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Been watching a documentary and was fascinated when the guy said he would be offended and feel insulted if a woman suggested bringing/introducing toys into the bedroom as he felt he wasn't doing a good enough job.....
How would you fellows react?? x |
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It would please me as it would be something she’d want to share with me. Anything that increases her orgasms or the intensity of them is good by me.
Toys aren’t competition, they are enhancements 
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over a year ago
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Feel that the man speaking has some personal issues he has never learnt to deal with.
Very comfortable with toys in the bedroom, find it enjoyable. We don't use them all the time and use them to enhance our love-making. To be fair, we all have off days so if I'm exhausted and pussy cat wants to play with her vibe or whatever, I'm only sorry that I'm too tired. |
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I was the one who introduced toys to the bedroom. It was sort of a joke present for Valentine’s Day but we both loved it and now we’ve got a massive collection.
Maybe that man was insecure. |
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I've had a few experiences where guys have seemed really keen about using toys when speaking to them beforehand, but then when it came to it seemed super reluctant about it  |
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"I was the one who introduced toys to the bedroom. It was sort of a joke present for Valentine’s Day but we both loved it and now we’ve got a massive collection.
Maybe that man was insecure."
He came across as quite self assured and confident in himself. He said he didn't feel the need for toys as he was more than capable of satisfying a woman x |
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Be careful, you might not feel when to stop inside, with toys.
I find girls lack rhythm and stamina when it comes to using a strap on.
Yeah ok, some blokes are useless also.
Girls sometimes feel more part of the action having a cock. X |
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God non this is a poor man’s ego at threat.
How the hell do I explore sex if I’m not willing to explore sex with my lover?
Men need to stand back and realise why that woman is with you and feels comfortable enough to bring these ideas into a relationship.
Something different does not mean ‘better’. 
I just bring me. I am the woman’s toy  |
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"God non this is a poor man’s ego at threat.
How the hell do I explore sex if I’m not willing to explore sex with my lover?
Men need to stand back and realise why that woman is with you and feels comfortable enough to bring these ideas into a relationship.
Something different does not mean ‘better’.
I just bring me. I am the woman’s toy "
Where do the batteries go??? x |
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"I have vanilla friends who when I have spoken about my toy collection with have said that their partners feel that way.
On here though men seem happy for them to be part of the fun.
Kx"
I wonder if it's a fab thing  x |
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"Menfolk of fab.....
Been watching a documentary and was fascinated when the guy said he would be offended and feel insulted if a woman suggested bringing/introducing toys into the bedroom as he felt he wasn't doing a good enough job.....
How would you fellows react?? x"
Think thank fuck for that NOW maybe I'll finally get to watch the football in peace  |
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My ex husband felt like that. I once won a raffle prize (vibrator) at an Ann Summers party and I asked him to use it on me. He went crazy and threatened to throw it out of our bedroom window for all the neighbours to see and shame me.
Years after our divorce he admitted that he felt like I was taking away his masculinity and he apologised to me.
NBVN x
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"God non this is a poor man’s ego at threat.
How the hell do I explore sex if I’m not willing to explore sex with my lover?
Men need to stand back and realise why that woman is with you and feels comfortable enough to bring these ideas into a relationship.
Something different does not mean ‘better’.
I just bring me. I am the woman’s toy
Where do the batteries go??? x"
Bend over and I’ll show you. X |
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"I was the one who introduced toys to the bedroom. It was sort of a joke present for Valentine’s Day but we both loved it and now we’ve got a massive collection.
Maybe that man was insecure.
He came across as quite self assured and confident in himself. He said he didn't feel the need for toys as he was more than capable of satisfying a woman x"
I’m fairly confident in my abilities but I see the toys the same way I see swinging. An addition to our sex life.
There’s certain toys that can do things no man can just the same as there’s things a man can do that no toy can. |
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The key for me is "if you're not doing a good enough job". If somebody expressed it like that I could feel put out. I would want to do a better job but the way to achieve that isn't through insults. I would hope we had a good enough relationship to talk about what we like and to explore and learn together.
If a lady wants to bring toys into the bedroom just because that's what she enjoys, that would be great! Luke |
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"My ex husband felt like that. I once won a raffle prize (vibrator) at an Ann Summers party and I asked him to use it on me. He went crazy and threatened to throw it out of our bedroom window for all the neighbours to see and shame me.
Years after our divorce he admitted that he felt like I was taking away his masculinity and he apologised to me.
NBVN x
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This is how this man came across (only not as angry) it was like "I am a man, I am or should be all you need in the bedroom" x |
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"My ex husband felt like that. I once won a raffle prize (vibrator) at an Ann Summers party and I asked him to use it on me. He went crazy and threatened to throw it out of our bedroom window for all the neighbours to see and shame me.
Years after our divorce he admitted that he felt like I was taking away his masculinity and he apologised to me.
NBVN x
This is how this man came across (only not as angry) it was like "I am a man, I am or should be all you need in the bedroom" x"
Probably one of those guys that fixes everything with a hammer |
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over a year ago
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Was he having a laugh or just being a knob?
If he was being a knob, he has an outdated and old fashioned way of looking at sex. Men can and do get as much out of toys.
And my inner voyeur comes out watching the woman pleasure herself. |
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By *la87Man
over a year ago
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"Menfolk of fab.....
Been watching a documentary and was fascinated when the guy said he would be offended and feel insulted if a woman suggested bringing/introducing toys into the bedroom as he felt he wasn't doing a good enough job.....
How would you fellows react?? x"
I bought 4 toys and counting for my wife. Most women don't cum from penetration. She's most women. They're fun additions |
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"I have vanilla friends who when I have spoken about my toy collection with have said that their partners feel that way.
On here though men seem happy for them to be part of the fun.
I wonder if it's a fab thing x"
I would not say its a fab thing, I think it's down to the individual. |
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"Was he having a laugh or just being a knob?
If he was being a knob, he has an outdated and old fashioned way of looking at sex. Men can and do get as much out of toys.
And my inner voyeur comes out watching the woman pleasure herself. "
He was being serious, didn't come across as a knob as such or a twat x |
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By *avie65Man
over a year ago
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"Was he having a laugh or just being a knob?
If he was being a knob, he has an outdated and old fashioned way of looking at sex. Men can and do get as much out of toys.
And my inner voyeur comes out watching the woman pleasure herself.
He was being serious, didn't come across as a knob as such or a twat x"
Just scared then! X |
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"My ex husband felt like that. I once won a raffle prize (vibrator) at an Ann Summers party and I asked him to use it on me. He went crazy and threatened to throw it out of our bedroom window for all the neighbours to see and shame me.
Years after our divorce he admitted that he felt like I was taking away his masculinity and he apologised to me.
NBVN x
This is how this man came across (only not as angry) it was like "I am a man, I am or should be all you need in the bedroom" x"
Sounds like he felt you were stepping into an arena he is not familiar with, isn’t comfortable with, wasn’t sure how to handle the fact you wanted to introduce toys. He clearly felt threatened by your request and by his feelings about it….. guess it didn’t happen and isn’t likely to now… |
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I would be offended at all, I'd just see it as adding a different dynamic and would completely fine. As long as she's not expecting me to sit in the shame corner while she uses it  |
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"Menfolk of fab.....
Been watching a documentary and was fascinated when the guy said he would be offended and feel insulted if a woman suggested bringing/introducing toys into the bedroom as he felt he wasn't doing a good enough job.....
How would you fellows react?? x"
Depends on the toy. What on earth am I supposed to do with double sided dildo op?
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"Menfolk of fab.....
Been watching a documentary and was fascinated when the guy said he would be offended and feel insulted if a woman suggested bringing/introducing toys into the bedroom as he felt he wasn't doing a good enough job.....
How would you fellows react?? x
Depends on the toy. What on earth am I supposed to do with double sided dildo op?
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DP her with it maybe |
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"Menfolk of fab.....
Been watching a documentary and was fascinated when the guy said he would be offended and feel insulted if a woman suggested bringing/introducing toys into the bedroom as he felt he wasn't doing a good enough job.....
How would you fellows react?? x
Depends on the toy. What on earth am I supposed to do with double sided dildo op?
DP her with it maybe "
What is this a tick box exercise? Might as well add MFFF to the list |
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"Menfolk of fab.....
Been watching a documentary and was fascinated when the guy said he would be offended and feel insulted if a woman suggested bringing/introducing toys into the bedroom as he felt he wasn't doing a good enough job.....
How would you fellows react?? x"
I buy most of our toys! Who doesn't love seeing their partner having an amazing time! |
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"Menfolk of fab.....
Been watching a documentary and was fascinated when the guy said he would be offended and feel insulted if a woman suggested bringing/introducing toys into the bedroom as he felt he wasn't doing a good enough job.....
How would you fellows react?? x
I buy most of our toys! Who doesn't love seeing their partner having an amazing time!"
Some do some don’t it’s that simple  |
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If she pulled out a Nerf Gun and asked me to stand at the end of the bed when I replied no problem then I’d have an issue …. Unless she passed me one too |
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"If she pulled out a Nerf Gun and asked me to stand at the end of the bed when I replied no problem then I’d have an issue …. Unless she passed me one too "
You could remake that scene from Mr and Mrs Smith.
*Opens Amazon and orders Nerf Guns* |
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