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My wife dosent like sex anymore
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My dosent like sex anymore any one help me  i need good sex i am a nice clean guy"
*here it comes*
Get to a club. There is one not far from you that does a Monday event |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Find out why by asking her and giving her your attention rather than here and maybe she will or maybe she dose want sex and is getting it and lots of it :p |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Talk to your wife, there's something going on that needs addressing. Counselling may help your wife or even both of you. Good luck OP x"
not had sex for 2 years
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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago
Orpington |
"My dosent like sex anymore any one help me i need good sex i am a nice clean guy"
Are you sure she doesn't like sex anymore or doesn't like sex with you anymore?...because there's a difference |
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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago
Up North |
"Talk to your wife, there's something going on that needs addressing. Counselling may help your wife or even both of you. Good luck OP xnot had sex for 2 years"
Maybe it’s time to leave if sex is that important to you |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
"get a new wife  trade her in  i wish"
This is why married men get stick here ,starting threads belittling their wives
We only have your side of things
You've been posting this for ages ,talk to her and ask for permission Have counselling or leave if you're not happy ,cos I'm guessing she probably isn't either . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Pics on your profile may help need to meet a nice new woman 
Need to be a nicer husband? Maybe there are reasons."
i am very nice with her she dosent work or have to. She has her ow money i give her she drives a Mercedes |
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"Pics on your profile may help need to meet a nice new woman
Need to be a nicer husband? Maybe there are reasons. i am very nice with her she dosent work or have to. She has her ow money i give her she drives a Mercedes "
Maybe she woukd prefer to have her own money that she earns herself doing something she wants to rather than being "kept" by you.
It can be a bit of a mind fuck especially if the relationship doesn't feel right. Can feel like you're being paid to open your legs. Maybe that's her way of having some control.
My sons dad didn't want me working after I had our son. It was that that ultimately made me feel completely trapped and I didn't want sex with him coz I felt I'd lost my voice, my choice, my independence and my sense of self.
He wanted to "keep" me.
I felt like I was being suffocated. |
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"get a new wife trade her in i wish
This is why married men get stick here ,starting threads belittling their wives
We only have your side of things
You've been posting this for ages ,talk to her and ask for permission Have counselling or leave if you're not happy ,cos I'm guessing she probably isn't either . I try to avoid these posts as it pisses me off how someone can talk about someone they supposedly love with a bunch of strangers.."
Don't think it applies in this case but it can actually help opening up and talking to people you don't know. They can give totally unbiased opinions and advice. Being hidden behind a keyboard adds a layer of security to someone that can be shy/embarrassed too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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These posts remind me of the writing on the back of dirty transit vans, I wish my wife was this dirty. I'm resisting the urge to write, she is when you’re at work. |
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By *B69Woman
over a year ago
Wiltshire |
"My dosent like sex anymore any one help me i need good sex i am a nice clean guy
Are you sure she doesn't like sex anymore or doesn't like sex with you anymore?...because there's a difference "
Agree x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"These posts remind me of the writing on the back of dirty transit vans, I wish my wife was this dirty. I'm resisting the urge to write, she is when you’re at work."
she can please her self and so cam you.
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"My dosent like sex anymore any one help me i need good sex i am a nice clean guy"
She doesn’t like sex with you***
Sorry to be blunt but the truth hurts. I’d leave unless your ok no sex in the relationship |
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So, the advice you’ve received is to;
Speak to her
Go to couples counselling.
Leave her
Live in a sexless marriage.
Cut up her credit card, sell her merc and tell her to get a job.
My advice is start with a good honest conversation with her. Tell her what you expect from your relationship. Then ask her what she expects from the relationship. See if you are both compare to compromise. How you then proceed will be based on her response. |
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"Join the club mate mine gone off it because of the menapause hopefully it may come back
Do you realise how hard the menopause is? How are you supporting her? By cheating? "
One I ain’t cheering as I have not met anybody for sex only chats and yes I am supporting her but she don’t speak or interact with me so I come on here to chat |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Couples counselling, sex therapy and open communication might help for a start. i dont care
If you don’t care why did you mention it in your post?"
duno |
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"Mine doesn't either (due to medication) at a time in my life when I'm not yet ready to give up..."
I hope you've told her how you feel about it. People do really need to be honest and say that they can't live without an active sex life. It's definitely not fair to expect a partner to go without sex just because the other person doesn't want sex. It's also not fair to cheat, so a compromise needs to be made somehow so that everyone is happy. |
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