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Can you remember how many people you've had sex with?
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Not asking for numbers just if you sat and thought could you easily remember how many? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No I can’t  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can remember the special ones.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes |
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By *VineMan
over a year ago
The right place |
How would you know? |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
Yes.
It helps that I have their heads stuffed on the wall  |
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"How would you know? "
 exactly! |
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More than Cliff. Less than Mick |
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By *eaderMan
over a year ago
Shropshire |
Not names but always the encounter. Each one is special in its own way.... Even the failures!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No, although it wouldn't be too far off. |
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More than the number Of planets there are in the universe but less than the number of piano keys there is in the world *takes a bow* |
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No chance!  the majority of them was in my teens, that was years ago!! 
D. |
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Yes. It was a very low number before we started swinging and we've only been swinging a year. I remember them all. For now.. |
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"Yes.
It helps that I have their heads stuffed on the wall "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes I can. More than one and less than five. |
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I think I can, with a margin of error of 10% |
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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago
Camberley occasionally doncaster |
You mean people don't make spreadsheets with names, contact details, preferences and ratings?
Weird  |
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I can't remember what I did this morning so no I don't |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep it’s a very small number |
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Yes. And that's because the numbers are low. (I was a Polaroid: a, umm, er, a late developer). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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38,928,638 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes as they go into my portfolio.
Saved on my hard drive, with pie charts, graphs, statistics and different categories. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Emmm no not really there’s been that meny only ones I remember are the ones that left a impression the rest just blend in
Also being a bit off a party chick there’s some I can’t even remembering I had sex with them
Only thing I can remember is wake up next to them
And doing checks
Oooo god who are you ok check to see emmm ok there’s the condom ok that happened
Or ok I don’t see one emmm ok figer check ooo god ok I am full that happened |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I remember the ones with remembering... But a number no. |
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Yes I can remember....and probably won't forget! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, I don't even need a hand to count the. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not asking for numbers just if you sat and thought could you easily remember how many?"
Yes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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not a scooby Px |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"38,928,638"
Please make the veris public. 
Winston |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think so i was sober for most |
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Yup.
We don't swing with massive amounts of people and we were monogamous for 20 years before that |
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Yes and don't even have to take my shoes and socks off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, it isn't a large number in all honesty. |
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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago
lake ariel |
I can’t even remember where I put my keys let alone how many people I’ve been with  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No, I'm well into three figures xx |
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Yes and I can even remember the date and time I lost my virginity how sad is that |
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Yes and good and bad ones aswell |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I could attempt it but I'd probably forget a few. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have trouble remembering names let alone how many people I've slept with |
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I was thinking about this yesterday and I counted 19 |
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Yes and not a vast amount prefer quality over quantity |
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I had this conversation with My Girl ages ago at the pub. We said we'd only count numbers pre being together and swinging. We thought really hard, writing down the tallys. She had a big score and to my surprise turns out so did I. So we both had a score. But then other people would come to mind and we had to keep adjusting the score. Turn out both of us couldn't keep an accurate score. |
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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago
cognito |
I have a list…including names because I’m a sex nerd. |
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By *yronMan
over a year ago
grangemouth |
Absolutely no idea. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd like to say yes but as the number gets higher my memory starts to fade a little  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No. Because there was a 20 year gap when I just slept with one person. Totally forgotten by the time I started up again! |
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By *adyHWoman
over a year ago
South Glos |
for now yes.... |
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Most of them... Did actually write a list recently of all the ones I could think of. |
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Is that this week ?
If so yes
If that's full stop ?
It's gonna be a no from us ! |
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No would not have a clue - both of us. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Yep. Even their names. I feel I should be embarrassed by that.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes. And names. Though it’s not a really long list |
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A bunch. Dunno. Memory isn't what it used to be
Mrs TMN x |
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Yes, I just hope they can as well  |
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"A bunch. Dunno. Memory isn't what it used to be
Mrs TMN x"
Do you remember that time at band camp?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"38,928,638
Please make the veris public.
Winston"
I'll crash the site. |
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Meanwhile here on fantasy island |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes I can remember
NBVN x |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
Probably but not in chronological order.
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I could 3 years ago when I joined fab and now I can't! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No |
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By *ev257Man
over a year ago
cardiff |
I can, but wife can't remember them all. |
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Fuuuuuuck no some I couldn’t pick out in a line up lol makes for good adventures and tales to tell |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No, and to be honest, some of them I wouldn’t admit to anyway. And others I still brag about.
The best 1 was when she went in to the pub I worked at the following day, told everyone and anyone who’d listen. When I went in to work the day after that, I got a standing ovation. Funniest day ever, I had booked buying me drinks all day. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep. Even their names. I feel I should be embarrassed by that.
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Not at all. I think that’s quite nice actually. |
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Yes...
....not all the names - some of which I never knew - but certainly most of their locations (not exact, just town/city)... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"for now yes.... "
For now |
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can;t remember but be 150-200 in 40 years |
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I could probably count up most of them if I had to |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Spreadsheets and Venn diagrams are the way forward.
Winston |
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I could do a ball park figure if I thought about it  |
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No not because its loads I just got a crap memory |
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"A bunch. Dunno. Memory isn't what it used to be
Mrs TMN x
Do you remember that time at band camp? "
When I shoved a trombone up my arse? Sure |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes within 1 or 2. It’s not that many |
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Yes, their penises are taxidermied and mounted on my wall as keepsakes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah sex degrees of separation |
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By *ydrewMan
over a year ago
forest |
"Yes, their penises are taxidermied and mounted on my wall as keepsakes."
Ouch 
I can mostly remember |
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"Yes, their penises are taxidermied and mounted on my wall as keepsakes."
What a way to go |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ladies if he didn’t make you cum it doesn’t count |
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By *willfindyouWoman
over a year ago
Not looking to meet new peeps. |
In real life yes 100 % on here Not a chance it was fun times |
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By *ack688Man
over a year ago
abruzzo Italy (and UK) |
How could you possibly know? You don’t remember the ones you don’t remember |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ladies if he didn’t make you cum it doesn’t count "
Well that takes a couple of zeros off! xx |
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By *omer47Man
over a year ago
leigh |
Not really no. Its impossible to remember them all now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a spreadsheet  |
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I can but remember names no haha.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a list that I add to occasionally |
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"About 20"
Mostly in the last 4 yrs |
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If it weren’t for the numbers, the memory wouldn’t allow it, so I can’t remember how many no.
Hades |
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Having thought about this for a while, I think I'm within one or two of my actual number yes  |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
harrow |
Above 5 and less than 100 I think |
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"Ladies if he didn’t make you cum it doesn’t count "
If that's true then I'm still a Virgin |
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Yes, the heads are on spikes in my hallway. 15 of the beauties |
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No...
It doesn't help that the number will vary depending on your interpretation of sex.
If it's penetration only, sex with other ladies won't count, so that assumes I need to count every person I have been intimate with.
Not a hope in Hell of me remembering that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know the ball park, but spot on figure? Nope |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No...
It doesn't help that the number will vary depending on your interpretation of sex.
If it's penetration only, sex with other ladies won't count, so that assumes I need to count every person I have been intimate with.
Not a hope in Hell of me remembering that "
And does oral only count? Hmm. |
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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago
somewhere, someplace |
No, I have a period of time in my life I have purposely blocked out for that reason |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, the heads are on spikes in my hallway. 15 of the beauties "
Mwah haha! |
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Yeah it's not that high, I was in a monogamous(on my part anyway) relationship for 13 years. I'm new here, I'll probably lose track soon. |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
"How could you possibly know? You don’t remember the ones you don’t remember "
Wise. |
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No not now but before I started swinging 8 years ago I’d only had sex with 6 people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah it's not that high, I was in a monogamous(on my part anyway) relationship for 13 years. I'm new here, I'll probably lose track soon."
Thats the spirit!!!
Winston |
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
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Pre swinging yes as there were not that many. Now after 9 years n Fab I can just about remember them all. |
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The longer list is those who I wish I had slept with! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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not a cat in hell's chance... |
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Hannah: Yes
Luke: No, lost count |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Roughly and its not a huge number either |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hahaha I couldn't tell how many people you've had sex with last year, let alone in my lifetime.
Delight x |
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I’ve a ball park figure but it’s definitely less than a ball park |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've tried to think about this before but I always forget about some then remember x it's around a 100 or so x thats terrible when I think about it x |
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What definition of "sex" are you using? Full PIV penetrative sex with orgasms? Merely any contact with genitals? Does one way oral count? Or must it be both partners? Or no counting oral?
Whatever, I reckon it's more than zero but less than infinity for me. |
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By *asual777Man
over a year ago
i travel all over |
Not even to the nearest 100
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Before becoming a hotwife; 4 people including hubby. Now a hell of a lot more |
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By *ean counterMan
over a year ago
Market Harborough/ Kettering |
I can only count as far back as the last one (a lady I know on here) but that could all be changing tonight |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep I can |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes and its nowhere near as many as it could have been |
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I tried to count when I was about 25 and kept remembering more a few days later so I gave up. |
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"Not names but always the encounter. Each one is special in its own way.... Even the failures! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No...fortunately |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not asking for numbers just if you sat and thought could you easily remember how many?"
I used to keep alist so i wouldn't forget.
Then forgot to keep list updated... then lost the list |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not asking for numbers just if you sat and thought could you easily remember how many?"
I have trouble remembering what I had for breakfast the previous day |
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Whatever our count is ,
Can we add one more to the total from last night's club visit |
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By *ora69Woman
over a year ago
Lampeter |
Yes, and still only counting on my fingers  |
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Yes but I have to take off my shoes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope. I sat and thought about it really hard, it gave me a headache.
Px |
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Yes and I keep a file on each and every one of you  |
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Yeah - and I remember details about everyone |
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