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Are you annoying/ disliked by a lot of people?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And if you are, how does it make you feel?!
Happy hump day again to those celebrating  "
Absolutely but only to those I think deserve it, otherwise I’m quite a nice friendly generous person.
I have this incredible gift on a certain huge media site of pissing people off and generally ending up in Jail…. Although I’m currently on a roll as not been in jail since January  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think I am, but to be honest, I put fair effort into being as inoffensive as possible when I first meet people. Doesn't always work as some might see that as me being boring but it helps get a foot in the door before opening up to them a bit more |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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I’m mildly socially awkward and people sometimes read that as being aloof or unapproachable. On here my humour is very dry, so people tend to take that as being a bit of a dick.
Those that know me though tend to know that I’m an asshole  |
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In life? There are probably a few who don't like me.
In here? There are probably a few more but for similar reasons.
I don't follow the unwritten fab rulebook that says I must react or respond in a particular way to messages or forum comments in order to be more popular and that annoys some people. Usually the people who send those messages and expect something different.
How do I feel about that?
Every time there is a "am I on your hotlist?" thread the vast majority of those who tell me that I am say that it's because I don't follow that unwritten fab rulebook so I feel good about it. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Nobody is mostly liked or disliked by people on the forum - most people are indifferent to most people to put it bluntly.
I don't think people are disliked because they're outspoken or don't suck up or are jealous, it's probably because we all have dickish tendencies and sometimes they're not compatible with another. |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
Stirling |
I’m a confident woman, some people find that intimidating and in turn take a disliking to me from the outset, others who get to know me find I’m a friendly, sarcastic, dark humoured person who says it like it is - people who don’t care for that won’t get on with me and that’s fine I’m not living to liked by everyone x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I honestly don’t know. In a past life many centuries ago I would have overthought this and decided that no one liked me. "
I would have liked to meet you back then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s hard to tell online. After all who’s going to tell you to your face… ? ..
I get the impression I’m easy to talk to or get along with face to face I mean, with this handsome mug, who wouldn’t be charmed?  |
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Not as far as I'm aware but the I tend to keep myself to myself mostly. At my last job I was pretty depressed and I think a lot of that was to do with not "clicking" with a single person there, and I suppose that has a similar effect.
Since leaving I feel a hell of a lot better and am generally happier 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes I am and feel I'm doing my civi duty because if they wasn't hating me there'd be hating on someone else .
Because you no what they say a hater has just got to hate |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sober me is terrible at first impressions. Whenever I’ve started a new job or put in a position where I have to meet new people only a few like me from the off.
D*unk me seems great. I can make friends anywhere after a few pints. |
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"By strangers yes, I have resting bitch face which is misleading.. they like me once they've thawed the ice  "
That happens when you start grinding in their lap, all the friction helps to melt the ice more than break it
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think I'm disliked in the real world but then again if I am, no issue to me, everyone is entitled to their opinion. Maybe one or two on here too for their own reasons but most are decent enough to keep the abuse to a minimum  Those that don't....well they aren't worth losing any sleep over!  |
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I've never really thought about it, there's nothing I can do about it so it's not worth worrying about...I can only be me, pretending to be something else would be disingenuous, we're not all compatible and life isn't a popularity contest. |
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"I've never really thought about it, there's nothing I can do about it so it's not worth worrying about...I can only be me, pretending to be something else would be disingenuous, we're not all compatible and life isn't a popularity contest. "
This ^^^ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hmm, probably on here.
But in real life I'd say most people are indifferent towards me. I don't really stand out, but those who know me do describe me in a positive light. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I don’t know if I’m disliked. I know some on here do but at least they’ve been honest. But I am genuinely annoying though. I joke around a lot and like pranking people. Also I recite rap song lyrics relating to most situations I’m in |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think I a nice bloke. But on here I must be doing something wrong I get a lot of not for me or no reply we’ll all I can I must be that ugly lol "
you’re not ugly. And I’m sure you’re a lovely bloke. Seen you in the forums- you seem great  |
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i find it takes a good while for people to get to know the real me , male or female.
i think i give out untrue vibes, not sure what type, but when they get to know me properly i'm quite popular and liked. |
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"I'm smug.
Everyone hates a smug fucker. 
Do you drive a hybrid car?
Like with a fucking loud exhaust that reverberates everyone's windows at 6am?
I sure scooby doo! "
I was thinking more of that southpark episode where all of the hybrid car drivers were making too much smug |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I imagine being outspoken and not backing down pisses some people off (not that I GAF!). IRL at least I am generally liked. I'm easy to chat to. "
That’s why we were semi engaged yesterday |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I imagine being outspoken and not backing down pisses some people off (not that I GAF!). IRL at least I am generally liked. I'm easy to chat to.
That’s why we were semi engaged yesterday "
Because I don't back down? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I imagine being outspoken and not backing down pisses some people off (not that I GAF!). IRL at least I am generally liked. I'm easy to chat to.
That’s why we were semi engaged yesterday
Because I don't back down? "
Yes, your tenacity was something that always attracted me to you, I fondly remember the times after we had played that you would say to me “why are you like this” before I fell asleep |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I imagine being outspoken and not backing down pisses some people off (not that I GAF!). IRL at least I am generally liked. I'm easy to chat to.
That’s why we were semi engaged yesterday
Because I don't back down?
Yes, your tenacity was something that always attracted me to you, I fondly remember the times after we had played that you would say to me “why are you like this” before I fell asleep "
After the 30 seconds of sex?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I imagine being outspoken and not backing down pisses some people off (not that I GAF!). IRL at least I am generally liked. I'm easy to chat to.
That’s why we were semi engaged yesterday
Because I don't back down?
Yes, your tenacity was something that always attracted me to you, I fondly remember the times after we had played that you would say to me “why are you like this” before I fell asleep
After the 30 seconds of sex? "
Oh good, I’m glad you remember too, but as I told you on our first date in McDonalds, I’ve taken you here so you get used to disappointing you early on |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I imagine being outspoken and not backing down pisses some people off (not that I GAF!). IRL at least I am generally liked. I'm easy to chat to.
That’s why we were semi engaged yesterday
Because I don't back down?
Yes, your tenacity was something that always attracted me to you, I fondly remember the times after we had played that you would say to me “why are you like this” before I fell asleep
After the 30 seconds of sex?
Oh good, I’m glad you remember too, but as I told you on our first date in McDonalds, I’ve taken you here so you get used to disappointing you early on "
And thus were my twenties destroyed...sad times. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I imagine being outspoken and not backing down pisses some people off (not that I GAF!). IRL at least I am generally liked. I'm easy to chat to.
That’s why we were semi engaged yesterday
Because I don't back down?
Yes, your tenacity was something that always attracted me to you, I fondly remember the times after we had played that you would say to me “why are you like this” before I fell asleep
After the 30 seconds of sex?
Oh good, I’m glad you remember too, but as I told you on our first date in McDonalds, I’ve taken you here so you get used to disappointing you early on
And thus were my twenties destroyed...sad times."
Well you’re 50s are looking up, if you fancy me destroying you (or them) then just let me know  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I imagine being outspoken and not backing down pisses some people off (not that I GAF!). IRL at least I am generally liked. I'm easy to chat to.
That’s why we were semi engaged yesterday
Because I don't back down?
Yes, your tenacity was something that always attracted me to you, I fondly remember the times after we had played that you would say to me “why are you like this” before I fell asleep
After the 30 seconds of sex?
Oh good, I’m glad you remember too, but as I told you on our first date in McDonalds, I’ve taken you here so you get used to disappointing you early on
And thus were my twenties destroyed...sad times.
Well you’re 50s are looking up, if you fancy me destroying you (or them) then just let me know "
It is somewhat ironic that my ex-fiancé can't message me... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I imagine being outspoken and not backing down pisses some people off (not that I GAF!). IRL at least I am generally liked. I'm easy to chat to.
That’s why we were semi engaged yesterday
Because I don't back down?
Yes, your tenacity was something that always attracted me to you, I fondly remember the times after we had played that you would say to me “why are you like this” before I fell asleep
After the 30 seconds of sex?
Oh good, I’m glad you remember too, but as I told you on our first date in McDonalds, I’ve taken you here so you get used to disappointing you early on
And thus were my twenties destroyed...sad times.
Well you’re 50s are looking up, if you fancy me destroying you (or them) then just let me know
It is somewhat ironic that my ex-fiancé can't message me... "
I know! That’s why you should message me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I imagine being outspoken and not backing down pisses some people off (not that I GAF!). IRL at least I am generally liked. I'm easy to chat to.
That’s why we were semi engaged yesterday
Because I don't back down?
Yes, your tenacity was something that always attracted me to you, I fondly remember the times after we had played that you would say to me “why are you like this” before I fell asleep
After the 30 seconds of sex?
Oh good, I’m glad you remember too, but as I told you on our first date in McDonalds, I’ve taken you here so you get used to disappointing you early on
And thus were my twenties destroyed...sad times.
Well you’re 50s are looking up, if you fancy me destroying you (or them) then just let me know
It is somewhat ironic that my ex-fiancé can't message me...
I know! That’s why you should message me "
You're still too young... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I imagine being outspoken and not backing down pisses some people off (not that I GAF!). IRL at least I am generally liked. I'm easy to chat to.
That’s why we were semi engaged yesterday
Because I don't back down?
Yes, your tenacity was something that always attracted me to you, I fondly remember the times after we had played that you would say to me “why are you like this” before I fell asleep
After the 30 seconds of sex?
Oh good, I’m glad you remember too, but as I told you on our first date in McDonalds, I’ve taken you here so you get used to disappointing you early on
And thus were my twenties destroyed...sad times.
Well you’re 50s are looking up, if you fancy me destroying you (or them) then just let me know
It is somewhat ironic that my ex-fiancé can't message me...
I know! That’s why you should message me
You're still too young..."
That’s exactly what you said to me when you were leaving, well that and cockwomble |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I imagine being outspoken and not backing down pisses some people off (not that I GAF!). IRL at least I am generally liked. I'm easy to chat to. "
I think these are attractive and essential qualities x |
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Don't know....don't care.
We don't set out to be offensive, annoying or dickish, but by the same token we also don't follow the crowd, or nod along with the majority just to "fit in", take us as you find us, and you'll usually find that we are smashing, lovely people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not bothered if people like me or not that goes for in life as well as online if you like me, great. If you don't then that's great too because the feeling is mutual |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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I'm (he) liked, and described by others as modest, just non-offensive. There's two guys at work who don't like me their reasons are out of my control, I can't do anything to alter that but I honestly don't care, they don't mean enough to me to care. Family and friends are what matters to me anyone else's negative thoughts about me are water off a ducks back tbh. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think online I may come across as an arse but IRL people seem to like me, certainly in my work life I get plenty of positive feedback. Outside of that I have a very small circle of friends and they seem to care.
Frida, don't be daft
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And if you are, how does it make you feel?!
Happy hump day again to those celebrating "
I'm friendly, but I think many people don't like me. Probably because I'm no good at small talk, and although I have a wide range of interests, i generally have limited things I'm any good at talking about.
I love listening though. To stories and other peoples lives.
Oh and i have an atrocious memory, so unless its in diary I'll forget to ask about stuff.
Either that or I'm just an utter dick and don't realise it. |
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Here I don't think I'm actively disliked any more than I'm actively liked!
In the real world I tend to be liked a lot more than I think. I find myself funny as fuck but a bit annoying, so whenever I left a job (which happens a lot - I was a contractor for years) I'd be really surprised by the people who wanted to keep in touch and who valued my company.
Of course it's possible that as soon as my back was turned they were all calling me fit to burn, but I think I'm generally fairly likeable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In real life, easy going, friendly and sociable.
On here, people probably think Im a twat because I dont subscribe to the forum gang mentality.
And I dont care one bit about that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I imagine being outspoken and not backing down pisses some people off (not that I GAF!). IRL at least I am generally liked. I'm easy to chat to.
That’s why we were semi engaged yesterday
Because I don't back down?
Yes, your tenacity was something that always attracted me to you, I fondly remember the times after we had played that you would say to me “why are you like this” before I fell asleep
After the 30 seconds of sex?
Oh good, I’m glad you remember too, but as I told you on our first date in McDonalds, I’ve taken you here so you get used to disappointing you early on
And thus were my twenties destroyed...sad times.
Well you’re 50s are looking up, if you fancy me destroying you (or them) then just let me know
It is somewhat ironic that my ex-fiancé can't message me...
I know! That’s why you should message me
You're still too young...
That’s exactly what you said to me when you were leaving, well that and cockwomble "
Memories... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think it's probably a mixed bag, on here and in the real world. Not fussed either way. I know in my work places I'm rather disliked by many peers, that really doesn't bother me though, as I am there for patients/residents first and foremost. |
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