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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’ve noticed on here and other social media platforms that bareback sex is on the increase. Am I missing a change in society that now makes this not only really acceptable but almost expected? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think maybe people don’t consider STDs. PREP is an option to eliminate the HIV risk but I think lots of people don’t even get tested. SHL.UK provides free home testing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve noticed on here and other social media platforms that bareback sex is on the increase. Am I missing a change in society that now makes this not only really acceptable but almost expected?"
I've noticed it
I've had countless messages where men have mentioned creampies etc and had a couple of meets where guys have tried to enter me without a condom on and almost acted shocked when I've stopped them and told them to put one on
It ifs something that you're not comfortable then make sure you stand your ground, and don't make plans with anyone who mentions it via message because you can almost always guarantee they will try and do it thinking you're not going to notice |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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"SHL.UK provides free home testing
London only 
No, I use the service and live far outside London. It's available in many counties..
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Sadly not available everywhere. Yet since covid the clinic (here anyway) will happily send out testing kits free of charge, it's just a ball ache to sort it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive read on Twitter that for the first time, HIV seems to be higher among straight
“For the first time in a decade, the number of new HIV diagnoses among heterosexuals is higher than for gay and bisexual men, according to new figures for England from the UK Health Security Agency.“ |
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"SHL.UK provides free home testing
London only
No, I use the service and live far outside London. It's available in many counties.. "
They don’t send to Hertfordshire unfortunately, just tried to order a test kit…. We must be immune |
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By *ames JaneCouple
over a year ago
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This is up for debate a lot but when playing the way most of us do. Have to say condoms all the way. Safe sex or no sex.
Honestly I think it comes down to trust. Not just about STDs and potential for getting sick there is pregnancy also to prevent.
We use condoms all the way, there is only one person I would consider not using condoms with and only because trust him so much but is a discussion has never come up as both comfortable with gloving up lol.
There are so many stories you hear where the younger generation think it’s ok / cool to ‘sneak’… use a condom then at some point take it off without partner knowing and finish without, it’s just not right and so disrespectful.
The risks are real so open honest discussions and respect all the way.
That way everyone has the best kinkiest fun while being safe
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve noticed on here and other social media platforms that bareback sex is on the increase. Am I missing a change in society that now makes this not only really acceptable but almost expected?"
I can't speak for all guys but I have found in the last year or so that middle aged white guys assume they don't need to wear a condom. Some turn up without one and I turn them away again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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prefer BB, and do get tested regularly.
also, I always cum clean if having caught an STI and will not play until meds taken and retested to ensure clear from STI.
thankfully, only caught once (Chlamydia) and cleared after taking meds.
In addition, if having played and taken multiple loads, with test still pending then I will always suggest to others they use protection...
honesty in these matters of safety is paramount - free from STI’s/STD’s |
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By *aylonMan
over a year ago
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I think everyone has boundaries which should be respected, but the sexual energy when you see someone in person overrides some rules. When everything's going well, drinks, laughter, etc and it gets serious, she just wants you inside her and she let's you know ???? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bareback is like a game of Russian Roulette. Keep playing the game and eventually you will take a bullet "
How long were people having unprotected sex ignorant Of the HIV Virus? By which I mean before it was discovered and wider society was aware if the dangers?
Is it inconceivable that another as yet undiscovered slow burning but fatal illness could pop up and transmit whilst we are more risk averse of the current diseases due to recent medical advances? |
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"Bareback is like a game of Russian Roulette. Keep playing the game and eventually you will take a bullet
How long were people having unprotected sex ignorant Of the HIV Virus? By which I mean before it was discovered and wider society was aware if the dangers?
Is it inconceivable that another as yet undiscovered slow burning but fatal illness could pop up and transmit whilst we are more risk averse of the current diseases due to recent medical advances?"
That's why Tom double bags.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Bareback is like a game of Russian Roulette. Keep playing the game and eventually you will take a bullet
How long were people having unprotected sex ignorant Of the HIV Virus? By which I mean before it was discovered and wider society was aware if the dangers?
Is it inconceivable that another as yet undiscovered slow burning but fatal illness could pop up and transmit whilst we are more risk averse of the current diseases due to recent medical advances?
That's why Tom double bags.. "
?????? |
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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago
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"I can’t say I’ve noticed it on the increase
Only in porn. "
Even in porn there is a strict testing policy for the performers involve, but then, this is what I read.. wether it's true or not, that's another case |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't get why people are bothered what other's do in this area. If you always play safe, it's none of your business what other people do. We are all adults and fully aware of risks doing bareback. Everyone crack on with what's best for them and stop judging others. |
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By *onnyadtMan
over a year ago
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"I don't get why people are bothered what other's do in this area. If you always play safe, it's none of your business what other people do. We are all adults and fully aware of risks doing bareback. Everyone crack on with what's best for them and stop judging others."
100% Agree with this.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't get why people are bothered what other's do in this area. If you always play safe, it's none of your business what other people do. We are all adults and fully aware of risks doing bareback. Everyone crack on with what's best for them and stop judging others."
Well said xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't get why people are bothered what other's do in this area. If you always play safe, it's none of your business what other people do. We are all adults and fully aware of risks doing bareback. Everyone crack on with what's best for them and stop judging others.
Well said xx"
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"I don't get why people are bothered what other's do in this area. If you always play safe, it's none of your business what other people do. We are all adults and fully aware of risks doing bareback. Everyone crack on with what's best for them and stop judging others."
Totally agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't get why people are bothered what other's do in this area. If you always play safe, it's none of your business what other people do. We are all adults and fully aware of risks doing bareback. Everyone crack on with what's best for them and stop judging others."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't get why people are bothered what other's do in this area. If you always play safe, it's none of your business what other people do. We are all adults and fully aware of risks doing bareback. Everyone crack on with what's best for them and stop judging others."
Defeats the purpose of a forum if your banning people expressing their views. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't get why people are bothered what other's do in this area. If you always play safe, it's none of your business what other people do. We are all adults and fully aware of risks doing bareback. Everyone crack on with what's best for them and stop judging others."
I think most are concerned about in terms of the risk appetite, not from a judgemental view. Not sure many give two hoots how other fuck or whether they get hit by a bus. As you say it is non of their business really, but the topic as a risk factor is interesting. Well it was the first time it was discussed. Not that we’re on the 10,987th thread on the subject it may have lost a little lustre.  |
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"I don't get why people are bothered what other's do in this area. If you always play safe, it's none of your business what other people do. We are all adults and fully aware of risks doing bareback. Everyone crack on with what's best for them and stop judging others.
I think most are concerned about in terms of the risk appetite, not from a judgemental view. Not sure many give two hoots how other fuck or whether they get hit by a bus. As you say it is non of their business really, but the topic as a risk factor is interesting. Well it was the first time it was discussed. Not that we’re on the 10,987th thread on the subject it may have lost a little lustre. "
Agreed. It's all about risk. Show me a barebacker and I will show you a car speeder, illegal Parker and a red light amber gambler... |
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