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By *lirtyAndFun OP   Couple  over a year ago

Rushden

You meet someone so you leave a verification, if you meet the same person a few times do you leave multiple? How long between verifications should there be?

Or just not bother after the first?

I know some people like having verifications left for them whilst some aren't bothered.

Thanks fabbers x

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By *ora the explorerWoman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Just don’t bother full stop.

I often think wonder what’s the point of multiple ones. Some people get them from the same person regularly. Unless it’s a look I’m having lots of sex thing. Go me!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You meet someone so you leave a verification, if you meet the same person a few times do you leave multiple? How long between verifications should there be?

Or just not bother after the first?

I know some people like having verifications left for them whilst some aren't bothered.

Thanks fabbers x"

If they ask me to I'll leave one. Not bothered if they leave me one. I won't leave one every time we meet, don't see the point.

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By *adCherriesCouple  over a year ago

Cheshire/Northwest

Always the first time but after that it really isn't necessary unless its been quite some time.

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By *ora the explorerWoman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"You meet someone so you leave a verification, if you meet the same person a few times do you leave multiple? How long between verifications should there be?

Or just not bother after the first?

I know some people like having verifications left for them whilst some aren't bothered.

Thanks fabbers x

If they ask me to I'll leave one. Not bothered if they leave me one. I won't leave one every time we meet, don't see the point. "

Yeah I’ll leave one if they really want one but only ever a social one no matter if anything else happened.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Just the once, unless I'm shagging a chameleon the outcome will be pretty much the same if I see them again.

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By *ea monkeyMan  over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

The whole point of verifications is to confirm that the person is real.

Writing something nice and memorable about them to inform others has become kind of secondary but repeat verifications are more than a little bit lamp post pissy/bragging in my opinion.

The person is still real, do others need to know that you met again?

We certainly don’t need to know who did what to whom and with what!

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By *parkle1974Woman  over a year ago

Leeds

Because I met regularly I don't see the point in verifying each and every time. My personal ones remain hidden anyway so it makes no difference.

It's like fabadvisor

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'd say it's okay to have multi veris if there's an escalation. Eg a social Veri then a full on meet Veri.

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By *ickshawedCouple  over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I'll verify more than once if someone asks me too, but I don't display multiple verifications from the same person. But it's personal choice.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I look for someone who has recent veri rather than the number. Especially if it's from same person time and time again. That's pointless. For me, a veri summary is more useful in proving someone is genuine and active instead of a fake or attention seeking only.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The whole point of verifications is to confirm that the person is real.

Writing something nice and memorable about them to inform others has become kind of secondary but repeat verifications are more than a little bit lamp post pissy/bragging in my opinion.

The person is still real, do others need to know that you met again?

We certainly don’t need to know who did what to whom and with what! "

This

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I often do it as a momento for the person (I'm aware it might be displayed, but it's about them not me). So yes, sometimes I'll leave multiple verifications.

Depends on what the other person wants, too.

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By *he AmbassadorMan  over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara


"Because I met regularly I don't see the point in verifying each and every time. My personal ones remain hidden anyway so it makes no difference.

It's like fabadvisor "

you can Fabadvise me any day, whaa

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By *parkle1974Woman  over a year ago

Leeds


"Because I met regularly I don't see the point in verifying each and every time. My personal ones remain hidden anyway so it makes no difference.

It's like fabadvisor you can Fabadvise me any day, whaa "

Hold on and I'll do you a review

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By *he AmbassadorMan  over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara


"Because I met regularly I don't see the point in verifying each and every time. My personal ones remain hidden anyway so it makes no difference.

It's like fabadvisor you can Fabadvise me any day, whaa

Hold on and I'll do you a review "

not what I ment, but I'll take it lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'd say 1st time then after that it's no one else's business

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Do what you want! Sometimes sex with the same person can be very, very different! If you want to do multiple…go for it. Go hard or go home!

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Do what you want! Sometimes sex with the same person can be very, very different! If you want to do multiple…go for it. Go hard or go home! "

Yeah. Leaving a verification and displaying a verification are different things

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By *he AmbassadorMan  over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara


"Do what you want! Sometimes sex with the same person can be very, very different! If you want to do multiple…go for it. Go hard or go home! "
that's my Village Motto, lol,,

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Do what you want! Sometimes sex with the same person can be very, very different! If you want to do multiple…go for it. Go hard or go home!

Yeah. Leaving a verification and displaying a verification are different things"

Exactly - it’s just personal choice. I’d prefer to see someone’s veris so I can see if we’re on the same page - but I don’t display all mine x

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By *andyfloss2000Woman  over a year ago

ashford

Like a verri more the merrier x

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By *bi HaiveMan  over a year ago
Forum Mod

Cheeseville, Somerset


"You meet someone so you leave a verification, if you meet the same person a few times do you leave multiple? How long between verifications should there be?

Or just not bother after the first?

I know some people like having verifications left for them whilst some aren't bothered.

Thanks fabbers x"

Entirely up to you.

It's your profile (and theirs of course).

Some care. Others don't. Some will be offended if you don't leave a veri after each and every shag. Others see it as lamp post pissing and staking a claim/warning others off.

As some don't read the words on profiles so won't notice they're from the same person/people, they might see a high number of veris in the summary and be put off.

We'd maybe leave repeat social veris. But play ones? No need at all. We've certainly never shown all the play ones and not leaving veris has never affected our lives on here or upset people we've met.

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By *etcplCouple  over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Veris are for my wank bank

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By *rightonsteveMan  over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I have some horrid ones but I don’t know how to delete them.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I’ve done both regarding multiple veris or not…

I really don’t mind leaving multiple nonissue to me

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