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Anyone dipped into the "Pleasure" documentary on Netflix? Bit American, but enjoyed this gem of wisdom last night.
"Confidence is knowing what is true
About your body, about your sexuality, about how your brain works, about the culture you live in
Joy is loving what is true
Even if its not what you were taught should be true, even if its not what you wish were true
Joy is the hard part"
Where are you are with loving what is true for you? |
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For so many years I tried to live life as a heterosexual, denying myself of the 'real' me.
I now live life as the 'real' bisexual me. Being true to yourself is the only way to live your life. Be yourself and be happy  |
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Yeah the line "confidence is knowing what is true" struck a real chord for me. I have felt my sexual confidence grow since becoming non-monogamous and I think so much of that is gaining clarity my body and my path to arousal. |
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"Why do I find it hard to write the next line?
Prob coz I'm so deeply submerged in thought my "beautiful" clit's out of reach  "
I know this much is true. |
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""Confidence is knowing what is true
About your body, about your sexuality, about how your brain works, about the culture you live in"
I think the part about the culture you live in is the outlier here. In a lot of ways, the culture you live in could be completely contradictory to what you are confident in and what you believe to be true.
I think it's also a personal thing. It's what WE believe to be true, but doesn't necessarily mean it's true as a whole. |
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""Confidence is knowing what is true
About your body, about your sexuality, about how your brain works, about the culture you live in
I think the part about the culture you live in is the outlier here. In a lot of ways, the culture you live in could be completely contradictory to what you are confident in and what you believe to be true.
I think it's also a personal thing. It's what WE believe to be true, but doesn't necessarily mean it's true as a whole."
I think your right about culture, she said it, but it is maybe hard to make that match with how you see things.
And yes, perception of the same experience is very different for different folk. What is indeed "truth" |
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""Confidence is knowing what is true
About your body, about your sexuality, about how your brain works, about the culture you live in
I think the part about the culture you live in is the outlier here. In a lot of ways, the culture you live in could be completely contradictory to what you are confident in and what you believe to be true.
I think it's also a personal thing. It's what WE believe to be true, but doesn't necessarily mean it's true as a whole.
I think your right about culture, she said it, but it is maybe hard to make that match with how you see things.
And yes, perception of the same experience is very different for different folk. What is indeed "truth""
That question is above my pay grade  |
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"Anyone dipped into the "Pleasure" documentary on Netflix? Bit American, but enjoyed this gem of wisdom last night.
"Confidence is knowing what is true
About your body, about your sexuality, about how your brain works, about the culture you live in
Joy is loving what is true
Even if its not what you were taught should be true, even if its not what you wish were true
Joy is the hard part"
Where are you are with loving what is true for you?"
Love yourself before loving another. We cannot know everything about ourselves but learn to love the good and amazing things about yourselves, see beauty everywhere, seek positive things, people, thoughts .... |
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"Anyone dipped into the "Pleasure" documentary on Netflix? Bit American, but enjoyed this gem of wisdom last night.
"Confidence is knowing what is true
About your body, about your sexuality, about how your brain works, about the culture you live in
Joy is loving what is true
Even if its not what you were taught should be true, even if its not what you wish were true
Joy is the hard part"
Where are you are with loving what is true for you?"
Not very far |
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