"Get yourself to a club.
Sorry couldn’t resist .
Stick with it op. It may happen. If you leave it won’t.
It's true though. Clubs are also social venues.
Just be yourself OP. It's not instashag "
Yeah I know. It just seems to be the answer to everything haha |
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"Get yourself to a club.
Sorry couldn’t resist .
Stick with it op. It may happen. If you leave it won’t.
It's true though. Clubs are also social venues.
Just be yourself OP. It's not instashag
Yeah I know. It just seems to be the answer to everything haha "
It's tough for a single guy, but effort in = rewards out, if you get my drift x |
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"Get yourself to a club.
Sorry couldn’t resist .
Stick with it op. It may happen. If you leave it won’t.
It's true though. Clubs are also social venues.
Just be yourself OP. It's not instashag
Yeah I know. It just seems to be the answer to everything haha
It's tough for a single guy, but effort in = rewards out, if you get my drift x"
Tough for anyone. Depends what you’re looking for |
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"Get yourself to a club.
Sorry couldn’t resist .
Stick with it op. It may happen. If you leave it won’t.
It's true though. Clubs are also social venues.
Just be yourself OP. It's not instashag
Yeah I know. It just seems to be the answer to everything haha
It's tough for a single guy, but effort in = rewards out, if you get my drift x
Tough for anyone. Depends what you’re looking for "
Oh, not for you x |
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"The men greatly outnumber the women. It's not a free for all fuckfest.
Don't take it personally. cant even get a chat going with anyone either "
Take a look at our profile, we still receive around and up of thirty messages per day with our profile clearly stating we're not looking to meet.
After replying we're not looking, many suggest we can just chat until we are looking.
We don't have the time or will to chat to so many.
Now, imagine how many more messages we receive when we are looking.
A well thought out profile bio, good pictures, profile reading and messages to grab the attention can help.
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"Get yourself to a club.
Sorry couldn’t resist .
Stick with it op. It may happen. If you leave it won’t.
It's true though. Clubs are also social venues.
Just be yourself OP. It's not instashag
Yeah I know. It just seems to be the answer to everything haha
It's tough for a single guy, but effort in = rewards out, if you get my drift x
Tough for anyone. Depends what you’re looking for
Oh, not for you x"
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"Get yourself to a club.
Sorry couldn’t resist .
Stick with it op. It may happen. If you leave it won’t.
It's true though. Clubs are also social venues.
Just be yourself OP. It's not instashag
Yeah I know. It just seems to be the answer to everything haha
It's tough for a single guy, but effort in = rewards out, if you get my drift x
Tough for anyone. Depends what you’re looking for
Oh, not for you x
Bloody is!"
Wait.....what! I'm not having that. Classy lady like you x |
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"Get yourself to a club.
Sorry couldn’t resist .
Stick with it op. It may happen. If you leave it won’t.
It's true though. Clubs are also social venues.
Just be yourself OP. It's not instashag
Yeah I know. It just seems to be the answer to everything haha
It's tough for a single guy, but effort in = rewards out, if you get my drift x
Tough for anyone. Depends what you’re looking for
Oh, not for you x
Bloody is!
Wait.....what! I'm not having that. Classy lady like you x"
It's difficult for all, only in different manners.
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"clubs are hard get to as there in middle no where an i dont drive"
I don't drive either, but you know what I did if I really wanted to go somewhere?
Planned it and made the effort.
I haven't had a holiday in 19 years, I could take on a 2nd job to afford one but the truth is I can't be arsed. I'm already exhausted from the one I do have. But... if I REALLY REALLY REALLY wanted that holiday I could make more effort and get a 2nd job.
Priorities ain't it. You either can be arsed and will need patience, planning, prepared ro overcome obstacles and motivation or ya can't and will remain stagnant in achieving that goal.
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"i give up on this site no one seems want meet up"
I gave up on this site a long time ago op. As a general rule, it’s not great.
But I never gave up on people.
Talk to people, keep talking to more people and then you find some that you like. And then you begin to ignore those that ignored you. |
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Personally speaking, I’ve had more chats on here than I’ve ever had with strangers in pubs (for example)
Some have led to meets, others haven’t, but I’ve enjoyed them all.
That’s probably not much help to the OP, sorry. |
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My advice is start with taking a good look at your profile. It’s the first and often only thing you’ll get measured on, at least initially.
Check out some other guys, there are some amazing guys/profiles on here who can provide some good inspiration/ideas for you - and the flange is literally queuing up to nosh them off!**
For what it’s worth and it’s only my opinion:-
- put your dick pics in private. Nobody cares until you’ve made them smile.
- pics with an untidy/disorganised mess in the background could give an impression, perhaps a false one, of your hygiene standards.
- talk more about yourself in your profile , not just what your end/game and target is. Talk about you.
- be positive
- finally and perhaps most importantly: start out any conversation (with a woman , assuming that’s what you’re looking for) as though she were your sister or mother and you’re reminding her hist how polite/decent a man you are. And try and make her laugh as though she’s one your best friends.
If that all fails, try adultwork
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"The men greatly outnumber the women. It's not a free for all fuckfest.
Don't take it personally. cant even get a chat going with anyone either "
I feel your pain. I've pretty much given up on messaging, etc, so I just sort of hang out here now. |
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"clubs are hard get to as there in middle no where an i dont drive
I don't drive either, but you know what I did if I really wanted to go somewhere?
Planned it and made the effort.
I haven't had a holiday in 19 years, I could take on a 2nd job to afford one but the truth is I can't be arsed. I'm already exhausted from the one I do have. But... if I REALLY REALLY REALLY wanted that holiday I could make more effort and get a 2nd job.
Priorities ain't it. You either can be arsed and will need patience, planning, prepared ro overcome obstacles and motivation or ya can't and will remain stagnant in achieving that goal.
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"i give up on this site no one seems want meet up"
OP, only you can decide if this site is for you. It's certainly not always easy. But don't make this site the ONLY way you try to meet people: there's a big, bad non-Fab world out there too! |
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"clubs are hard get to as there in middle no where an i dont drive"
After having a looking about on the Internet for less than 10 minutes I found that Pleasures in Kent is less than 20 miles from your location and you can bus it in 1 hour and 15 minutes. If you look in the club reviews section on here, there's loads of reviews on Pleasurea for you to browse to see if you would like to attend without even getting off your arse.
It's all about the effort. If I wanted to make some connections with people in the lifestyle to show what type of bloke I am, would I spend 10 minutes on the Internet and then 1 hour and 15 on a bus?.....To bloody right I would.
Do with this information what you will. You can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink.
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"Get yourself to a club.
Sorry couldn’t resist .
Stick with it op. It may happen. If you leave it won’t. "
Listen to Nora. She knows! Seriously, go to a Greedy Girls event at a club and meet people.
Use your visit to network and if you're lucky you may even get to play. If you don't get a play on your first visit, go back again as some people you'd have spoken to may remember you.
As you get known your chances of playing increase. And if people you play with like what you do word gets around pretty quickly.
But stick with it because it takes time and effort. It is well worth it though. |
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"clubs are hard get to as there in middle no where an i dont drive
After having a looking about on the Internet for less than 10 minutes I found that Pleasures in Kent is less than 20 miles from your location and you can bus it in 1 hour and 15 minutes. If you look in the club reviews section on here, there's loads of reviews on Pleasurea for you to browse to see if you would like to attend without even getting off your arse.
It's all about the effort. If I wanted to make some connections with people in the lifestyle to show what type of bloke I am, would I spend 10 minutes on the Internet and then 1 hour and 15 on a bus?.....To bloody right I would.
Do with this information what you will. You can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink.
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This is actually a very helpful post.
Apologies for my earlier flippant comment. The OP would be wise to take heed. |
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"The men greatly outnumber the women. It's not a free for all fuckfest.
Don't take it personally. cant even get a chat going with anyone either "
Do you send messages worth replying to? Most of the messages we get from single men are just rubbish. |
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