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By *rHotNotts OP Man
over a year ago
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"Simple question, simple answer , yes or no ?
YES. And I'm so happy about it. No shame. Live and let live. "
Oh you’ve ruined my day and it’s only 9:51…..Do you not think you’re possibly a little bit broken, damaged……
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over a year ago
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"Simple question, simple answer , yes or no ?
YES. And I'm so happy about it. No shame. Live and let live.
Oh you’ve ruined my day and it’s only 9:51…..Do you not think you’re possibly a little bit broken, damaged……
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'broken'? 'damaged'? Ummmm most definitely not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, not just with sex though.
Definitely not 
Food, company, laughs, thrills, so many pleasure satisfaction activities that don't involve sex.
Some better than sex 
Completely Agree "
I think in this context we are referring to Hedonistic via Sexual orgasmic pleasure. |
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"Simple question, simple answer , yes or no ?"
It’s not a simple answer though is it?
A hedonist is someone who devotes their life to the pursuit of pleasure (not just sexual).
Once you have a family/job/bills that’s no longer entirely possible.
In no way does me wanting a great shag/great food and wine etc ever come before my parental responsibilities, for instance.
However - when it’s my time off - when I’m with a sexy fab friend and it’s just the two of us - then it’s hedonism all the way.
As adults we become far more complex creatures and there’s no easy answer.
I do think I’m lucky enough to derive much more pleasure from life in general than most people I know though - and definitely my love of sex, good food, the pleasure of great company is very highly tuned.
So in conclusion - yes and no! |
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"Yes, not just with sex though.
Definitely not
Food, company, laughs, thrills, so many pleasure satisfaction activities that don't involve sex.
Some better than sex
Completely Agree
I think in this context we are referring to Hedonistic via Sexual orgasmic pleasure. "
That is your thought yes.
Its not my thought in my quoted conversation |
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"Simple question, simple answer , yes or no ?
It’s not a simple answer though is it?
A hedonist is someone who devotes their life to the pursuit of pleasure (not just sexual).
Once you have a family/job/bills that’s no longer entirely possible.
In no way does me wanting a great shag/great food and wine etc ever come before my parental responsibilities, for instance.
However - when it’s my time off - when I’m with a sexy fab friend and it’s just the two of us - then it’s hedonism all the way.
As adults we become far more complex creatures and there’s no easy answer.
I do think I’m lucky enough to derive much more pleasure from life in general than most people I know though - and definitely my love of sex, good food, the pleasure of great company is very highly tuned.
So in conclusion - yes and no! "
You can be a Healthy Hedonistic though Peachy where it doesn't impact negatively on life, its all about the choices we make |
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By *rHotNotts OP Man
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"Simple question, simple answer , yes or no ?
It’s not a simple answer though is it?
A hedonist is someone who devotes their life to the pursuit of pleasure (not just sexual).
Once you have a family/job/bills that’s no longer entirely possible.
In no way does me wanting a great shag/great food and wine etc ever come before my parental responsibilities, for instance.
However - when it’s my time off - when I’m with a sexy fab friend and it’s just the two of us - then it’s hedonism all the way.
As adults we become far more complex creatures and there’s no easy answer.
I do think I’m lucky enough to derive much more pleasure from life in general than most people I know though - and definitely my love of sex, good food, the pleasure of great company is very highly tuned.
So in conclusion - yes and no!
You can be a Healthy Hedonistic though Peachy where it doesn't impact negatively on life, its all about the choices we make "
I was just thinking that about you ! Your hedonism is very conscious and aware like pleasures from yoga wild swimming etc , but it’s still hedonism tot spirituality or meaning for its own sake , it’s about the pleasure sensors still |
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By *rHotNotts OP Man
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"Simple question, simple answer , yes or no ?
It’s not a simple answer though is it?
A hedonist is someone who devotes their life to the pursuit of pleasure (not just sexual).
Once you have a family/job/bills that’s no longer entirely possible.
In no way does me wanting a great shag/great food and wine etc ever come before my parental responsibilities, for instance.
However - when it’s my time off - when I’m with a sexy fab friend and it’s just the two of us - then it’s hedonism all the way.
As adults we become far more complex creatures and there’s no easy answer.
I do think I’m lucky enough to derive much more pleasure from life in general than most people I know though - and definitely my love of sex, good food, the pleasure of great company is very highly tuned.
So in conclusion - yes and no! "
There’s people I did full moon parties and retreats with in Thailand in the 90s that either chose not to have kids or came back had kids and carried on being hedonists , still popping pills and doing festivals in their 40s and 50s just aweful parents ! There’s always a choice |
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"Simple question, simple answer , yes or no ?
It’s not a simple answer though is it?
A hedonist is someone who devotes their life to the pursuit of pleasure (not just sexual).
Once you have a family/job/bills that’s no longer entirely possible.
In no way does me wanting a great shag/great food and wine etc ever come before my parental responsibilities, for instance.
However - when it’s my time off - when I’m with a sexy fab friend and it’s just the two of us - then it’s hedonism all the way.
As adults we become far more complex creatures and there’s no easy answer.
I do think I’m lucky enough to derive much more pleasure from life in general than most people I know though - and definitely my love of sex, good food, the pleasure of great company is very highly tuned.
So in conclusion - yes and no!
You can be a Healthy Hedonistic though Peachy where it doesn't impact negatively on life, its all about the choices we make
I was just thinking that about you ! Your hedonism is very conscious and aware like pleasures from yoga wild swimming etc , but it’s still hedonism tot spirituality or meaning for its own sake , it’s about the pleasure sensors still "
Immensely so. I have always been aware of my pleasure sensors as you know, and combining the two has been a adult life long pursuit, my spirituality and meanings are what balances out my hedonist streak |
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"Simple question, simple answer , yes or no ?
It’s not a simple answer though is it?
A hedonist is someone who devotes their life to the pursuit of pleasure (not just sexual).
Once you have a family/job/bills that’s no longer entirely possible.
In no way does me wanting a great shag/great food and wine etc ever come before my parental responsibilities, for instance.
However - when it’s my time off - when I’m with a sexy fab friend and it’s just the two of us - then it’s hedonism all the way.
As adults we become far more complex creatures and there’s no easy answer.
I do think I’m lucky enough to derive much more pleasure from life in general than most people I know though - and definitely my love of sex, good food, the pleasure of great company is very highly tuned.
So in conclusion - yes and no!
You can be a Healthy Hedonistic though Peachy where it doesn't impact negatively on life, its all about the choices we make "
I agree. As I said - I love life in general - which makes me very fortunate. On most days my favourite part of the day is me and the dog, on our own or with my youngest, walking through the woods whilst he dives like a lunatic in the river. I wouldn’t say any of the things I love doing impact negatively on my life. Whilst fab can be destructive for some - for me it’s about close friendships along with the mind blowing sex.
The pursuit of pleasure doesn’t have to have a detrimental effect on yourself or others. |
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"Simple question, simple answer , yes or no ?
It’s not a simple answer though is it?
A hedonist is someone who devotes their life to the pursuit of pleasure (not just sexual).
Once you have a family/job/bills that’s no longer entirely possible.
In no way does me wanting a great shag/great food and wine etc ever come before my parental responsibilities, for instance.
However - when it’s my time off - when I’m with a sexy fab friend and it’s just the two of us - then it’s hedonism all the way.
As adults we become far more complex creatures and there’s no easy answer.
I do think I’m lucky enough to derive much more pleasure from life in general than most people I know though - and definitely my love of sex, good food, the pleasure of great company is very highly tuned.
So in conclusion - yes and no!
There’s people I did full moon parties and retreats with in Thailand in the 90s that either chose not to have kids or came back had kids and carried on being hedonists , still popping pills and doing festivals in their 40s and 50s just aweful parents ! There’s always a choice "
Absolutely. I’ve come across dreadful parents on here too who think shagging a stranger is more important than their children’s welfare. You only have to have unprotected sex to become a parent - therefore there’ll always be crap parents out there! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No i already had all my pleasures any future pleasure will be a nice happy surprise but il not chase it
I wouldn't like to think that by 40 I had already had all life's pleasures"
id not recommend doing things that way  |
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"Simple question, simple answer , yes or no ?
YES. And I'm so happy about it. No shame. Live and let live.
Oh you’ve ruined my day and it’s only 9:51…..Do you not think you’re possibly a little bit broken, damaged……
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Bit harsh? Where were you going with that, OP? |
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"Simple question, simple answer , yes or no ?
YES. And I'm so happy about it. No shame. Live and let live.
Oh you’ve ruined my day and it’s only 9:51…..Do you not think you’re possibly a little bit broken, damaged……
Bit harsh? Where were you going with that, OP?"
Hes a rehedonist |
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