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Paying for a hotel room
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do you ask for half or do you cover the cost?
We’re in the mindset that you’re our guest so we should cover the room…? After all, we’re getting to fuck you haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I use to when I was younger but not no more. I only meet if they can accommodate. No longer paying for hotel rooms for first time to find out that I wouldn’t meet them again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I suggest a hotel that means I am willing to pay, if he wants to contribute then I suggest he pay for dinner.
If he suggests a hotel then I offer to pay towards cost or I buy dinner |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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depends on scenario i guess. you as a couple might be booking room anyway..
is it a premier inn at £65 or Indigo at £185 (or more!)
who got dinner or drinks?
who wants to pay as an alpha dominance move..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We go with the flow, if we're planning a hotel visit anyway, we'll pay
If though, a hotel is suggested entirely for the meet, I think splitting the cost is fair.
Everyone is involved, so all should cover the cost. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If a couple are with a single person should the couple pay two thirds ?"
I don't think so, it's likely of one of the couple wasn't interested to be involved, neither would be there.
Of course there are those that play alone, though I'm thinking of their aim is to pay together. |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
Our philosophy is if you are our guests, either in our home or out, then we cover the costs for accommodation, food etc.
However, we also know some people are fiercely independent and so won’t force it or create an argument over it. |
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"If I suggest a hotel that means I am willing to pay, if he wants to contribute then I suggest he pay for dinner.
If he suggests a hotel then I offer to pay towards cost or I buy dinner "
......awaiting invite  x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've paid for the room (or airbnb, more fun!) quite often, partly because I'm a trad gent who believes in paying for a first date, maybe more, sometimes because I knew the other person wasn't so well off. Happy to share costs or even get a freebie (cos I'm worth it, you know?) It would put me off immensely if anyone made it an issue! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am paying for it for a number off reasons
1st safty it’s in my name there’s a record off me being there
2 I probably be staying there the night so I just pay for it sins I be useing it |
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By *r laidbackMan
over a year ago
London & New Brighton |
"If I suggest a hotel that means I am willing to pay, if he wants to contribute then I suggest he pay for dinner.
If he suggests a hotel then I offer to pay towards cost or I buy dinner "
See now thats cool, more of you out there would be fantastic |
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If somebody already has a room, like they are in holiday, then I wouldn't expect to pay. If it's a group decision to book one then I think everybody should chip in. If somebody really wants to pay then I'm not going to stop them but it wouldn't feel right. |
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"Do you ask for half or do you cover the cost?
We’re in the mindset that you’re our guest so we should cover the room…? After all, we’re getting to fuck you haha "
We generally take it in turns to pay but it depends on the situation xx |
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By *iger4uWoman
over a year ago
In my happy place |
I used to take turns with a regular friend but i always booked it and he gave me the £.
Except one time he booked a twin room... Mid session the beds parted and I disappeared down the gap  |
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"Do you ask for half or do you cover the cost?
We’re in the mindset that you’re our guest so we should cover the room…? After all, we’re getting to fuck you haha "
That would be our understanding too. However guests could always feel free to bring some tasty treats along with them |
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