dude. Manners "
And then you open yourself to.. well why not? What can I change? Well you met them! Ect ect….
So at what point do you stop conversing?
Heck… mindset… everything is a no until told otherwise.. people then don’t get as much angst |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This is a joke thread right?
No joke at all.
I have viewed many a post. And most parts of the forum.
So was just gauging what it's all about.
If I send a message
. No reply I move on. If I get blocked well even more easier for me.
Or you can just block those that don't reply "
I think it's all about timing,
Yeah block is so simple. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If not your cuppa/ delete/ why reply to say sorry nice but not for me.
Why tell people how to manage their own inboxes?  "
It's a forum. Put out there.
Or does it seem like people are being told what to do?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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dependent on one’s mood, volume of messages rec’d, message context, etc...
find simpler to just ignore the messages that ask silly questions to which they already have an answer to, had they bothered to read profile...
some peeps make more effort than others in their messaging, these I tend to make time to answer as opposed to the simple Hi, winks, etc. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My block button is in constant use
Brill.
Simple method applied. No reply move on.
Block is what it is.
yet people complain, what is actually the issue with being told "Thanks but not for me." ?"
No issue whatsoever from any context.
Do you message every single person to tell them thank you, and no thank you??
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So many posts on ‘why not reply? - even if it’s a no thanks, it’s polite and no need to be rude or ignorant’
Now we’ve got ‘why reply? If it’s a no thanks why not just block?’
Jesus Christ we can’t win can we |
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"My block button is in constant use
Brill.
Simple method applied. No reply move on.
Block is what it is.
yet people complain, what is actually the issue with being told "Thanks but not for me." ?
No issue whatsoever from any context.
Do you message every single person to tell them thank you, and no thank you??
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actually I do reply to all my messages. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You can't win here sometimes
So many moan they don't get replies
Now a moan if you do reply !"
Funny old thing heh.
Iam chilled and cool with the methods applied.
Many may take abuse as a reply! Oh they responded to me.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My block button is in constant use
Brill.
Simple method applied. No reply move on.
Block is what it is.
yet people complain, what is actually the issue with being told "Thanks but not for me." ?
No issue whatsoever from any context.
Do you message every single person to tell them thank you, and no thank you??
actually I do reply to all my messages. "
A fine human you are. That's quality time taken out to respond to all and above. |
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"My block button is in constant use
Brill.
Simple method applied. No reply move on.
Block is what it is.
yet people complain, what is actually the issue with being told "Thanks but not for me." ?
No issue whatsoever from any context.
Do you message every single person to tell them thank you, and no thank you??
actually I do reply to all my messages.
A fine human you are. That's quality time taken out to respond to all and above. "
it doesn't take a lot when you don't get many messages. A lot of women get many more xx |
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"My block button is in constant use
Brill.
Simple method applied. No reply move on.
Block is what it is.
yet people complain, what is actually the issue with being told "Thanks but not for me." ?
No issue whatsoever from any context.
Do you message every single person to tell them thank you, and no thank you??
actually I do reply to all my messages.
A fine human you are. That's quality time taken out to respond to all and above. "
I too used to respond with a "no thank you" to all of my messages that the profile etc didn't interest me, then over the weekend I was threatened by a guy, so even though I have manners I won't be using them in future.   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My block button is in constant use
Brill.
Simple method applied. No reply move on.
Block is what it is.
yet people complain, what is actually the issue with being told "Thanks but not for me." ?
No issue whatsoever from any context.
Do you message every single person to tell them thank you, and no thank you??
actually I do reply to all my messages.
A fine human you are. That's quality time taken out to respond to all and above. it doesn't take a lot when you don't get many messages. A lot of women get many more xx"
I truely don't believe you.
Why would they get more? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So many posts on ‘why not reply? - even if it’s a no thanks, it’s polite and no need to be rude or ignorant’
Now we’ve got ‘why reply? If it’s a no thanks why not just block?’
Jesus Christ we can’t win can we "
Your correct in this world of Hormones.
Difficult to please all, I agree |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Manners dude. Manners
Really?
Manners. Iam well aware what they are,when to use and apply.
No way the manners select switch is Jammed in the full on mode its melting.
It is not a job application or any other professional correspondence of any kind.
So you only apply your ‘manners’ when applying for a job or acting ‘professionally’ WOW "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Manners dude. Manners
Really?
Manners. Iam well aware what they are,when to use and apply.
It is not a job application or any other professional correspondence of any kind.
So you only apply your ‘manners’ when applying for a job or acting ‘professionally’ WOW "
The manners button is fully left in the on Postion. And melting with the heat.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My block button is in constant use
Brill.
Simple method applied. No reply move on.
Block is what it is.
yet people complain, what is actually the issue with being told "Thanks but not for me." ?
No issue whatsoever from any context.
Do you message every single person to tell them thank you, and no thank you??
actually I do reply to all my messages.
A fine human you are. That's quality time taken out to respond to all and above.
I too used to respond with a "no thank you" to all of my messages that the profile etc didn't interest me, then over the weekend I was threatened by a guy, so even though I have manners I won't be using them in future. "
Not a nice response you got from him.
And you shall apply accordingly.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I used to reply to people who put in some genuine effort but they then saw this as a way to continue with the chat. So now it’s just delete "
Well stated. Very valid point.
Some may take it as a door ajar to still try the sales pitch or maybe angle.
How we react sends all types of signals.
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If it’s a well thought out message then we’ll reply.
If it’s a dick pic, one liner, FaF or copy and paste message we’ll just delete.
We did get this the other day - someone saying why did you message to say no thanks, told us where to go.
Obviously this made C so turned on we tried to message but they’d blocked us
K |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Manners dude. Manners
And then you open yourself to.. well why not? What can I change? Well you met them! Ect ect….
So at what point do you stop conversing?
Heck… mindset… everything is a no until told otherwise.. people then don’t get as much angst "
Can't win ever heh!!
We all still here to tell the tales.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I used to reply to people who put in some genuine effort but they then saw this as a way to continue with the chat. So now it’s just delete "
Same 
My block button is on fire these days |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If not your cuppa/ delete/ why reply to say sorry nice but not for me.
I do delete! "
The most used/ over used button ever.
They should provide a " Platinum super duper DELETE TO ORBIT button. On Fab. Lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If someone msg me saying , sorry nice but not for us , i wouldn't take in the wrong way at all "
It should not be taken wrong at all. Its very polite they took the time to let you know where you stand. And gently let you slip away and ponder your not for them. And keep improving your CV on Fab. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If it’s a well thought out message then we’ll reply.
If it’s a dick pic, one liner, FaF or copy and paste message we’ll just delete.
We did get this the other day - someone saying why did you message to say no thanks, told us where to go.
Obviously this made C so turned on we tried to message but they’d blocked us
K"
Wow the very best if both worlds heh.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I used to reply to people who put in some genuine effort but they then saw this as a way to continue with the chat. So now it’s just delete
Same
My block button is on fire these days "
Fab will become so Blocked!! dyno rod will be Millionaires from this Dire Blockage!!
block block block. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I used to reply to people who put in some genuine effort but they then saw this as a way to continue with the chat. So now it’s just delete
Same
My block button is on fire these days "
Fab will become so Blocked!! dyno rod will be Millionaires from this Dire Blockage!!
block block block. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Bloody hell. We can't win.
Moan if you block, moan if you reply  "
We are profoundly a proud nation of moaners!!
No moaning in the bedrooms. Leave that all to the Italians and franchises.
Our best moan is about the Weather daily. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If I message a woman, and it gets read then deleted, I'll block them. Saving the humiliation of me doing it again and looking like a proper desperado."
That's a very easy peasy method to apply.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Maybe a 3 point step of rule with manners to be applied to responses,declines,and No's. In messaging..
Like an old school dogging etiquette's..
1) when headlights are flashed,your invited.
2) come close to the car,look ,wank,but do not touch ever.
3) when winked at and given the full (green light ) all systems go go.
Please do add to this, it is very basic and brief.. |
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We cant reply to all our messages.
We sometimes delete all messages.
Had to make our profile hidden as getting too many messages and some really vile pushy messages.
Some ppl on here think that they are gods gift and deserve a reply or meet.
Him |
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I am sure that for most people will depend on the message. Some will just delete, some delete and block some answer with a polite no and some will encourage further conversation. Context plays a part. Not all cold callers sell double glazing and even then someone may be looking for just that at the time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Manners dude. Manners
Really?
Manners. Iam well aware what they are,when to use and apply.
It is not a job application or any other professional correspondence of any kind. "
If it was then I’m afraid “your” fired! |
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"If not your cuppa/ delete/ why reply to say sorry nice but not for me.
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They can’t win .. you saying just delete and block and other guys saying just reply and tell us they don’t like you  
You send a message
I say each to their own
Deal with the out Cutcome
Delete and block or a reply telling you they don’t want anything to do with you
Deal with it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I reply. I then reply again if they don’t acknowledge that I’ve replied. If I then don’t get a reply to that. I then send insults for them being ignorant f’kwits….  I don’t.
I think I’ve only ever not replied twice. The messages were insulting. But other times I hate the ignorance of ‘not replying is a polite no’. Each to their own, but not for me. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Manners dude. Manners
Really?
Manners. Iam well aware what they are,when to use and apply.
It is not a job application or any other professional correspondence of any kind.
If it was then I’m afraid “your” fired! "
Cheers we all are in the fire here lol. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If not your cuppa/ delete/ why reply to say sorry nice but not for me.
A tip.
Always make sure you read the profile before making contact.
It's all about respect."
Read profile and respond accordingly . Much arises from not reading and then acting.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If people can't be bothered to read a profile and send a message that reflects the contents, why should we be bothered to respond."
Spot on
Delete/block apply. So no more tennis is played with messages.
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