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First messages icebreakers

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Why is it so hard to open a conversation, I’m not the type to send a dick pic with first message or wax lyrical about what I’m going to do to essentially a stranger. Need to get to know someone have a connection chemistry electricity but so hard just talking lol x advice please

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Lol same reaction here x little help lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fancy a fuck" works!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Bollocks does it lol

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Hi, would you like a cuppa tea, cake and a fuck

That often works

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

how about cum here often

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Bollocks does it lol"

"Bollocks" works? Fuck I'm off to try that

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

What type of cake lol

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By *uicy 2020Woman over a year ago

London

Theres not much about you on your profile. Im afraid that would put me off. X

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By *ealitybitesMan over a year ago

Belfast

It's a Titanic task

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Ok thanks I’ll work on it x

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By *uce1977Woman over a year ago

Suffolk coast

When I get an interesting message, I always then go view their profile. So it all adds up.

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By *ealitybitesMan over a year ago

Belfast

Most people look at the profile first before opening the message and that is often reason enough to delete unread so the content of the message is irrelevant.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Many will look at a profile before opening the message. Just saying

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By *imply DeeWoman over a year ago

Wherever

“So how’s fab treating you?” followed closely by “Up to anything exciting?” usually does the magic for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thanks I’ll work on it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Humour

Sarcasm

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By *agic.MMan over a year ago

Orpington

Had a "hey,do you ever smile?" Just the other day from a lady...triggered the f...out of me

. Women like to ask for effort in the messages they receive, however they are horrible sending the first message

(sorry not sorry)

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By *ola xWoman over a year ago

Oswestry Shropshire

"Why is it so hard to open a conversation, I’m not the type to send a dick pic with first message or wax lyrical about what I’m going to do to essentially a stranger. Need to get to know someone have a connection chemistry electricity but so hard just talking lol x advice please "

Hey you seem to be doing well. Been here a few weeks. Got 2 veris from 2 meets. Think you are doing great. Keep doing what you are doing.

Lola xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"“So how’s fab treating you?” followed closely by “Up to anything exciting?” usually does the magic for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thanks Lola