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Long term relationship but minimal sex life...
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Morning,
I often come here as an escape, read the forums etc but actully wondered if theres others in the same shoes.
Im in a long term relationship and very happy but the sex life is non existant, partly due to her health and teenage kids etc. This is a struggle as sometimes its needed!!
I come here to read the stories, check out the pics etc... even adding my own i guess as a release.
Id love to know if anyone else here is in the same shoes or just me lol.
Look forward to hearing from you all.
Rik |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t wear anyones shoes, quickest way to pick up athletes foot.
Probably many are like you or started a swinging journey the same way. Exploring the idea of expanding their current good sex life, or spice up a mundane ‘normal’ sex life or even rescue a none existing one.
You’re not the first op. You won’t be the last.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Morning,
I often come here as an escape, read the forums etc but actully wondered if theres others in the same shoes.
Im in a long term relationship and very happy but the sex life is non existant, partly due to her health and teenage kids etc. This is a struggle as sometimes its needed!!
I come here to read the stories, check out the pics etc... even adding my own i guess as a release.
Id love to know if anyone else here is in the same shoes or just me lol.
Look forward to hearing from you all.
Rik"
Hi Rik
You're not alone. Hundreds, maybe thousands of people on here in the same situation.
Take care. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Your not alone no but many ladies and couples won’t meet married men "
Oh please dont mistake me..thats not what this was about... not even sure i'd meet others haha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Morning,
I often come here as an escape, read the forums etc but actully wondered if theres others in the same shoes.
Im in a long term relationship and very happy but the sex life is non existant, partly due to her health and teenage kids etc. This is a struggle as sometimes its needed!!
I come here to read the stories, check out the pics etc... even adding my own i guess as a release.
Id love to know if anyone else here is in the same shoes or just me lol.
Look forward to hearing from you all.
Rik
Hi Rik
You're not alone. Hundreds, maybe thousands of people on here in the same situation.
Take care."
Thanks  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just have a wank and the urge goes away ????
Sex may be important now but it won’t always be."
I do agree, just sometimes tought on the mental side... second guessing etc. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Like i told another poster- join reddit and join the r/deadbedroom group.
You'll understand you are not alone in the slightest "
Ill take a look, thank you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You've joined with the ultimate goal of sex though, that's not an escape. You can't escape your problems, you can only add to them. I'd recommend talking to your partner before doing something you can't take back. 5 minutes of your ego being flattered is a lifetime of heartache for your partner.
Good luck. |
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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago
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"You've joined with the ultimate goal of sex though, that's not an escape. You can't escape your problems, you can only add to them. I'd recommend talking to your partner before doing something you can't take back. 5 minutes of your ego being flattered is a lifetime of heartache for your partner.
Good luck."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You've joined with the ultimate goal of sex though, that's not an escape. You can't escape your problems, you can only add to them. I'd recommend talking to your partner before doing something you can't take back. 5 minutes of your ego being flattered is a lifetime of heartache for your partner.
Good luck.
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Totally agree on that |
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"There are loads of people on here in the same situation as you
I hope you can find away to work through the issue with your wife without you having to resort to cheating.
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Sorry, your partner, not your wife, my mistake. |
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