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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This place is a numbers game. A no response or rejection is based on a split second decision, it's not based on who you are completely. It takes time to find the right people for us, don't take things personally.
When in doubt remember..
You are enough.
Know your worth and remember what you bring to the table.
Don't jump through hoops or pretend to be someone your not to please others.
Don't let the opinions of strangers dictate your self esteem. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m beginning to embrace and enjoy being told I’m handsome.
Also, as much as the site is geared towards many things sexual, just a bit of bro’ love too. The cyber equivalent of a fist bump, or similar. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"‘you’re so beautiful  ’.
I’ve had a few of those in my short time on earth. And I still remember them. 
Do men like being called beautiful? "
I mean, I do. It’s a nice thing to hear for anyone I thought? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’m beginning to embrace and enjoy being told I’m handsome.
Also, as much as the site is geared towards many things sexual, just a bit of bro’ love too. The cyber equivalent of a fist bump, or similar. "
I like calling guys handsome, but idk the way I say it makes it sound like I'm talking to a toddler who just put on a tuxedo for the first time  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"‘you’re so beautiful ’.
I’ve had a few of those in my short time on earth. And I still remember them.
Do men like being called beautiful?
I mean, I do. It’s a nice thing to hear for anyone I thought?"
I guess it’s would guys prefer beautiful or handsome? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"‘you’re so beautiful ’.
I’ve had a few of those in my short time on earth. And I still remember them.
Do men like being called beautiful?
I mean, I do. It’s a nice thing to hear for anyone I thought?"
It is, but I think it depends on the man. I'm aware some people think it can sound a little feminine, and I'm trying to get repeat meets not bruise egos |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had a couple over last weekend that complimented my pictures. That definitely made my day, especially as one is on my hotlist."
You look a bit stressed in one of them. Good pics though.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Something along the lines of…. Yes. I notice you. 
Also, ‘“come round to mine for the night and fuck me like you’re going to prison for the next year….” That would work too.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I had a couple over last weekend that complimented my pictures. That definitely made my day, especially as one is on my hotlist."
To be fair it does seem like you put a lot of effort into your pics, kudos |
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"This place is a numbers game. A no response or rejection is based on a split second decision, it's not based on who you are completely. It takes time to find the right people for us, don't take things personally.
When in doubt remember..
You are enough.
Know your worth and remember what you bring to the table.
Don't jump through hoops or pretend to be someone your not to please others.
Don't let the opinions of strangers dictate your self esteem."
Bravo |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"‘you’re so beautiful ’.
I’ve had a few of those in my short time on earth. And I still remember them.
Do men like being called beautiful?
I mean, I do. It’s a nice thing to hear for anyone I thought?
I guess it’s would guys prefer beautiful or handsome? "
definitely beautiful. Handsome doesn’t even feel like that much of a compliment. Doesn’t make me feel like the person sees me as any more than any other attractive person. |
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"This place is a numbers game. A no response or rejection is based on a split second decision, it's not based on who you are completely. It takes time to find the right people for us, don't take things personally.
When in doubt remember..
You are enough.
Know your worth and remember what you bring to the table.
Don't jump through hoops or pretend to be someone your not to please others.
Don't let the opinions of strangers dictate your self esteem."
This right here folks!!!
Beautifully put and succinct |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"‘you’re so beautiful ’.
I’ve had a few of those in my short time on earth. And I still remember them.
Do men like being called beautiful?
I mean, I do. It’s a nice thing to hear for anyone I thought?
It is, but I think it depends on the man. I'm aware some people think it can sound a little feminine, and I'm trying to get repeat meets not bruise egos "
Trewwwwwww. Go get your man |
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"I’m beginning to embrace and enjoy being told I’m handsome.
Also, as much as the site is geared towards many things sexual, just a bit of bro’ love too. The cyber equivalent of a fist bump, or similar.
I like calling guys handsome, but idk the way I say it makes it sound like I'm talking to a toddler who just put on a tuxedo for the first time "
I get this - same as telling a women she's beautiful can sound cheesy as you sound all James Blunt. But you can never go far wrong by being genuine and I'm sure all men would appreciate the compliment... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"‘you’re so beautiful ’.
I’ve had a few of those in my short time on earth. And I still remember them.
Do men like being called beautiful?
I mean, I do. It’s a nice thing to hear for anyone I thought?
I guess it’s would guys prefer beautiful or handsome? definitely beautiful. Handsome doesn’t even feel like that much of a compliment. Doesn’t make me feel like the person sees me as any more than any other attractive person. "
Yeh. Handsome. My mum calls me handsome. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m beginning to embrace and enjoy being told I’m handsome.
Also, as much as the site is geared towards many things sexual, just a bit of bro’ love too. The cyber equivalent of a fist bump, or similar.
I like calling guys handsome, but idk the way I say it makes it sound like I'm talking to a toddler who just put on a tuxedo for the first time
I get this - same as telling a women she's beautiful can sound cheesy as you sound all James Blunt. But you can never go far wrong by being genuine and I'm sure all men would appreciate the compliment..."
Ah Shit! I tell women they’re beautiful |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"‘you’re so beautiful ’.
I’ve had a few of those in my short time on earth. And I still remember them.
Do men like being called beautiful?
I mean, I do. It’s a nice thing to hear for anyone I thought?
I guess it’s would guys prefer beautiful or handsome? definitely beautiful. Handsome doesn’t even feel like that much of a compliment. Doesn’t make me feel like the person sees me as any more than any other attractive person.
Yeh. Handsome. My mum calls me handsome. "
Same . When I’ve just got a haircut my mum and nan always say ‘you look very handsome’ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Aside from the obvious nudes/sexts? "
Depends
1960's - I've got a ticket to ride
1970's - I've got a ticket to the school disco
1980's - I'm outa school, Call Me, Blondie
1990's - I've rented some videos from Blockbuster. How d'ya fancy a night with Shirley Valentine. Oh, and I've also invited Rita, Sue and Bob too.
2000's - Hey, I got a Nokia 3310, fancy playing a game of hunt the Snake tonight?
2010's - Hey, I'm decorating my flat, but I need some help choosing my colours. Fancy coming round to help me choose from 50 shades of grey?
2020's - Hiya, please stay at home tonight, I can't afford to feed you and I certainly can't afford to turn on the heating to keep ya warm. Maybe catch up on Zoom? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Whilst I understand the logistics of this site and how bombarded women are, it would be so nice to receive a message from one who I hadn't messaged first. That would make my day |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This place is a numbers game. A no response or rejection is based on a split second decision, it's not based on who you are completely. It takes time to find the right people for us, don't take things personally.
When in doubt remember..
You are enough.
Know your worth and remember what you bring to the table.
Don't jump through hoops or pretend to be someone your not to please others.
Don't let the opinions of strangers dictate your self esteem."
Oh you mean to message this to a guy? That's a really nice sentiment but I was thinking something cute and cheerful haha  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had a couple over last weekend that complimented my pictures. That definitely made my day, especially as one is on my hotlist.
You look a bit stressed in one of them. Good pics though. "
Haha, thank you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had a couple over last weekend that complimented my pictures. That definitely made my day, especially as one is on my hotlist.
To be fair it does seem like you put a lot of effort into your pics, kudos "
Cheers, I'm trying to make a bit more effort, so that's very kind of you. |
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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago
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"Aside from the obvious nudes/sexts? "
Something like 'hey I'm not pregnant btw false alarm' lol
Or I can't wait to ride your face & deep throat that big salami of yours when we meet tonight' 
That would put a smile on my face for sure hahaha |
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Get round here now Im horny and wet and I want to sit on your face it may not interest most guys or Women but it would be like all my Chritmasses and Birthdays rolled into one haha well a guy can dream. |
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"I’m beginning to embrace and enjoy being told I’m handsome.
Also, as much as the site is geared towards many things sexual, just a bit of bro’ love too. The cyber equivalent of a fist bump, or similar.
I like calling guys handsome, but idk the way I say it makes it sound like I'm talking to a toddler who just put on a tuxedo for the first time
I get this - same as telling a women she's beautiful can sound cheesy as you sound all James Blunt. But you can never go far wrong by being genuine and I'm sure all men would appreciate the compliment...
Ah Shit! I tell women they’re beautiful "
You know me, Steve - I'm just straight a "you're hot af" kind of guy! But in all honesty, I don't think the word matters if you're genuine - it's all in the delivery! |
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"Aside from the obvious nudes/sexts? "
'Listen, I don't have much time to explain: I need you to meet me at Aldi's, bring a Nerf Ultra One Blaster, some chocolate chip cookies, a parachute and sone rope.
We're gonna steal the Declaration of Independence.
Also bring coffee. No wait, six coffees.'
Works every time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Aside from the obvious nudes/sexts?
'Listen, I don't have much time to explain: I need you to meet me at Aldi's, bring a Nerf Ultra One Blaster, some chocolate chip cookies, a parachute and sone rope.
We're gonna steal the Declaration of Independence.
Also bring coffee. No wait, six coffees.'
Works every time. "
Copy and pasting my messages again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Aside from the obvious nudes/sexts?
'Listen, I don't have much time to explain: I need you to meet me at Aldi's, bring a Nerf Ultra One Blaster, some chocolate chip cookies, a parachute and sone rope.
We're gonna steal the Declaration of Independence.
Also bring coffee. No wait, six coffees.'
Works every time.
Copy and pasting my messages again. "
Thats a good one lol |
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"Aside from the obvious nudes/sexts?
'Listen, I don't have much time to explain: I need you to meet me at Aldi's, bring a Nerf Ultra One Blaster, some chocolate chip cookies, a parachute and sone rope.
We're gonna steal the Declaration of Independence.
Also bring coffee. No wait, six coffees.'
Works every time.
Copy and pasting my messages again. "
Sorry I drank all six coffees and fell off the roof without my parachute. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Aside from the obvious nudes/sexts?
“Last night was amazing, look forward to seeing you again asap” "
Personally I find this is more of a one way ticket to ghost town |
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"I’m beginning to embrace and enjoy being told I’m handsome.
Also, as much as the site is geared towards many things sexual, just a bit of bro’ love too. The cyber equivalent of a fist bump, or similar.
I like calling guys handsome, but idk the way I say it makes it sound like I'm talking to a toddler who just put on a tuxedo for the first time "
I think it’s pronounced. ‘andsome .init. bruv . |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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For me it’s a thoughtful message thats genuine and recognises me.
The best message that I ever had was a random one that dropped into my inbox and thanked me for the person that I am and what I bring.
They didn’t want anything, didn’t want to meet, just to express their thoughts. I was genuinely touched |
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