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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I had a thing for bicurious/bisexual men. There are some hot bi men (2 in particular)who I would love to play with but I really do like to play with straight men only.
Have any other ladies changed their minds? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had a thing for bicurious/bisexual men. There are some hot bi men (2 in particular)who I would love to play with but I really do like to play with straight men only.
Have any other ladies changed their minds?"
 forgive my stupi remark in advance ---- but if you like them go for it -- we dont bite and we are dirty old men in macs ok  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"erm what does it matter if they are bi?
Because I like my men to be straight. It does say in my post x"
you also admitted to wanting to play with them because you find them hot? |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"I had a thing for bicurious/bisexual men. There are some hot bi men (2 in particular)who I would love to play with but I really do like to play with straight men only.
Have any other ladies changed their minds?"
Can't say I care either way if a guy is straight or bi.....if I like them and think they are sexy, then I'll play with them.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"erm what does it matter if they are bi?
Because I like my men to be straight. It does say in my post x
you also admitted to wanting to play with them because you find them hot? "
Yes, they look hot but because they are bi it puts me off. Not homophobic, just my preference before I get slammed! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think it should matter to you and if you like them go for it, unless you are planning a mmf.
Don't forget also the "straight" men you meet or have an interest in, may well not be "straight"
What someone does when they are not with me, in a sexual way, is not my business & as long as said gent is paying me the attention I need during a meeting, and not drooling at the waiter...I couldn't care less |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Also I know plenty of bi men who are only bi in a group situation, and much prefer women, so you could be "judging" them incorrectly.
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Excuse me, I dont recall that I was "judging" them at all! I dont care if they are bisexual, I dont have a problem with anyones sexuality. My preference is straight men and not bi men, that is not a judgement! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have no idea what to say
I this a thread for thoughtful and lustful musings?
I want something but I don't,I get told to have it but its not what I want?
I used to be indecisive but im not sure now? 
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have no idea what to say
I this a thread for thoughtful and lustful musings?
I want something but I don't,I get told to have it but its not what I want?
I used to be indecisive but im not sure now?
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I wasnt looking for sarcasm! |
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"I have no idea what to say
I this a thread for thoughtful and lustful musings?
I want something but I don't,I get told to have it but its not what I want?
I used to be indecisive but im not sure now?
I wasnt looking for sarcasm!"
But you did post on an open forum...
It's something to take a good long look at. In all probability you have already played with a bi man - maybe even lots!
Many of them are scared to own it by putting it on their profile since they think it will emasculate them or that it will bias many against meeting them.
But it doesn't mean they haven't sucked cock or more... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I wasn't looking for sarcasm!
Genuine question: what were you looking for?"
Genuine answer: I was wondering whether any other ladies on here felt the same as me. Fancied the pants off a bi man but because of their preferences for straight men, didn't play with any or changed their mind. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"erm what does it matter if they are bi?
Because I like my men to be straight. It does say in my post x
you also admitted to wanting to play with them because you find them hot?
Yes, they look hot but because they are bi it puts me off. Not homophobic, just my preference before I get slammed! "
You only know they are bi as they declared themselves to be so on here, I assume?
So if you met them in a bar and thought 'Corr!' would you ask them upfront if they were bi or not as a precursor to a shag...? 
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"I was wondering whether any other ladies on here felt the same as me. Fancied the pants off a bi man but because of their preferences for straight men, didn't play with any or changed their mind. "
dont care whether guys are straight or bi .. cant see wot difference it makes at all |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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i think it is a fair question and there are ladies on here who were not for meeting with bi guys before, they meet now but no bi action takes place if there is an MMF.
I personally wouldn't play with someone who had a negative _iew and then changed their mind, that would be my preference. I would feel I may have to perform, act or behave in a certain way and that would not be for me...... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"erm what does it matter if they are bi?
Because I like my men to be straight. It does say in my post x
you also admitted to wanting to play with them because you find them hot?
Yes, they look hot but because they are bi it puts me off. Not homophobic, just my preference before I get slammed!
You only know they are bi as they declared themselves to be so on here, I assume?
So if you met them in a bar and thought 'Corr!' would you ask them upfront if they were bi or not as a precursor to a shag...?
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No I wouldn't and that's my quandry, why does it bother me when I know they are bi as opposed to it not even crossing my mind to ask a declared straight guy?? |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
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I don't mind if bi or straight, a couple of straight guys I've played with are def bi-curious and actively looking to satisfy that curiousity, but leave their profile listed as straight...so as the other posters have said, it's quite possible you've played with bi guys already without realising |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"i think it is a fair question and there are ladies on here who were not for meeting with bi guys before, they meet now but no bi action takes place if there is an MMF.
I personally wouldn't play with someone who had a negative _iew and then changed their mind, that would be my preference. I would feel I may have to perform, act or behave in a certain way and that would not be for me...... "
aaaagh, I dont have a negative _iew of bi men or women! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"erm what does it matter if they are bi?
Because I like my men to be straight. It does say in my post x
you also admitted to wanting to play with them because you find them hot?
Yes, they look hot but because they are bi it puts me off. Not homophobic, just my preference before I get slammed!
You only know they are bi as they declared themselves to be so on here, I assume?
So if you met them in a bar and thought 'Corr!' would you ask them upfront if they were bi or not as a precursor to a shag...?
No I wouldn't and that's my quandry, why does it bother me when I know they are bi as opposed to it not even crossing my mind to ask a declared straight guy??"
What is it about their 'bi-ness' that puts you off.....? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Also I know plenty of bi men who are only bi in a group situation, and much prefer women, so you could be "judging" them incorrectly.
Excuse me, I dont recall that I was "judging" them at all! I dont care if they are bisexual, I dont have a problem with anyones sexuality. My preference is straight men and not bi men, that is not a judgement!"
Calm your knickers 
Hence I said "judging", removes my head out of your mouth
Judging on their preferences, hence I mentioned women, not you are judging bi men and their sexuality.
But I still stand by the "straight" men you play with may not well be.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"erm what does it matter if they are bi?
Because I like my men to be straight. It does say in my post x
you also admitted to wanting to play with them because you find them hot?
Yes, they look hot but because they are bi it puts me off. Not homophobic, just my preference before I get slammed!
You only know they are bi as they declared themselves to be so on here, I assume?
So if you met them in a bar and thought 'Corr!' would you ask them upfront if they were bi or not as a precursor to a shag...?
No I wouldn't and that's my quandry, why does it bother me when I know they are bi as opposed to it not even crossing my mind to ask a declared straight guy??
What is it about their 'bi-ness' that puts you off.....? "
i really dont know
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"i think it is a fair question and there are ladies on here who were not for meeting with bi guys before, they meet now but no bi action takes place if there is an MMF.
I personally wouldn't play with someone who had a negative _iew and then changed their mind, that would be my preference. I would feel I may have to perform, act or behave in a certain way and that would not be for me......
aaaagh, I dont have a negative _iew of bi men or women!"
did I say you did.....
I also answered your question that there are woman on this site who did have a negative _iew of the bi act, not the men, THE BI ACT, it made one feel sick at the thought, she has changed her mind and i applaud her for her honesty.
so less, arrghh, you asked a question and I answered it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i think it is a fair question and there are ladies on here who were not for meeting with bi guys before, they meet now but no bi action takes place if there is an MMF.
I personally wouldn't play with someone who had a negative _iew and then changed their mind, that would be my preference. I would feel I may have to perform, act or behave in a certain way and that would not be for me......
aaaagh, I dont have a negative _iew of bi men or women!
did I say you did.....
I also answered your question that there are woman on this site who did have a negative _iew of the bi act, not the men, THE BI ACT, it made one feel sick at the thought, she has changed her mind and i applaud her for her honesty.
so less, arrghh, you asked a question and I answered it."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Apologies and thank you. I think its the act that I dont like too"
So this now ties in with another current thread. Is it your business who they are having sex with before or after you, assuming that they are not going to be engaging in 'Bi-acts' when with you..?
If they are not having bi sex in your presence, why should it bother you..?
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"I had a thing for bicurious/bisexual men. There are some hot bi men (2 in particular)who I would love to play with but I really do like to play with straight men only.
Have any other ladies changed their minds?"
I just wonder how many "straight" men you've met haven't actually been so straight. There's many many bi guys who don't admit it....
Personally straight or bi if I like the guy I like the guy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It amazes me in posts how many peeps don't just answer the OP's question and here's another example. However, in some strange way I suppose it what's makes this Forum so interesting |
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By *b430Man
over a year ago
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"It amazes me in posts how many peeps don't just answer the OP's question and here's another example. However, in some strange way I suppose it what's makes this Forum so interesting "
Says the man who just did the same i.e. not answer the OP's question!
Damn, I've just done it too!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It amazes me in posts how many peeps don't just answer the OP's question and here's another example. However, in some strange way I suppose it what's makes this Forum so interesting
Says the man who just did the same i.e. not answer the OP's question!
Damn, I've just done it too! "
Exactly |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I had a thing for bicurious/bisexual men. There are some hot bi men (2 in particular)who I would love to play with but I really do like to play with straight men only.
Have any other ladies changed their minds?"
Yes, me. In my 20's I had a lot of gay and bi male friends. There were some that I fancied, but the fact that they were bi put me off. I have never been homophobic, and I think I know what you mean when you say you're not sure what puts you off... I was the same too.
I have changed in many ways over the years. Back then I didn't like the idea of swingers either... and allsorts of other things.
Now I think bi men are really hot. So yes, I guess you could say I changed my mind. Although I just think it's really me that changed, not my mind as such- if that makes sense? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I had a thing for bicurious/bisexual men. There are some hot bi men (2 in particular)who I would love to play with but I really do like to play with straight men only.
Have any other ladies changed their minds?
Yes, me. In my 20's I had a lot of gay and bi male friends. There were some that I fancied, but the fact that they were bi put me off. I have never been homophobic, and I think I know what you mean when you say you're not sure what puts you off... I was the same too.
I have changed in many ways over the years. Back then I didn't like the idea of swingers either... and allsorts of other things.
Now I think bi men are really hot. So yes, I guess you could say I changed my mind. Although I just think it's really me that changed, not my mind as such- if that makes sense? "
I have to say thank you being the only person on here who has answered my question constructively xx |
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