Following on from another thread, can you remember all the people you haven't had sex with?
For every yes there will usually be a few no's and the odd one or two hell no's.
Since joining here 5 years ago I've said no at least twice if not 3 times as often as I've said yes for various reasons including geography, incompatibility and a general cantbearseditis.
Are you aware of those percentages or do you have a specific two outta three ain't bad approach? |
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Does this include men who wanted to have sex with me but I was too daft to realise? :-
I was musing this week about those numbers. I turn men down every day and I'm nothing special. It's just because I'm a woman here.
I've said yes to one guy since I joined Fab and no to dozens of men who've offered sex, possibly hundreds. It's not much of an offer when they haven't chatted to me or seen my face. |
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Most people when asked can either say they remember how many people they've had sex with or they've no idea.
When deciding not to have sex with someone though for whatever reason is that a number that is ever considered when looking back?
Regardless of numbers does anyone look back and think they have said no much more than they have said yes and consider why that may be?
Does that percentage have any value at all or not worth thinking about?
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"Most people when asked can either say they remember how many people they've had sex with or they've no idea.
When deciding not to have sex with someone though for whatever reason is that a number that is ever considered when looking back?
Regardless of numbers does anyone look back and think they have said no much more than they have said yes and consider why that may be?
Does that percentage have any value at all or not worth thinking about?
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I don’t think it’s worth thinking about. Whatever reason you say no is a valid reason to you at the time. |
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By *ustBoWoman
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I can't remember how many I've said no to .I don't even include on here because on here you get asked but usually it's when a guy is horny and he'd most likely not show even if he got a yes from a complete stranger he messages. I don't say no anyhow I just don't delete those messages so they don't count.
Outside of here I said no more times than I've said yes I guess it would be a 75% to 25% difference for various different reasons. I never really thought about it though until I read this thread.
I don't remember all of them but there was a couple I regretted saying no to after but that's life there's always regrets at some point . |
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"Most people when asked can either say they remember how many people they've had sex with or they've no idea.
When deciding not to have sex with someone though for whatever reason is that a number that is ever considered when looking back?
Regardless of numbers does anyone look back and think they have said no much more than they have said yes and consider why that may be?
Does that percentage have any value at all or not worth thinking about?
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It's an interesting question. Also pretty sure I've never seen it as a forum thread. 
What value would it be to consider the percentage?
If my percentage rate was 99% fuck vs 1% "no", not sure if that would be good or bad. |
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"Most people when asked can either say they remember how many people they've had sex with or they've no idea.
When deciding not to have sex with someone though for whatever reason is that a number that is ever considered when looking back?
Regardless of numbers does anyone look back and think they have said no much more than they have said yes and consider why that may be?
Does that percentage have any value at all or not worth thinking about?
It's an interesting question. Also pretty sure I've never seen it as a forum thread.
What value would it be to consider the percentage?
If my percentage rate was 99% fuck vs 1% "no", not sure if that would be good or bad. "
I'm all about originality
It's too easy to say that it's just about being fussy because everyone's experiences are different. Some are more used to group situations where others are all one to one.
Just curious if there is a common denominator with all those that have ticked the no box?
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"I say no to 100 percent of the men that ask.
You didn’t say no when I was hanging out the back of you 
I was lost for words …. "
I have that effect on people |
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"Following on from another thread, can you remember all the people you haven't had sex with?
For every yes there will usually be a few no's and the odd one or two hell no's.
Since joining here 5 years ago I've said no at least twice if not 3 times as often as I've said yes for various reasons including geography, incompatibility and a general cantbearseditis.
Are you aware of those percentages or do you have a specific two outta three ain't bad approach? "
Fantastic humble brag |
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"Most people when asked can either say they remember how many people they've had sex with or they've no idea.
When deciding not to have sex with someone though for whatever reason is that a number that is ever considered when looking back?
Regardless of numbers does anyone look back and think they have said no much more than they have said yes and consider why that may be?
Does that percentage have any value at all or not worth thinking about?
It's an interesting question. Also pretty sure I've never seen it as a forum thread.
What value would it be to consider the percentage?
If my percentage rate was 99% fuck vs 1% "no", not sure if that would be good or bad.
I'm all about originality
It's too easy to say that it's just about being fussy because everyone's experiences are different. Some are more used to group situations where others are all one to one.
Just curious if there is a common denominator with all those that have ticked the no box?
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That makes sense.  |
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