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over a year ago
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Do you think that you can get Desensitised with swinging in the sense that things are no longer fantasies
Not feeling that way just yet but do sometimes wonder about it
I suppose we keep finding new kinks as we go along. |
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"Do you think that you can get Desensitised with swinging in the sense that things are no longer fantasies
Not feeling that way just yet but do sometimes wonder about it
I suppose we keep finding new kinks as we go along."
Same thing, we started very cautiously but now want different things |
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over a year ago
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I find people exciting, this is why I say what I say on my profile.
I’m not looking just to complete a tick list, so thinking of fulfilling a fantasy with them, will always be exiting.
A threesome for the sake of it or meeting a woman for rough sex sounds boring even to me, but the people that are hot and talk to me have enticed me to get exited. 
Does that explain it?
Either way. I’m in  |
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I think we can get desensitised to most things.
People who live in beautiful areas don't notice the beauty after a while, it simply becomes where they live and things they pass by daily. It's only when they stop to appreciate that they see the true beauty again.
People in abusive relationships become desensitised to the severity of the abuse because it's normalised.
People on here become desensitised to the fact that there's a human being at the other end of the profile and don't respect each other as people.
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As someone who doesn't have and never has had fantasies it would be difficult to become desensitised in that regard.
I have seen a lot of people though say they have lost their mojo over the last couple of years which I think has more to do with having different priorities in recent times. |
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I have also thought the same. I am still fairly new to the scene and having a great time. Have experienced far more than I would have imagined i would, but I do keep widening the posts with my fantasies. |
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I think you can become aclimitised to it, but it's the energy and connection that makes it exciting.
Someone can run through the top fantasies on your list, but it may not be as good as the right person doing the every day... like handcuffs and spankers  |
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"Do you think that you can get Desensitised with swinging in the sense that things are no longer fantasies
Not feeling that way just yet but do sometimes wonder about it
I suppose we keep finding new kinks as we go along."
No, it's always exciting to meet and play with others... especially if a very good meet (they do happen) or lasting naughty friendship is forming. We could not understand how we could become desensitised to something so wonderful and exciting |
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Interesting idea.. I think that certain aspects dull.. And lose excitement over time. But then as you go along, you find new things to do.. And for us, the idea of doing things is still a turn on. I think there is definitely a case for less-is-more, and quality over quantity.. |
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