We'll never understand why people feel the need to mention that they are "professional". It's completely irrelevant to swinging and it's just a load of self proclaimed bollocks!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Single man reveal yourself

Sorry OP I couldn’t resist

You first off need a profile that speaks to couples. Then remember that there is 2 people on that couple who both have a say in who joins them

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Had a play about any better I genially want to play with a couple

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By *iss KinkWoman over a year ago

North West

Your photos are not flattering and sounds like your married can only meet daytimes. That will put a lot off

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By *exy Black JenWoman over a year ago

London/Eastbourne weekends

Sorry but..you're only around during the day and l suspect most couples have a preference for after work, weekends. Also your pics could be more flattering, different angles. Say more about yourself..also as anyone will tell you, couples get a LOT of messages, so yours needs to stand out?..hope that helps..

Best Wishes..

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By *aiseiMan over a year ago

Birmingham

Hopefully all this comes across as constructive criticism, that’s certainly the intended spirit….

1) Yep, agree with the ‘professional’ part as already mentioned. Get rid. This is Fab, not LinkedIn.

2) It’s ‘whether’, not ‘weather’. You can and will be ignored by some people based on spelling and grammar.

3) Don’t say that you ‘hope you can help’ with someone’s fantasies; it’s way too passive. We fellas outnumber women and couple about 100:1. If you’re going to be specific about something, be positive about it (but not cocky by the same measure).

4) Your self descriptions read a bit like a list of features on a car….’this, this, that’. I appreciate that might sound harsh but the few seconds you’ll have to grab someone’s attention need to be used. Work in some humour or if that’s not your thing, try to think of another creative way to sell yourself.

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By *allySlinkyWoman over a year ago

Leeds

It will be hard to find meets when you can only meet daytimes and can't accommodate. Your profile starts DILTF 40 but then says you are 42. It took me a while to work out what DILTF means. I think you might be better not mentioning it. You pics are all very similar and if I am being honest the long pubic hair would put me off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thanks everyone I will have a move about. Hopefully get to meet a couple. Happy Fabing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Tell people what you want. Blokes are not really able to sell themselves unless you're something special.

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By *opsy RogersWoman over a year ago

London

Your profile is perfect, it tells me everything I need to know.

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By *iss KinkWoman over a year ago

North West

You’ve have now posted about being in a sexless marriage so no one will take you seriously now op

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