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I tried anal sex many years ago and from memory didn’t really do much for me. What is it about anal sex that turns you on? Unlike guys, we have no G Spot (as far as I know!) Is it just the dirtiness of it that turns you on? What about practicalities… do you douche before? So many questions??!! Lol  |
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over a year ago
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I asked Mrs NE and she said once she gets past the initial pain it feels nice. Not normal sex nice but still enjoyable. She has had an orgasm through anal once but neither of us know what we did to make it happen. |
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over a year ago
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"I tried anal sex many years ago and from memory didn’t really do much for me. What is it about anal sex that turns you on? Unlike guys, we have no G Spot (as far as I know!) Is it just the dirtiness of it that turns you on? What about practicalities… do you douche before? So many questions??!! Lol "
I enjoy it but it's not something I want to do every time I have sex, it's more of an occasional thing when I'm in the mood it |
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Same as another said once you get past the initial pain and the feeling of 'that doesn't belong there' it becomes quite enjoyable. Have orgasmed from it but I think was with clit stimulation too, so hard to tell if it was just anal that provided the O. Also enjoy it because its out of the norm and I know S enjoys it and I love to do things that pleases him.
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I like the different feeling and it still makes me cum in the right positions with the the right angles.
As a girl that loves a good spanking the pain to begin with doesn't phase me but it has to be with people i totally trust.
I dont eat much the day before and i drink plenty, sometimes I'll douche but i can tell when i do and don't need to.  |
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"I like the different feeling and it still makes me cum in the right positions with the the right angles.
As a girl that loves a good spanking the pain to begin with doesn't phase me but it has to be with people i totally trust.
I dont eat much the day before and i drink plenty, sometimes I'll douche but i can tell when i do and don't need to. "
You forgot to mention it slows down aging and gets rid of grey hairs and wrinkles! |
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I can cum from anal only. Not as hard or as intense as vaginal sex but there is definitely sexual pleasure in it.
There is also an element of submission involved for me as that is how I play with my partner. We don't do it all the time but when I do I verbally confirm my submission to him an awful lot lol |
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How much do I hate it ? Let me count the ways .....
Even if I was okay with it I can't be arsed with all the palava. Someone said above....
They don't eat much the day before.
They drink plenty.
They wash the shit out of their bowels..( my words not theirs )
Premeditated anal ..... lots of prep .... loads of lube.... take care on entry .... do it slow..... don't rip a fissure up my jacksie ..... etc etc...
No thanks.
Oh ... and wondering about clinkers after or smearing shit on the sheets..... noooo nooo noooo.
Don't say proper prep ... I don't WANT all the prep. If something needs that much pre thought and prep , I can leave it alone. |
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I enjoy anal sex because it feels good. Once a guy is all the way in it feels full and the orgasms are powerful, especially if there's something playing with my clit at the same time.
Personally it doesn't feel submissive or dirty, it's just enjoyable. But it is nice knowing how much the guy is enjoying it, and if he's getting off on it being naughty then that's fine by me.
Practically wise, it's always my choice, so I know when I've last been to the toilet and if I'm comfortable doing it. |
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"How much do I hate it ? Let me count the ways .....
Even if I was okay with it I can't be arsed with all the palava. Someone said above....
They don't eat much the day before.
They drink plenty.
They wash the shit out of their bowels..( my words not theirs )
Premeditated anal ..... lots of prep .... loads of lube.... take care on entry .... do it slow..... don't rip a fissure up my jacksie ..... etc etc...
No thanks.
Oh ... and wondering about clinkers after or smearing shit on the sheets..... noooo nooo noooo.
Don't say proper prep ... I don't WANT all the prep. If something needs that much pre thought and prep , I can leave it alone. "
I've never prepped for anal granny. You don't really need to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Even just thinking about why I like it is enough for me to get
For me, I think it's because it's something that doesn't happen that often so it feels extra exciting.
It does have to be with the right person, or someone who knows when the time is right to try it. |
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"Even just thinking about why I like it is enough for me to get
For me, I think it's because it's something that doesn't happen that often so it feels extra exciting.
It does have to be with the right person, or someone who knows when the time is right to try it. "
Does size matter when it comes to anal? |
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"How much do I hate it ? Let me count the ways .....
Even if I was okay with it I can't be arsed with all the palava. Someone said above....
They don't eat much the day before.
They drink plenty.
They wash the shit out of their bowels..( my words not theirs )
Premeditated anal ..... lots of prep .... loads of lube.... take care on entry .... do it slow..... don't rip a fissure up my jacksie ..... etc etc...
No thanks.
Oh ... and wondering about clinkers after or smearing shit on the sheets..... noooo nooo noooo.
Don't say proper prep ... I don't WANT all the prep. If something needs that much pre thought and prep , I can leave it alone. "
Oh my!! I’m roaring over here!  |
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Yes it's naughty, but it's also very intimate and I only do it with people I have a strong and truating connection with But oh my god I've had some truly amazing orgasms through anal.
You definitely have to find the right position that works for you, and I would also agree with previous posters... the right person to do it with!! |
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"Even just thinking about why I like it is enough for me to get
For me, I think it's because it's something that doesn't happen that often so it feels extra exciting.
It does have to be with the right person, or someone who knows when the time is right to try it.
Does size matter when it comes to anal?"
Personally, yes it does. |
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"Even just thinking about why I like it is enough for me to get
For me, I think it's because it's something that doesn't happen that often so it feels extra exciting.
It does have to be with the right person, or someone who knows when the time is right to try it.
Does size matter when it comes to anal?
Personally, yes it does. "
So to big is painful and to small no good and in the middle slips in perfect so to say  |
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"Yes it's naughty, but it's also very intimate and I only do it with people I have a strong and truating connection with But oh my god I've had some truly amazing orgasms through anal.
You definitely have to find the right position that works for you, and I would also agree with previous posters... the right person to do it with!! "
Would you specifically only have anal or would you want both? |
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"I tried anal sex many years ago and from memory didn’t really do much for me. What is it about anal sex that turns you on? Unlike guys, we have no G Spot (as far as I know!) Is it just the dirtiness of it that turns you on? What about practicalities… do you douche before? So many questions??!! Lol "
It's "forbidden", it feels great and yes, definitely douche |
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"Yes it's naughty, but it's also very intimate and I only do it with people I have a strong and truating connection with But oh my god I've had some truly amazing orgasms through anal.
You definitely have to find the right position that works for you, and I would also agree with previous posters... the right person to do it with!!
Would you specifically only have anal or would you want both?"
I'm a greedy girl... always both!! |
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By *urvySub87Woman
over a year ago
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With the right person anal is amazing and the orgasms are something else. Even though women don't have their g spot there they do have a lot of sensitive nerve endings, especially around the entrance. Nothing like a nice tickle to get you in the mood  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's the only way I can climax, anal combined with clit stimulatio n  mindblowing with Mr P, I love how intense and full it feels and the pleasure pain thing.
Does it make anyone elses toes feel odd though?  or is that just a me thing?????? |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
Burnleyish (She/They) |
I don't think I've douched before anal.
I find if I listen to my body it's always better, if when starting anal my body says yes and I'm able to ease him in without much effort it's going to be fun and enjoyable... If not then I won't enjoy it.
Lots of lube and I am always the one to ease his cock into me, not the other way round... If I work by that principal it's pretty much never painful, full, slightly uncomfortable maybe, but that passes quickly.
I enjoy the fullness, I'll often choose anal over vaginal when I'm having a wank, either a nice firm dildo or a butt plug... |
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I tried it a long time ago in my vanilla life. Didn’t really do anything for me back then.
My mindset is completely different now. If I had a regular partner to practice with I’d be willing to try it again.
Love the thought of it though! |
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By *evils PuddingCouple
over a year ago
the pub or in the nude in Paisley |
"With the right person anal is amazing and the orgasms are something else. Even though women don't have their g spot there they do have a lot of sensitive nerve endings, especially around the entrance. Nothing like a nice tickle to get you in the mood "
Always a winner when she calls it "the entrance" |
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"How much do I hate it ? Let me count the ways .....
Even if I was okay with it I can't be arsed with all the palava. Someone said above....
They don't eat much the day before.
They drink plenty.
They wash the shit out of their bowels..( my words not theirs )
Premeditated anal ..... lots of prep .... loads of lube.... take care on entry .... do it slow..... don't rip a fissure up my jacksie ..... etc etc...
No thanks.
Oh ... and wondering about clinkers after or smearing shit on the sheets..... noooo nooo noooo.
Don't say proper prep ... I don't WANT all the prep. If something needs that much pre thought and prep , I can leave it alone.
I've never prepped for anal granny. You don't really need to. "
Not even lube ? |
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Anal is amazing. My advice would be to always prepare with a douche - no one wants any of the wrong mess and always use a good lube. Sometimes a bit of improvisation is necessary!! Recently had an encounter where my kind Sir had me chained up, bent over, used my throat juices as lube, douched me with cold water, whilst fucking my arse. Multiple orgasms all the way lol. I guess it’s not for everyone but each to their own I say! |
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"Anal is amazing. My advice would be to always prepare with a douche - no one wants any of the wrong mess and always use a good lube. Sometimes a bit of improvisation is necessary!! Recently had an encounter where my kind Sir had me chained up, bent over, used my throat juices as lube, douched me with cold water, whilst fucking my arse. Multiple orgasms all the way lol. I guess it’s not for everyone but each to their own I say! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have two consecutive videos that I deliberately made 59 seconds.
The first was Bad Bitch building and having a vaginal orgasm (OMG that's an amazing thing to watch). The second an anal fuck and orgasm! I didn't have to wait for the second - it just popped |
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"We have two consecutive videos that I deliberately made 59 seconds.
The first was Bad Bitch building and having a vaginal orgasm (OMG that's an amazing thing to watch). The second an anal fuck and orgasm! I didn't have to wait for the second - it just popped"
shame they're friends only! |
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The orgasms from anal sex are intense and last longer. My legs are so wobbly after that sometimes I don't dare get off the bed.
As for perp I have a clean in the shower and use plenty of lube. Then relax as I know what's coming lots of fabulous orgasms. X |
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I love anal. It's a different (but not lesser) kind of orgasm for me.
I usually douche if I'm planning on having it. Other times I know my diet and body well enough to know if it's a safe enough option at short notice or not. |
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By *B1010Couple
over a year ago
sheffield |
Tried in the past with exs and it never happened . Now with J he knew exactly what to do (not trying to just ram it in) and my god I love it. Best position. Also a position I won’t do with anyone else
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