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New to fab. All a big rabbit hole and looking for pointers
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Only had 1 serious relationship for a very long time and now it's come to an end. Never did the dating scene. Never dated another women and never sexually explored my sexual side. Was married to a black girl so that's what I'm drawn to but have little experience in actually meeting people. Ant pointers on fab for getting to meet people. Probably a rare thing to find a guy from 17 now 36 with one partner so throughout my late teens / all 20's and most of my 30's. Made my peo pic and explained myself as best I can but seem to get hit on by mainly guys. TIA |
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"There's nothing to see of here. Lips only. Got asked a lot for hard pics and went though a home video and cut out anything that wasn't me "
It's still distributing porn without the person permission..
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Having realistic expectations is important here, as it prevents disappointment between reality and inflated dreams. Single men have a work hard to establish themselves, using the site smartly. Typically it means that your public face must sell you with maximum leverage. Thus profiles and interactions with others must be the inviting shop window and sales effort. There are lots of posts with tips from others, discussing how to up the value of your profile and first messages. Read them and see if there are things that could apply to and help you.
Get to socials and clubs, as your attractive looks will be inviting to others.
Welcome to the forum - this is another area where positive interaction with others is valuable too. |
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