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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is so shitty 
That is all.
(Unless you would like to improve my mood by sending boing or helicopter vids  )"
Yep, not a nice thing, I think my wife has been ghosted after what looked like a fruitful conversation yesterday |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is so shitty
That is all.
(Unless you would like to improve my mood by sending boing or helicopter vids )"
I guess the way to look at it is the shitty moments make the great moments in our lives feel and taste all the better .
Thats the way I try to look on life in general even when things haven't gone or turned out the way I wanted them to for what ever reason . |
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By *avie65Man
over a year ago
In the west. |
I've had it recently, then I was told I had blocked them even though I had sent a few messages over the last couple of weeks. But you live and learn.
Sorry OP I don't have any videos like that.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is so shitty
That is all.
(Unless you would like to improve my mood by sending boing or helicopter vids )"
Well if they can be adults and just they're aren't interested, sometimes after chatting. You just loose interested or just dont fiñd it going anywhere, they aren't worth knowing of that's how they handle things |
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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago
Craggy Island |
"Is so shitty
That is all.
(Unless you would like to improve my mood by sending boing or helicopter vids )"
I have always wanted to do a boing vid...as for the helicopter, never again I think I sprained my right nut the last time. |
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"Is so shitty
That is all.
(Unless you would like to improve my mood by sending boing or helicopter vids )"
Yes we were recently ghosted by a girl a few days before we were supposed to be meeting for a social. She didn't even log in. A few days later she's back on here and then ignored our message asking if she was ok.... BLOCK. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is so shitty
That is all.
(Unless you would like to improve my mood by sending boing or helicopter vids )
Yep, not a nice thing, I think my wife has been ghosted after what looked like a fruitful conversation yesterday "
Indeed I have (this is the missus), buy you know? Shit happens, some people are arseholes, so we just move along. I'm not going to float everyone's boat, that's cool. The conversation was fun and prompted some great sex with hubby!
To the OP: give my hubby a go, he won't ghost you xx |
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It’s annoying but as they say, no answer/reply is an answer. Getting ghosted is just another form of no
Took a girl out for a date once and at the end, as you should, I asked her to txt me when she got home safe.
She either fell off a bridge or ghosted me. I don’t like that because I was left a little worried about her safety. But as they say, I got the message. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is so shitty
That is all.
(Unless you would like to improve my mood by sending boing or helicopter vids )
I have always wanted to do a boing vid...as for the helicopter, never again I think I sprained my right nut the last time."
That made me laugh  (female of the couple) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s not great. But the way I see it, if someone ghosted me and didn’t have the respect to give me an idea why, I wouldn’t want to speak to them again anyway.
I do get why some ghost though? But I wouldn’t. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is so shitty
That is all.
(Unless you would like to improve my mood by sending boing or helicopter vids )
Yep, not a nice thing, I think my wife has been ghosted after what looked like a fruitful conversation yesterday
Indeed I have (this is the missus), buy you know? Shit happens, some people are arseholes, so we just move along. I'm not going to float everyone's boat, that's cool. The conversation was fun and prompted some great sex with hubby!
To the OP: give my hubby a go, he won't ghost you xx "
OP: ignore the wife, I’m a notorious ghoster, in fact, I’ve done more ghosting than the spirit of Anne Boleyn at Hampton Court - Bob |
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"It’s not great. But the way I see it, if someone ghosted me and didn’t have the respect to give me an idea why, I wouldn’t want to speak to them again anyway.
I do get why some ghost though? But I wouldn’t. "
I've ghosted in the past and the reason I didn't give an explanation was for the same reason I ghosted her in the first place.
Non stop drama and an unhealthy obsession with what everyone else on fab was doing, up to and including sharing personal details of people I had never spoken to or even knew anything about.
She already knew my opinion on what she was doing and she chose to ignore advice from numerous friends so I just stopped chatting and left her to it.
Based on all that I know for a fact I was then added to her hit list and snidey forum comments from others in her ever diminishing circle have confirmed that.
So ghosting is sometimes a necessary evil. |
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I'm probably guilty of ghosting and feel guilty for it. I get inundated with emails, text, SMS, MST, notification from every fucking app that I miss millions of replies. Between work life and home life, it's communications overload and loads of messages to me (work and personal) go unread or unanswered due to lack of time or whoever's shouting loudest.
I used to lime the ol' days of few emails and maybe a kinky Skype/MSN message or txt and that was all I had to keep up with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is so shitty
That is all.
(Unless you would like to improve my mood by sending boing or helicopter vids )"
Sorry to hear this OP ghosting someone is an awful thing to do!
CrispyDuck Has some great vids!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks everyone. It wasn’t anyone from fab. I can understand why there are reasons to ghost at times but there was no reason for this.
Anyhow, next "
*Woody rushes in………  |
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Happened to me it’s not nice and we’d been chatting over 8 mths… just wish he’d grown a pair… I would of respected him more….
But like everything you get over it and move on… but still not a pleasant experience x |
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It is shit, OP. I've actually found some perverse consolation in this thread as at least I know it happens to lots of people! Onwards and upwards...
I do actually have a boing vid but have spared the world that trauma so far...maybe one day! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Totally agree, but I have learnt they are not worth crying over…. Head up, move on! Rise above it & be the better person x"
Says more about the person doing the Ghost.
Than the person whom had been Gjosted/blanked/blocked etc etc etc.. |
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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago
somewhere, someplace |
It's shit, I've had it done to me in 'real life' what I thought was a relationship, met the family etc and then disappeared into thin air and fool me it happened to me twice I gave him a second chance and again he did it.
On here I've been sat waiting for a message to say yes I'm on my way and nothing, to the point where I used to get ready completely last minute because I was so used to guys ghosting |
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