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Instant block...why ladies?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Recently, I've sent only one message to one lady here, fabbed her pic and said: "Nice bra". Instantly I've been blocked.

Anyone had similar experience?

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By *arlomaleMan over a year ago

darlington

"Recently, I've sent only one message to one lady here, fabbed her pic and said: "Nice bra". Instantly I've been blocked.

Anyone had similar experience?"
probably you’re pictures

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

She probably had 50 other messages saying something similar.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It’s nice bra a good opener op ???

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"She probably had 50 other messages saying something similar."

You beat me to it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I got blocked for saying good morning at 12.01pm

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By *affron40Woman over a year ago

manchester

She wasn’t interested.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

She just doesn’t want any more messages from you. Saves her getting any grief telling you

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By *orsetminx20Woman over a year ago

Poole

Is that how you'd greet a woman in a bar or the street?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’d block because you’re not what I’m looking for - it saves you mailing again

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By *uriousscouserWoman over a year ago

Wirral

She's not interested for whatever reason and it's easier than having to explain herself to you.

Saves any misunderstanding and any repeat messages.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I got blocked for saying good morning at 12.01pm"

Quite right too.

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By *amie HantsWoman over a year ago

Atlantis

"I got blocked for saying good morning at 12.01pm"

That seems fair to be honest

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I got blocked for saying good morning at 12.01pm"

Let’s test that good morning

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Recently, I've sent only one message to one lady here, fabbed her pic and said: "Nice bra". Instantly I've been blocked.

Anyone had similar experience?probably you’re pictures "

^this^

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not the best of opening lines if you are serious about wanting to chat etc.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I got blocked for saying good morning at 12.01pm

That seems fair to be honest"

Me too tried to congratulate her but was blocked

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman over a year ago

Next Door

Your profile probably put her off

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I got blocked for saying good morning at 12.01pm"

Punctuality is key

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By *sBlueWoman over a year ago

Up North

Is that your best opening message op?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I got blocked for saying good morning at 12.01pm"

How very dare you !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You're just fugly dude, join the club

In all seriousness, yeah it happens, some people block you after they've ruled you out, whether you've contacted them or not.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Put a bit of effort in to mails - it's kind of obvious!!

Would you go up to a woman in a bar and think that by saying "Good hair" she'd shag you??

Just 'cos we're on this particular site doesn't mean we're 'easy' or that we don't like an effort made..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I got blocked for saying good morning at 12.01pm

How very dare you !"

My bad

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Recently, I've sent only one message to one lady here, fabbed her pic and said: "Nice bra". Instantly I've been blocked.

Anyone had similar experience?"

Probably just not her type, she's herd the message a million times, alot will just block as it saves time.

Some people don't take the hint when you delete their message so alot will just block people.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I got blocked for saying good morning at 12.01pm

How very dare you !

My bad"

You have to watch the time

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By *al kalMan over a year ago

london

"She's not interested for whatever reason and it's easier than having to explain herself to you.

Saves any misunderstanding and any repeat messages."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's generally to stop from being multi messaged.

I ignored a message from a guy here two weeks ago. He didn't meet my criteria, which is clearly stated on my profile. So he either didn't read it (lazy) or thought he was so special that it didn't matter (red flag).

He messaged again yesterday moaning that I'd ghosted him...

Sometimes as a women it's easier to block and move on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Is that how you'd greet a woman in a bar or the street? "

No. I have some other tricks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I got blocked for saying good morning at 12.01pm

How very dare you !

My bad

You have to watch the time

I will in future, better pop on my Clark kents

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Is that your best opening message op? "

No. Check my other posts.

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By *al kalMan over a year ago

london

Could be many reasons. Bear in mind not everyone likes to see action pics when they review somebody’s profile.

Or some do not like to see their emails clogged up with 1 liners.

Especially if receiving them constantly.

To the right person they might have appreciated a bra comment, to someone else perhaps not…

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Recently, I've sent only one message to one lady here, fabbed her pic and said: "Nice bra". Instantly I've been blocked.

Anyone had similar experience?probably you’re pictures "

Yes! How I can be so stupid! She's probably looking for a new husband here.. .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Lmao is this a joke post because it’s really funny

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Is that how you'd greet a woman in a bar or the street? "

Absolutely my view too... treat me with respect and I'll be respectful by not blocking you!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"She just doesn’t want any more messages from you. Saves her getting any grief telling you

Literally this!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Recently, I've sent only one message to one lady here, fabbed her pic and said: "Nice bra". Instantly I've been blocked.

Anyone had similar experience?"

This her way of saying not interested forget about it OP move on lifes to short to worry about the actions of others on the inter web.

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By *erfectman122Man over a year ago

from somewhere nice

The opener op needs more work use your imagination

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By *itty9899Man over a year ago

Craggy Island

"Recently, I've sent only one message to one lady here, fabbed her pic and said: "Nice bra". Instantly I've been blocked.

Lack of effort and self-entitlement. It's one step up from clicking your fingers and thinking she will respond.

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By *rlandoMan over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Most people are hiding behind their dodgy obscured pics and dodgy profiles , this isn t normal place .... real life is much better

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Probably not her type, some people just block once they've ruled someone out. It's her way of saying not interested.

Could be your pictures as a lot of women won't respond to a gallery of dick pics.

Also the low effort low quality message you sent could be a turn off for her.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Is that how you'd greet a woman in a bar or the street?

Absolutely my view too... treat me with respect and I'll be respectful by not blocking you! "

I didn't asked her for f*ck, or said "nice boobs", nothing rude. Just compliment, kind of. That person saved my time, not interested anyway.

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By *ellinever70Woman over a year ago

Ayrshire

"Is that how you'd greet a woman in a bar or the street?

Absolutely my view too... treat me with respect and I'll be respectful by not blocking you! "

As much as it probably wasn't the best way to start a conversation, it was hardly disrespectful

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is that how you'd greet a woman in a bar or the street?

Absolutely my view too... treat me with respect and I'll be respectful by not blocking you!

I didn't asked her for f*ck, or said "nice boobs", nothing rude. Just compliment, kind of. That person saved my time, not interested anyway.

Out of interest what response do you think would have been appropriate to that message?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I agree with the reasons above. Tbf it's not the best first message to send a woman but it's not the worst either. You could maybe have complimented her in a different way eg, "you have lovely pictures" etc x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is that how you'd greet a woman in a bar or the street?

Absolutely my view too... treat me with respect and I'll be respectful by not blocking you!

I didn't asked her for f*ck, or said "nice boobs", nothing rude. Just compliment, kind of. That person saved my time, not interested anyway.

Out of interest what response do you think would have been appropriate to that message?"

Thanks!

FAF?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A simple no thanks manners cost nothing!!

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By *uriousscouserWoman over a year ago

Wirral

"A simple no thanks manners cost nothing!!"

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"A simple no thanks manners cost nothing!!"

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By *ora the explorerWoman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I do this if I’m not interested. It’s not personal. Just a tool to use.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Is that how you'd greet a woman in a bar or the street?

Absolutely my view too... treat me with respect and I'll be respectful by not blocking you!

I didn't asked her for f*ck, or said "nice boobs", nothing rude. Just compliment, kind of. That person saved my time, not interested anyway.

Out of interest what response do you think would have been appropriate to that message?"

No answer, or simple "not interested", "not my type", etc

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Your profile says ‘In other hand, if you're not up for meet, please don't send me a message. I don't want to waste my time.’

So she is doing what is asked and not wasting your time talking to you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I do this if I’m not interested. It’s not personal. Just a tool to use. "
how do the people do your secret service threads then?

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By *ora the explorerWoman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I do this if I’m not interested. It’s not personal. Just a tool to use. how do the people do your secret service threads then?

I never ever block forum people. No matter what x

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By *inkylipsWoman over a year ago

Debauchery

"I got blocked for saying good morning at 12.01pm"

this actually made me laugh

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I do this if I’m not interested. It’s not personal. Just a tool to use. how do the people do your secret service threads then?

I never ever block forum people. No matter what x"

YESSSSSS!

Dick pics coming your way.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I do this if I’m not interested. It’s not personal. Just a tool to use. how do the people do your secret service threads then?

I never ever block forum people. No matter what x"

Is that a challenge?

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By *ora the explorerWoman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I do this if I’m not interested. It’s not personal. Just a tool to use. how do the people do your secret service threads then?

I never ever block forum people. No matter what x

Is that a challenge?"

. No!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is that how you'd greet a woman in a bar or the street?

Absolutely my view too... treat me with respect and I'll be respectful by not blocking you!

I didn't asked her for f*ck, or said "nice boobs", nothing rude. Just compliment, kind of. That person saved my time, not interested anyway.

Out of interest what response do you think would have been appropriate to that message?

No answer, or simple "not interested", "not my type", etc"

So if no answer is acceptable what is wrong with a block? It’s not personal it’s just her way of saying she doesn’t want another message from you.

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By *ora the explorerWoman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I do this if I’m not interested. It’s not personal. Just a tool to use. how do the people do your secret service threads then?

I never ever block forum people. No matter what x

YESSSSSS!

Dick pics coming your way. "

You’ll have to wait till I do a secret service. You won’t get past my filters

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I agree with the reasons above. Tbf it's not the best first message to send a woman but it's not the worst either. You could maybe have complimented her in a different way eg, "you have lovely pictures" etc x"

This fella you could have said something like

wow your are very photogenic I envy people who can look good in pictures because I am never pleased with how I look in photos .

Not saying you would have got a difference response but you could have opened with a better message .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I do this if I’m not interested. It’s not personal. Just a tool to use. how do the people do your secret service threads then?

I never ever block forum people. No matter what x

Is that a challenge?

. No!!"

I was going to send you a message with “moist panties” as the subject and a dick pic attached

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Is that how you'd greet a woman in a bar or the street?

Absolutely my view too... treat me with respect and I'll be respectful by not blocking you!

I didn't asked her for f*ck, or said "nice boobs", nothing rude. Just compliment, kind of. That person saved my time, not interested anyway.

Out of interest what response do you think would have been appropriate to that message?

No answer, or simple "not interested", "not my type", etc

So if no answer is acceptable what is wrong with a block? It’s not personal it’s just her way of saying she doesn’t want another message from you."

Oh..."just her way"...nice way

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By *issmorganWoman over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I've done this myself if I don't find the person's profile or message appealing and don't want to engage with them.

It's a good filter.

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By *uriousscouserWoman over a year ago

Wirral

Keep it on the post please OP.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This fella you could have said something like

wow your are very photogenic I envy people who can look good in pictures because I am never pleased with how I look in photos .

Not saying you would have got a difference response but you could have opened with a better message ."

That's actually quite good, I'm impressed

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is that how you'd greet a woman in a bar or the street?

Absolutely my view too... treat me with respect and I'll be respectful by not blocking you!

I didn't asked her for f*ck, or said "nice boobs", nothing rude. Just compliment, kind of. That person saved my time, not interested anyway.

Out of interest what response do you think would have been appropriate to that message?

No answer, or simple "not interested", "not my type", etc

So if no answer is acceptable what is wrong with a block? It’s not personal it’s just her way of saying she doesn’t want another message from you.

Oh..."just her way"...nice way

Probably the best way of you’re a single woman on here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Recently, I've sent only one message to one lady here, fabbed her pic and said: "Nice bra". Instantly I've been blocked.

Anyone had similar experience?"

I’m going to take a punt on - she looked at your photos

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I do this if I’m not interested. It’s not personal. Just a tool to use. how do the people do your secret service threads then?

I never ever block forum people. No matter what x

Is that a challenge?

. No!!

I was going to send you a message with “moist panties” as the subject and a dick pic attached

The word "moist" is criminally underused, I award you 10 schrute bucks.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This fella you could have said something like

wow your are very photogenic I envy people who can look good in pictures because I am never pleased with how I look in photos .

Not saying you would have got a difference response but you could have opened with a better message .

That's actually quite good, I'm impressed

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Recently, I've sent only one message to one lady here, fabbed her pic and said: "Nice bra". Instantly I've been blocked.

Anyone had similar experience?

I’m going to take a punt on - she looked at your photos

Thats why she blocked

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I do this if I’m not interested. It’s not personal. Just a tool to use. how do the people do your secret service threads then?

I never ever block forum people. No matter what x

Is that a challenge?

. No!!

I was going to send you a message with “moist panties” as the subject and a dick pic attached

The word "moist" is criminally underused, I award you 10 schrute bucks."

I just need another 990 to exchange for an extra 5 minutes of my lunch break

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By *opsy RogersWoman over a year ago

London

I also block the senders of lazy statement messages.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A simple no thanks manners cost nothing!!"

But then you get messages saying "well you replied so you must see something you like" or "sorry didn't realise it was that time of the month"

It's not rude to not answer or to block, I owe nothing to a stranger who thinks messaging saying "nice bra" is going to get my time and attention. From his responses on here, she did the right thing

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Recently, I've sent only one message to one lady here, fabbed her pic and said: "Nice bra". Instantly I've been blocked.

Anyone had similar experience?

I’m going to take a punt on - she looked at your photos

Thats why she blocked

Yeah, she's looking a recipe for cake here...

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By *xxLandNxxxCouple over a year ago

Nuneaton

Multiple dick pics and pictures of women who may or may not know there on here which is a turn off.

Don’t be offended people block to save multiple messages if their not interested.

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By *ora the explorerWoman over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I do this if I’m not interested. It’s not personal. Just a tool to use. how do the people do your secret service threads then?

I never ever block forum people. No matter what x

Is that a challenge?

. No!!

I was going to send you a message with “moist panties” as the subject and a dick pic attached

Hahaha. Don’t push it! There’s a first time for everything

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A simple no thanks manners cost nothing!!

But then you get messages saying "well you replied so you must see something you like" or "sorry didn't realise it was that time of the month"

It's not rude to not answer or to block, I owe nothing to a stranger who thinks messaging saying "nice bra" is going to get my time and attention. From his responses on here, she did the right thing "
well we are all different..if i was told no thanks i wud be like ok..if i persisted like some then yeah block

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Multiple dick pics and pictures of women who may or may not know there on here which is a turn off.

Don’t be offended people block to save multiple messages if their not interested. "

Agree. It’s certainly why I block and if previous threads are anything to go by, lots of others do too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It’s the ‘Anyone had similar experience?’ For me. That’s knocked me for 4.

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By *orneytwoCouple over a year ago

Not far from lichfield

Some people get off on things like that. Other people people like us just see it as 100s of shit messages to read through. That is why fab has the fab button.

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By *erces LetiferMan over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

Did you read her profile, OP? She may have put on it that messages from cock pic profiles get instant delete / block. Pretty common, actually. Make sure you always read the profile and try to find something in common / something she's after that you're offering before messaging. And consider changing your profile pic.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I do this if I’m not interested. It’s not personal. Just a tool to use. how do the people do your secret service threads then?

I never ever block forum people. No matter what x

Is that a challenge?

. No!!

I was going to send you a message with “moist panties” as the subject and a dick pic attached

Hahaha. Don’t push it! There’s a first time for everything

I would find comfort in being your first

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Did you read her profile, OP? She may have put on it that messages from cock pic profiles get instant delete / block. Pretty common, actually. Make sure you always read the profile and try to find something in common / something she's after that you're offering before messaging. And consider changing your profile pic.

Yes, I did. And she's looking for "fun"...bowling maybe?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I do this if I’m not interested. It’s not personal. Just a tool to use. how do the people do your secret service threads then?

I never ever block forum people. No matter what x

YESSSSSS!

Dick pics coming your way.

You’ll have to wait till I do a secret service. You won’t get past my filters

*looks at camera*

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I do this if I’m not interested. It’s not personal. Just a tool to use. how do the people do your secret service threads then?

I never ever block forum people. No matter what x

Is that a challenge?

. No!!

I was going to send you a message with “moist panties” as the subject and a dick pic attached

The word "moist" is criminally underused, I award you 10 schrute bucks."

Thanks now I've Miranda in my head saying moist plinth

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By *eyond PurityCouple over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We got blocked for chatting to a single guy and a woman got in touch with us and said they were together - as in back off

Well maybe have a go at your partner to remember he wasn’t single then

The block button can be used by anyone for any reason…just shrug and walk on

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Multiple dick pics and pictures of women who may or may not know there on here which is a turn off.

Don’t be offended people block to save multiple messages if their not interested. "

I didn't sent my dick pic. Just two words.

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By *merald Eyes XWoman over a year ago

Can you find me….

I’d block as well

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By *xxLandNxxxCouple over a year ago

Nuneaton

"Multiple dick pics and pictures of women who may or may not know there on here which is a turn off.

Don’t be offended people block to save multiple messages if their not interested.

I didn't sent my dick pic. Just two words."

On your profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Multiple dick pics and pictures of women who may or may not know there on here which is a turn off.

Don’t be offended people block to save multiple messages if their not interested.

I didn't sent my dick pic. Just two words.

On your profile

That photo wasn't on my profile when I sent her a message. It was one with knickers

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I’d block as well"

Crap! I just thinking to send you a message "nice knickers"

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By *erces LetiferMan over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

"Yes, I did. And she's looking for "fun"...bowling maybe?

In which case she either A) saw your profile pic and decided it was a no, B) saw your opening line in your message and decided it was a no, C) clicked your profile and looked at your pics / read your bio and decided it was a no. Or all of the above.

Either way you have your answer as to "why, ladies?"... because it's a no. Don't dwell of it, just move along.

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By *ighty_tightyMan over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

I preemptive block

If there's a profile I don't like seeing in my news feed it gets binned

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By *tewiethompsonMan over a year ago

Colchester

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By *iren4uWoman over a year ago

jersey channel islands

"Recently, I've sent only one message to one lady here, fabbed her pic and said: "Nice bra". Instantly I've been blocked.

Anyone had similar experience?

I’m going to take a punt on - she looked at your photos

Thats why she blocked

Yeah, she's looking a recipe for cake here...

Geez your a Ray of fucking sunshine who clearly respect women I'd block you too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Yes, I did. And she's looking for "fun"...bowling maybe?

Either way you have your answer as to "why, ladies?"... because it's a no. Don't dwell of it, just move along.

I really don't care and not interested in that kind of people, but found it's funny

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Recently, I've sent only one message to one lady here, fabbed her pic and said: "Nice bra". Instantly I've been blocked.

Anyone had similar experience?

I’m going to take a punt on - she looked at your photos

Thats why she blocked

Yeah, she's looking a recipe for cake here...

Geez your a Ray of fucking sunshine who clearly respect women I'd block you too."

Be my guest, save my time

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By *tewiethompsonMan over a year ago

Colchester

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"So OP a good message starts with a smart comment about something in her profile. Followed by several non sexual compliments, something about why you like the look of her, a little about you. Finished off with a nice platitude and a suggestion that she should like to message you back.

Send a nice face picture and apologise profusely for not having dick pics on your public profile.

The ladies on here can smell cut and paste from 100 paces.So take the time to craft each message you send, personalise it to the wonderful being that you are sending it to !!!

Thnx pal, nice one

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By *tewiethompsonMan over a year ago

Colchester

Send a nice face picture and apologise profusely for not having dick pics on your public profile.

The ladies on here can smell cut and paste from 100 paces.So take the time to craft each message you send, personalise it to the wonderful being that you are sending it to !!!

Thnx pal, nice one

Yeah not sure it's going to improve your prospects buddy, sorry but....ahhhh I can't say but you need to make some amendments....

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By *iren4uWoman over a year ago

jersey channel islands

"I’d block as well"

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By *sBlueWoman over a year ago

Up North

"Recently, I've sent only one message to one lady here, fabbed her pic and said: "Nice bra". Instantly I've been blocked.

Anyone had similar experience?

I’m going to take a punt on - she looked at your photos

Thats why she blocked

Yeah, she's looking a recipe for cake here...

Geez your a Ray of fucking sunshine who clearly respect women I'd block you too.

Be my guest, save my time

And me I would too

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Recently, I've sent only one message to one lady here, fabbed her pic and said: "Nice bra". Instantly I've been blocked.

Anyone had similar experience?

I’m going to take a punt on - she looked at your photos

Thats why she blocked

Yeah, she's looking a recipe for cake here...

Geez your a Ray of fucking sunshine who clearly respect women I'd block you too.

Be my guest, save my time

And me I would too"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This is going well

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By *tewiethompsonMan over a year ago

Colchester

Think another shovel is needed... Hole isn't deep enough yet...

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By *lexV16Man over a year ago

Welling

"I preemptive block

If there's a profile I don't like seeing in my news feed it gets binned "

Same here. If I am not a match with profile due to age, sex preferences choice of biscuits - I’ll block to avoid them appear in my newsfeed.

Second use of block If I sent a message and message got deleted. It just means we are unlikely to meet so why keep that profile available.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"She just doesn’t want any more messages from you. Saves her getting any grief telling you

This

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How is it OP can say he's wrote a message, say what's in the message and say what happened

But I get the 48 hour naughty step for asking a question based on a message!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

“Nice bra” isn’t an opening message

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"“Nice bra” isn’t an opening message

. "

Nice jeans

I’ll await the block

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

just keep Digging,

just keep Digging Digging Digging,

what do we doooooooo we dig

ha ha ha ha ha ha i love to dig.

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"Yes! How I can be so stupid! She's probably looking for a new husband here.. .

Or maybe she's a real swinger and not looking for cocks

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By *m3232Man over a year ago

maidenhead

"Recently, I've sent only one message to one lady here, fabbed her pic and said: "Nice bra". Instantly I've been blocked.

Anyone had similar experience?"

I would rather that than them reading it keeping it and not deleted. It shows they are not in to you.

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"I preemptive block

If there's a profile I don't like seeing in the forum it gets binned "

FTFY

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Yes! How I can be so stupid! She's probably looking for a new husband here.. .

Or maybe she's a real swinger and not looking for cocks

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman over a year ago

North West

"She just doesn’t want any more messages from you. Saves her getting any grief telling you

This

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By *ighty_tightyMan over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

"I preemptive block

If there's a profile I don't like seeing in the forum it gets binned

FTFY

True!

Shame it doesn't stop you seeing their posts though

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By *indergirlWoman over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

"A simple no thanks manners cost nothing!!"

In replying though it then allows the person to bypass any future filters so its easier just to delete or block if they're not interested

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By *dible_KinkCouple over a year ago

Aberdeen

On my single/couples account men have sent an abusive message and blocked straight away before any reply could be made. I don't think it's just women

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Because if you are not one of our types where we wouldn't meet you anyway we would block also.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I agree with this. Your pictures don't scream that you're a good catch. They also look like porn screen grabs. The dick pics are also a problem, unless you have a box full of screw on dicks, then you're not being honest about which is actually your penis.

Lastly, in the simplest terms, we don't have to engage in conversation with you. We don't need to give a reason why we don't want to talk to you. The vast majority of penis owners in the world get deeply butthurt when a woman turns them down, and you all resort to being nasty with us. Blocking is the easiest way to prevent any abuse or hassle in future.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman over a year ago

ashford

"Recently, I've sent only one message to one lady here, fabbed her pic and said: "Nice bra". Instantly I've been blocked.

Anyone had similar experience?probably you’re pictures "

Nothing wrong with his pics? X

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By *rlandoMan over a year ago

Lincolnshire

very harsh comments on here , what are you like ???? not worth tuppence ,

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By *eroLondonMan over a year ago

Covent Garden

Effort: women don't like abbreviations. Next time don't say "nice bra", instead remark "nice brassiere".

Women also hate near-homonyms: make sure you don't say "brasserie". She's not offering her pussy on a plate.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Effort: women don't like abbreviations. Next time don't say "nice bra", instead remark "nice brassiere".

Women also hate near-homonyms: make sure you don't say "brasserie". She's not offering her pussy on a plate."

And if you’re calling her bra then clearer. ‘Nice, bra’ would read nicer. Or maybe ‘nice one, bra

’. Get the smiley face in to seem nice.

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By *lohimMan over a year ago

birmingham

I guess when you read about guys getting nasty when they get a no reply or no thanks then it's a logical step.

Another sign that people lack respect and have enlightenment

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By *ed LipstickWoman over a year ago

Fucksville

After replying back to a message yesterday with a no thanks, it quickly escalated to the guy threatening to come round to my home and out me on social media. In future I'll also be using the block button, saves a lot of hassle when the guys not what you're looking for

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is that how you'd greet a woman in a bar or the street? "
but this is a sex site not the street

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By *ighty_tightyMan over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

"Is that how you'd greet a woman in a bar or the street? but this is a sex site not the street"

And that's the mistake most people make. This isn't a sex site

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"After replying back to a message yesterday with a no thanks, it quickly escalated to the guy threatening to come round to my home and out me on social media. In future I'll also be using the block button, saves a lot of hassle when the guys not what you're looking for

"
you shud have reported him to the police..people like that spoil this site for everyone

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

We are not the same. Why generalize every man here? I agree, lots of idiots lurking around, but still, we are different

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Effort: women don't like abbreviations. Next time don't say "nice bra", instead remark "nice brassiere".

Women also hate near-homonyms: make sure you don't say "brasserie". She's not offering her pussy on a plate."

Are you sure she's not?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I guess when you read about guys getting nasty when they get a no reply or no thanks then it's a logical step.

Another sign that people lack respect and have enlightenment "
people like this spoil this site for everyone and us guys are all tarred with the same brush

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We are not the same. Why generalize every man here? I agree, lots of idiots lurking around, but still, we are different

"
absolutely agree

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I agree with this. Your pictures don't scream that you're a good catch. They also look like porn screen grabs. The dick pics are also a problem, unless you have a box full of screw on dicks, then you're not being honest about which is actually your penis.

Like I said, that wasn't my profile pic when I sent that message. I was in knickers

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By *tewiethompsonMan over a year ago

Colchester

Like I said, that wasn't my profile pic when I sent that message. I was in knickers

I think it's 6ft now do we need wood for the carpenters ??

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By *ed LipstickWoman over a year ago

Fucksville

We are not the same. Why generalize every man here? I agree, lots of idiots lurking around, but still, we are different

I'm not generalising men, the guy that messaged me, wasn't what I was looking for. Do I owe men something just because I'm on fab?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

We are not the same. Why generalize every man here? I agree, lots of idiots lurking around, but still, we are different

I'm not generalising men, the guy that messaged me, wasn't what I was looking for. Do I owe men something just because I'm on fab? "

Absolutely not! Just saying, we are not the same. Report that idiot and that's it

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By *ighty_tightyMan over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

Like I said, that wasn't my profile pic when I sent that message. I was in knickers

And you in knickers, do you think that was more or less acceptable?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Like I said, that wasn't my profile pic when I sent that message. I was in knickers

I'm referring to the images on your profile which are public.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Like I said, that wasn't my profile pic when I sent that message. I was in knickers

I'm referring to the images on your profile which are public. "

Ok. Photos of spreaded pussy, bum cheeks, explicit sex, naked boobs on other's profiles are fine...and my pictures are problem? C'mon...

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By *riel13Woman over a year ago

Northampton

"Recently, I've sent only one message to one lady here, fabbed her pic and said: "Nice bra". Instantly I've been blocked.

Anyone had similar experience?"

You're not for her, why else?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Recently, I've sent only one message to one lady here, fabbed her pic and said: "Nice bra". Instantly I've been blocked.

Anyone had similar experience?

You're not for her, why else? "

How she knows that? She has sixth sense?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Like I said, that wasn't my profile pic when I sent that message. I was in knickers

I'm referring to the images on your profile which are public.

Ok. Photos of spreaded pussy, bum cheeks, explicit sex, naked boobs on other's profiles are fine...and my pictures are problem? C'mon..."

She probably blocks those too

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By *riel13Woman over a year ago

Northampton

"Recently, I've sent only one message to one lady here, fabbed her pic and said: "Nice bra". Instantly I've been blocked.

Anyone had similar experience?

You're not for her, why else?

How she knows that? She has sixth sense?

I'm guessing a combo of your message any pics she could see and your profile told her enough.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We are not the same. Why generalize every man here? I agree, lots of idiots lurking around, but still, we are different

The point is, we don't know which guys are going to turn nasty so it's safer to just block anyone that we aren't interested in, so as to avoid abuse, and while it's not all men, it's a bloody lot of men, especially on here

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By *ighty_tightyMan over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

Like I said, that wasn't my profile pic when I sent that message. I was in knickers

I'm referring to the images on your profile which are public.

Ok. Photos of spreaded pussy, bum cheeks, explicit sex, naked boobs on other's profiles are fine...and my pictures are problem? C'mon..."

Perfectly fine.

Your pics are fine too but they will limit your audience and lead to deletes and blocks.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My point when mentioning your images are that I'm concerned that they're either not your images to share, if they are taken by you that the women in them don't know the pictures have been shared here which violates their consent and privacy and lastly your whole attitude sucks.

If you get blocked because you said nice bra then maybe you should look at what YOU'RE doing wrong instead of blasting those who blocked you. It's pretty simple.

However assuming the verifications in your profile are genuine so you must be doing OK in some sense. FYI, before you even go there, I'm not interested.

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By *harisajidanWoman over a year ago

london

"Recently, I've sent only one message to one lady here, fabbed her pic and said: "Nice bra". Instantly I've been blocked.

Anyone had similar experience?probably you’re pictures

Yes! How I can be so stupid! She's probably looking for a new husband here.. .

I’d block you too with a response like that

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By *adyBugsWoman over a year ago

cognito

Just because.

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By *indergirlWoman over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

As I've said before, a straight delete or block is what a lot of us do because

A) if we reply with a no thanks there is a minority that will either get abusive or just keep messaging trying to get you to change your mind and

B) if you then put filters on in the future to stop certain ages/gender etc messaging because you've messaged that person back it overrides the filters and they can still message you so defeats putting the filters up

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By *urls and DressesWoman over a year ago

Somewhere near here

There’s many reasons why she might do it, only she knows.

I block for several reasons;

I’m not interested

Sent a dick pic

Single account with bareback

Red flag in a message

Not accepting that I’ve deleted a previous message

Or whatever reason in that moment

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By *erces LetiferMan over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

"As I've said before, a straight delete or block is what a lot of us do because

A) if we reply with a no thanks there is a minority that will either get abusive or just keep messaging trying to get you to change your mind and

But… but… seeing as this guy started a whole thread about it, surely the lady in question made a rash decision here, and this one isn’t at all the type to keep on pestering with various follow-up messages!?

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By * U mineMan over a year ago

Fun

Blocked is the new hello.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Multiple dick pics and pictures of women who may or may not know there on here which is a turn off.

Don’t be offended people block to save multiple messages if their not interested.

I didn't sent my dick pic. Just two words."

You did send your dick pic - it's your profile picture and it's right there at the top of every message you send. You'd be blocked by us for the exact same reason.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Multiple dick pics and pictures of women who may or may not know there on here which is a turn off.

Don’t be offended people block to save multiple messages if their not interested.

I didn't sent my dick pic. Just two words.

You did send your dick pic - it's your profile picture and it's right there at the top of every message you send. You'd be blocked by us for the exact same reason.

Mr"

Did you read my previous posts? When I sent that message, it wasn't that pic on my profile, ffs!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Just because."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My bad, I gave up reading half way down the thread.

Tbh, your responses on here have got you a block anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"My point when mentioning your images are that I'm concerned that they're either not your images to share, if they are taken by you that the women in them don't know the pictures have been shared here which violates their consent and privacy and lastly your whole attitude sucks.

If you get blocked because you said nice bra then maybe you should look at what YOU'RE doing wrong instead of blasting those who blocked you. It's pretty simple.

However assuming the verifications in your profile are genuine so you must be doing OK in some sense. FYI, before you even go there, I'm not interested. "

You all here get me wrong. I just asked is anyone had same experience. She blocked me? She knows me after two words message? Fine, I really don't care. And I really dont care about anyone who's going to block me, it'll save my time. And I am not interested, too

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By *ighty_tightyMan over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

If you get blocked because you said nice bra then maybe you should look at what YOU'RE doing wrong instead of blasting those who blocked you. It's pretty simple.

However assuming the verifications in your profile are genuine so you must be doing OK in some sense. FYI, before you even go there, I'm not interested.

It's not only a river in Egypt

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By *eroLondonMan over a year ago

Covent Garden

"Just because."

....the lady loves Milk Tray.

#IfYouKnowYouKnow

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By *ucka39Man over a year ago

Newcastle

Nope and I've never told them they have a nice bra.

I'd add a bit more to a message rather than just some kind of compliment

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Recently, I've sent only one message to one lady here, fabbed her pic and said: "Nice bra". Instantly I've been blocked.

Anyone had similar experience?"

Never. But then I don't send creepy messages.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Recently, I've sent only one message to one lady here, fabbed her pic and said: "Nice bra". Instantly I've been blocked.

Anyone had similar experience?

Never. But then I don't send creepy messages. "

Ok so do you think the messages you send me are not creepy?

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By *eroLondonMan over a year ago

Covent Garden

"Recently, I've sent only one message to one lady here, fabbed her pic and said: "Nice bra". Instantly I've been blocked.

Anyone had similar experience?

Never. But then I don't send creepy messages.

Ok so do you think the messages you send me are not creepy?

•

Oh for goodness sake, not you an' all!?! You should see some of the shit she's sent me. I'm still recovering.

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By *eekaboobsWoman over a year ago

North East

From experience, if a woman replies to every message saying no thanks she’d be on all day. Cos that message then leads to another asking why, which sometimes leads to abuse. So if a lady has done that think why. Don’t take it personally. Maybe just be normal when you message people, how would you introduce yourself when not on fab? You wouldn’t say nice bra. Nothing is more attractive than a man being himself on here. I personally only block if a guy has been rude. Otherwise I only answer guys that catch my eye.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No, I think we've got you exactly right pal.

You were blocked, for whatever reason. But instead of trying to improve your game and work on yourself your deflecting.

As it may not have been abundantly clear, WE DON'T OWE YOU A THING. that includes an explanation into why we didn't reply and so on....

You're a grown man, act like it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Recently, I've sent only one message to one lady here, fabbed her pic and said: "Nice bra". Instantly I've been blocked.

Anyone had similar experience?

Never. But then I don't send creepy messages.

Ok so do you think the messages you send me are not creepy?

•

Oh for goodness sake, not you an' all!?! You should see some of the shit she's sent me. I'm still recovering."

Oh seriously?! You don’t like it?

I love that shit. Gets me going. Creepy. But hot.

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By *uriousscouserWoman over a year ago

Wirral

Like I said, that wasn't my profile pic when I sent that message. I was in knickers

I'm referring to the images on your profile which are public.

Ok. Photos of spreaded pussy, bum cheeks, explicit sex, naked boobs on other's profiles are fine...and my pictures are problem? C'mon..."

Did you know you're completely at liberty to block profiles that feature that type of photo if you find them distasteful? The block button is available to every single person on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"No, I think we've got you exactly right pal.

You were blocked, for whatever reason. But instead of trying to improve your game and work on yourself your deflecting.

As it may not have been abundantly clear, WE DON'T OWE YOU A THING. that includes an explanation into why we didn't reply and so on....

You're a grown man, act like it. "

Omg ..again...do not care for being blocked! And I do not owe to anyone anything, particulary on this site. I don't need shalow exuses and explanations. Just asked a simlpy question, that'a all. Nothing more, nothin' less.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So. If you don't care about being blocked why is this post nearing 160 comments?

You do realise that creating the thread in the first place completely disproves your statement about not caring.

Jeez!

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By *instonandLadyAstorCouple over a year ago

Not where we seem to be...

"Recently, I've sent only one message to one lady here, fabbed her pic and said: "Nice bra". Instantly I've been blocked.

Anyone had similar experience?

probably you’re pictures

Yes! How I can be so stupid! She's probably looking for a new husband here.. .

Thats a good question, how could you be so stupid?

Why do you think?

Winston

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By *abygirl6969TV/TS over a year ago

edinburgh

"It's generally to stop from being multi messaged.

He messaged again yesterday moaning that I'd ghosted him...

Sometimes as a women it's easier to block and move on."

This!

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