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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I always have plenty of people to chat to but I do think it's harder to find people who are genuine swingers."
I agree with this. Approach in the right way (platonically) and you will always find people to chat too.
Genuine swingers who understand dynamics are much harder to find |
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By *ea wang OP Man
over a year ago
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"I always have plenty of people to chat to but I do think it's harder to find people who are genuine swingers."
I've found it harder outside my established swinger friends to get other swingers to engage in chats after lockdown ,I think while we were in lockdown more people tended to chat to pass time or because they missed Interaction
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I always have plenty of people to chat to but I do think it's harder to find people who are genuine swingers.I've found it harder outside my established swinger friends to get other swingers to engage in chats after lockdown ,I think while we were in lockdown more people tended to chat to pass time or because they missed Interaction"
You could have a point. There was most definitely a surge in people joining fab during lockdown. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think a lot are busy planning eats with people they haven't been able to see over the past couple of years x"
Pizza, Chinese, Indian perhaps, or Maccy D's?  |
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By *ea wang OP Man
over a year ago
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Just seems to me anyway that fab has slowly started to go down hill ,maybe it's the fact I'm getting to the age that I don't Fall In to people's ideal demographic or just because there's too many messages too reply to people just don't see |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sometimes it's hard to stay upbeat I know how he feels u give your best effort and it gets u nothing not even a look at your message but again it can be down to sheer volume of messages"
And down to how appealing a person's profile is. Black silhouettes for example are a big no-no for me. |
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By *ea wang OP Man
over a year ago
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"Sometimes it's hard to stay upbeat I know how he feels u give your best effort and it gets u nothing not even a look at your message but again it can be down to sheer volume of messages
And down to how appealing a person's profile is. Black silhouettes for example are a big no-no for me."
I do have pics if requested but find u send 9ne 9n the basis you hope the other party or parties will reciprocate and 99 times I. 100 they either don't after saying they will or they just ignore or block and to be fair slot of the people u talk to have either a black silloiute or a non deescript pic |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sometimes it's hard to stay upbeat I know how he feels u give your best effort and it gets u nothing not even a look at your message but again it can be down to sheer volume of messages
And down to how appealing a person's profile is. Black silhouettes for example are a big no-no for me.I do have pics if requested but find u send 9ne 9n the basis you hope the other party or parties will reciprocate and 99 times I. 100 they either don't after saying they will or they just ignore or block and to be fair slot of the people u talk to have either a black silloiute or a non deescript pic"
It's up to you how you do things on here, but I find as with most things in life, effort in equals the rewards reaped. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It’s a lot harder (giggles) than it was years ago to understand what people are here for now.
If I take the forums, I assume people use it for a social network (an alternative to Other chat apps) a little like me, although I would meet some on the forum  so chatting in threads are easy.
Off the forum? A delete is a polite no.
It depends who you message. |
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