So when we first joined it was all about personality (and always will), but recently we've been really picky finding someone who is suitable for what we are after.....plenty of guys who are into what we are into but finding that spark and attraction is becoming harder and harder.
Has anyone else struggled with this |
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Yes 100% agree , think a lot of it has to do with the insane amount of men on here now thinking it’s an easy hook up gaurentee sex site . We enjoy the social just as much as fun but that seems forgotten by alot |
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"So when we first joined it was all about personality (and always will), but recently we've been really picky finding someone who is suitable for what we are after.....plenty of guys who are into what we are into but finding that spark and attraction is becoming harder and harder.
Has anyone else struggled with this "
Totally resonates  |
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I am picky. Love going to clubs, parties and socials as someone who messages you on here may surprise you when you meet face to face.
Being a couple will always be difficult as you need to find someone who suits you both. |
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It's like trying to find a movie on Netflix that suits both our interests lol impossible, think it's because we had such a great person the last time it's hard to beat that and definitely not lowering our standards |
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"It's like trying to find a movie on Netflix that suits both our interests lol impossible, think it's because we had such a great person the last time it's hard to beat that and definitely not lowering our standards "
Definitely don't lower standards, people tend to come along when you least expect it and trust me they are worth waiting for  |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
Totally get this
Me & my other half have our joint profile ,but single ones too.
Trying to get 4 way attraction with other couples isn't easy .
Then it's rare I meet on this profile as not Many seem to take my fancy anymore. |
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By *r laidbackMan
over a year ago
London & New Brighton |
Being picky is fine when it comes to looks or how someone responds in messages... I've lost out on meets just because of my age nothing about personality or looks, so being pickys not a bad thing but you can miss out on opportunities to meet good people, swings and roundabouts i guess |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes it’s difficult, especially now we’re approaching that funny ole age . We do have more success visiting clubs ( when we manage to attend)as opposed to meeting new people on Fab |
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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago
Welling |
"So when we first joined it was all about personality (and always will), but recently we've been really picky finding someone who is suitable for what we are after.....plenty of guys who are into what we are into but finding that spark and attraction is becoming harder and harder.
Has anyone else struggled with this "
You (like anyone else) have all rights to be picky 
We live one life and should choose what we actually want and what we feel is right for us |
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