What often puts you off even talking to ppl once you've looked at their profile?
My top 3 would be ...
Status updates...they are bored or need to offload...??
Very short bio....no effort made
On for a matter of weeks and can't get a meet!!...need to be making an effort...its not dial a shag lol
Ohhh number 4 lol dick pics galore and no face pics or any other pics for that matter .... |
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over a year ago
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"What often puts you off even talking to ppl once you've looked at their profile?
My top 3 would be ...
Status updates...they are bored or need to offload...??
Very short bio....no effort made
On for a matter of weeks and can't get a meet!!...need to be making an effort...its not dial a shag lol
Ohhh number 4 lol dick pics galore and no face pics or any other pics for that matter ...."
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Lack of shared interests or opposing interests.
Distance, too close or too far.
Female not bi or bicurious.
No photo veri.
Can't accomodate (we can occasionally once trust is formed and at least a social). Single profiles that can't accom (unknowing wife at home ?)
Few if any public photo's.
Photos look old.
Photos show something we don't like such as piercings or very large build.
Couple profile but only photos of male or female, not both.
Poor or very short profile writeup.
Unpaid member.
Been here years but no meet verifications.
And so on.... |
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over a year ago
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For me their interests.. if they are into stuff I wont do I swerve them.
Ones looking for sex tonight/this afternoon etc etc.. swerve
Overtly sexual profile pics, again.. swerve haha
Just don't like the look of them... I'm not desperate haha |
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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago
Welling |
First and for most profiles that starts with DON’Ts
Secondly profiles with T&C longer than brexit agreement (seen this phrase earlier on forum but absolutely love it)
When talking absence of response for ages and sudden appearance after  |
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Dick pics galore
“Fill in later” especially when on the site 1 year+
Bareback photos on a singles account
Moany or bored status
When they go into detail of what they’d do in the bedroom
The word “banter” or worse; “banta” |
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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago
stockport |
No face….. no reply
I can’t be attracted to a body or a cock pic.
Don’t get me wrong I can admire a nice body pic but for me to be interested I have to see the face.
I hate gash pics. It’s just rank. |
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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago
Orpington |
"Put THIS SILLY WORD in your message so I know you read my bio, otherwise your message will be deleted"
Grow up!
"Put some effort in your message, otherwise I will just delete it"
I have no idea what effort even means to you, give me an example
"If you're under 6'3" don't even bother"
Don't even bother what? Don't even bother WHAT? |
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over a year ago
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"Silhouette avatar
Gross username
Gross or entitled status
Silhouette avatar - and no photos at all.
..There's only so long I can talk to a ghost.."
Do many women have silhouette avatars and no photos? I don't look at women's profiles generally. I very rarely chat to a man that setup, it never bodes well! |
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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago
Camberley occasionally doncaster |
Most of the above. I also have a strong dislike of bullet pointed do's and don'ts. Or even better, bullet pointed wish lists for partners. The usual:
"6 foot plus
9 inches or more
6 pack
Beard
Tattoos
Go for hours
Available Wed afternoons 1:35-2:38 only."
Swapping as a preference on a single profile. With who?
Drug inferences are also a no from me. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"What often puts you off even talking to ppl once you've looked at their profile? "
Simply if they're not what we'd look for in a potential play meet.
Doesn't have to be anything 'wrong with the profile at all.
Could have great photos and text, but just not be what we like. Could be too old, too young, too straight, too far away or it could be something as simple as one line of text or one single image.
Doesn't make them bad people and there'll be someone interested in them I'm sure.
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"Silhouette avatar
Gross username
Gross or entitled status
Silhouette avatar - and no photos at all.
..There's only so long I can talk to a ghost..
Do many women have silhouette avatars and no photos? I don't look at women's profiles generally. I very rarely chat to a man that setup, it never bodes well!"
Many. Some are obviously not women but others are very well verified and despite having lists of do's and don'ts on their profile there's not a lot else so a do as I say, not as I do approach. |
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By *MCMan
over a year ago
London/EA |
Few posters need to reevaluate their profiles or stop expecting double standards  but hey that’s fab o
Couples that say the male is straight but then ask if he can play with me..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Gees 
My favourite when it comes to this subject, the one that always gets pounced on is the "cant accommodate = married". Maybe some dont want a weird bunny boiler stalking them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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""Put THIS SILLY WORD in your message so I know you read my bio, otherwise your message will be deleted" - please delete
Grow up! - never
"Put some effort in your message, otherwise I will just delete it" - just send wink
I have no idea what effort even means to you, give me an example - do I have to...!
"If you're under 6'3" don't even bother" - a petite 5’4”
Don't even bother what? Don't even bother WHAT?"
- what? |
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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago
Camberley occasionally doncaster |
"Gees
My favourite when it comes to this subject, the one that always gets pounced on is the "cant accommodate = married". Maybe some dont want a weird bunny boiler stalking them "
Not as weird as "can't accommodate, can't travel" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only pics of the lady, only pics of a cock, Sydney uni/Facebook is a publicly traded entity bollocks, list of demands, status that is a a dig at someone and/or screams drama queen.
They're all obvious things, slightly more subtle and harder to quantify is any hint of entitlement or selfishness.
Mr |
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By *weetCruellaWoman
over a year ago
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"Gees
My favourite when it comes to this subject, the one that always gets pounced on is the "cant accommodate = married". Maybe some dont want a weird bunny boiler stalking them "
Exactly this. I just don't want to share my private address. It's my safe space. |
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"Gees
My favourite when it comes to this subject, the one that always gets pounced on is the "cant accommodate = married". Maybe some dont want a weird bunny boiler stalking them
Exactly this. I just don't want to share my private address. It's my safe space."
You're ok as you're female. It's perfectly OK for a woman to want to feel safe. Men obviously don't have to worry about safety therefore must be cheaters
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"Gees
My favourite when it comes to this subject, the one that always gets pounced on is the "cant accommodate = married". Maybe some dont want a weird bunny boiler stalking them
Not as weird as "can't accommodate, can't travel""
It's there for a very good reason!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Silhouette avatar
Gross username
Gross or entitled status
Silhouette avatar - and no photos at all.
..There's only so long I can talk to a ghost..
Do many women have silhouette avatars and no photos? I don't look at women's profiles generally. I very rarely chat to a man that setup, it never bodes well!
Many. Some are obviously not women but others are very well verified and despite having lists of do's and don'ts on their profile there's not a lot else so a do as I say, not as I do approach. "
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That's interesting. I knew some women have the do's and don'ts but not the rest. |
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The ones that say they reply to everyone. No you don't.
Cream pie pics.
The Sydney University bullshit.
Any copy and pasted sexual personality test.
Ones that discount particular races.
Profiles that are waaay too long, or way to short.
Text speak or terrible spelling and grammar. I can forgive the odd typo, but if you know you can't spell, maybe use a spellchecker?
Turns out I had some stuff to get off my chest  |
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