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Co-parenting for 18months. (Stay at home dad)
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over a year ago
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Sorry been co-parenting for 18months, it fell like my heart stops everytime I hand my daughter back. Can anyone advice on coping strategies for this!! |
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Been through family court over the last 9 months ensuring I get regular contact with mine. Today after a call with my solicitor a draft agreement has been agreed.
Thousands of pounds given to Solicitors to get what I had last time I saw them. I missed Christmas and their Birthdays, had to have supervised visits and Cafcass interviews.
But I won, eventually.
All I can advise is take each day as it comes, you love them and they know you do, then you’re doing a great job. Don’t forget that.
I’ve had the worst year of my life (I had a heart attack it got so bad) but now seeing the light at the end of a very dark tunnel. Hope you do as well.  |
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"Been through family court over the last 9 months ensuring I get regular contact with mine. Today after a call with my solicitor a draft agreement has been agreed.
Thousands of pounds given to Solicitors to get what I had last time I saw them. I missed Christmas and their Birthdays, had to have supervised visits and Cafcass interviews.
But I won, eventually.
All I can advise is take each day as it comes, you love them and they know you do, then you’re doing a great job. Don’t forget that.
I’ve had the worst year of my life (I had a heart attack it got so bad) but now seeing the light at the end of a very dark tunnel. Hope you do as well. "
well done getting a agreement, |
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"Sorry been co-parenting for 18months, it fell like my heart stops everytime I hand my daughter back. Can anyone advice on coping strategies for this!!"
l now loads of guys struggle to see kids x partners being nasty
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over a year ago
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Was a stay at home dad from 6months until 3years. My wife got jealous of our relationship and ended up apply for divorce.
Now she taken me to the csa.
Was attach every day now I get two days a week |
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"Was a stay at home dad from 6months until 3years. My wife got jealous of our relationship and ended up apply for divorce.
Now she taken me to the csa.
Was attach every day now I get two days a week "
If you were a stay at home Dad, to now only have 2 days a week is unreasonable and not what your child is used to. I suggest if you can mediation and if that doesn't work court in order to get more access, if that's what you want. |
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"Was a stay at home dad from 6months until 3years. My wife got jealous of our relationship and ended up apply for divorce.
Now she taken me to the csa.
Was attach every day now I get two days a week
If you were a stay at home Dad, to now only have 2 days a week is unreasonable and not what your child is used to. I suggest if you can mediation and if that doesn't work court in order to get more access, if that's what you want. "
100% try Family mediation first, if the mother of your child refuses, this could support your case if you have to attend Family court.
I think you mentioned she was your ex wife, therefore, you have legal rights more than I did as non married. However,I do have legally status to have parental responsibility. I would contact Fatherhood groups or websites to get more information. |
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"Was a stay at home dad from 6months until 3years. My wife got jealous of our relationship and ended up apply for divorce.
Now she taken me to the csa.
Was attach every day now I get two days a week
If you were a stay at home Dad, to now only have 2 days a week is unreasonable and not what your child is used to. I suggest if you can mediation and if that doesn't work court in order to get more access, if that's what you want.
100% try Family mediation first, if the mother of your child refuses, this could support your case if you have to attend Family court.
I think you mentioned she was your ex wife, therefore, you have legal rights more than I did as non married. However,I do have legally status to have parental responsibility. I would contact Fatherhood groups or websites to get more information. "
Rights as married or non married? There's no difference.
And also the only rights that matter in these cases are the children's and they are entitled to equal time with both parents.
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There is a difference. If you are non married and the father name is not on the birth certificate. If attending a family court they put the father as not having PR.
If you are married you have legal status. Unless the law has changed within the last 10 years. |
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"There is a difference. If you are non married and the father name is not on the birth certificate. If attending a family court they put the father as not having PR.
If you are married you have legal status. Unless the law has changed within the last 10 years. "
The law changed in late 2002. If the father is on the birth certificate, he has PR, irrespective of if he and the mother are married. |
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