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Steve needs some hope! HELP!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’m feeling very fragile after a very tough morning. The scary thing about hatred is that it’s Intergenerational. Thinking of like intergenerational cycles of violence. Seeing young people so full of hate towards others has really left me feeling hopeless.
Can anyone tell me something positive that’s happened to them so far this week? Or something they’re feeling hopeful about?   |
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Positive things this week:
1) The student who came back to visit who said I'd saved his life
2) The several ex-students willing to help out as a personal favour, because they value my work with them
3) The chap who fixed my wheelchair wheel "on spec" yesterday, despite being busy, but because I couldn't exactly just leave it with him
4) Getting Mr KC back yesterday
5) Our son being super helpful and coming home to help while Mr KC was away
6) Getting my race pack  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My crushed to is mending well, so can now do a lot more things than previous week 
Got an entry to University written piece sent off yesterday.
I've now got three nights off |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do you seriously believe the only hate amongst people in the world is with the younger generation?
I hate to break it to you, but it really isn't.  "
No? Lol? That’s not what I said and if it is I’m sorry because that’s not what I meant. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m feeling very fragile after a very tough morning. The scary thing about hatred is that it’s Intergenerational. Thinking of like intergenerational cycles of violence. Seeing young people so full of hate towards others has really left me feeling hopeless.
Can anyone tell me something positive that’s happened to them so far this week? Or something they’re feeling hopeful about? "
Op. I have a social, and actual face to face social coming up. Just me and her, so me being on here and ignoring all the negativity towards a single man, I was able to ignore it and find someone that did want to meet up and not just chat. That’s my good news.
Op, that’s the advice I would give you too. Talk to people with your views your vibe and And try to ignore the hatred in people (hate leads to the dark side). . The world is a much more beautiful world than bad.
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"I’m feeling very fragile after a very tough morning. The scary thing about hatred is that it’s Intergenerational. Thinking of like intergenerational cycles of violence. Seeing young people so full of hate towards others has really left me feeling hopeless.
Can anyone tell me something positive that’s happened to them so far this week? Or something they’re feeling hopeful about?
Op. I have a social, and actual face to face social coming up. Just me and her, so me being on here and ignoring all the negativity towards a single man, I was able to ignore it and find someone that did want to meet up and not just chat. That’s my good news.
Op, that’s the advice I would give you too. Talk to people with your views your vibe and And try to ignore the hatred in people (hate leads to the dark side). . The world is a much more beautiful world than bad.
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Fear is the path to the dark side. Fear leads to anger. Anger leads to hate. Hate leads to suffering.
Yoda |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you seriously believe the only hate amongst people in the world is with the younger generation?
I hate to break it to you, but it really isn't.
No? Lol? That’s not what I said and if it is I’m sorry because that’s not what I meant. "
Just reads wrong |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Positive things this week:
1) The student who came back to visit who said I'd saved his life
2) The several ex-students willing to help out as a personal favour, because they value my work with them
3) The chap who fixed my wheelchair wheel "on spec" yesterday, despite being busy, but because I couldn't exactly just leave it with him
4) Getting Mr KC back yesterday
5) Our son being super helpful and coming home to help while Mr KC was away
6) Getting my race pack "
Just beautiful. Just beautiful. You’re so amazing. This made me smile lots.
Re: number 6- Are you doing a Rachel Dolezal? Did the Black community send you a welcome pack?  |
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"Positive things this week:
1) The student who came back to visit who said I'd saved his life
2) The several ex-students willing to help out as a personal favour, because they value my work with them
3) The chap who fixed my wheelchair wheel "on spec" yesterday, despite being busy, but because I couldn't exactly just leave it with him
4) Getting Mr KC back yesterday
5) Our son being super helpful and coming home to help while Mr KC was away
6) Getting my race pack
Just beautiful. Just beautiful. You’re so amazing. This made me smile lots.
Re: number 6- Are you doing a Rachel Dolezal? Did the Black community send you a welcome pack? "
Yeah, I'm joining the Sisterhood 
It's for a 10k thingy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you seriously believe the only hate amongst people in the world is with the younger generation?
I hate to break it to you, but it really isn't. "
That isn't what he said? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Positive things this week:
1) The student who came back to visit who said I'd saved his life
2) The several ex-students willing to help out as a personal favour, because they value my work with them
3) The chap who fixed my wheelchair wheel "on spec" yesterday, despite being busy, but because I couldn't exactly just leave it with him
4) Getting Mr KC back yesterday
5) Our son being super helpful and coming home to help while Mr KC was away
6) Getting my race pack
Just beautiful. Just beautiful. You’re so amazing. This made me smile lots.
Re: number 6- Are you doing a Rachel Dolezal? Did the Black community send you a welcome pack?
Yeah, I'm joining the Sisterhood
It's for a 10k thingy "
Brilliant! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do you seriously believe the only hate amongst people in the world is with the younger generation?
I hate to break it to you, but it really isn't.
No? Lol? That’s not what I said and if it is I’m sorry because that’s not what I meant.
Just reads wrong"
I am scared that hatred isn’t just going to ‘die out’ like people say. And that my daughter is going to grow up in a hate filled world. People always say it’s getting better. The younger generation are better. Just had a depressing experience that made me feel pretty sad and hopeless is all. That’s what I meant. Nothing else. Nothing about only young people experiencing hate. Or anything like that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Sorry you've had a bad morning, pet. I went to pick up a desk I bought on Gumtree and the elderly couple were a treat. Even when I ran over their strimmer by accident and was instantly forgiven.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My crushed to is mending well, so can now do a lot more things than previous week
Got an entry to University written piece sent off yesterday.
I've now got three nights off "
Wow wow. So amazing. So positive. So happy for you pal! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’m feeling very fragile after a very tough morning. The scary thing about hatred is that it’s Intergenerational. Thinking of like intergenerational cycles of violence. Seeing young people so full of hate towards others has really left me feeling hopeless.
Can anyone tell me something positive that’s happened to them so far this week? Or something they’re feeling hopeful about?
Op. I have a social, and actual face to face social coming up. Just me and her, so me being on here and ignoring all the negativity towards a single man, I was able to ignore it and find someone that did want to meet up and not just chat. That’s my good news.
Op, that’s the advice I would give you too. Talk to people with your views your vibe and And try to ignore the hatred in people (hate leads to the dark side). . The world is a much more beautiful world than bad.
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You’re right. I was just thrown is all.
You’re so great man. This social has made me happy for you! Enjoy it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you seriously believe the only hate amongst people in the world is with the younger generation?
I hate to break it to you, but it really isn't.
No? Lol? That’s not what I said and if it is I’m sorry because that’s not what I meant.
Just reads wrong
I am scared that hatred isn’t just going to ‘die out’ like people say. And that my daughter is going to grow up in a hate filled world. People always say it’s getting better. The younger generation are better. Just had a depressing experience that made me feel pretty sad and hopeless is all. That’s what I meant. Nothing else. Nothing about only young people experiencing hate. Or anything like that. "
See now that makes more sense as to the statement you wrote originally.
Also your experiences in the world could be the total opposite to what any family members experience growing up so none of it should be dwelled upon. Live life instead of constantly fretting about the what if's....  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do you seriously believe the only hate amongst people in the world is with the younger generation?
I hate to break it to you, but it really isn't.
No? Lol? That’s not what I said and if it is I’m sorry because that’s not what I meant.
Just reads wrong
I am scared that hatred isn’t just going to ‘die out’ like people say. And that my daughter is going to grow up in a hate filled world. People always say it’s getting better. The younger generation are better. Just had a depressing experience that made me feel pretty sad and hopeless is all. That’s what I meant. Nothing else. Nothing about only young people experiencing hate. Or anything like that.
See now that makes more sense as to the statement you wrote originally.
Also your experiences in the world could be the total opposite to what any family members experience growing up so none of it should be dwelled upon. Live life instead of constantly fretting about the what if's.... "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I brought a Nintendo switch to distract myself from the chaos that is the outside world"
Take a dick pic with next to it like Big Sean!
But seriously that’s sick man! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Op, that’s the advice I would give you too. Talk to people with your views your vibe and And try to ignore the hatred in people (hate leads to the dark side). . The world is a much more beautiful world than bad.
Fear is the path to the dark side. Fear leads to anger. Anger leads to hate. Hate leads to suffering.
Yoda "
You had me at Yoda!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m feeling very fragile after a very tough morning. The scary thing about hatred is that it’s Intergenerational. Thinking of like intergenerational cycles of violence. Seeing young people so full of hate towards others has really left me feeling hopeless.
Can anyone tell me something positive that’s happened to them so far this week? Or something they’re feeling hopeful about? "
I had my 4th back operation last week. It still hurts like fuck.
Today my surgeon said they'll operate again, different kind of op this time, which should help resolve the issue for a few more years.
Last time they operated I was ok for about 9 years, the last two years have been tough, there's light at the end of the pain tunnel.
Plus I've got some physio booked.
Today is a painful but good news day.
Racial hatred stuff... Can't begin to imagine what it's like.
Racists....... Cunts. End of.
Winston
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All we can do is be better. Stand up for those who need us. Some of us try. Some of us will never stop trying, and feed on the hatred of those who try to stop us.
My positive? Someone overheard me talking to a cashier about the difficulties of replacing a lost passport. (Context: I'd found a lost passport and handed it in. She didn't hear that) She approached me and gave me specific information about Australian consulates.
I didn't need it, but  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m feeling very fragile after a very tough morning. The scary thing about hatred is that it’s Intergenerational. Thinking of like intergenerational cycles of violence. Seeing young people so full of hate towards others has really left me feeling hopeless.
Can anyone tell me something positive that’s happened to them so far this week? Or something they’re feeling hopeful about? "
It is horrific and there are no words to describe this type of hatred.
POSITIVE.
I am truly thankful for my wonderful wife and daughter, I am thankful for our life, love and unbreakable bond. We can only live the way in which we hope everyone gets to live and enjoy their lives. |
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"I’m feeling very fragile after a very tough morning. The scary thing about hatred is that it’s Intergenerational. Thinking of like intergenerational cycles of violence. Seeing young people so full of hate towards others has really left me feeling hopeless.
Can anyone tell me something positive that’s happened to them so far this week? Or something they’re feeling hopeful about?
Op. I have a social, and actual face to face social coming up. Just me and her, so me being on here and ignoring all the negativity towards a single man, I was able to ignore it and find someone that did want to meet up and not just chat. That’s my good news.
Op, that’s the advice I would give you too. Talk to people with your views your vibe and And try to ignore the hatred in people (hate leads to the dark side). . The world is a much more beautiful world than bad.
Fear is the path to the dark side. Fear leads to anger. Anger leads to hate. Hate leads to suffering.
Yoda "
I watched that yesterday and was hoing to quote it, but you beat me to it.
OP, my good news is that I have a long weekend and a new chain for my chainsaw |
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