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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I've seen several profiles with quite bitter negative comments about bi guys, saying they should not be on here and to stick to fabguys site.

Clearly, they haven't understood that BI means a guy likes cock and cunt. So a swingers site where both men and women participate is appropriate not inappropriate.

Many bi guys are formerly straight married guys who wifes are no longer interested in sex and have discovered that sex fun with other guys is easier to find with less issues than other women.

100% gay guys are not interested in women so wouldn't masquerade as bi.

So ladies, don't dismiss bi guys..you could be missing out on some genuinely nice people and nice cocks too.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Where have you seen this

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex

Women generally know what they want. It's best to accept that and stick to the women you're compatible with

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I never knew that men only turned bisexual because women won't fuck them. Every day's a school day.

They should be on Fabguys as there's no chance women will fuck them so pointless being on here.

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By * and R cple4Couple  over a year ago

swansea

We’ve not seen any bitter or negative profiles .We’ve seen profiles that say no bi men and that’s their preference and it’s totally fine to have 1 .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If some women/ straight couples do not want bi men that is up to them. I have seen a surprising number of bi men on here saying no gay men, some are rude on their profiles about it. But who cares?

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By *ea monkeyMan  over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Is that the reason why guys are bi?

If that’s the case then no wonder people show antipathy towards us!

Just for the record; I’m not into guys because it’s easier, I’m into guys because I’m attracted to them.

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By *izzy.Woman  over a year ago

Stoke area

I can't say I've seen any bitter or negative comments about bi guys. But people are entitled to have preferences. Plenty of women and couples are happy to play with bi guys, check out posts about MMF threesomes and you'll see that.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I don't dismiss bi guys but saying that men are bi because women have more issues isn't helping your case!

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By *ora the explorerWoman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Not seen this

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan  over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Personally I've found the exact opposite but it's different for everyone I suppose.

Good luck

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By *affeine DuskMan  over a year ago

Caerphilly


"Many bi guys are formerly straight married guys who wifes are no longer interested in sex and have discovered that sex fun with other guys is easier to find with less issues than other women. "

Nope.

Put all that in the bin.

Nope.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I haven’t seen this but I have seen a lot of guys listed as straight who then turn out to be bi

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By *phrodite_AdonisCouple  over a year ago

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We’re only looking for bi guys Everyone is welcome here as long as they’re respectful of others and their preferences

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By *acey_RedWoman  over a year ago

Liverpool


"Many bi guys are formerly straight married guys who wifes are no longer interested in sex and have discovered that sex fun with other guys is easier to find with less issues than other women.

Nope.

Put all that in the bin.

Nope.

"

Agreed. I have no issues with meeting bi guys but I do have issues with this insinuation and if anything comments like this just feed others biphobia.

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By *ora the explorerWoman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I haven’t seen this but I have seen a lot of guys listed as straight who then turn out to be bi "

Yeah me too

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By *rincess peachWoman  over a year ago

shits creek

I'm happy to miss out on a nice cock if the owner of said member doesn't meet my preferences.

Oh, and that's coming from someone who isn't phased by sexuality and has met plenty of bi men.

We're talking sex here. You're wanting people to change their sexual preferences to suit your agenda and the plight of the bi man.

I could understand you having issue if the plight was something on a humanity level, but its sex. Some folk choose their partners very very specifically, others less so but they decide based on whatever factor matters to them. You can't tell them what matters to them.

Damn, there's probably people in this world that only fuck toilet roll tubes coz that's their thing. Not up to anyone to tell them they're wrong. If that's how they feel comfortable doing sex good for them.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Best to find a bi MF couple, or a domme F. Alternatively just stick with guys

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

By this train of thought OP I should of turned bi many years ago before I became single again.

Oh hang on I’m not attracted to guys…

But then it’s easier? What a dilemma

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By *heGigglersCouple  over a year ago

Northwich (just visiting)


"Many bi guys are formerly straight married guys who wifes are no longer interested in sex and have discovered that sex fun with other guys is easier to find with less issues than other women.

Nope.

Put all that in the bin.

Nope.

"

Yep, straight in the bin!!

We are only looking for Bi guys, but definitely not ones with an "it's just easier" or "I don't mind sucking dick" attitude

Yuck, just yuck!!

Be open and honest about who you are and what you want and you will likely get much better responses

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By *hesblokeMan  over a year ago

Derbyshire village

If folk don't want bi guys, it just means that you should move on from that profile - whatever their reasons are.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Some Bi gay and fabstraight guys need to give their heads a wobble.

On here, fabguys and grindr there are loads of pushy ignorant and abusive men, men who either don't understand or respect barriers, consent or preferences.

I’ve just had a guy on grindr send 15 photos then asked for my pics in the most child like txt speak.

Then threaten me with violence and claims he kickboxes,when i replied "not interested"

This is not the first time either.

He blocked me when i offered to book a ring

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Someone doesn’t wanna meet me because I’m bisexual? Fine, I see no dramas in that.

There’s “hate” posted about bisexual men? I rarely see it. But again, it’s easy to ignore and move on from, no dramas.

Channel your energy towards those that include you, rather than exclude, you’ll probably have a happier Fab’ existence.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I can't say I've seen any bitter or negative comments about bi guys. But people are entitled to have preferences. Plenty of women and couples are happy to play with bi guys, check out posts about MMF threesomes and you'll see that. "

"Im glad im not bi-sexual, I couldnt stand being rejected by men as well as women!"

-Bernard Manning.

Seriously though I would say 90% of guys that contact me have "straight" on their profile, and ive met couples who didnt want reviews left as they fear being castigated by other couples.

Just be yourself ,you will be found if others are looking for the same as you.

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By *host63Man  over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

If anything I have seen more profile that look for specificly bi guys so I don't know where you have seen this.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

so a bi guy is only bi because he cant get with women ??? wow .. however there is some truth in this with some fab bi guys who only turn to men for relief you hear it all the time guys saying no im str8 i only did that for relief ..oh ok

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I never knew that men only turned bisexual because women won't fuck them. Every day's a school day.

They should be on Fabguys as there's no chance women will fuck them so pointless being on here. "

Sounds as if you've not read my initial post properly or misinterpreted it. There are also bi guys and Tvs on here wanting to meet other bi guys and other TVs. Fabswingers isn't just about meeting women.

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By *eroLondonMan  over a year ago

Covent Garden

You're pretty fly for a bi guy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"so a bi guy is only bi because he cant get with women ??? wow .. however there is some truth in this with some fab bi guys who only turn to men for relief you hear it all the time guys saying no im str8 i only did that for relief ..oh ok

"

It seems you have misread my initial post. No where did I say bi guys are only bi because they can't get women. But the bit about bi married guys and wife's is very common and mentioned a lot. I'm divorced by the way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"If anything I have seen more profile that look for specificly bi guys so I don't know where you have seen this.

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Try searching for couples and singkr women.. it's often specificaly mentioned ie no bi guys.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Why do you care what people say? Everyone deserved happiness. If people disagree with your happiness they are not worth worrying about

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"We’re only looking for bi guys Everyone is welcome here as long as they’re respectful of others and their preferences "

Good to know

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Why do you care what people say? Everyone deserved happiness. If people disagree with your happiness they are not worth worrying about "

Just pointing out they're misguided. Mind I don't expect that will change. Some people think Boris Johnson isn't an arsehole or so I've heard.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS  over a year ago

chichester


"I can't say I've seen any bitter or negative comments about bi guys. But people are entitled to have preferences. Plenty of women and couples are happy to play with bi guys, check out posts about MMF threesomes and you'll see that.

"Im glad im not bi-sexual, I couldnt stand being rejected by men as well as women!"

-Bernard Manning.

Seriously though I would say 90% of guys that contact me have "straight" on their profile, and ive met couples who didnt want reviews left as they fear being castigated by other couples.

Just be yourself ,you will be found if others are looking for the same as you. "

Totally this with the review / veri mark. I find it rather entertaining and let them know at meet my thoughts on that Part

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why do you care what people say? Everyone deserved happiness. If people disagree with your happiness they are not worth worrying about

Just pointing out they're misguided. Mind I don't expect that will change. Some people think Boris Johnson isn't an arsehole or so I've heard. "

People voted for him so the public need to take some responsibility for it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why do you care what people say? Everyone deserved happiness. If people disagree with your happiness they are not worth worrying about

Just pointing out they're misguided. Mind I don't expect that will change. Some people think Boris Johnson isn't an arsehole or so I've heard.

People voted for him so the public need to take some responsibility for it"

People didn't vote him PM. That's not how it works.

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By *harpDressed ManMan  over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"so a bi guy is only bi because he cant get with women ??? wow .. however there is some truth in this with some fab bi guys who only turn to men for relief you hear it all the time guys saying no im str8 i only did that for relief ..oh ok

It seems you have misread my initial post. No where did I say bi guys are only bi because they can't get women. But the bit about bi married guys and wife's is very common and mentioned a lot. I'm divorced by the way."

Maybe you mis-wrote it then. Go and have another look at ALL the people that replied, not just the selected handful that you've just replied to.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"so a bi guy is only bi because he cant get with women ??? wow .. however there is some truth in this with some fab bi guys who only turn to men for relief you hear it all the time guys saying no im str8 i only did that for relief ..oh ok

It seems you have misread my initial post. No where did I say bi guys are only bi because they can't get women. But the bit about bi married guys and wife's is very common and mentioned a lot. I'm divorced by the way."

I don't think anyone else on the thread (including some bi guys) agreed with you about married guys.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why do you care what people say? Everyone deserved happiness. If people disagree with your happiness they are not worth worrying about

Just pointing out they're misguided. Mind I don't expect that will change. Some people think Boris Johnson isn't an arsehole or so I've heard.

People voted for him so the public need to take some responsibility for it

People didn't vote him PM. That's not how it works. "

Lol he was the leader of the party who people voted for. So in essence voted for him. In turn means responsibility has to shared. It’s a democracy so everyone has a vote.

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By *atfuckerbristolMan  over a year ago

Wells

Profiles which say ‘No…..’ whatever are useful. It stops us all wasting time messaging people we’re just not going to click with.

You could argue that sometimes they’re racist, ableist, homophobic or whatever - but it’s actually great to know these things up front, right?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why do you care what people say? Everyone deserved happiness. If people disagree with your happiness they are not worth worrying about

Just pointing out they're misguided. Mind I don't expect that will change. Some people think Boris Johnson isn't an arsehole or so I've heard.

People voted for him so the public need to take some responsibility for it

People didn't vote him PM. That's not how it works.

Lol he was the leader of the party who people voted for. So in essence voted for him. In turn means responsibility has to shared. It’s a democracy so everyone has a vote. "

I disagree. The public did not vote for Boris to be leader. That's all down to the party members.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why do you care what people say? Everyone deserved happiness. If people disagree with your happiness they are not worth worrying about

Just pointing out they're misguided. Mind I don't expect that will change. Some people think Boris Johnson isn't an arsehole or so I've heard.

People voted for him so the public need to take some responsibility for it

People didn't vote him PM. That's not how it works.

Lol he was the leader of the party who people voted for. So in essence voted for him. In turn means responsibility has to shared. It’s a democracy so everyone has a vote.

I disagree. The public did not vote for Boris to be leader. That's all down to the party members. "

See a democracy

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By *atfuckerbristolMan  over a year ago

Wells


"Lol he was the leader of the party who people voted for. So in essence voted for him. In turn means responsibility has to shared. It’s a democracy so everyone has a vote. "

Only the people of Uxbridge & South Ruislip voted for or against him - in fact, I’m considering a move to that neck of the woods just so I can vote for someone other than him next time!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why do you care what people say? Everyone deserved happiness. If people disagree with your happiness they are not worth worrying about

Just pointing out they're misguided. Mind I don't expect that will change. Some people think Boris Johnson isn't an arsehole or so I've heard.

People voted for him so the public need to take some responsibility for it

People didn't vote him PM. That's not how it works.

Lol he was the leader of the party who people voted for. So in essence voted for him. In turn means responsibility has to shared. It’s a democracy so everyone has a vote.

I disagree. The public did not vote for Boris to be leader. That's all down to the party members.

See a democracy "

I don't deny it's a democrat. I'm just disagreeing with your assertion that the public voted for Boris. The public vote for their MP, not for their PM.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why do you care what people say? Everyone deserved happiness. If people disagree with your happiness they are not worth worrying about

Just pointing out they're misguided. Mind I don't expect that will change. Some people think Boris Johnson isn't an arsehole or so I've heard.

People voted for him so the public need to take some responsibility for it

People didn't vote him PM. That's not how it works.

Lol he was the leader of the party who people voted for. So in essence voted for him. In turn means responsibility has to shared. It’s a democracy so everyone has a vote.

I disagree. The public did not vote for Boris to be leader. That's all down to the party members.

See a democracy

I don't deny it's a democrat. I'm just disagreeing with your assertion that the public voted for Boris. The public vote for their MP, not for their PM. "

I’m not saying anything about him. It’s a hard job but the public vote for our elected MPs, everyone knows who is in charge before we vote. Responsibility has to lie with the public

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why do you care what people say? Everyone deserved happiness. If people disagree with your happiness they are not worth worrying about

Just pointing out they're misguided. Mind I don't expect that will change. Some people think Boris Johnson isn't an arsehole or so I've heard.

People voted for him so the public need to take some responsibility for it

People didn't vote him PM. That's not how it works.

Lol he was the leader of the party who people voted for. So in essence voted for him. In turn means responsibility has to shared. It’s a democracy so everyone has a vote.

I disagree. The public did not vote for Boris to be leader. That's all down to the party members.

See a democracy

I don't deny it's a democrat. I'm just disagreeing with your assertion that the public voted for Boris. The public vote for their MP, not for their PM.

I’m not saying anything about him. It’s a hard job but the public vote for our elected MPs, everyone knows who is in charge before we vote. Responsibility has to lie with the public "

"People voted for him so the public need to take some responsibility for it" is what you said and what I am replying to. And I still disagree with you. People last voted for their MP in December 2019 and thus the party they wanted to be in power. Since then Boris has...well he's lied to parliament over and over for a start. Why should the public take responsibility for that?

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple  over a year ago

Neath valley.


"I've seen several profiles with quite bitter negative comments about bi guys, saying they should not be on here and to stick to fabguys site.

Clearly, they haven't understood that BI means a guy likes cock and cunt. So a swingers site where both men and women participate is appropriate not inappropriate.

Many bi guys are formerly straight married guys who wifes are no longer interested in sex and have discovered that sex fun with other guys is easier to find with less issues than other women.

100% gay guys are not interested in women so wouldn't masquerade as bi.

So ladies, don't dismiss bi guys..you could be missing out on some genuinely nice people and nice cocks too. "

Sorry op thats a very twisted view. I have known i was bi since i was young and not when i stopped getting sex off my exwife this post is not going to do you any favours or turn cpls whoes preference is not for bi guys to turm pro bi guys. This is a swinging site for gods sake where nothing sexually is fixed or transparemt. With that attitude i think you had better stick to fab guys as you said guys are easier which is complete bollocks as i found guys can be as awkward as cpls and women alike. Its up to the individuals what their sexuality preference is. You cant make them change that but putting up a post to make them feel guilty. You are not helping yourself or other bi guys by creating this post as it comes across as bitterness towards the ones who do not want to meet you.

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By *JB1954Man  over a year ago

Reading

I am a straight male. State on profile not bi. Still get messages from males who say to try , meet up etc

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS  over a year ago

chichester


"I am a straight male. State on profile not bi. Still get messages from males who say to try , meet up etc "

Mate 90% of guys that message me say straight. I apply the system of simply viewing everyone’s profile as mostly not accurate in some shape

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I am a straight male. State on profile not bi. Still get messages from males who say to try , meet up etc

Mate 90% of guys that message me say straight. I apply the system of simply viewing everyone’s profile as mostly not accurate in some shape "

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By *tinerant scribeMan  over a year ago

County Durham

You have to respect people's preferences, so long as they would be good colleagues, neighbours, family to bisexual men.

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By *effJizzMan  over a year ago

Douglas


"I've seen several profiles with quite bitter negative comments about bi guys, saying they should not be on here and to stick to fabguys site.

Clearly, they haven't understood that BI means a guy likes cock and cunt. So a swingers site where both men and women participate is appropriate not inappropriate.

Many bi guys are formerly straight married guys who wifes are no longer interested in sex and have discovered that sex fun with other guys is easier to find with less issues than other women.

100% gay guys are not interested in women so wouldn't masquerade as bi.

So ladies, don't dismiss bi guys..you could be missing out on some genuinely nice people and nice cocks too. "

Nice one

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I never knew that men only turned bisexual because women won't fuck them. Every day's a school day.

They should be on Fabguys as there's no chance women will fuck them so pointless being on here. "

Mmm. What turns women bi, then? It's not like there has ever been a woman on here who couldn't get any man to fuck her.

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By *otsossieMan  over a year ago

local, but not too local

I’m so confused by this thread.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I am a straight male. State on profile not bi. Still get messages from males who say to try , meet up etc

Mate 90% of guys that message me say straight. I apply the system of simply viewing everyone’s profile as mostly not accurate in some shape "

I get straight males messaging me yet I dont believe Im listed as looking for them.

You are stunning btw

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I’m so confused by this thread. "

Yep. Complaints about peoples preferences. Madness.

Ive found as many MF couples stating "only bi men" as those stating "no bi men". Its helpful!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I am a straight male. State on profile not bi. Still get messages from males who say to try , meet up etc "

You can stop that with your mail filters.

I've never had mail from any guys, despite my extremely cute tushy.

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By *eneralPMan  over a year ago

other

This is an odd post. Slightly deranged… are you ok OP?!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I am a straight male. State on profile not bi. Still get messages from males who say to try , meet up etc

You can stop that with your mail filters.

I've never had mail from any guys, despite my extremely cute tushy."

Ah, brilliant, thank you.

Just hope theres no thread complaining about me changing the settings...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I've not read anything bitter towards bi guys on fab. I have read people's preference not being bi guys and that's completely their right

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By *iss_Cali_xxCouple  over a year ago

Herne Bay

I haven't seen this happening, but I'm not on here all the time I suppose. We're always looking for bi guys, however we only tend to find "fab bi" guys.

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By *JstarsoloWoman  over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley

I personally haven't seen any profiles slating bi guys, or women for that matter. I have met men who are bi and very nice they were too.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I never knew that men only turned bisexual because women won't fuck them. Every day's a school day.

They should be on Fabguys as there's no chance women will fuck them so pointless being on here. "

I know, it's as if genuinely feeling same /opposite sex attraction and affection isn't the reason we're bisexual,

it's only because women don't want to have sex with us.

Ironically, the amount of married sneak-arounds over on fab guys makes meeting anyone genuine quite difficult. Especially Gay men, as I'm automatically viewed with suspicion...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I personally haven't seen any profiles slating bi guys, or women for that matter. I have met men who are bi and very nice they were too."

Oh they're there believe me! Their loss, I'm hot stuff!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I’ve seen profiles saying ‘no bi guys’ maybe I’m being naive but why??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I never knew that men only turned bisexual because women won't fuck them. Every day's a school day.

They should be on Fabguys as there's no chance women will fuck them so pointless being on here.

I know, it's as if genuinely feeling same /opposite sex attraction and affection isn't the reason we're bisexual,

it's only because women don't want to have sex with us.

Ironically, the amount of married sneak-arounds over on fab guys makes meeting anyone genuine quite difficult. Especially Gay men, as I'm automatically viewed with suspicion... "

I don't believe that the OP is right about all bisexual men. Perhaps it's just his experience. All of the bi-men I know and have chatted to here genuinely have an attraction to men. I just as likely to be attracted to a bisexual man as I am to a straight one.

A few couples here have spoken of negative experiences with a bi guy which means they view them with suspicion.

Some people here have a negative view of bi guys because there is a stereotype that they're more likely to have STDs. I never knew this before I joined Fab and find it pretty shocking. Happy to be corrected by any bi-men if I've got this wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

What's going on bi's?

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By *annaBeStrongMan  over a year ago

wokingham

Just hide it. In my experience, most people looking for bi guys are aware of the stigma and don’t care if you have straight on your profile. The ones not looking for bi people won’t know. Win win

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Every now and then someone posts the same thing about a particular group they are in. They feel attacked, offended or disliked.

We're living in such hypersensitive era at the moment.

People don't hate others, they just have preferences which exclude your demographic.

If someone says something offensive just get on with your life.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just hide it. In my experience, most people looking for bi guys are aware of the stigma and don’t care if you have straight on your profile. The ones not looking for bi people won’t know. Win win "

Well yeh if someone's happy staying in the closet that's up to them...

But then again Gay, Lesbian and Bisexual activists in the seventies and eighties fought long and hard to achieve visibility and acceptance so personally I think you're setting us back forty years but hey...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Every now and then someone posts the same thing about a particular group they are in. They feel attacked, offended or disliked.

We're living in such hypersensitive era at the moment.

People don't hate others, they just have preferences which exclude your demographic.

If someone says something offensive just get on with your life."

If you'd ever been attacked and abused(both physically and verbally in my case) because of your sexuity you might understand why it's an issue for some. Just saying.

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By *annaBeStrongMan  over a year ago

wokingham


"Just hide it. In my experience, most people looking for bi guys are aware of the stigma and don’t care if you have straight on your profile. The ones not looking for bi people won’t know. Win win

Well yeh if someone's happy staying in the closet that's up to them...

But then again Gay, Lesbian and Bisexual activists in the seventies and eighties fought long and hard to achieve visibility and acceptance so personally I think you're setting us back forty years but hey... "

I think they fought for acceptance in the eyes of the law and society, you know, so they’d stop being imprisoned and chemically castrated. Not to get meets on a swinging website

But if I am, sorry guys

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Back then, they were fighting to beable to meet other gay and bi men, have sex, or relationships. A bit like here, really.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just hide it. In my experience, most people looking for bi guys are aware of the stigma and don’t care if you have straight on your profile. The ones not looking for bi people won’t know. Win win

Well yeh if someone's happy staying in the closet that's up to them...

But then again Gay, Lesbian and Bisexual activists in the seventies and eighties fought long and hard to achieve visibility and acceptance so personally I think you're setting us back forty years but hey...

I think they fought for acceptance in the eyes of the law and society, you know, so they’d stop being imprisoned and chemically castrated. Not to get meets on a swinging website

But if I am, sorry guys "

I'd emphasise your point "in the eyes of society"... Don't you feel you're feeding the stigma by doing what you do? Personally if I felt I had to lie about my Sexuality to someone just so they'd accept me then, to be honest I wouldn't want to meet that person.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I never knew that men only turned bisexual because women won't fuck them. Every day's a school day.

They should be on Fabguys as there's no chance women will fuck them so pointless being on here.

Mmm. What turns women bi, then? It's not like there has ever been a woman on here who couldn't get any man to fuck her. "

Bi women don't exist. They just play at being bi because men like to see women lick pussy.

Then the men fuck them. Cock rules.

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By *ustamanMan  over a year ago

weymouth

Oh dear, the ability of folks to plumb the depths of vitriol continually surprises me - it shouldn't but it does. I think I'll label my self as 'undecided' - that should upset everyone

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I never knew that men only turned bisexual because women won't fuck them. Every day's a school day.

They should be on Fabguys as there's no chance women will fuck them so pointless being on here.

Mmm. What turns women bi, then? It's not like there has ever been a woman on here who couldn't get any man to fuck her.

Bi women don't exist. They just play at being bi because men like to see women lick pussy.

Then the men fuck them. Cock rules. "

Some people think you're a serious person, you know.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I never knew that men only turned bisexual because women won't fuck them. Every day's a school day.

They should be on Fabguys as there's no chance women will fuck them so pointless being on here.

Mmm. What turns women bi, then? It's not like there has ever been a woman on here who couldn't get any man to fuck her.

Bi women don't exist. They just play at being bi because men like to see women lick pussy.

Then the men fuck them. Cock rules.

Some people think you're a serious person, you know. "

I know.

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By *omer47Man  over a year ago

leigh

So what about the women that are married and bi?,is that different then

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So what about the women that are married and bi?,is that different then "

Bisexual women don't exist. We've already established that...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I never knew that men only turned bisexual because women won't fuck them. Every day's a school day.

They should be on Fabguys as there's no chance women will fuck them so pointless being on here.

Mmm. What turns women bi, then? It's not like there has ever been a woman on here who couldn't get any man to fuck her.

Bi women don't exist. They just play at being bi because men like to see women lick pussy.

Then the men fuck them. Cock rules.

Some people think you're a serious person, you know.

I know. "

Scary

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By *un69-18Man  over a year ago

preston

Absolutely it’s for all our desires ! The fab guy site is gay only and the interaction ladies also enjoy from us Bisexual guys is mindblowing !

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By *AYENCouple  over a year ago

Lincolnshire

You might be able to blame your ex-wife for some things, perhaps many things, but definitely not your bisexuality!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Absolutely it’s for all our desires ! The fab guy site is gay only and the interaction ladies also enjoy from us Bisexual guys is mindblowing ! "

I'd have to agree with you there. I find the forum on FG to be literally only half as interesting because of the lack of female input. If it's was FabLGBT maybe it'd be a more inclusive online space

Again, ironically you still get loads of "sniffing the wife's knickers" and "dirty wife chat" threads. Really pisses all the Gay guys off and to be honest I can't blame them! I see those threads and I'm like "eeewww, creepy!" myself!

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By *jorkishMan  over a year ago

Seaforth


"You might be able to blame your ex-wife for some things, perhaps many things, but definitely not your bisexuality!

"

but they do constantly. Check out fab guys, I'm in a sexless marriage so I've turned to guys brigade lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You might be able to blame your ex-wife for some things, perhaps many things, but definitely not your bisexuality!

but they do constantly. Check out fab guys, I'm in a sexless marriage so I've turned to guys brigade lol"

Yep. And they're crap shags usually!

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