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over a year ago
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I think this because I’ve only had sex with the same person for 10 years.
Has sex changed? Do the cool kids do it differently? Is there new moves I don’t know about? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The same as falling off a bike?
Do you just get back on - the hell with it?
Or
Not
Kind regards 
Speak for yourself. For some of us it isnt that easy ."
Why do you assume it’s easy for me? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think this because I’ve only had sex with the same person for 10 years.
Has sex changed? Do the cool kids do it differently? Is there new moves I don’t know about? "
I just haven’t done it for a while |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think this because I’ve only had sex with the same person for 10 years.
Has sex changed? Do the cool kids do it differently? Is there new moves I don’t know about? "
All done on WhatsChat nowadays |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think this because I’ve only had sex with the same person for 10 years.
Has sex changed? Do the cool kids do it differently? Is there new moves I don’t know about?
All done on WhatsChat nowadays"
Ahhhh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think this because I’ve only had sex with the same person for 10 years.
Has sex changed? Do the cool kids do it differently? Is there new moves I don’t know about?
I just haven’t done it for a while "
Just watch loads of porn and copy that. What could possibly go wrong?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I went over 10 years. Most of it was second nature and instinct took over.
Other things needed a bit more of a refresher course  "
Refresher course …. Gracious |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on what kind
If it’s a potential partner I would say get a couple off practice runs in just in case
If it’s just random one night well no need for that your never really going to see them agein
So don’t need to worry if they come back for more
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think this because I’ve only had sex with the same person for 10 years.
Has sex changed? Do the cool kids do it differently? Is there new moves I don’t know about?
All done on WhatsChat nowadays"
Can I get that on my nokia 3310? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Depends on what kind
If it’s a potential partner I would say get a couple off practice runs in just in case
If it’s just random one night well no need for that your never really going to see them agein
So don’t need to worry if they come back for more
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So I need just a random shag |
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"Depends how good you were at riding a bike?
I was crap
At both
I'd get a scooter instead then.
 yes"
I doubt were crap. You're funny and entertaining here, I guess you're the same in a 1 on 1 situation. With the right person, it shouldn't be frightening, but fun xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Depends on what kind
If it’s a potential partner I would say get a couple off practice runs in just in case
If it’s just random one night well no need for that your never really going to see them agein
So don’t need to worry if they come back for more
So I need just a random shag "
Well helloooooo  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Depends how good you were at riding a bike?
I was crap
At both
I'd get a scooter instead then.
yes
I doubt were crap. You're funny and entertaining here, I guess you're the same in a 1 on 1 situation. With the right person, it shouldn't be frightening, but fun xx"
I am scared  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Depends on what kind
If it’s a potential partner I would say get a couple off practice runs in just in case
If it’s just random one night well no need for that your never really going to see them agein
So don’t need to worry if they come back for more
So I need just a random shag
Well helloooooo "
Hellllooo lovely |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Depends on what kind
If it’s a potential partner I would say get a couple off practice runs in just in case
If it’s just random one night well no need for that your never really going to see them agein
So don’t need to worry if they come back for more
So I need just a random shag "
Well that depends on if that’s what you want to do
If your single then why not if nothing locked in stone then no harm done have a bit off mindless fun now and then |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Depends on what kind
If it’s a potential partner I would say get a couple off practice runs in just in case
If it’s just random one night well no need for that your never really going to see them agein
So don’t need to worry if they come back for more
So I need just a random shag
Well that depends on if that’s what you want to do
If your single then why not if nothing locked in stone then no harm done have a bit off mindless fun now and then "
What If I’m a crap shag now?
Too many questions |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There’s a joke there 
Of course it is. Once you know how, you know how. I can do bunny hops (there’s a memory) and wheelies.
Show off"
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"Depends how good you were at riding a bike?
I was crap
At both
I'd get a scooter instead then.
yes
I doubt were crap. You're funny and entertaining here, I guess you're the same in a 1 on 1 situation. With the right person, it shouldn't be frightening, but fun xx
I am scared "
Of what? x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Depends on what kind
If it’s a potential partner I would say get a couple off practice runs in just in case
If it’s just random one night well no need for that your never really going to see them agein
So don’t need to worry if they come back for more
So I need just a random shag
Well that depends on if that’s what you want to do
If your single then why not if nothing locked in stone then no harm done have a bit off mindless fun now and then
What If I’m a crap shag now?
Too many questions"
That’s what the practice runs are for who cares if your not going to see them again
That way when it comes to a potential partner you be all ready to go for them to want to come back for more |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Depends on what kind
If it’s a potential partner I would say get a couple off practice runs in just in case
If it’s just random one night well no need for that your never really going to see them agein
So don’t need to worry if they come back for more
So I need just a random shag
Well that depends on if that’s what you want to do
If your single then why not if nothing locked in stone then no harm done have a bit off mindless fun now and then
What If I’m a crap shag now?
Too many questions
That’s what the practice runs are for who cares if your not going to see them again
That way when it comes to a potential partner you be all ready to go for them to want to come back for more "
You’re speaking too much sense |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Depends on what kind
If it’s a potential partner I would say get a couple off practice runs in just in case
If it’s just random one night well no need for that your never really going to see them agein
So don’t need to worry if they come back for more
So I need just a random shag
Well that depends on if that’s what you want to do
If your single then why not if nothing locked in stone then no harm done have a bit off mindless fun now and then
What If I’m a crap shag now?
Too many questions"
Over thinking it sweets!
The more you do that the tenser you will be.
Tension is not good for a fun time! |
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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago
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"Maybe find someone who fell off their bike aswell
Now ….. what if they’re crap!! I need excellence, to mask my crapness "
No, you need someone who is more crap than you are, thereby making you the excellent one! |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Flo, find a good motorcyclist that you don't really fancy but knows his way around a bike. That way you won't be too attached to the bike if he decides he'd rather experience another bike but you'll also be in for the ride of your life.
(It was really tricky trying to make this as Carry On for you, I hope you appreciate that) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Depends on what kind
If it’s a potential partner I would say get a couple off practice runs in just in case
If it’s just random one night well no need for that your never really going to see them agein
So don’t need to worry if they come back for more
So I need just a random shag
Well that depends on if that’s what you want to do
If your single then why not if nothing locked in stone then no harm done have a bit off mindless fun now and then
What If I’m a crap shag now?
Too many questions
Over thinking it sweets!
The more you do that the tenser you will be.
Tension is not good for a fun time!"
I’ll have to just grab the bull by it’s horn
See - I can do innuendo |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Maybe find someone who fell off their bike aswell
Now ….. what if they’re crap!! I need excellence, to mask my crapness
You could just hug with it in "
Interesting |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Maybe find someone who fell off their bike aswell
Now ….. what if they’re crap!! I need excellence, to mask my crapness
No, you need someone who is more crap than you are, thereby making you the excellent one!"
Eh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Depends on what kind
If it’s a potential partner I would say get a couple off practice runs in just in case
If it’s just random one night well no need for that your never really going to see them agein
So don’t need to worry if they come back for more
So I need just a random shag
Well that depends on if that’s what you want to do
If your single then why not if nothing locked in stone then no harm done have a bit off mindless fun now and then
What If I’m a crap shag now?
Too many questions
Over thinking it sweets!
The more you do that the tenser you will be.
Tension is not good for a fun time!
I’ll have to just grab the bull by it’s horn
See - I can do innuendo "
Noted.
Fnarr fnarr |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Flo, find a good motorcyclist that you don't really fancy but knows his way around a bike. That way you won't be too attached to the bike if he decides he'd rather experience another bike but you'll also be in for the ride of your life.
(It was really tricky trying to make this as Carry On for you, I hope you appreciate that)"
I love this
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Depends on what kind
If it’s a potential partner I would say get a couple off practice runs in just in case
If it’s just random one night well no need for that your never really going to see them agein
So don’t need to worry if they come back for more
So I need just a random shag
Well that depends on if that’s what you want to do
If your single then why not if nothing locked in stone then no harm done have a bit off mindless fun now and then
What If I’m a crap shag now?
Too many questions
That’s what the practice runs are for who cares if your not going to see them again
That way when it comes to a potential partner you be all ready to go for them to want to come back for more
You’re speaking too much sense "
I always do try to x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Flo, find a good motorcyclist that you don't really fancy but knows his way around a bike. That way you won't be too attached to the bike if he decides he'd rather experience another bike but you'll also be in for the ride of your life.
(It was really tricky trying to make this as Carry On for you, I hope you appreciate that)"
Haha brilliant! |
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By *ell 192Man
over a year ago
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I think this because I’ve only had sex with the same person for 10 years.
Has sex changed? Do the cool kids do it differently? Is there new moves I don’t know about?
forgotten the entire thread looking at your horny pics and vid lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m not sure Floro 
Me either
It’s been a very time since I’ve had sex or rode a bike . Shall we try
Together ? Yes !! "
Shall we try the bike or sex first |
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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago
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"Maybe find someone who fell off their bike aswell
Now ….. what if they’re crap!! I need excellence, to mask my crapness
No, you need someone who is more crap than you are, thereby making you the excellent one!
Eh"
If they were more crap than you, you would be masking their crapness, is what I was trying to say, but craply |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m not sure Floro
Me either
It’s been a very time since I’ve had sex or rode a bike . Shall we try
Together ? Yes !!
Shall we try the bike or sex first"
Want to borrow some stabilisers? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’m not sure Floro
Me either
It’s been a very time since I’ve had sex or rode a bike . Shall we try
Together ? Yes !!
Shall we try the bike or sex first"
Sex … sex ….  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Oh i have fallen off my bike a few times , it can be jolly ouchie especially at speed
I’m peri menopausal darling - no ouchies needed ha ha i shall wear my gelmet and bring my puncture repair kit "
Thank you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Maybe find someone who fell off their bike aswell
Now ….. what if they’re crap!! I need excellence, to mask my crapness
No, you need someone who is more crap than you are, thereby making you the excellent one!
Eh
If they were more crap than you, you would be masking their crapness, is what I was trying to say, but craply "
Ahhh ….. I see
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"Maybe find someone who fell off their bike aswell
Now ….. what if they’re crap!! I need excellence, to mask my crapness
No, you need someone who is more crap than you are, thereby making you the excellent one!
Eh
If they were more crap than you, you would be masking their crapness, is what I was trying to say, but craply
Ahhh ….. I see
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There's nothing to be frightened of, if you find the right mate. If you can talk through any potential hang ups, then it should be a relaxing, fun experience. A good mate will make you feel wonderful and want you to go again. Trust is all you need x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Maybe find someone who fell off their bike aswell
Now ….. what if they’re crap!! I need excellence, to mask my crapness
No, you need someone who is more crap than you are, thereby making you the excellent one!
Eh
If they were more crap than you, you would be masking their crapness, is what I was trying to say, but craply
Ahhh ….. I see
There's nothing to be frightened of, if you find the right mate. If you can talk through any potential hang ups, then it should be a relaxing, fun experience. A good mate will make you feel wonderful and want you to go again. Trust is all you need x"
I’ll look |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The same as falling off a bike?
Do you just get back on - the hell with it?
Or
Not
Kind regards
I once didn't have sex for nearly three months, but never forgot how to do it...
Cal"
3 months? Oh however did you survive.... |
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"Maybe find someone who fell off their bike aswell
Now ….. what if they’re crap!! I need excellence, to mask my crapness
No, you need someone who is more crap than you are, thereby making you the excellent one!
Eh
If they were more crap than you, you would be masking their crapness, is what I was trying to say, but craply
Ahhh ….. I see
There's nothing to be frightened of, if you find the right mate. If you can talk through any potential hang ups, then it should be a relaxing, fun experience. A good mate will make you feel wonderful and want you to go again. Trust is all you need x
I’ll look "
I hope you do, because you come across as a top drawer lady xx |
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Riding a bike is so much harder, keep getting my tongue caught in the chain. Like all things I suppose if you have the urge just suck it and see. No expectations is the kryptonite to being disappointed. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The same as falling off a bike?
Do you just get back on - the hell with it?
Or
Not
Kind regards
I once didn't have sex for nearly three months, but never forgot how to do it...
Cal"
That’s slightly less than me |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Maybe find someone who fell off their bike aswell
Now ….. what if they’re crap!! I need excellence, to mask my crapness
No, you need someone who is more crap than you are, thereby making you the excellent one!
Eh
If they were more crap than you, you would be masking their crapness, is what I was trying to say, but craply
Ahhh ….. I see
There's nothing to be frightened of, if you find the right mate. If you can talk through any potential hang ups, then it should be a relaxing, fun experience. A good mate will make you feel wonderful and want you to go again. Trust is all you need x
I’ll look
I hope you do, because you come across as a top drawer lady xx"
Thank you |
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I reckon someone else’s crap is another person’s amazing! Find a bike climb aboard and find out! I’ve had some pretty long spells of going without. You don’t lose it…same old…do it how it pleases you and whoever you’re with. If it’s crap do some maintenance or take a bike upgrade! Good luck! Xx |
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"The same as falling off a bike?
Do you just get back on - the hell with it?
Or
Not
Kind regards
I once didn't have sex for nearly three months, but never forgot how to do it...
Cal
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3 months? Oh however did you survive...."
It was hard... |
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"Maybe find someone who fell off their bike aswell
Now ….. what if they’re crap!! I need excellence, to mask my crapness
No, you need someone who is more crap than you are, thereby making you the excellent one!
Eh
If they were more crap than you, you would be masking their crapness, is what I was trying to say, but craply "
Where does one find such a person, asking for a … ok I’m asking for myself  |
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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago
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"Maybe find someone who fell off their bike aswell
Now ….. what if they’re crap!! I need excellence, to mask my crapness
No, you need someone who is more crap than you are, thereby making you the excellent one!
Eh
If they were more crap than you, you would be masking their crapness, is what I was trying to say, but craply
Where does one find such a person, asking for a … ok I’m asking for myself "
I am that person  |
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"Your first ride might be a bit wobbly and not last long but it's back into tour de France before you know it
Whoooooop "
What would you like it to be? Soft and elegant, or just a quick grunt? I think you're the former, so, just be yourself and you're partner should be savvy enough to understand your wants, desires and fallibilities x |
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"Maybe find someone who fell off their bike aswell
Now ….. what if they’re crap!! I need excellence, to mask my crapness
No, you need someone who is more crap than you are, thereby making you the excellent one!
Eh
If they were more crap than you, you would be masking their crapness, is what I was trying to say, but craply
Where does one find such a person, asking for a … ok I’m asking for myself
I am that person "
Oh well that was easily sorted then  |
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"The same as falling off a bike?
Do you just get back on - the hell with it?
Or
Not
Kind regards "
I feel it depends on how and why you fell off the bike in the first place. I would say I’ve managed to get back on - the hell with it, tried a few different makes and models and haven’t needed stabilisers but I’m not ready to compete in a triathlon or anything just yet |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The same as falling off a bike?
Do you just get back on - the hell with it?
Or
Not
Kind regards
I feel it depends on how and why you fell off the bike in the first place. I would say I’ve managed to get back on - the hell with it, tried a few different makes and models and haven’t needed stabilisers but I’m not ready to compete in a triathlon or anything just yet "
Peri menopause  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Does anyone else find you lose confidence somewhat if you haven't done it for a while? "
Yes yes yes
This is my problem. Zero confidence
I’m making it into a joke, but I’m only 49, I don’t want to give up just yet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Even married 21 years wife has now given up on sex miss the close contact and dirty sex , never even get a wink or like but lots of looks from members am I that bad |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anyone else find you lose confidence somewhat if you haven't done it for a while? "
No. Not here, sex is wonderful with the right partner. It gives me confidence. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Does anyone else find you lose confidence somewhat if you haven't done it for a while?
No. Not here, sex is wonderful with the right partner. It gives me confidence. "
With the right partner - you’ve said it right there |
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"Does anyone else find you lose confidence somewhat if you haven't done it for a while?
Yes yes yes
This is my problem. Zero confidence
I’m making it into a joke, but I’m only 49, I don’t want to give up just yet "
Me neither. One year older and not ready to give up either x |
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"Does anyone else find you lose confidence somewhat if you haven't done it for a while?
Yes yes yes
This is my problem. Zero confidence
I’m making it into a joke, but I’m only 49, I don’t want to give up just yet
Me neither. One year older and not ready to give up either x"
I’ll set you up
You set me up
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"Does anyone else find you lose confidence somewhat if you haven't done it for a while?
Yes yes yes
This is my problem. Zero confidence
I’m making it into a joke, but I’m only 49, I don’t want to give up just yet
Me neither. One year older and not ready to give up either x
I’ll set you up
You set me up
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We should just get together x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Does anyone else find you lose confidence somewhat if you haven't done it for a while?
Yes yes yes
This is my problem. Zero confidence
I’m making it into a joke, but I’m only 49, I don’t want to give up just yet
Me neither. One year older and not ready to give up either x
I’ll set you up
You set me up
We should just get together x"
You’re toooooo fabulous for me and it would ruin a friendship if I’m a shit shag |
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over a year ago
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"Does anyone else find you lose confidence somewhat if you haven't done it for a while?
Yes yes yes
This is my problem. Zero confidence
I’m making it into a joke, but I’m only 49, I don’t want to give up just yet
Me neither. One year older and not ready to give up either x
I’ll set you up
You set me up
We should just get together x
You’re toooooo fabulous for me and it would ruin a friendship if I’m a shit shag "
I'm a shit stag...ruin me!! |
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"Does anyone else find you lose confidence somewhat if you haven't done it for a while?
Yes yes yes
This is my problem. Zero confidence
I’m making it into a joke, but I’m only 49, I don’t want to give up just yet
Me neither. One year older and not ready to give up either x
I’ll set you up
You set me up
We should just get together x
You’re toooooo fabulous for me and it would ruin a friendship if I’m a shit shag
I'm a shit stag...ruin me!! "
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"The same as falling off a bike?
Do you just get back on - the hell with it?
Or
Not
Kind regards
Both the same. You can lose the skin off your knees doing both. "
Ouch and true |
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Peri menopause "
Same. Get back on and pedal. You’ll wobble but also giggle and feel free. And if ya don’t want to pedal go downhill with your feet on the handlebars and feel the wind in your hair. And scream loudly and be scared but enjoy it! Or any other bike related analogies x
Be the fabulous you that you are already xxx |
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"Does anyone else find you lose confidence somewhat if you haven't done it for a while?
Yes yes yes
This is my problem. Zero confidence
I’m making it into a joke, but I’m only 49, I don’t want to give up just yet
Me neither. One year older and not ready to give up either x
I’ll set you up
You set me up
We should just get together x
You’re toooooo fabulous for me and it would ruin a friendship if I’m a shit shag "
I'll risk it x |
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I can’t relate sorry
On less jokey note, I don’t think it’s something you forget , u may be rusty, but it will come back to you pretty naturally .
Isnt sex pretty natural? That’s how I always perceived it myself x
Also If you have some confidence, that’s a big help! X |
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"Does anyone else find you lose confidence somewhat if you haven't done it for a while?
No. Not here, sex is wonderful with the right partner. It gives me confidence.
With the right partner - you’ve said it right there"
Or two? |
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Peri menopause
Same. Get back on and pedal. You’ll wobble but also giggle and feel free. And if ya don’t want to pedal go downhill with your feet on the handlebars and feel the wind in your hair. And scream loudly and be scared but enjoy it! Or any other bike related analogies x
Be the fabulous you that you are already xxx"
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"I can’t relate sorry
On less jokey note, I don’t think it’s something you forget , u may be rusty, but it will come back to you pretty naturally .
Isnt sex pretty natural? That’s how I always perceived it myself x
Also If you have some confidence, that’s a big help! X "
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"Does anyone else find you lose confidence somewhat if you haven't done it for a while?
No. Not here, sex is wonderful with the right partner. It gives me confidence.
With the right partner - you’ve said it right there
Or two? "
Steady |
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I wonder if that’s how fab works here. Those that are getting verified every weekend are more likely to want to meet others that do. As in, experience and ‘form’ might be appealing.
Those that are not regularly turning up for matches (excuse the football analogy here) are sidelined and only used as a sub when the star players are not able to play.
Anyway, I’ve been practicing shooting and dribbling…..*I’ll stop here. |
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"I wonder if that’s how fab works here. Those that are getting verified every weekend are more likely to want to meet others that do. As in, experience and ‘form’ might be appealing.
Those that are not regularly turning up for matches (excuse the football analogy here) are sidelined and only used as a sub when the star players are not able to play.
Anyway, I’ve been practicing shooting and dribbling…..*I’ll stop here. "
I’ve never been an ‘A team’ player, all the years on here, I’ve never been a prolific meeter. |
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I think rather than new moves and it being done differently, we know much more about sex, desire, pleasure and orgasms than we did 10, 20 years ago.
This makes for the potential for more people to have better fun...
The book "Come as you are" is a good start! |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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"The same as falling off a bike?
Do you just get back on - the hell with it?
Or
Not
Kind regards "
I can confirm that not having sex is in fact different to falling off a bike.
However...
I'm also really nervous about getting back to either after a while.
Really, really nervous. As in, haven't been on a bike since I last fell off one a few years back, and it takes me ages to be convinced I'm worth having sex with these days, which is why it's a miracle I have any at all.
But... you got this beautiful. |
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"The same as falling off a bike?
Do you just get back on - the hell with it?
Or
Not
Kind regards
I can confirm that not having sex is in fact different to falling off a bike.
However...
I'm also really nervous about getting back to either after a while.
Really, really nervous. As in, haven't been on a bike since I last fell off one a few years back, and it takes me ages to be convinced I'm worth having sex with these days, which is why it's a miracle I have any at all.
But... you got this beautiful. "
You’ve articulated it, just how I wanted to say it but was embarrassed to do so
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"The same as falling off a bike?
Do you just get back on - the hell with it?
Or
Not
Kind regards
I can confirm that not having sex is in fact different to falling off a bike.
However...
I'm also really nervous about getting back to either after a while.
Really, really nervous. As in, haven't been on a bike since I last fell off one a few years back, and it takes me ages to be convinced I'm worth having sex with these days, which is why it's a miracle I have any at all.
But... you got this beautiful.
You’ve articulated it, just how I wanted to say it but was embarrassed to do so
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I'm sure someone will be worth YOUR attention. x |
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"The same as falling off a bike?
Do you just get back on - the hell with it?
Or
Not
Kind regards
I can confirm that not having sex is in fact different to falling off a bike.
However...
I'm also really nervous about getting back to either after a while.
Really, really nervous. As in, haven't been on a bike since I last fell off one a few years back, and it takes me ages to be convinced I'm worth having sex with these days, which is why it's a miracle I have any at all.
But... you got this beautiful.
You’ve articulated it, just how I wanted to say it but was embarrassed to do so
I'm sure someone will be worth YOUR attention. x"
You’re always so lovely |
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I'm not relieved to hear that others feel the same way. Because I don't want others to feel like that. But it's obviously something that does happen. I remember when I hadn't been with anyone else in 20 years and I had convinced myself I was completely undesirable. Or my ex had. I was 49. A very lovely (young!) man convinced me otherwise. I just had to trust him. |
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"I'm not relieved to hear that others feel the same way. Because I don't want others to feel like that. But it's obviously something that does happen. I remember when I hadn't been with anyone else in 20 years and I had convinced myself I was completely undesirable. Or my ex had. I was 49. A very lovely (young!) man convinced me otherwise. I just had to trust him. "
I need to just be more ME
I think I’ve forgotten what a hot fox I used to be |
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"I'm not relieved to hear that others feel the same way. Because I don't want others to feel like that. But it's obviously something that does happen. I remember when I hadn't been with anyone else in 20 years and I had convinced myself I was completely undesirable. Or my ex had. I was 49. A very lovely (young!) man convinced me otherwise. I just had to trust him.
I need to just be more ME
I think I’ve forgotten what a hot fox I used to be "
Why am I thinking foxy lady and Garth dance |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"The same as falling off a bike?
Do you just get back on - the hell with it?
Or
Not
Kind regards
I can confirm that not having sex is in fact different to falling off a bike.
However...
I'm also really nervous about getting back to either after a while.
Really, really nervous. As in, haven't been on a bike since I last fell off one a few years back, and it takes me ages to be convinced I'm worth having sex with these days, which is why it's a miracle I have any at all.
But... you got this beautiful.
You’ve articulated it, just how I wanted to say it but was embarrassed to do so
"
It's how I feel all the time. So can absolutely relate.
I'm so lucky that someone thinks I'm worth the hard work... and there are going to be plenty of people who know you are. Hopefully you'll like at least some of them |
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"I'm not relieved to hear that others feel the same way. Because I don't want others to feel like that. But it's obviously something that does happen. I remember when I hadn't been with anyone else in 20 years and I had convinced myself I was completely undesirable. Or my ex had. I was 49. A very lovely (young!) man convinced me otherwise. I just had to trust him.
I need to just be more ME
I think I’ve forgotten what a hot fox I used to be "
Would you consider taking a few photos to show others what a hot fox you are? It could be a confidence booster. |
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"The same as falling off a bike?
Do you just get back on - the hell with it?
Or
Not
Kind regards
I can confirm that not having sex is in fact different to falling off a bike.
However...
I'm also really nervous about getting back to either after a while.
Really, really nervous. As in, haven't been on a bike since I last fell off one a few years back, and it takes me ages to be convinced I'm worth having sex with these days, which is why it's a miracle I have any at all.
But... you got this beautiful.
You’ve articulated it, just how I wanted to say it but was embarrassed to do so
It's how I feel all the time. So can absolutely relate.
I'm so lucky that someone thinks I'm worth the hard work... and there are going to be plenty of people who know you are. Hopefully you'll like at least some of them "
You’re amazing |
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"I'm not relieved to hear that others feel the same way. Because I don't want others to feel like that. But it's obviously something that does happen. I remember when I hadn't been with anyone else in 20 years and I had convinced myself I was completely undesirable. Or my ex had. I was 49. A very lovely (young!) man convinced me otherwise. I just had to trust him.
I need to just be more ME
I think I’ve forgotten what a hot fox I used to be
Would you consider taking a few photos to show others what a hot fox you are? It could be a confidence booster. "
I’ve got photos …. of my face. Photos of other bits isn’t me |
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"I'm not relieved to hear that others feel the same way. Because I don't want others to feel like that. But it's obviously something that does happen. I remember when I hadn't been with anyone else in 20 years and I had convinced myself I was completely undesirable. Or my ex had. I was 49. A very lovely (young!) man convinced me otherwise. I just had to trust him.
I need to just be more ME
I think I’ve forgotten what a hot fox I used to be
Would you consider taking a few photos to show others what a hot fox you are? It could be a confidence booster.
I’ve got photos …. of my face. Photos of other bits isn’t me "
I'm guessing you've got a lovely face x |
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"I'm not relieved to hear that others feel the same way. Because I don't want others to feel like that. But it's obviously something that does happen. I remember when I hadn't been with anyone else in 20 years and I had convinced myself I was completely undesirable. Or my ex had. I was 49. A very lovely (young!) man convinced me otherwise. I just had to trust him.
I need to just be more ME
I think I’ve forgotten what a hot fox I used to be
Would you consider taking a few photos to show others what a hot fox you are? It could be a confidence booster.
I’ve got photos …. of my face. Photos of other bits isn’t me
I'm guessing you've got a lovely face x"
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"I'm not relieved to hear that others feel the same way. Because I don't want others to feel like that. But it's obviously something that does happen. I remember when I hadn't been with anyone else in 20 years and I had convinced myself I was completely undesirable. Or my ex had. I was 49. A very lovely (young!) man convinced me otherwise. I just had to trust him.
I need to just be more ME
I think I’ve forgotten what a hot fox I used to be
Would you consider taking a few photos to show others what a hot fox you are? It could be a confidence booster.
I’ve got photos …. of my face. Photos of other bits isn’t me
I'm guessing you've got a lovely face x
You’ve seen it !! "
I haven't. You never sent it, just your eyes x |
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"I'm not relieved to hear that others feel the same way. Because I don't want others to feel like that. But it's obviously something that does happen. I remember when I hadn't been with anyone else in 20 years and I had convinced myself I was completely undesirable. Or my ex had. I was 49. A very lovely (young!) man convinced me otherwise. I just had to trust him.
I need to just be more ME
I think I’ve forgotten what a hot fox I used to be
Would you consider taking a few photos to show others what a hot fox you are? It could be a confidence booster.
I’ve got photos …. of my face. Photos of other bits isn’t me "
Any bits at all? Wearing a pair of sexy shoes? Bare shoulders? Hands crossed on knees. |
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"I'm not relieved to hear that others feel the same way. Because I don't want others to feel like that. But it's obviously something that does happen. I remember when I hadn't been with anyone else in 20 years and I had convinced myself I was completely undesirable. Or my ex had. I was 49. A very lovely (young!) man convinced me otherwise. I just had to trust him.
I need to just be more ME
I think I’ve forgotten what a hot fox I used to be
Would you consider taking a few photos to show others what a hot fox you are? It could be a confidence booster.
I’ve got photos …. of my face. Photos of other bits isn’t me
Any bits at all? Wearing a pair of sexy shoes? Bare shoulders? Hands crossed on knees. "
It’s just not me …. |
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Hello you!
Honestly, I wouldn’t worry too much. I fell off my bike t’other day (on the grass thank goodness) got back up and carried on. It’s more difficult to go arse over tit when shagging but I’ve done that too.
Floro, find someone sexy and tell them you’d like to ride them. Then report back with the answer to the question |
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"Hello you!
Honestly, I wouldn’t worry too much. I fell off my bike t’other day (on the grass thank goodness) got back up and carried on. It’s more difficult to go arse over tit when shagging but I’ve done that too.
Floro, find someone sexy and tell them you’d like to ride them. Then report back with the answer to the question "
Hello my gorgeous
I’ll tell them, then get nerves, and run away |
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"I'm not relieved to hear that others feel the same way. Because I don't want others to feel like that. But it's obviously something that does happen. I remember when I hadn't been with anyone else in 20 years and I had convinced myself I was completely undesirable. Or my ex had. I was 49. A very lovely (young!) man convinced me otherwise. I just had to trust him.
I need to just be more ME
I think I’ve forgotten what a hot fox I used to be
Would you consider taking a few photos to show others what a hot fox you are? It could be a confidence booster.
I’ve got photos …. of my face. Photos of other bits isn’t me
Any bits at all? Wearing a pair of sexy shoes? Bare shoulders? Hands crossed on knees.
It’s just not me …. "
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"Hello you!
Honestly, I wouldn’t worry too much. I fell off my bike t’other day (on the grass thank goodness) got back up and carried on. It’s more difficult to go arse over tit when shagging but I’ve done that too.
Floro, find someone sexy and tell them you’d like to ride them. Then report back with the answer to the question
Hello my gorgeous
I’ll tell them, then get nerves, and run away "
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"I'm not relieved to hear that others feel the same way. Because I don't want others to feel like that. But it's obviously something that does happen. I remember when I hadn't been with anyone else in 20 years and I had convinced myself I was completely undesirable. Or my ex had. I was 49. A very lovely (young!) man convinced me otherwise. I just had to trust him.
I need to just be more ME
I think I’ve forgotten what a hot fox I used to be
Would you consider taking a few photos to show others what a hot fox you are? It could be a confidence booster.
I’ve got photos …. of my face. Photos of other bits isn’t me
Any bits at all? Wearing a pair of sexy shoes? Bare shoulders? Hands crossed on knees.
It’s just not me ….
Of course. We all have boundaries. "
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"Hello you!
Honestly, I wouldn’t worry too much. I fell off my bike t’other day (on the grass thank goodness) got back up and carried on. It’s more difficult to go arse over tit when shagging but I’ve done that too.
Floro, find someone sexy and tell them you’d like to ride them. Then report back with the answer to the question
Hello my gorgeous
I’ll tell them, then get nerves, and run away
Practice on me "
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