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Why are women on here saying looking for a relationship? It's a sex site .
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Don't understand how any woman would want to find a partner on a swingers site ( sex site ) for a long term relationship.
Am I missing something hear ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s a what ever you want it to be site
Sometimes I am looking for friends
Sometimes I am looking for realships
Sometimes it’s just to show off pics
Sometimes I am just looking for mindless sex
Sometimes I am just looking for people to talk to
See it’s a what ever you want it to be site
There is no right and wrong to why someone here
And long as they real |
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"Don't understand how any woman would want to find a partner on a swingers site ( sex site ) for a long term relationship.
Am I missing something hear ? "
If you are a swinger and want a swinger type relationship where else would you recommend looking? |
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"Don't understand how any woman would want to find a partner on a swingers site ( sex site ) for a long term relationship.
Am I missing something hear ? "
Here*
Yes. Each to her own.
Don't like it? Move along. |
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"But yous all know that a lot of people use this site as a sex site only aswell ?
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Only the ones who are after just a fuck use it as a sex site. People after the swinging lifestyle which includes friendships do not. This is the reason we do not meet single guys or fwb cpls. We are not just after sex. If we were we could find a fuck easier on a well known dating site far quicker. |
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"Don't understand how any woman would want to find a partner on a swingers site ( sex site ) for a long term relationship.
Am I missing something hear ? "
I completely understand and agree, I would love to Find the same |
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"But yous all know that a lot of people use this site as a sex site only aswell ?
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Yup. People should listen to each other's preferences.
If you're looking for just sex, don't bother with people who are not looking for just sex. |
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"But yous all know that a lot of people use this site as a sex site only aswell ?
So because someone folks think it’s instashag nobody else should use it how they want?"
It's sort of the flip side of couples trying to kick off all the single guys. |
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"Don't understand how any woman would want to find a partner on a swingers site ( sex site ) for a long term relationship.
Am I missing something hear ? "
you don't control them or there minds, they have there own choices.....same as you |
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"Don't understand how any woman would want to find a partner on a swingers site ( sex site ) for a long term relationship.
Am I missing something hear ? "
It's a lot easier to discuss ur lifestyle with people already in the lifestyle.
This site is what ever you want it to be surely.
Everybody uses it as they wish.
Some for quick one off hook ups, others for long standing friendship with amazing benefits.
I know I certainly fou d what I was looking for here. 
Kitten x x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Each to their own? Isn't that the whole point of the site? To connect people seeking similar, whatever that may be...
Yes I fully agree with you ."
The this post is like alot of others on here reaching. |
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"Don't understand how any woman would want to find a partner on a swingers site ( sex site ) for a long term relationship.
Am I missing something hear ? "
100% probably missed everything! Probably not wrong in saying this but i dont think your very successful on here! A sex site??? Everyone has different reasons being on here! Maybe just for sex, or something more casual and regular, connect with them and build a relationship or friendship, not just a pointless quickie that ya can get of tinder, or pof! Also its probably a relationship with someone with exactly the same intrests i.e SWINGING there after to explore and share experience’s with!
Just a stab in the dark with that though i could be wrong! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You are missing something because this is not just a sex site. This site can be whatever you want to use it for. Some people it's casual hookups for others it's swinging in its more traditional form, Some just like to use it to make friends and use the forums, Some are exhibitionists and just like to post pictures and others are looking for a long term relationship and everything in between. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"But yous all know that a lot of people use this site as a sex site only aswell ?
Only the ones who are after just a fuck use it as a sex site. People after the swinging lifestyle which includes friendships do not. This is the reason we do not meet single guys or fwb cpls. We are not just after sex. If we were we could find a fuck easier on a well known dating site far quicker. "
Yep I fully agree. This is just put up for a debate. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"But yous all know that a lot of people use this site as a sex site only aswell ?
So because someone folks think it’s instashag nobody else should use it how they want?"
No im not saying that at all. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It’s pretty ironic that someone who states on his profile that he ‘loves to pleasure’ has started a thread with a post that has annoyed so many people. "
Not meant to annoy, it's up for a debate that's all it is. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I personally read all profiles I look at. This is the only way you can understand what each person or persons are looking for.
Only way to know if you should be contacting anyone for your own personal reasons. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s pretty ironic that someone who states on his profile that he ‘loves to pleasure’ has started a thread with a post that has annoyed so many people.
Not meant to annoy, it's up for a debate that's all it is. "
The thing is - it's not really a debate is it? And you specifically addressed it as 'why are women looking for this?'. I've read several male profiles where they are seeking something longer term, or at least state they are open to it. And people met partners in all kind of ways. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I personally read all profiles I look at. This is the only way you can understand what each person or persons are looking for.
Only way to know if you should be contacting anyone for your own personal reasons. "
I think reading profiles and only contacting those you genuinely think you are compatible with is the only way and saves a lot of frustration. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I personally read all profiles I look at. This is the only way you can understand what each person or persons are looking for.
Only way to know if you should be contacting anyone for your own personal reasons.
I think reading profiles and only contacting those you genuinely think you are compatible with is the only way and saves a lot of frustration. "
Yes it's the only way to do things properly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I personally read all profiles I look at. This is the only way you can understand what each person or persons are looking for.
Only way to know if you should be contacting anyone for your own personal reasons. "
It’s good to know that you consider everyone’s intentions and desires and accept that other people want different things to what you’re looking for. It didn’t come across that you did from what you said in your opening post. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I personally read all profiles I look at. This is the only way you can understand what each person or persons are looking for.
Only way to know if you should be contacting anyone for your own personal reasons.
It’s good to know that you consider everyone’s intentions and desires and accept that other people want different things to what you’re looking for. It didn’t come across that you did from what you said in your opening post. "
Yes that's true. I realise I should of put it a different way. But hey nobody is perfect . |
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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago
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"Don't understand how any woman would want to find a partner on a swingers site ( sex site ) for a long term relationship.
Am I missing something hear ? "
Did someone tell you it's a sex site, or did you come to your own conclusion?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I personally read all profiles I look at. This is the only way you can understand what each person or persons are looking for.
Only way to know if you should be contacting anyone for your own personal reasons.
It’s good to know that you consider everyone’s intentions and desires and accept that other people want different things to what you’re looking for. It didn’t come across that you did from what you said in your opening post.
Yes that's true. I realise I should of put it a different way. But hey nobody is perfect . "
No, you’re right, we shouldn’t judge anyone as non of us are perfect. How do you think you could have put it so that it didn’t sound as bad as it did? You should post in this thread how you could have made the same point with the same opinion but in a different way that shows you are a considerate and tolerant person. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yup, you are missing something clearly, not everyone is looking for the same thing.
I (male) was on here as a single guy,looking for fun hookups. I met a couple, got on well and sadly (for them), thier relationship ended.
Move on a year and I'm now 6 months into what I can safely say is the best and most open relationship I've ever been in with the lady from that couple. Both of us are clearly happier than we've been in years.
So, it does happen, go shopping for eggs, come home with a loaf. Amazing eh? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yup, you are missing something clearly, not everyone is looking for the same thing.
I (male) was on here as a single guy,looking for fun hookups. I met a couple, got on well and sadly (for them), thier relationship ended.
Move on a year and I'm now 6 months into what I can safely say is the best and most open relationship I've ever been in with the lady from that couple. Both of us are clearly happier than we've been in years.
So, it does happen, go shopping for eggs, come home with a loaf. Amazing eh?"
That’s a lovely story (apart from the couple splitting up part), it’s cool that you’ve found someone that makes you happy and who you make happy. I’d say there are a lot of people who are just looking for fun hook ups but if they found someone they really connect with they’d be prepared to have a relationship. I eventually hope to find someone to settle down with and have a committed relationship but that doesn’t mean I don’t want to have some fun while I’m looking for that person. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not all women want to be used as a spunk bucket, some want a relationship
It’s not for your or anyone else to judge what someone is looking for
Each to their own!"
This OP  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I personally read all profiles I look at. This is the only way you can understand what each person or persons are looking for.
Only way to know if you should be contacting anyone for your own personal reasons. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People look for partners wherever they want. I didn’t read in the rules on fab that somebody can’t.
So people will be here for whatever their personal reasons are.
I’d like a fwb or 2….or 3…  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't understand how any woman would want to find a partner on a swingers site ( sex site ) for a long term relationship.
Am I missing something hear ? "
Lots of things. This might be the funniest I’ve seen on here.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't understand how any woman would want to find a partner on a swingers site ( sex site ) for a long term relationship.
Am I missing something hear ?
Lots of things. This might be the funniest I’ve seen on here. "
And that’s quite a strong statement |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't understand how any woman would want to find a partner on a swingers site ( sex site ) for a long term relationship.
Am I missing something hear ?
Lots of things. This might be the funniest I’ve seen on here.
And that’s quite a strong statement "
6 am on a Monday is a bit early isn’t it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I take issue with your profile
Why do men assume that every woman likes to see a photo of a cock ?
Why? Why do you have a profile photo with your penis ? I don’t like it and it says no where when you sign up that you need to show this?
It’s not a prerequisite!!
Why?
Because you choose to
Simple
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"Don't understand how any woman would want to find a partner on a swingers site ( sex site ) for a long term relationship.
Am I missing something hear ? "
Yes 
Sometimes people want relationships with people they feel they can relate to and sexually match... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't understand how any woman would want to find a partner on a swingers site ( sex site ) for a long term relationship.
Am I missing something hear ?
Lots of things. This might be the funniest I’ve seen on here.
And that’s quite a strong statement
6 am on a Monday is a bit early isn’t it. "
Give it time. No doubt I’ll be on the floor lol’ing today. |
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"Don't understand how any woman would want to find a partner on a swingers site ( sex site ) for a long term relationship.
Am I missing something hear ? "
It’s not a sex site.
It’s a site for swingers to meet. As you can be a swinger as a single person it stands to reason that you can also find a romantic partner.
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"Well that got people's interest.
I wasn't judging at all. Just a question for any and every response.
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So this wasn't judgemental at all then? Smells a bit judgy to me.
"Don't understand how any woman would want to find a partner on a swingers site ( sex site ) for a long term relationship"
Short answer to the question, yes, you're missing something.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But yous all know that a lot of people use this site as a sex site only aswell ?
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And you'll find many of those are the same that post stating that can't find a meet.
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"It’s a what ever you want it to be site
Sometimes I am looking for friends
Sometimes I am looking for realships
Sometimes it’s just to show off pics
Sometimes I am just looking for mindless sex
Sometimes I am just looking for people to talk to
See it’s a what ever you want it to be site
There is no right and wrong to why someone here
And long as they real "
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By *ynda1978Woman
over a year ago
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"It’s a what ever you want it to be site
Sometimes I am looking for friends
Sometimes I am looking for realships
Sometimes it’s just to show off pics
Sometimes I am just looking for mindless sex
Sometimes I am just looking for people to talk to
See it’s a what ever you want it to be site
There is no right and wrong to why someone here
And long as they real "
I think this is a fantastic response!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't understand how any woman would want to find a partner on a swingers site ( sex site ) for a long term relationship.
Am I missing something hear ? "
People have had relationships and got married from these sight. People use the site for different reasons. I don't think it's for you to decide what People should do. Lol |
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"Don't understand how any woman would want to find a partner on a swingers site ( sex site ) for a long term relationship.
Am I missing something hear ? "
Yes you are. Plenty of people on fab are looking for a relationship. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Don't understand how any woman would want to find a partner on a swingers site ( sex site ) for a long term relationship.
Am I missing something hear ? "
No idea bud.
I'll ask the wife.
She wasn't actively looking for a LTR but we met on here and have been married 7 years now.
Why wouldn't you want to consider a relationship with a swinger?
Or are they food enough to fuck but not date, be seen in public with, or settle down with? 
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It's a lifestyle site. It's a site for swingers to explore and discuss many things in general as well as hookups. That's why the forums categories aren't just sex today, sex tomorrow, sex next week. They're things like camping, motorbikes, games, etc. It's not just a sex site. In fact many of us don't use primarily for finding hookups. So it's a perfectly natural place for people on the scene to look to date others of a shared intrest. |
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"It’s a sex site? Bout time I got me some sex then or I’m in danger of being thrown off here  "
Fuck, I forget there's a quoter. I do belive they call you into head office for a review and a talking to first. Have you had that yet? |
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"It’s a sex site? Bout time I got me some sex then or I’m in danger of being thrown off here
Fuck, I forget there's a quoter. I do belive they call you into head office for a review and a talking to first. Have you had that yet?"
I’m on my penultimate warning  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is a sex site though, or at least sex themed. The op is right. (Or in my opinion)
The theme park is also known for having thrill rides, but not everyone rides them. 
People make these type of sites what they want them to be, bug this place is far from a swinging connections site now. |
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"It is a sex site though, or at least sex themed. The op is right. (Or in my opinion)
The theme park is also known for having thrill rides, but not everyone rides them.
People make these type of sites what they want them to be, bug this place is far from a swinging connections site now. "
If it’s a sex site why are you not getting lots of sex? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s a what ever you want it to be site
Sometimes I am looking for friends
Sometimes I am looking for realships
Sometimes it’s just to show off pics
Sometimes I am just looking for mindless sex
Sometimes I am just looking for people to talk to
See it’s a what ever you want it to be site
There is no right and wrong to why someone here
And long as they real "
A perfect answer! |
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"It’s a what ever you want it to be site
Sometimes I am looking for friends
Sometimes I am looking for realships
Sometimes it’s just to show off pics
Sometimes I am just looking for mindless sex
Sometimes I am just looking for people to talk to
See it’s a what ever you want it to be site
There is no right and wrong to why someone here
And long as they real "
Absolutely this. Nothing more to add. |
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"It’s a sex site? Bout time I got me some sex then or I’m in danger of being thrown off here
Fuck, I forget there's a quoter. I do belive they call you into head office for a review and a talking to first. Have you had that yet?
I’m on my penultimate warning "
You'd probably best start putting it about then, your on thin ice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It is a sex site though, or at least sex themed. The op is right. (Or in my opinion)
The theme park is also known for having thrill rides, but not everyone rides them.
People make these type of sites what they want them to be, bug this place is far from a swinging connections site now.
If it’s a sex site why are you not getting lots of sex? "
Nobody wants to ride the AAA corkscrew
Also there’s a height restriction
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s a what ever you want it to be site
Sometimes I am looking for friends
Sometimes I am looking for realships
Sometimes it’s just to show off pics
Sometimes I am just looking for mindless sex
Sometimes I am just looking for people to talk to
See it’s a what ever you want it to be site
There is no right and wrong to why someone here
And long as they real "
Completely agree with this , it can be whatever you want it to be! |
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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago
Durham |
"It’s a sex site? Bout time I got me some sex then or I’m in danger of being thrown off here
Fuck, I forget there's a quoter. I do belive they call you into head office for a review and a talking to first. Have you had that yet?
I’m on my penultimate warning
You'd probably best start putting it about then, your on thin ice."
This read likes the plot of a porn video… |
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"It is a sex site though, or at least sex themed. The op is right. (Or in my opinion)
The theme park is also known for having thrill rides, but not everyone rides them.
People make these type of sites what they want them to be, bug this place is far from a swinging connections site now. "
I dont get it. How is swingers looking to date swingers (and maybe one day make a swinging couple or one where consensual non-monogamy is allowed) seen as not legitimate activity on here? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s a what ever you want it to be site
Sometimes I am looking for friends
Sometimes I am looking for realships
Sometimes it’s just to show off pics
Sometimes I am just looking for mindless sex
Sometimes I am just looking for people to talk to
See it’s a what ever you want it to be site
There is no right and wrong to why someone here
And long as they real "
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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago
Orpington |
"Don't understand how any woman would want to find a partner on a swingers site ( sex site ) for a long term relationship.
Am I missing something hear ? 100% probably missed everything! Probably not wrong in saying this but i dont think your very successful on here! A sex site??? Everyone has different reasons being on here! Maybe just for sex, or something more casual and regular, connect with them and build a relationship or friendship, not just a pointless quickie that ya can get of tinder, or pof! Also its probably a relationship with someone with exactly the same intrests i.e SWINGING there after to explore and share experience’s with!
Just a stab in the dark with that though i could be wrong! "
Objection! Hearsay...Speculation |
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Why wouldn't they be here looking for a relationship, it's hard work trying to find a partner who is into swinging so no better place then here to do it. This place is what you want it to be not just a sex site x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I saw this exact thing on a profile, who then explained that if you want a relationship as a swinger, why not look amongst swingers?
I thought that was actual genius.
There are some genuinely amazing people on here, and though I'm currently wanting to remain single, I can easily see it. |
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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago
Dorset |
Because if you want a like minded partner you are better advertising where like minded people are, you would soon end up in face book jail if you posted that you are looking for someone who likes fucking others so you can watch.
Let's face it if you randomly approached people in a bar, hi nice to meet you, would you like to come to a swingers club with me, it might create problems. |
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"Don't understand how any woman would want to find a partner on a swingers site ( sex site ) for a long term relationship.
Am I missing something hear ? "
So, are you saying that the men who frequent the site aren't relationship material?
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"But yous all know that a lot of people use this site as a sex site only aswell ?
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Absolutely and most have no issues with that but the site is designed for swingers. If others are happy to leave you to use it in a different way that suits you, why not leave others to do so as well? |
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I see it as a lifestyle site that some people use as a sex site.
Couples who are already in this lifestyle use it for additional sex, but I think a lot of single people would use it as a lifestyle site and therefore would be looking for relationship not just sex |
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"It is a sex site though, or at least sex themed. The op is right. (Or in my opinion)
The theme park is also known for having thrill rides, but not everyone rides them.
People make these type of sites what they want them to be, bug this place is far from a swinging connections site now. "
I guess it depends how you use it. I've pretty much only used it to connect with other swingers or keep in contact with people I've met at clubs and swingers socials. |
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"But yous all know that a lot of people use this site as a sex site only aswell ?
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As long as there's honesty and respect, I don't think anyone here would have issue with that.
I think the only people who DO have issue with that are those who don't quite understand honesty and respect and have unrealistic expectations of others, and believe that because someone has what they want (ie - a minge) it should be given freely to whoever wants it (but not too many tho eh, and only really that person who doesn't quite get the respect thing coz, ya know, bit of a slag otherwise innit) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't understand how any woman would want to find a partner on a swingers site ( sex site ) for a long term relationship.
Am I missing something hear ?
So, are you saying that the men who frequent the site aren't relationship material?
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We’re not. We’re sluts. I love it. |
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"Don't understand how any woman would want to find a partner on a swingers site ( sex site ) for a long term relationship.
Am I missing something hear ?
So, are you saying that the men who frequent the site aren't relationship material?
We’re not. We’re sluts. I love it. "
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"It is a sex site though, or at least sex themed. The op is right. (Or in my opinion)
The theme park is also known for having thrill rides, but not everyone rides them.
People make these type of sites what they want them to be, bug this place is far from a swinging connections site now.
I guess it depends how you use it. I've pretty much only used it to connect with other swingers or keep in contact with people I've met at clubs and swingers socials. "
Exact same reason a connection with people who get me and I them. The sexy stuff comes later.
And that’s my point above, wet all having a good time at somebody’s party. Some will drink. Some will dance. Some will sneak off to broom cupboards together. .. but we all don’t have to do the same thing.
But, there’s some damn nice sexy music in the background. |
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"Don't understand how any woman would want to find a partner on a swingers site ( sex site ) for a long term relationship.
Am I missing something hear ?
So, are you saying that the men who frequent the site aren't relationship material?
We’re not. We’re sluts. I love it.
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"Don't understand how any woman would want to find a partner on a swingers site ( sex site ) for a long term relationship.
Am I missing something hear ?
So, are you saying that the men who frequent the site aren't relationship material?
We’re not. We’re sluts. I love it.
You tryna get some? "
Probably a conversation for in private, hey?  |
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"Don't understand how any woman would want to find a partner on a swingers site ( sex site ) for a long term relationship.
Am I missing something hear ? "
Not a sex site it's a far more social media now that's connecting you with other people with similar values and beliefs. |
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"Don't understand how any woman would want to find a partner on a swingers site ( sex site ) for a long term relationship.
Am I missing something hear ? "
Are you saying that being on a swingers site means someone is instantly not relationship material?
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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago
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"Don't understand how any woman would want to find a partner on a swingers site ( sex site ) for a long term relationship.
Am I missing something hear ?
Are you saying that being on a swingers site means someone is instantly not relationship material?
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...now there's a question!  |
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"Don't understand how any woman would want to find a partner on a swingers site ( sex site ) for a long term relationship.
Am I missing something hear ? "
Yes, you are.
Btw, if someone is looking for a long term relationship, I am hear for you. |
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Because for some people it's a lifestyle option. I've had monogamous relationships and felt fully satisfied not having sex with anyone else. But also had some open relationships with swinging and open sex. So it depends on the person. |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"The fundamental question is plain wrong. It is not a sex site its a site for swinging and the lifestyle.
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Could not have worded it better myself.
ANd if the process people find a relationship (ethical non-monogamy or even conventional) so be it.
A pub is not just there to get d*unk - it is there be sociable, put the world right, meet new friends....
Fabs is NOT a sex site. |
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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago
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Because we can and have autonomy to use the site for whatever we like as long as it isn’t illegal and doesn’t break the rules of the site itself.
Also as others said it’s a swinger site not solely a sex site. Sex and socialising come hand in hand for most in the swinging world. |
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I have known several couples who first met via a swingers site or at swinger venues.
It makes a lot of sense when one thinks about it. No issues about one half of a couple wanting to swing, it very important for them and the other half reluctant. |
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From my perspective, as a single woman for the last 9 years I'm looking for a relationship (not necessarily from this site either). I'm on here because I love sex and think I'm "worth it". I feel that, if i were to ever enter into a relationship through being on here then I would be entering into a sexually fulfilling association. Yes, it's not the bee all and end all but sex is a really important aspect of life for me. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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Because everyone is free to use the site whichever way they want on here within the rules.
And a lot of people are not on here just to service random people despite them thinking it is just a sex site.
Best thing is to look for and concentrate on those who are looking for the same as you. And don't worry about those who want something different to you. |
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"I have known several couples who first met via a swingers site or at swinger venues.
It makes a lot of sense when one thinks about it. No issues about one half of a couple wanting to swing, it very important for them and the other half reluctant."
That's why I would never date someone off here. Too many people obsessed with sex. If it's gone they move on. |
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The way I see this site is that it’s available for like minded people to come together and have fun times
If that means finding someone to call a fb, fwb or someone for a relationship then that’s up to them ?
But if you look at the forums on how many people want to break swinging to their partners you may look at finding someone on here already is a conversation you’d rather not have if in a vanilla relationship?
Everyone has different needs and wants this is one that for them is something they’re looking for so why not ? |
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"Not all women want to be used as a spunk bucket, some want a relationship
It’s not for your or anyone else to judge what someone is looking for
Each to their own!"
I think he was just asking.... |
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"I'm sorry madam, did you realise you were using the site incorrectly? I'm issuing you with a caution this time, but next time there'll be a fine and potentially a ban for 12 months." |
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""I'm sorry madam, did you realise you were using the site incorrectly? I'm issuing you with a caution this time, but next time there'll be a fine and potentially a ban for 12 months.""
I'm reminded of the threads where couples try to tell guys they're not allowed on Fab, because it's just for swingers.
I'm not trying to ban anyone, but if I had to choose between "it's a sex site" and "it's a swinging site"... Well. It's not called Fab Sex Site? |
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The trouble with men seeing this place as a sex site is that they then see women as free sex workers and treat them with little respect.
That's apparent in the messages I get from some men and the comments about men I seee on the forum. I've challenged guys who send me "nice tits luv, you up for it?" messages. Ask them if they'd speak to a woman in a pub that way. The response is usually - no, but this is a sex site so it's ok here. |
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"The trouble with men seeing this place as a sex site is that they then see women as free sex workers and treat them with little respect.
That's apparent in the messages I get from some men and the comments about men I seee on the forum. I've challenged guys who send me "nice tits luv, you up for it?" messages. Ask them if they'd speak to a woman in a pub that way. The response is usually - no, but this is a sex site so it's ok here. "
All the usual rules of sex apply for me. If I'd find it revolting in a pub I find it revolting here too. |
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"The trouble with men seeing this place as a sex site is that they then see women as free sex workers and treat them with little respect.
That's apparent in the messages I get from some men and the comments about men I seee on the forum. I've challenged guys who send me "nice tits luv, you up for it?" messages. Ask them if they'd speak to a woman in a pub that way. The response is usually - no, but this is a sex site so it's ok here.
All the usual rules of sex apply for me. If I'd find it revolting in a pub I find it revolting here too."
Nice bra…  |
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"The trouble with men seeing this place as a sex site is that they then see women as free sex workers and treat them with little respect.
That's apparent in the messages I get from some men and the comments about men I seee on the forum. I've challenged guys who send me "nice tits luv, you up for it?" messages. Ask them if they'd speak to a woman in a pub that way. The response is usually - no, but this is a sex site so it's ok here.
All the usual rules of sex apply for me. If I'd find it revolting in a pub I find it revolting here too."
Yep. But I think some men see us as different women on here - this is where all the slags hang out and they're good for one thing. |
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"The trouble with men seeing this place as a sex site is that they then see women as free sex workers and treat them with little respect.
That's apparent in the messages I get from some men and the comments about men I seee on the forum. I've challenged guys who send me "nice tits luv, you up for it?" messages. Ask them if they'd speak to a woman in a pub that way. The response is usually - no, but this is a sex site so it's ok here.
All the usual rules of sex apply for me. If I'd find it revolting in a pub I find it revolting here too.
Yep. But I think some men see us as different women on here - this is where all the slags hang out and they're good for one thing. "
I wish them as much success as they have respect. |
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"It’s a what ever you want it to be site
Sometimes I am looking for friends
Sometimes I am looking for realships
Sometimes it’s just to show off pics
Sometimes I am just looking for mindless sex
Sometimes I am just looking for people to talk to
See it’s a what ever you want it to be site
There is no right and wrong to why someone here
And long as they real "
This |
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"The trouble with men seeing this place as a sex site is that they then see women as free sex workers and treat them with little respect.
That's apparent in the messages I get from some men and the comments about men I seee on the forum. I've challenged guys who send me "nice tits luv, you up for it?" messages. Ask them if they'd speak to a woman in a pub that way. The response is usually - no, but this is a sex site so it's ok here.
All the usual rules of sex apply for me. If I'd find it revolting in a pub I find it revolting here too.
Nice bra… "
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"The trouble with men seeing this place as a sex site is that they then see women as free sex workers and treat them with little respect.
That's apparent in the messages I get from some men and the comments about men I seee on the forum. I've challenged guys who send me "nice tits luv, you up for it?" messages. Ask them if they'd speak to a woman in a pub that way. The response is usually - no, but this is a sex site so it's ok here. "
I delete those messages instantly! If you don't show respect in your first message you aren't going to show respect when meeting! |
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"Not looking for a relationship at the moment but if I were this is the best place as I quite fancy being a hot wife who is allowed to have sex with other men."
I wasn’t remotely looking for a relationship, yet finding fun on here opened my eyes to the possibility.
Now I’m engaged to someone I met on here and thoroughly recommend it as a good place to meet someone with similar interests. |
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I know a number of women who found relationships on here. Most left the site to concentrate on those relationships.
Some of those relationships were short lived. Two I know still going and they never looked back at Fab and turned their backs on their previous naughty side all together. |
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Mr NBVN and I met through Fab 6 years ago. We have a fantastic relationship with an amazing sex life and continue to enjoy the benefits of Fab together.
Some people are blinkered in their view of Fab and see it for just one purpose when really it's multifunctional and diverse. Remove the blinkers and look around at the experiences people enjoy here peeps
NBVN x |
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"Mr NBVN and I met through Fab 6 years ago. We have a fantastic relationship with an amazing sex life and continue to enjoy the benefits of Fab together.
Some people are blinkered in their view of Fab and see it for just one purpose when really it's multifunctional and diverse. Remove the blinkers and look around at the experiences people enjoy here peeps
NBVN x"
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"The trouble with men seeing this place as a sex site is that they then see women as free sex workers and treat them with little respect.
That's apparent in the messages I get from some men and the comments about men I seee on the forum. I've challenged guys who send me "nice tits luv, you up for it?" messages. Ask them if they'd speak to a woman in a pub that way. The response is usually - no, but this is a sex site so it's ok here. "
I think I’ve had the same person message me because that was the douche bags reply when I told him to do one lol
You have hit the nail on the head with your post hun, a lot of men ruin it for the genuine nice guys x
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"The trouble with men seeing this place as a sex site is that they then see women as free sex workers and treat them with little respect.
That's apparent in the messages I get from some men and the comments about men I seee on the forum. I've challenged guys who send me "nice tits luv, you up for it?" messages. Ask them if they'd speak to a woman in a pub that way. The response is usually - no, but this is a sex site so it's ok here.
I think I’ve had the same person message me because that was the douche bags reply when I told him to do one lol
You have hit the nail on the head with your post hun, a lot of men ruin it for the genuine nice guys x
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He was quite firm in his belief that I wasn't owed any politeness or respect because I was on this site. Baffling, really. |
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