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"Yes you can. People talking to you is 100% down to you.
How do you mean? I'm not being rude but is it really 100% down to him?"
Yes. Other people may have experienced different but based on our experience we would and have talked to anyone who’s well presented and can hold a conversation. Having sex with them is a completely different matter but he only asked about conversation. |
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"Yes you can. People talking to you is 100% down to you.
How do you mean? I'm not being rude but is it really 100% down to him?
Yes. Other people may have experienced different but based on our experience we would and have talked to anyone who’s well presented and can hold a conversation. Having sex with them is a completely different matter but he only asked about conversation."
Oh right I understand, thank you. |
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"Yes you can. People talking to you is 100% down to you.
How do you mean? I'm not being rude but is it really 100% down to him?
Yes. Other people may have experienced different but based on our experience we would and have talked to anyone who’s well presented and can hold a conversation. Having sex with them is a completely different matter but he only asked about conversation.
Oh right I understand, thank you."
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"Yes you can. People talking to you is 100% down to you.
How do you mean? I'm not being rude but is it really 100% down to him?"
That was my experience. If I didn’t approach anyone, I would have no interaction. The reason why I find it hard to recommend to a single guy who might already feel out of his depth before he goes.
You gotta have confidence, and be ready to be in line to talk to the few ‘none single blokes’ there.  
*just my opinion and it means nothing |
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"Yes you can. People talking to you is 100% down to you.
How do you mean? I'm not being rude but is it really 100% down to him?
That was my experience. If I didn’t approach anyone, I would have no interaction. The reason why I find it hard to recommend to a single guy who might already feel out of his depth before he goes.
You gotta have confidence, and be ready to be in line to talk to the few ‘none single blokes’ there.
*just my opinion and it means nothing "
Thinking about it I can imagine that it would be so.
We have found that as an older couple we have be prepared to be the ones to make the effort at socials etc. People with notable exceptions and present company excepted, tend to only really engage with the ones they want to have sex with. |
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"Yes you can. People talking to you is 100% down to you.
How do you mean? I'm not being rude but is it really 100% down to him?
That was my experience. If I didn’t approach anyone, I would have no interaction. The reason why I find it hard to recommend to a single guy who might already feel out of his depth before he goes.
You gotta have confidence, and be ready to be in line to talk to the few ‘none single blokes’ there.
*just my opinion and it means nothing "
The best way of looking at it is single women and couples are there to be approached. Most will at least talk to you a bit even if they aren’t interested. If people see you talking to others you instantly look more interesting so just sit in the bar area and try and strike up conversation with anyone, not just the people you find attractive. |
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As those above have said, treat it as a social. Make an effort to present yourself well and be proactive and engaging in conversation. Don't be 'pushy' or expect a good conversation to lead to more. All common sense and decent behaviour really. |
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"Yes you can. People talking to you is 100% down to you.
How do you mean? I'm not being rude but is it really 100% down to him?
That was my experience. If I didn’t approach anyone, I would have no interaction. The reason why I find it hard to recommend to a single guy who might already feel out of his depth before he goes.
You gotta have confidence, and be ready to be in line to talk to the few ‘none single blokes’ there.
*just my opinion and it means nothing
The best way of looking at it is single women and couples are there to be approached. Most will at least talk to you a bit even if they aren’t interested. If people see you talking to others you instantly look more interesting so just sit in the bar area and try and strike up conversation with anyone, not just the people you find attractive."
Wait…. Why are women and couples there to be approached? 
The second part I understand, that’s attractive for me. Someone who looks friendly and approachable. |
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"Yes you can. People talking to you is 100% down to you.
How do you mean? I'm not being rude but is it really 100% down to him?
That was my experience. If I didn’t approach anyone, I would have no interaction. The reason why I find it hard to recommend to a single guy who might already feel out of his depth before he goes.
You gotta have confidence, and be ready to be in line to talk to the few ‘none single blokes’ there.
*just my opinion and it means nothing
The best way of looking at it is single women and couples are there to be approached. Most will at least talk to you a bit even if they aren’t interested. If people see you talking to others you instantly look more interesting so just sit in the bar area and try and strike up conversation with anyone, not just the people you find attractive.
Wait…. Why are women and couples there to be approached?
The second part I understand, that’s attractive for me. Someone who looks friendly and approachable. "
Obviously I know some will only be playing with each other or have prearranged meets but the rest are there to meet people. |
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"Above. *adding- Shouldn’t a man feel he is there to be approached too? "
Yes but this is advice for a straight single male. He’s probably not wanting to approach other single men. |
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"Above. *adding- Shouldn’t a man feel he is there to be approached too?
Yes but this is advice for a straight single male. He’s probably not wanting to approach other single men."
But couldn't couples or women approach single men? We don't go to clubs is why I'm asking, is there an unwritten rule? |
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"Above. *adding- Shouldn’t a man feel he is there to be approached too?
Yes but this is advice for a straight single male. He’s probably not wanting to approach other single men.
But couldn't couples or women approach single men? We don't go to clubs is why I'm asking, is there an unwritten rule?"
Yes and some do but if I gave that advice to a single man he might go and wait to be approached which will more than likely result in a disappointing night. |
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"Above. *adding- Shouldn’t a man feel he is there to be approached too?
Yes but this is advice for a straight single male. He’s probably not wanting to approach other single men.
But couldn't couples or women approach single men? We don't go to clubs is why I'm asking, is there an unwritten rule?
Yes and some do but if I gave that advice to a single man he might go and wait to be approached which will more than likely result in a disappointing night."
That right. As on here, there are more men than anyone else. So there’s that ‘get in first’ type attitude. And then you find your in a que, or worse. Wait and never be approached. 
Anyway. Just wanted to give my view. As I said, personal view only and not based on any other research. |
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"Above. *adding- Shouldn’t a man feel he is there to be approached too?
Yes but this is advice for a straight single male. He’s probably not wanting to approach other single men.
But couldn't couples or women approach single men? We don't go to clubs is why I'm asking, is there an unwritten rule?
Yes and some do but if I gave that advice to a single man he might go and wait to be approached which will more than likely result in a disappointing night."
Got it.
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