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over a year ago
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"To the lovely ladies out there, my wife is worried about the after effects of anal, can you reassure her.... For my sake! Lol"
apparently it's not an issue, loads of lube and taking your time during penetration, don't try and ram it In and go mental she Will be fine
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Biggest tip I can give is don’t force it lot off first times get put off because
Someone harp and harp at them about it
They done it just to stop the harping
And not injoyed it
Let her want it
Also long term effects
None at the moment and emmm
I took some pritty big things up there
And been banged more times than a car door
And still get the your so tight comments |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Biggest tip I can give is don’t force it lot off first times get put off because
Someone harp and harp at them about it
They done it just to stop the harping
And not injoyed it
Let her want it
Also long term effects
None at the moment and emmm
I took some pritty big things up there
And been banged more times than a car door
And still get the your so tight comments "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Biggest tip I can give is don’t force it lot off first times get put off because
Someone harp and harp at them about it
They done it just to stop the harping
And not injoyed it
Let her want it
Also long term effects
None at the moment and emmm
I took some pritty big things up there
And been banged more times than a car door
And still get the your so tight comments "
True though I still get a giggle inside when I hear that
And I think to my self only if you new wonder if they be saying that   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Biggest tip I can give is don’t force it lot off first times get put off because
Someone harp and harp at them about it
They done it just to stop the harping
And not injoyed it
Let her want it
Also long term effects
None at the moment and emmm
I took some pritty big things up there
And been banged more times than a car door
And still get the your so tight comments
True though I still get a giggle inside when I hear that
And I think to my self only if you new wonder if they be saying that "
no one needs to know |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Biggest tip I can give is don’t force it lot off first times get put off because
Someone harp and harp at them about it
They done it just to stop the harping
And not injoyed it
Let her want it
Also long term effects
None at the moment and emmm
I took some pritty big things up there
And been banged more times than a car door
And still get the your so tight comments
True though I still get a giggle inside when I hear that
And I think to my self only if you new wonder if they be saying that no one needs to know "
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I was very relaxed and loved it (lots of lube was key too).
The only after effect was me wanting more!!
That said, anal sex is not everyone’s cup of tea so if it ends up not being something she wants just respect her decision. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I enjoy experimenting alone with toys/plugs too. Takes the pressure of massively, and gets me pretty aroused 
Anal for myself isn't always a sure thing. Sometimes it works for me, sometimes not. I don't stress about it though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ps my advice is what I've been told. I've never actually done anal
Don't knock it till you've tried it perhaps?  "
I know, I'm not into guys but if a female wanted to peg me I could be down. But I've never given either |
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"To the lovely ladies out there, my wife is worried about the after effects of anal, can you reassure her.... For my sake! Lol"
Why don't you let her fuck you in the ass to show her she has nothing to worry about? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's fine..if you douche beforehand first should be no issues. When going in if she pushes out slightly like she is going for a s... And breath in and lots of lube. Gently ease it in bit by bit . Just some friendly advice which makes it easier and pleasurable for all  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lots of lube and take your time going in, once the initial 'ooh!' Is out the way you can slowly pick up pace but make sure she's comfortable throughout. Good luck |
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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago
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TGIF. (Tongue Goes In First)
You don't need to progress straight to anal sex. Maybe try a couple of sessions where you just use your tongue and a finger, so she gets used to the sensation. If its really not for her then respect her wishes.
Douche kits may help if she has a mental block about things getting messy. Have some dark towels and wet wipes on hand.
If she does want to progress then warm up with lots of vaginal sex first, maybe add a small buttplug so she can relax around it.
As said, lots of lube and GO GENTLY. Don't try and slide all the way in. Try just the tip, let her relax, go in a little more. Reassurance is always good. If she wants to continue let her dictate the pace. A vibrator on her clit may help her relax.
With a slow build up like this you may be getting a lack of stimulation. A cock ring can help you remain rigid enough for penetration.
If she isn't comfortable don't try and go back to vaginal without cleaning yourself first. Nobody wants to be out of action with a yeast infection.
Finally don't store swarfega and deep heat next to your lube where they could get mixed up in the heat of the moment.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Trying getting some butt plugs that go up in size. That can help. I normally find the more hornier I am the better x"
could have her say do ra mi fa so la ti dooooo as each one goes in
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What after effects from anal?
As long as you are gentle and she relaxes she’s gonna be fine
Also I’d definitely recommend some prepping in making sure she’s all clean. As that could cause anxiety and not being able to relax x |
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No real after effects if you go slow and let her relax around you (as others have said). My first time, he had watched too much porn and thought you could just slide in like pussy. I didn't try again for over 10 years and now I love it but only when I feel comfortable and empty lol
If it gets a little messy during then as long as you don't freak out and start screaming I'm sure you will be ok.
If you cum in her then there will be the hilarity of that coming out but if it's your wife then I'm sure it'll be nothing you haven't heard before
Condoms will prevent that and reduce any risk to you too, but obviously that's your call.
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By *bione_1Man
over a year ago
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Some good advice here .
I've been curious to try taking anal too .
I've had two bad attempts / experiences.
Guys were too pushy and o was not relaxed enough
.I know I enjoy amal play as my ex gf used to love to finger my ass and that's what got my curiosity aroused.
Maybe I should stick to female only stimulation ?
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"Some good advice here .
I've been curious to try taking anal too .
I've had two bad attempts / experiences.
Guys were too pushy and o was not relaxed enough
.I know I enjoy amal play as my ex gf used to love to finger my ass and that's what got my curiosity aroused.
Maybe I should stick to female only stimulation ?
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Guys have fingers too |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No real after effects if you go slow and let her relax around you (as others have said). My first time, he had watched too much porn and thought you could just slide in like pussy. I didn't try again for over 10 years and now I love it but only when I feel comfortable and empty lol
If it gets a little messy during then as long as you don't freak out and start screaming I'm sure you will be ok.
If you cum in her then there will be the hilarity of that coming out but if it's your wife then I'm sure it'll be nothing you haven't heard before
Condoms will prevent that and reduce any risk to you too, but obviously that's your call.
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Ha ha cum farts are real
Worse if you for get abs go about your day as normal
Just got to flaunt the wet patch and own it |
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