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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

... Seemingly obsessed with finding out whether women are getting any action? It's such a recurring theme in my messages... Sometimes it's clear they're just trying to make conversation but other times the question gets asked in a first message and I just think "hold up, that isn't really something I want to be discussing with a stranger...". Is it like, some innate primal need to know?

Not digging, just curious.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Maybe put your recent body count in your profile, then they won’t need to ask?

Sorted.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Coz they're nosy buggers

Seriously though I have no idea

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Here’s one that’s not bothered

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By *aptain Caveman41Man  over a year ago

Home

Doesn't bother me I just know you are getting more than me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I think men care about that shit because they really don’t like the idea of women being with multiple other partners. You know why! Unless they’re poly but if they were poly I don’t think they’d ask unless you were comfortable enough.

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By *agneto.Man  over a year ago

Bham

They want to see if you're desperate or have a fully booked calendar!

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By *a LunaWoman  over a year ago

South Wales

I think some think that if you’ve had action recently then they’ve more chance of maybe getting a bonk, than from someone who has dust covering their nether regions.

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

#notallmen

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

They are just trying to filter out the frigid ones.. standard.

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By *onkeynutWoman  over a year ago

somewhere

Ugh yes I hate the question “had any meets lately?”

I usually just ignore the question, because I don’t care when/who/how they have shagged, why do they care how much action I have?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I find the same with the constant “do you squirt?” questions (also sometimes in the first message ).

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By *erces LetiferMan  over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

Erm... yeah, no. I got nothin', sorry. Can't say it would ever be something I would think to ask or message about. At least not without some kind of prompt or lead-in given first.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Not got a clue but i when I get asked this I just say ooo 5 minutes ago seconds are available yet to have someone take me up on it ha ha

One off these days it’s going to backfire and I going to need to run around like crazy getting ready

Me personally it’s none off my business to the who when ware and how and why off that question so never ask it

Think that question should only be reserved for someone sinfict other if they in a relationship otherwise it’s not not my place

Couldn’t care if it was 10 minutes ago 3 hours ago 2 days ago 2 weeks or 2 years

All that matters to me is the time that person spends with me

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By *urls and DressesWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere near here

I’ve never understood this question either, asked more than it’s not. I don’t kiss and tell, I brush off the question, it’s my business, not theirs

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

At the moment I'm only getting the question in the context of "are you meeting". Which, fair.

(No, I'm not)

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By *adyBugsWoman  over a year ago

cognito


"Maybe put your recent body count in your profile, then they won’t need to ask?

Sorted."

Like “I have 17 buried under the patio”?

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By *la87Man  over a year ago

acton

Guessing, but it's because they want to start conversation and probably weren't having a lot of success with 'hi how are you'

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"#notallmen"

"seemingly"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"... Seemingly obsessed with finding out whether women are getting any action? It's such a recurring theme in my messages... Sometimes it's clear they're just trying to make conversation but other times the question gets asked in a first message and I just think "hold up, that isn't really something I want to be discussing with a stranger...". Is it like, some innate primal need to know?

Not digging, just curious. "

Thats all very well. But are you getting any action? Well, are you?????

*shines spotlight in ops eyes....

Winston

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If you say you're shagging loads of men they can have a wank about it. There's also a chance you will fuck them.

If you say you haven't had a meet in ages they can offer a sympathy shag.

Either way they assume it's guaranteed sex.

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"#notallmen

"seemingly" "

Sorry, couldn't resist

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Guessing, but it's because they want to start conversation and probably weren't having a lot of success with 'hi how are you'"

Probably that too.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Maybe put your recent body count in your profile, then they won’t need to ask?

Sorted.

Like “I have 17 buried under the patio”?"

Has anyone requested a "currently occupied" feature on the site suggestions thread?

A graphic history would go along well too, maybe some live statistical analysis, performance metrics etc.

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By *agic.MMan  over a year ago

Orpington

"Why are ignorant, immature, uneducated MEN seemingly obsessed with finding out whether women are getting any action?"

Is this the question you were trying to ask?

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Maybe put your recent body count in your profile, then they won’t need to ask?

Sorted.

Like “I have 17 buried under the patio”?

Has anyone requested a "currently occupied" feature on the site suggestions thread?

A graphic history would go along well too, maybe some live statistical analysis, performance metrics etc. "

"This profile user is currently fucking, please leave a message after the beep"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"#notallmen

"seemingly"

Sorry, couldn't resist "

#imnotlikeotherguys

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By *vetteBondTV/TS  over a year ago

English Riviera

I've found that question is usually a prelude to wether they can have a 3some!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


""Why are ignorant, immature, uneducated MEN seemingly obsessed with finding out whether women are getting any action?"

Is this the question you were trying to ask?"

In a nutshell

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By *adyBugsWoman  over a year ago

cognito


"Maybe put your recent body count in your profile, then they won’t need to ask?

Sorted.

Like “I have 17 buried under the patio”?

Has anyone requested a "currently occupied" feature on the site suggestions thread?

A graphic history would go along well too, maybe some live statistical analysis, performance metrics etc.

"This profile user is currently fucking, please leave a message after the beep""

Green light for available & red for occupied?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Maybe put your recent body count in your profile, then they won’t need to ask?

Sorted.

Like “I have 17 buried under the patio”?

Has anyone requested a "currently occupied" feature on the site suggestions thread?

A graphic history would go along well too, maybe some live statistical analysis, performance metrics etc. "

Lots of peaks and troughs on my graphs

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Maybe put your recent body count in your profile, then they won’t need to ask?

Sorted.

Like “I have 17 buried under the patio”?

Has anyone requested a "currently occupied" feature on the site suggestions thread?

A graphic history would go along well too, maybe some live statistical analysis, performance metrics etc.

"This profile user is currently fucking, please leave a message after the beep"

Green light for available & red for occupied?"

Damn, explains why my trip to Amsterdam went tits up, thought it was the other way around

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By *ackformore100Man  over a year ago

Tin town


"#notallmen"

Indeed. In the Lawrence Berkley national labs is an electron microscope capable of resolutions down to half the width of a hydrogen atom.... If they used that microscope they would not be able to find my interest in how much sex you're having.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"#notallmen

Indeed. In the Lawrence Berkley national labs is an electron microscope capable of resolutions down to half the width of a hydrogen atom.... If they used that microscope they would not be able to find my interest in how much sex you're having. "

Aww, genuinely feel a bit disappointed

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"#notallmen

"seemingly"

Sorry, couldn't resist

#imnotlikeotherguys "

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By *sm265Woman  over a year ago

Shangri-la

I can never decide whether its because they think if you have plenty meets it will increase their chances (because they think it means you're easy/not fussy) or whether they're hoping you'll provide them with a detailed account of previous meets as want fodder.

I usually just ignore or block them.

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By *sm265Woman  over a year ago

Shangri-la


"I can never decide whether its because they think if you have plenty meets it will increase their chances (because they think it means you're easy/not fussy) or whether they're hoping you'll provide them with a detailed account of previous meets as want fodder.

I usually just ignore or block them."

Wank fodder even!

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By *.L.0460.Woman  over a year ago

Bognor Regis

I think there are a couple of reasons;

They want to hear the juicy details so they can have a wank,

They think that if you meet plenty of men, they're more likely to get a look-in,

Or they don't want to meet a woman who's been 'too active' & find it a turn-off!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I think there are a couple of reasons;

They want to hear the juicy details so they can have a wank,

They think that if you meet plenty of men, they're more likely to get a look-in,

Or they don't want to meet a woman who's been 'too active' & find it a turn-off!"

You've summed it up perfectly

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I think there are a couple of reasons;

They want to hear the juicy details so they can have a wank,

They think that if you meet plenty of men, they're more likely to get a look-in,

Or they don't want to meet a woman who's been 'too active' & find it a turn-off!

You've summed it up perfectly"

I concur

What are the chances that so many men are thinking in such unison though? I can't really think of a shared thought women might have in their approach on here.

Maybe "God, if I have to see one more leaky penis pic today..."

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Meh i dont care if u take the cocking

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Meh i dont care if u take the cocking "

True gent

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By *iscean_dreamMan  over a year ago

Llanelli

Can't say I've ever asked anyone if they're currently getting any

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Well, are you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Well, are you? "

#NotAllMenButDefinitelyThisMan

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Maybe put your recent body count in your profile, then they won’t need to ask?

Sorted.

Like “I have 17 buried under the patio”?"

One could assume this was said in jest

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By *oeofsussexMan  over a year ago

Eastbourne


"... Seemingly obsessed with finding out whether women are getting any action? It's such a recurring theme in my messages... Sometimes it's clear they're just trying to make conversation but other times the question gets asked in a first message and I just think "hold up, that isn't really something I want to be discussing with a stranger...". Is it like, some innate primal need to know?

Not digging, just curious. "

Well, it’s perfectly understandable that you won’t sleep tonight until you’ve had that burning question in your head answered as to whether or not I am getting any action! But I’m awfully sorry, I am just too tired tonight to tell you. I might tell you tomorrow if I have a good breakfast! Hope you can possibly manage to get a reasonable night’s sleep without knowing the answer. But it’s hard being me, knowing the whole world is fixated on knowing about my sex life! I’ve just got to keep you all guessing!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm pretty convinced no matter what men say on here it won't be right for the women on here.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I think men care about that shit because they really don’t like the idea of women being with multiple other partners. You know why! Unless they’re poly but if they were poly I don’t think they’d ask unless you were comfortable enough. "

Wtf are they doing on a swingers site then? Is is not the whole point of swinging to have multiple partners of many varieties. Seems an odd conclusion to draw. Then again many seem to use this as some for dating website as if they’re looking for ‘true love’. Always struck me as looking fir gold in a scrap metal yard!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm pretty convinced no matter what men say on here it won't be right for the women on here.

"

*Grabs popcorn *

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm pretty convinced no matter what men say on here it won't be right for the women on here.

*Grabs popcorn *"

Seen hornier nuns than most the women on here.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm pretty convinced no matter what men say on here it won't be right for the women on here.

*Grabs popcorn *"

It's hard to disprove a statement like that.

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By *oeofsussexMan  over a year ago

Eastbourne


"I'm pretty convinced no matter what men say on here it won't be right for the women on here.

*Grabs popcorn *"

Eaten mine already! Grabbing a second bag of popcorn and my fifth bottle of cider… oh, I mean port!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm pretty convinced no matter what men say on here it won't be right for the women on here.

*Grabs popcorn *

It's hard to disprove a statement like that."

*grabs phone charger *

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm pretty convinced no matter what men say on here it won't be right for the women on here.

*Grabs popcorn *

It's hard to disprove a statement like that.

*grabs phone charger *"

Let me have some of that popcorn, you'll see what I mean...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm pretty convinced no matter what men say on here it won't be right for the women on here.

*Grabs popcorn *

It's hard to disprove a statement like that.

*grabs phone charger *

Let me have some of that popcorn, you'll see what I mean... "

Respect the filters

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By *oeofsussexMan  over a year ago

Eastbourne


"I'm pretty convinced no matter what men say on here it won't be right for the women on here.

*Grabs popcorn *

It's hard to disprove a statement like that.

*grabs phone charger *

Let me have some of that popcorn, you'll see what I mean...

Respect the filters "

I’m afraid I have absolutely no filters on my popcorn!

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By *inky_couple2020Couple  over a year ago

North West


"I'm pretty convinced no matter what men say on here it won't be right for the women on here.

*Grabs popcorn *

It's hard to disprove a statement like that.

*grabs phone charger *

Let me have some of that popcorn, you'll see what I mean...

Respect the filters

I’m afraid I have absolutely no filters on my popcorn! "

*Provides a range of sieves*

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By *.L.0460.Woman  over a year ago

Bognor Regis


"I'm pretty convinced no matter what men say on here it won't be right for the women on here.

*Grabs popcorn *

Seen hornier nuns than most the women on here. "

Oh dear oh dear...did I just hear the feint *thud* of a dummy hitting the floor?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I'm pretty convinced no matter what men say on here it won't be right for the women on here.

"

I'm pretty convinced that SOME men on here see women as objects to be spoken to however they like, that need to put their entire sex lives on a plate for them to dissect. And when said woman dares say they're uncomfortable talking about something they get called too shy and frigid.

... Sound about right?

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By *haneportsMan  over a year ago

portsmouth


"Here’s one that’s not bothered "

Same, it’s your business.

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By *teveanddebsCouple  over a year ago

Norwich


"I think men care about that shit because they really don’t like the idea of women being with multiple other partners. You know why! Unless they’re poly but if they were poly I don’t think they’d ask unless you were comfortable enough.

Wtf are they doing on a swingers site then? Is is not the whole point of swinging to have multiple partners of many varieties. Seems an odd conclusion to draw. Then again many seem to use this as some for dating website as if they’re looking for ‘true love’. Always struck me as looking fir gold in a scrap metal yard! "

Quite a few of us have found gold on a swingers site

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

But are you getting any?

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By *teveanddebsCouple  over a year ago

Norwich


"I'm pretty convinced no matter what men say on here it won't be right for the women on here.

*Grabs popcorn *

Seen hornier nuns than most the women on here. "

So why are you wasting your time here then?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If I ask , it’s because I sort of like him and am testing the ground to see if he’s shagging about.

And I’d hate to know he’s shagging about

Which is very hypocritical of me lol I know but anyway … what was the question again?

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By *annaBeStrongMan  over a year ago

wokingham

[Removed by poster at 03/05/22 08:13:26]

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By *annaBeStrongMan  over a year ago

wokingham

They’re wanking. Don’t think so deeply into the random thoughts of the online man. Simple creatures. Your giving them way more credit than they deserve.

They are typing with one hand

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By *ora the explorerWoman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"They’re wanking. Don’t think so deeply into the random thoughts of the online man. Simple creatures. Your giving them way more credit than they deserve.

They are typing with one hand"

This was my first thought too

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It’s to work out how willing you are to talk dirty, if you willing to talk about partners, you may be willing to talk sex. Talk sex then possibly have sex, after all most of us are here for sex …… and stimulating conversation on hot topics such as this.

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By *anilla switchWoman  over a year ago

Hampshire

I reply to those kind of messages with a dick pic

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"... Seemingly obsessed with finding out whether women are getting any action? It's such a recurring theme in my messages... Sometimes it's clear they're just trying to make conversation but other times the question gets asked in a first message and I just think "hold up, that isn't really something I want to be discussing with a stranger...". Is it like, some innate primal need to know?

Not digging, just curious. "

Maybe there trying to work out the size of your backlog to see if it's worth the wait .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I reply to those kind of messages with a dick pic "

That's why you kept asking me to send them to you

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm pretty convinced no matter what men say on here it won't be right for the women on here.

I'm pretty convinced that SOME men on here see women as objects to be spoken to however they like, that need to put their entire sex lives on a plate for them to dissect. And when said woman dares say they're uncomfortable talking about something they get called too shy and frigid.

... Sound about right? "

Yep

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By *ustamanMan  over a year ago

weymouth

It's an unimaginative opening line

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Question:

‘Why are men?’

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By *r TriomanMan  over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

Bovered? not bovered!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm pretty convinced no matter what men say on here it won't be right for the women on here.

*Grabs popcorn *

Seen hornier nuns than most the women on here. "

Yeah we must be frigid because we don't want to fuck Dave in his van today at 3

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm pretty convinced no matter what men say on here it won't be right for the women on here.

*Grabs popcorn *

Seen hornier nuns than most the women on here. "

^ is upset that women don’t want to have sex with him

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By *avie65Man  over a year ago

In the west.


"I'm pretty convinced no matter what men say on here it won't be right for the women on here.

*Grabs popcorn *

Seen hornier nuns than most the women on here.

Yeah we must be frigid because we don't want to fuck Dave in his van today at 3 "

Eh eh, (strums fingers on the table)

P.S. I don't have a van.

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By *anilla switchWoman  over a year ago

Hampshire


"I reply to those kind of messages with a dick pic

That's why you kept asking me to send them to you "

**Busted**

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By *oelDorianMan  over a year ago

vanaheim

No ideas me and my partner on our couples profile get it constantly and not just from men we get it from couples too

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By *asty tatsyMan  over a year ago

london

We’re just such a curse

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By *irthandgirthMan  over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster


"... Seemingly obsessed with finding out whether women are getting any action? It's such a recurring theme in my messages... Sometimes it's clear they're just trying to make conversation but other times the question gets asked in a first message and I just think "hold up, that isn't really something I want to be discussing with a stranger...". Is it like, some innate primal need to know?

Not digging, just curious. "

They need to guage if you are free a week on Wednesday from 1300 to 1400 while the wife is at her hair appointment

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm pretty convinced no matter what men say on here it won't be right for the women on here.

*Grabs popcorn *

Seen hornier nuns than most the women on here.

Yeah we must be frigid because we don't want to fuck Dave in his van today at 3

Eh eh, (strums fingers on the table)

P.S. I don't have a van. "

I'm a frigid bitch. Don't even think about it!

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By *anilla switchWoman  over a year ago

Hampshire

Damn you men, be gone with you!

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By *asty tatsyMan  over a year ago

london


"Damn you men, be gone with you! "

Back to the shadows where we belong

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By *avie65Man  over a year ago

In the west.


"I'm pretty convinced no matter what men say on here it won't be right for the women on here.

*Grabs popcorn *

Seen hornier nuns than most the women on here.

Yeah we must be frigid because we don't want to fuck Dave in his van today at 3

Eh eh, (strums fingers on the table)

P.S. I don't have a van.

I'm a frigid bitch. Don't even think about it!"

Think about what?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm pretty convinced no matter what men say on here it won't be right for the women on here.

*Grabs popcorn *

Seen hornier nuns than most the women on here.

Yeah we must be frigid because we don't want to fuck Dave in his van today at 3

Eh eh, (strums fingers on the table)

P.S. I don't have a van.

I'm a frigid bitch. Don't even think about it!

Think about what? "

Vans

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By *avie65Man  over a year ago

In the west.


"I'm pretty convinced no matter what men say on here it won't be right for the women on here.

*Grabs popcorn *

Seen hornier nuns than most the women on here.

Yeah we must be frigid because we don't want to fuck Dave in his van today at 3

Eh eh, (strums fingers on the table)

P.S. I don't have a van.

I'm a frigid bitch. Don't even think about it!

Think about what?

Vans "

Ah. I prefer Converse.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm pretty convinced no matter what men say on here it won't be right for the women on here.

*Grabs popcorn *

Seen hornier nuns than most the women on here.

Yeah we must be frigid because we don't want to fuck Dave in his van today at 3

Eh eh, (strums fingers on the table)

P.S. I don't have a van.

I'm a frigid bitch. Don't even think about it!

Think about what?

Vans

Ah. I prefer Converse. "

Too right - they totally go with a sarong

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By *hisStagsVixenCouple  over a year ago

peterborough

I hate it when I get seemingly nice opening messages only to start a conversation and then Them want every detail of our last meet! What’s that all about?? I don’t want to share the details with you! Give me something that sparks my interest and you might find out what I get upto at a meet!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"We’re just such a curse "

Not too sure why some people are taking this personally tbh... Surely if people think it's acceptable to question my private life then I should be able to ask why..?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"They’re wanking. Don’t think so deeply into the random thoughts of the online man. Simple creatures. Your giving them way more credit than they deserve.

They are typing with one hand"

When in doubt, the answer is always "they're wanking"

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By *uke olovingmanMan  over a year ago

Gravesend

We're all standing in line with our dicks in our hands waiting for the summons to your boudoir

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I asked this exact question a few months back. Daily I was being asked “when was the last time you had sex?” etc etc and I couldn’t understand why.

Every man commented that they’d never asked anyone and had no interest. Still every day I’m asked about how much sex I have and how often.

The mind boggles.

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By *rincess peachWoman  over a year ago

shits creek


"I'm pretty convinced no matter what men say on here it won't be right for the women on here.

*Grabs popcorn *

Seen hornier nuns than most the women on here. "

And I've seen hornier squirrels than I have nuns. Never been invited to a convent where the nuns are, but once seen a pair of squirrels shagging in the park.

I'm sorry the women on this site haven't met your expectations. Maybe you should adjust said expectations.... or attitude

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By *JstarsoloWoman  over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley

I don't get this. Surely messages from strangers is only a prelude to stranger sex, which is basically what fab is. Unless you're lucky enough to get one or two fwb.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Rather know if they want to fuck me than their past fucks, would read a book if wanted story time

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By *rincess peachWoman  over a year ago

shits creek

I think the desired response is

"Yeah, he fucked me so hard I was shaking like a shitting dog, with pussy juice flying in every direction coz cock is life to me. I live for cock. I think about it all day long and just can't get enough. Oooooo cock *light bulb moment* you have cock don't you..... here's my address"

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I think the desired response is

"Yeah, he fucked me so hard I was shaking like a shitting dog, with pussy juice flying in every direction coz cock is life to me. I live for cock. I think about it all day long and just can't get enough. Oooooo cock *light bulb moment* you have cock don't you..... here's my address" "

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan  over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"I think the desired response is

"Yeah, he fucked me so hard I was shaking like a shitting dog, with pussy juice flying in every direction coz cock is life to me. I live for cock. I think about it all day long and just can't get enough. Oooooo cock *light bulb moment* you have cock don't you..... here's my address" "

Hahaha

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By *rincess peachWoman  over a year ago

shits creek

Think there may actually be a bit of psychology there as it goes.

When people talk about food it stirs something up and you want that food.

By getting you to remember how you felt during your last meet or during sex in general it may illicit a wide on or lubed foof. Memory horn.

Now she's horny, let's fix it with my man wang.

Or he's wanking and wants some erotica pretending in his imagination that he's the dude doing the sex to ya in your recount

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I don't generally send messages unless its supportive or wishing someone a HB. However, if I get a message then I always respond and ask how they are finding fab...nothing else which may be private

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By *opsy RogersWoman  over a year ago

London

My standard answer is 'it's got fuck all to do with you'.

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By *opsy RogersWoman  over a year ago

London


"I don't generally send messages unless its supportive or wishing someone a HB. However, if I get a message then I always respond and ask how they are finding fab...nothing else which may be private "

That question is guaranteed to get a block from me. It's none of anyone's business.

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By *rincess peachWoman  over a year ago

shits creek


"I don't generally send messages unless its supportive or wishing someone a HB. However, if I get a message then I always respond and ask how they are finding fab...nothing else which may be private "

See to me, that question, how are you finding fab? That's a phishing one.

What are the options to answer that?

A) the place is brimming with dicks

B) meh

C) I'm here ain't I so there must be something that entertains me in some way

D) kills time innit

E) amazeballs, my clunge has never seen so much action

Or F) so so, I mean, some good bits some less so.

To which the response in all of the above is likely to be something along the lines of the suggesting meeting up to make the bad bits better, or adding to the clunge filling.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple  over a year ago

Lincoln

Simple. They use the answer to plug in to their "Fab Desperation Formula™" which tells them how likely a woman is to drop their standards and then meet with the guy. They then rank all the women in a 750-mile radius according to the resulting floating point value. Of course, the only way to keep the data accurate is to regularly check in, and the easiest way to do this is with copy and paste messages. It's science... probably

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan  over a year ago

Aylesbury

My guess is to assess their chances of getting into the recipients pants

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I don't generally send messages unless its supportive or wishing someone a HB. However, if I get a message then I always respond and ask how they are finding fab...nothing else which may be private

That question is guaranteed to get a block from me. It's none of anyone's business. "

See you and Princess Peach have both misunderstood the question as to me I'm not phishing for a direct answer with detail. Its just being polite and making conversation. However, hearing those two responses is beneficial to me because it makes me realise that how the question is intended is not always how its received so for that, thank you. Every day is a school day eh 

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I think some struggle for conversation and its all they can come up with at times.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan  over a year ago

Aylesbury


"I think the desired response is

"Yeah, he fucked me so hard I was shaking like a shitting dog, with pussy juice flying in every direction coz cock is life to me. I live for cock. I think about it all day long and just can't get enough. Oooooo cock *light bulb moment* you have cock don't you..... here's my address" "

Yes, that would be the ideal scenario

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By *lexV16Man  over a year ago

Welling


"... Seemingly obsessed with finding out whether women are getting any action? It's such a recurring theme in my messages... Sometimes it's clear they're just trying to make conversation but other times the question gets asked in a first message and I just think "hold up, that isn't really something I want to be discussing with a stranger...". Is it like, some innate primal need to know?

Not digging, just curious. "

Believe it or not but 99% of women massages to me have an ask how my success is on here. Always confused how to answer. Should it be like % of messages to actual meets, or absolute number of meets led to coitus ? Will oral only meet be a partial success or a failed one?

OP, any thought?

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By *ora the explorerWoman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"... Seemingly obsessed with finding out whether women are getting any action? It's such a recurring theme in my messages... Sometimes it's clear they're just trying to make conversation but other times the question gets asked in a first message and I just think "hold up, that isn't really something I want to be discussing with a stranger...". Is it like, some innate primal need to know?

Not digging, just curious.

Believe it or not but 99% of women massages to me have an ask how my success is on here. Always confused how to answer. Should it be like % of messages to actual meets, or absolute number of meets led to coitus ? Will oral only meet be a partial success or a failed one?

OP, any thought?"

To be honest I’ve done it in the past. I’m sure I’ve said things like had much luck on here etc.

Compared to some of the absolutely vile messages I get, the kind being discussed on here are nothing. People send ridiculous messages on fab. That won’t change. Delete block move on.

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By *ola xWoman  over a year ago

Oswestry Shropshire


"... Seemingly obsessed with finding out whether women are getting any action? It's such a recurring theme in my messages... Sometimes it's clear they're just trying to make conversation but other times the question gets asked in a first message and I just think "hold up, that isn't really something I want to be discussing with a stranger...". Is it like, some innate primal need to know?

Not digging, just curious. "

I get this too.

I don't know why they need to know. And the sex we have with other men too. Why do they need to know this too? Is it to prove that we know how to have sex? We are capable of having sex?

I have no idea. But they end up with a block.

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By *opsy RogersWoman  over a year ago

London


"I don't generally send messages unless its supportive or wishing someone a HB. However, if I get a message then I always respond and ask how they are finding fab...nothing else which may be private

That question is guaranteed to get a block from me. It's none of anyone's business.

See you and Princess Peach have both misunderstood the question as to me I'm not phishing for a direct answer with detail. Its just being polite and making conversation. However, hearing those two responses is beneficial to me because it makes me realise that how the question is intended is not always how its received so for that, thank you. Every day is a school day eh  "

No probs.

The question immediately tells me that the person has no conversation to offer. What sort of answer will add to that conversation is a mystery to me so I shut it down.

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By *lexV16Man  over a year ago

Welling


"... Seemingly obsessed with finding out whether women are getting any action? It's such a recurring theme in my messages... Sometimes it's clear they're just trying to make conversation but other times the question gets asked in a first message and I just think "hold up, that isn't really something I want to be discussing with a stranger...". Is it like, some innate primal need to know?

Not digging, just curious.

Believe it or not but 99% of women massages to me have an ask how my success is on here. Always confused how to answer. Should it be like % of messages to actual meets, or absolute number of meets led to coitus ? Will oral only meet be a partial success or a failed one?

OP, any thought?

To be honest I’ve done it in the past. I’m sure I’ve said things like had much luck on here etc.

Compared to some of the absolutely vile messages I get, the kind being discussed on here are nothing. People send ridiculous messages on fab. That won’t change. Delete block move on. "

Yeah, I feel sometimes that it’s kind of ice breaking message. As much as I am confused I usually reply to it with and let the other side to decide what it means. It’s just internet, we are not obliged to answer all the questions we are asked. If the question makes me feel uncomfortable in any way I’ll just delete the messages and will move on.

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By *agic.MMan  over a year ago

Orpington


""Why are ignorant, immature, uneducated MEN seemingly obsessed with finding out whether women are getting any action?"

Is this the question you were trying to ask?

In a nutshell "

The answer is very much in the question in front of you then.

I believe the reason why some men are taking it personal, is because your question is generalising..."why men..." ..."why women...". I understand it seems a bit extra to put a disclaimer such as "yes I know not all men/women" when you open a thread, but it will save you a lot of arguments and debates.

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


""Why are ignorant, immature, uneducated MEN seemingly obsessed with finding out whether women are getting any action?"

Is this the question you were trying to ask?

In a nutshell

The answer is very much in the question in front of you then.

I believe the reason why some men are taking it personal, is because your question is generalising..."why men..." ..."why women...". I understand it seems a bit extra to put a disclaimer such as "yes I know not all men/women" when you open a thread, but it will save you a lot of arguments and debates.

"

... #notallmen

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By *lexV16Man  over a year ago

Welling


""Why are ignorant, immature, uneducated MEN seemingly obsessed with finding out whether women are getting any action?"

Is this the question you were trying to ask?

In a nutshell

The answer is very much in the question in front of you then.

I believe the reason why some men are taking it personal, is because your question is generalising..."why men..." ..."why women...". I understand it seems a bit extra to put a disclaimer such as "yes I know not all men/women" when you open a thread, but it will save you a lot of arguments and debates.

"

Absolutely agree with this comment

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


""Why are ignorant, immature, uneducated MEN seemingly obsessed with finding out whether women are getting any action?"

Is this the question you were trying to ask?

In a nutshell

The answer is very much in the question in front of you then.

I believe the reason why some men are taking it personal, is because your question is generalising..."why men..." ..."why women...". I understand it seems a bit extra to put a disclaimer such as "yes I know not all men/women" when you open a thread, but it will save you a lot of arguments and debates.

... #notallmen "

the fragility of man

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


""Why are ignorant, immature, uneducated MEN seemingly obsessed with finding out whether women are getting any action?"

Is this the question you were trying to ask?

In a nutshell

The answer is very much in the question in front of you then.

I believe the reason why some men are taking it personal, is because your question is generalising..."why men..." ..."why women...". I understand it seems a bit extra to put a disclaimer such as "yes I know not all men/women" when you open a thread, but it will save you a lot of arguments and debates.

... #notallmen

the fragility of man "

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By *ora the explorerWoman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


""Why are ignorant, immature, uneducated MEN seemingly obsessed with finding out whether women are getting any action?"

Is this the question you were trying to ask?

In a nutshell

The answer is very much in the question in front of you then.

I believe the reason why some men are taking it personal, is because your question is generalising..."why men..." ..."why women...". I understand it seems a bit extra to put a disclaimer such as "yes I know not all men/women" when you open a thread, but it will save you a lot of arguments and debates.

"

I do get this to be fair as the “why do women” questions grind on me a bit. I find I don’t think like most women on here, I tend to agree with a lot more men than women so to be thrown in the “all women” category pisses me off sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

'Why Are Men' is a very good question. .

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By *annaBeStrongMan  over a year ago

wokingham


""Why are ignorant, immature, uneducated MEN seemingly obsessed with finding out whether women are getting any action?"

Is this the question you were trying to ask?

In a nutshell

The answer is very much in the question in front of you then.

I believe the reason why some men are taking it personal, is because your question is generalising..."why men..." ..."why women...". I understand it seems a bit extra to put a disclaimer such as "yes I know not all men/women" when you open a thread, but it will save you a lot of arguments and debates.

... #notallmen

the fragility of man "

How fragile of anyone to not like being grouped into one big homogeneous lump based on their gender.

How dare they wish to be judged on their character, or the content of their heart, instead of being judged on their gender. Or any other arbitrary trait (like race, sexual orientation or nationality).

So fragile guys, grow up

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


""Why are ignorant, immature, uneducated MEN seemingly obsessed with finding out whether women are getting any action?"

Is this the question you were trying to ask?

In a nutshell

The answer is very much in the question in front of you then.

I believe the reason why some men are taking it personal, is because your question is generalising..."why men..." ..."why women...". I understand it seems a bit extra to put a disclaimer such as "yes I know not all men/women" when you open a thread, but it will save you a lot of arguments and debates.

... #notallmen

the fragility of man

How fragile of anyone to not like being grouped into one big homogeneous lump based on their gender.

How dare they wish to be judged on their character, or the content of their heart, instead of being judged on their gender. Or any other arbitrary trait (like race, sexual orientation or nationality).

So fragile guys, grow up "

Same goes for threads about women...why do all women...women are so stuck up here....women are so rude not replying to all messages.

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By *avie65Man  over a year ago

In the west.


"I'm pretty convinced no matter what men say on here it won't be right for the women on here.

*Grabs popcorn *

Seen hornier nuns than most the women on here.

Yeah we must be frigid because we don't want to fuck Dave in his van today at 3

Eh eh, (strums fingers on the table)

P.S. I don't have a van.

I'm a frigid bitch. Don't even think about it!

Think about what?

Vans

Ah. I prefer Converse.

Too right - they totally go with a sarong"

It's called style where I come from.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Likely also because so many people have FuckReview verifications. No privacy, all their fucks rated and dated.

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


""Why are ignorant, immature, uneducated MEN seemingly obsessed with finding out whether women are getting any action?"

Is this the question you were trying to ask?

In a nutshell

The answer is very much in the question in front of you then.

I believe the reason why some men are taking it personal, is because your question is generalising..."why men..." ..."why women...". I understand it seems a bit extra to put a disclaimer such as "yes I know not all men/women" when you open a thread, but it will save you a lot of arguments and debates.

... #notallmen

the fragility of man

How fragile of anyone to not like being grouped into one big homogeneous lump based on their gender.

How dare they wish to be judged on their character, or the content of their heart, instead of being judged on their gender. Or any other arbitrary trait (like race, sexual orientation or nationality).

So fragile guys, grow up

Same goes for threads about women...why do all women...women are so stuck up here....women are so rude not replying to all messages. "

So, #notallwomen too. *Shrug*

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By *annaBeStrongMan  over a year ago

wokingham


""Why are ignorant, immature, uneducated MEN seemingly obsessed with finding out whether women are getting any action?"

Is this the question you were trying to ask?

In a nutshell

The answer is very much in the question in front of you then.

I believe the reason why some men are taking it personal, is because your question is generalising..."why men..." ..."why women...". I understand it seems a bit extra to put a disclaimer such as "yes I know not all men/women" when you open a thread, but it will save you a lot of arguments and debates.

... #notallmen

the fragility of man

How fragile of anyone to not like being grouped into one big homogeneous lump based on their gender.

How dare they wish to be judged on their character, or the content of their heart, instead of being judged on their gender. Or any other arbitrary trait (like race, sexual orientation or nationality).

So fragile guys, grow up

Same goes for threads about women...why do all women...women are so stuck up here....women are so rude not replying to all messages. "

That’s why I used “anyone”. It’s equally as bad when any of these questions get asked and to make fun of people for not wanting to be lumped into a negative stereotype or category is kinda sad.

Can’t wait for the next “why do black people” thread. I’ll be looking out for whose calling them fragile for not liking it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm pretty convinced no matter what men say on here it won't be right for the women on here.

*Grabs popcorn *

Seen hornier nuns than most the women on here.

Yeah we must be frigid because we don't want to fuck Dave in his van today at 3

Eh eh, (strums fingers on the table)

P.S. I don't have a van.

I'm a frigid bitch. Don't even think about it!

Think about what?

Vans

Ah. I prefer Converse.

Too right - they totally go with a sarong

It's called style where I come from. "

Enuff said

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


""Why are ignorant, immature, uneducated MEN seemingly obsessed with finding out whether women are getting any action?"

Is this the question you were trying to ask?

In a nutshell

The answer is very much in the question in front of you then.

I believe the reason why some men are taking it personal, is because your question is generalising..."why men..." ..."why women...". I understand it seems a bit extra to put a disclaimer such as "yes I know not all men/women" when you open a thread, but it will save you a lot of arguments and debates.

... #notallmen

the fragility of man

How fragile of anyone to not like being grouped into one big homogeneous lump based on their gender.

How dare they wish to be judged on their character, or the content of their heart, instead of being judged on their gender. Or any other arbitrary trait (like race, sexual orientation or nationality).

So fragile guys, grow up

Same goes for threads about women...why do all women...women are so stuck up here....women are so rude not replying to all messages.

That’s why I used “anyone”. It’s equally as bad when any of these questions get asked and to make fun of people for not wanting to be lumped into a negative stereotype or category is kinda sad.

Can’t wait for the next “why do black people” thread. I’ll be looking out for whose calling them fragile for not liking it "

Well it won't be me, will it?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I don't generally send messages unless its supportive or wishing someone a HB. However, if I get a message then I always respond and ask how they are finding fab...nothing else which may be private

That question is guaranteed to get a block from me. It's none of anyone's business.

See you and Princess Peach have both misunderstood the question as to me I'm not phishing for a direct answer with detail. Its just being polite and making conversation. However, hearing those two responses is beneficial to me because it makes me realise that how the question is intended is not always how its received so for that, thank you. Every day is a school day eh 

No probs.

The question immediately tells me that the person has no conversation to offer. What sort of answer will add to that conversation is a mystery to me so I shut it down."

Oh I see. Its not the only thing I say so I understand why you said what you did. I like to hold a decent conversation and asking how fab is going is just a small part of any response I offer.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

OK can we please pretend I titled this "Why are SOME men..". I thought using "seemingly" in the post would cover the #notallmen angle but reading it back it probably wasn't clear. Really didn't intend for this to cause offence so apologies if I did

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS  over a year ago

Stockport

I think that I must be doing something wrong. Most of my messaging on fab consists of talk about coffee (other hot and cold beverages are available) and cake (other sugary and non-sugary comestibles are available). Plus occasional recommendations for korean netflix series.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" the fragility of man

How fragile of anyone to not like being grouped into one big homogeneous lump based on their gender.

How dare they wish to be judged on their character, or the content of their heart, instead of being judged on their gender. Or any other arbitrary trait (like race, sexual orientation or nationality).

So fragile guys, grow up

Same goes for threads about women...why do all women...women are so stuck up here....women are so rude not replying to all messages.

That’s why I used “anyone”. It’s equally as bad when any of these questions get asked and to make fun of people for not wanting to be lumped into a negative stereotype or category is kinda sad.

Can’t wait for the next “why do black people” thread. I’ll be looking out for whose calling them fragile for not liking it "

Are you being serious?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"OK can we please pretend I titled this "Why are SOME men..". I thought using "seemingly" in the post would cover the #notallmen angle but reading it back it probably wasn't clear. Really didn't intend for this to cause offence so apologies if I did "

It shouldn’t have caused offence but you know how it goes.

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"OK can we please pretend I titled this "Why are SOME men..". I thought using "seemingly" in the post would cover the #notallmen angle but reading it back it probably wasn't clear. Really didn't intend for this to cause offence so apologies if I did

It shouldn’t have caused offence but you know how it goes. "

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By *tinerant scribeMan  over a year ago

County Durham

Might it make them horny? Or make them possessive even before a meet? "How is it going for you on the site?" is just small talk.

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By *ora the explorerWoman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"OK can we please pretend I titled this "Why are SOME men..". I thought using "seemingly" in the post would cover the #notallmen angle but reading it back it probably wasn't clear. Really didn't intend for this to cause offence so apologies if I did

It shouldn’t have caused offence but you know how it goes. "

Just because people question things it doesn’t mean they’re offended. Why when people don’t agree or have a different opinion are they offended? I can’t remember ever being offended about anything!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Shag shes talking about you and your dry sex thread

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"OK can we please pretend I titled this "Why are SOME men..". I thought using "seemingly" in the post would cover the #notallmen angle but reading it back it probably wasn't clear. Really didn't intend for this to cause offence so apologies if I did

It shouldn’t have caused offence but you know how it goes.

Just because people question things it doesn’t mean they’re offended. Why when people don’t agree or have a different opinion are they offended? I can’t remember ever being offended about anything! "

I don’t know, Nora. I get called a snowflake for questioning things or challenging things I disagree with. So I am the wrong person to quote with these questions. But I think there are some people that seemed upset and the OP was apologising. And I don’t think her OP should’ve caused offence and was only stating that.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm pretty convinced no matter what men say on here it won't be right for the women on here.

*Grabs popcorn *

Seen hornier nuns than most the women on here.

^ is upset that women don’t want to have sex with him "

^ is playing the knight in shining armour. What a gent x

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By *ora the explorerWoman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"OK can we please pretend I titled this "Why are SOME men..". I thought using "seemingly" in the post would cover the #notallmen angle but reading it back it probably wasn't clear. Really didn't intend for this to cause offence so apologies if I did

It shouldn’t have caused offence but you know how it goes.

Just because people question things it doesn’t mean they’re offended. Why when people don’t agree or have a different opinion are they offended? I can’t remember ever being offended about anything!

I don’t know, Nora. I get called a snowflake for questioning things or challenging things I disagree with. So I am the wrong person to quote with these questions. But I think there are some people that seemed upset and the OP was apologising. And I don’t think her OP should’ve caused offence and was only stating that. "

I didn’t even look who I was quoting to be honest Steve . Yeah I don’t like the word snowflake either. I don’t like many of these silly new words.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Well if I get asked that question

Lady never tells as end of the day it's for the gentleman to find out if he's not a time waste or just like to pull on it thinking

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"OK can we please pretend I titled this "Why are SOME men..". I thought using "seemingly" in the post would cover the #notallmen angle but reading it back it probably wasn't clear. Really didn't intend for this to cause offence so apologies if I did

It shouldn’t have caused offence but you know how it goes. "

I honestly think that like 80% of the things I say on here goes over peoples' heads or gets misconstrued in some way. I don't think everyone knows the vibes

I'll never stop trying though

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"OK can we please pretend I titled this "Why are SOME men..". I thought using "seemingly" in the post would cover the #notallmen angle but reading it back it probably wasn't clear. Really didn't intend for this to cause offence so apologies if I did

It shouldn’t have caused offence but you know how it goes.

Just because people question things it doesn’t mean they’re offended. Why when people don’t agree or have a different opinion are they offended? I can’t remember ever being offended about anything!

I don’t know, Nora. I get called a snowflake for questioning things or challenging things I disagree with. So I am the wrong person to quote with these questions. But I think there are some people that seemed upset and the OP was apologising. And I don’t think her OP should’ve caused offence and was only stating that.

I didn’t even look who I was quoting to be honest Steve . Yeah I don’t like the word snowflake either. I don’t like many of these silly new words. "

Lol FS Nora, now I have to apologise!

I’m sorry though if I was a bit short.

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"OK can we please pretend I titled this "Why are SOME men..". I thought using "seemingly" in the post would cover the #notallmen angle but reading it back it probably wasn't clear. Really didn't intend for this to cause offence so apologies if I did

It shouldn’t have caused offence but you know how it goes.

I honestly think that like 80% of the things I say on here goes over peoples' heads or gets misconstrued in some way. I don't think everyone knows the vibes

I'll never stop trying though "

Next time, when talking about men, big disclaimers. Massive disclaimers.

Maybe their (manly totes rational no really) feelings might not be as hurt.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"OK can we please pretend I titled this "Why are SOME men..". I thought using "seemingly" in the post would cover the #notallmen angle but reading it back it probably wasn't clear. Really didn't intend for this to cause offence so apologies if I did

It shouldn’t have caused offence but you know how it goes.

I honestly think that like 80% of the things I say on here goes over peoples' heads or gets misconstrued in some way. I don't think everyone knows the vibes

I'll never stop trying though "

Don’t worry I know them. Don’t you stop trying.

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By *ora the explorerWoman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"OK can we please pretend I titled this "Why are SOME men..". I thought using "seemingly" in the post would cover the #notallmen angle but reading it back it probably wasn't clear. Really didn't intend for this to cause offence so apologies if I did

It shouldn’t have caused offence but you know how it goes.

Just because people question things it doesn’t mean they’re offended. Why when people don’t agree or have a different opinion are they offended? I can’t remember ever being offended about anything!

I don’t know, Nora. I get called a snowflake for questioning things or challenging things I disagree with. So I am the wrong person to quote with these questions. But I think there are some people that seemed upset and the OP was apologising. And I don’t think her OP should’ve caused offence and was only stating that.

I didn’t even look who I was quoting to be honest Steve . Yeah I don’t like the word snowflake either. I don’t like many of these silly new words.

Lol FS Nora, now I have to apologise!

I’m sorry though if I was a bit short. "

Haha don’t be daft. Nowt to apologise for.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple  over a year ago

North West


"No ideas me and my partner on our couples profile get it constantly and not just from men we get it from couples too"

I doubt they're couples. More likely either single guys or something guy of the couple without the partner being involved. I might be wrong, but...

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By *rivervaderMan  over a year ago

bolton

They may feel jealous and want you for themselves but really it’s nobodies business but your own

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Can we have a Sydney University style proclamation for every thread about NOT ALL men?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Can we have a Sydney University style proclamation for every thread about NOT ALL men? "

From now on, comments about men must meet the six-sigma standard

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By *ad NannaWoman  over a year ago

East London


"OK can we please pretend I titled this "Why are SOME men..". I thought using "seemingly" in the post would cover the #notallmen angle but reading it back it probably wasn't clear. Really didn't intend for this to cause offence so apologies if I did

It shouldn’t have caused offence but you know how it goes.

I honestly think that like 80% of the things I say on here goes over peoples' heads or gets misconstrued in some way. I don't think everyone knows the vibes

I'll never stop trying though

Next time, when talking about men, big disclaimers. Massive disclaimers.

Maybe their (manly totes rational no really) feelings might not be as hurt."

When someone says why do women...I don't automatically think they mean me, unless I do the thing, and then I reply.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

because we're perverts and want to know how easily you put out

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"OK can we please pretend I titled this "Why are SOME men..". I thought using "seemingly" in the post would cover the #notallmen angle but reading it back it probably wasn't clear. Really didn't intend for this to cause offence so apologies if I did

It shouldn’t have caused offence but you know how it goes.

I honestly think that like 80% of the things I say on here goes over peoples' heads or gets misconstrued in some way. I don't think everyone knows the vibes

I'll never stop trying though

Next time, when talking about men, big disclaimers. Massive disclaimers.

Maybe their (manly totes rational no really) feelings might not be as hurt.

When someone says why do women...I don't automatically think they mean me, unless I do the thing, and then I reply.

"

Well, quite

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"OK can we please pretend I titled this "Why are SOME men..". I thought using "seemingly" in the post would cover the #notallmen angle but reading it back it probably wasn't clear. Really didn't intend for this to cause offence so apologies if I did

It shouldn’t have caused offence but you know how it goes.

I honestly think that like 80% of the things I say on here goes over peoples' heads or gets misconstrued in some way. I don't think everyone knows the vibes

I'll never stop trying though

Next time, when talking about men, big disclaimers. Massive disclaimers.

Maybe their (manly totes rational no really) feelings might not be as hurt.

When someone says why do women...I don't automatically think they mean me, unless I do the thing, and then I reply.

Well, quite "

Why do women.... guzzle cum like they'd die without it?

Let's see who replies

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"... Seemingly obsessed with finding out whether women are getting any action? It's such a recurring theme in my messages... Sometimes it's clear they're just trying to make conversation but other times the question gets asked in a first message and I just think "hold up, that isn't really something I want to be discussing with a stranger...". Is it like, some innate primal need to know?

Not digging, just curious. "

Well have you? Have you had any peen? We want to know

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By *asty tatsyMan  over a year ago

london


"We’re just such a curse

Not too sure why some people are taking this personally tbh... Surely if people think it's acceptable to question my private life then I should be able to ask why..? "

Why would you assume I took it personally

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"... Seemingly obsessed with finding out whether women are getting any action? It's such a recurring theme in my messages... Sometimes it's clear they're just trying to make conversation but other times the question gets asked in a first message and I just think "hold up, that isn't really something I want to be discussing with a stranger...". Is it like, some innate primal need to know?

Not digging, just curious.

Well have you? Have you had any peen? We want to know "

Mate I am getting so much peen I've had to quit my job to deal with all the peen I am 100% most definitely getting

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"We’re just such a curse

Not too sure why some people are taking this personally tbh... Surely if people think it's acceptable to question my private life then I should be able to ask why..?

Why would you assume I took it personally"

Eh, a near-perfect combination of my paranoia, personal neuroses and an inherent need to be liked

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By *asty tatsyMan  over a year ago

london


"We’re just such a curse

Not too sure why some people are taking this personally tbh... Surely if people think it's acceptable to question my private life then I should be able to ask why..?

Why would you assume I took it personally

Eh, a near-perfect combination of my paranoia, personal neuroses and an inherent need to be liked "

Ok

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"... Seemingly obsessed with finding out whether women are getting any action? It's such a recurring theme in my messages... Sometimes it's clear they're just trying to make conversation but other times the question gets asked in a first message and I just think "hold up, that isn't really something I want to be discussing with a stranger...". Is it like, some innate primal need to know?

Not digging, just curious. "

I usually ask the guy who sent it why!

You won't get a straight answer to your question, best start at source and fill in the blanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I think that I must be doing something wrong. Most of my messaging on fab consists of talk about coffee (other hot and cold beverages are available) and cake (other sugary and non-sugary comestibles are available). Plus occasional recommendations for korean netflix series."

Can I be part of your world?

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By *ack688Man  over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

Hmm, interesting thread! I’m interested in peoples sex lives, but not from a salacious perspective, not in the hope of some erotic titillation, but because I think conversations about sex should be far more normalised, asking how your last sex session was should be no different in my mind to asking about what you had for dinner last night, so asking someone about meets they have had, particularly within Fab should be able to be a totally normal topic of conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Can we have a Sydney University style proclamation for every thread about NOT ALL men?

From now on, comments about men must meet the six-sigma standard "

The wot?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hmm, interesting thread! I’m interested in peoples sex lives, but not from a salacious perspective, not in the hope of some erotic titillation, but because I think conversations about sex should be far more normalised, asking how your last sex session was should be no different in my mind to asking about what you had for dinner last night, so asking someone about meets they have had, particularly within Fab should be able to be a totally normal topic of conversation. "

Not everyone wants to discuss the sex they have with other people though?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I think the desired response is

"Yeah, he fucked me so hard I was shaking like a shitting dog, with pussy juice flying in every direction coz cock is life to me. I live for cock. I think about it all day long and just can't get enough. Oooooo cock *light bulb moment* you have cock don't you..... here's my address" "

This right here

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By *oudBeSurprisedMan  over a year ago

Fife


"... Seemingly obsessed with finding out whether women are getting any action? It's such a recurring theme in my messages... Sometimes it's clear they're just trying to make conversation but other times the question gets asked in a first message and I just think "hold up, that isn't really something I want to be discussing with a stranger...". Is it like, some innate primal need to know?

Not digging, just curious. "

That should really start with "why are some men......"

I really could not give a fuck and honestly I would assume most men wouldn't give a fuck. Maybe you just get the few men that either couldn't break the ice with a cannon or have a fetish for getting inside something that resembles a Krispy Kreme conveyor belt.

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By *oudBeSurprisedMan  over a year ago

Fife


"I'm pretty convinced no matter what men say on here it won't be right for the women on here.

"

Some women

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By *ack688Man  over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)


"Hmm, interesting thread! I’m interested in peoples sex lives, but not from a salacious perspective, not in the hope of some erotic titillation, but because I think conversations about sex should be far more normalised, asking how your last sex session was should be no different in my mind to asking about what you had for dinner last night, so asking someone about meets they have had, particularly within Fab should be able to be a totally normal topic of conversation.

Not everyone wants to discuss the sex they have with other people though? "

Which begs the question then of ‘why is that?’ Is it an upbringing thing? That sex is dirty and not to be talked about in polite company? Is it societal? Concerns of how one might be labelled for not just the behaviour, but for then being open about it? The only way to overcome these barriers is to break the taboos around the need for secrecy and how we are seemingly expected to behave and like all stigmas, to be prepared to discuss things frankly and openly.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Beats us. Perhaps they think they are being charming. One of those toxic male behaviours like when they tell their friends the best way to "pull a woman" is to just go up to her and ask "fancy a fuck?" Just nonsense which they will defend with excuses but they probably don't know why they are doing it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

End game now.

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By *ora the explorerWoman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Hmm, interesting thread! I’m interested in peoples sex lives, but not from a salacious perspective, not in the hope of some erotic titillation, but because I think conversations about sex should be far more normalised, asking how your last sex session was should be no different in my mind to asking about what you had for dinner last night, so asking someone about meets they have had, particularly within Fab should be able to be a totally normal topic of conversation.

Not everyone wants to discuss the sex they have with other people though?

Which begs the question then of ‘why is that?’ Is it an upbringing thing? That sex is dirty and not to be talked about in polite company? Is it societal? Concerns of how one might be labelled for not just the behaviour, but for then being open about it? The only way to overcome these barriers is to break the taboos around the need for secrecy and how we are seemingly expected to behave and like all stigmas, to be prepared to discuss things frankly and openly. "

No it’s a I don’t discuss my sex life with anyone thing.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Thanks TS.

Good talk everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

#Notallmen

#JustKidding

#Yesallmen

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By *inky_couple2020Couple  over a year ago

North West


"

Why do women.... guzzle cum like they'd die without it?

Let's see who replies "

Because it's a nutritious source of protein, sugars, vitamins and is readily available

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By *oudBeSurprisedMan  over a year ago

Fife


"I don't generally send messages unless its supportive or wishing someone a HB. However, if I get a message then I always respond and ask how they are finding fab...nothing else which may be private

That question is guaranteed to get a block from me. It's none of anyone's business.

See you and Princess Peach have both misunderstood the question as to me I'm not phishing for a direct answer with detail. Its just being polite and making conversation. However, hearing those two responses is beneficial to me because it makes me realise that how the question is intended is not always how its received so for that, thank you. Every day is a school day eh  "

Or you can stop trying to tailor your personality and the perception of you to what you think will get women to see you as a non threatening suitor like it's the Victorian times.

If anyone sent me a message to wish me a happy birthday, it means they have been looking through fab profiles to see who had a birthday recently to use their shitty opening lines like a creepy cunt.

Be yourself and those who appreciate what you are will respond positively and those that don't won't and you keep it moving.

Instead of taking feedback like a public service so you can change your character to get more women for your potential skin suit you are farming in your basement.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Woah woah woah

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