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By *Liam OP Man
over a year ago
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So you start chatting to a new person on here, all is going well. You know when the conversation is flowing and it is pretty effortless. (This is still the first day or night).. the convo ends, say you have gone to bed.. do you message the next day or do you let them wait a while   |
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"So you start chatting to a new person on here, all is going well. You know when the conversation is flowing and it is pretty effortless. (This is still the first day or night).. the convo ends, say you have gone to bed.. do you message the next day or do you let them wait a while "
Message the next day, of course. Strike while the iron is hot! X |
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over a year ago
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If a conversation is flowing then you can just pick it back up the next day. If they enjoy chatting with you and you enjoy chatting with them just keep it natural.
My advice is to not overthink it and definitely don't start playing games.
NBVN x |
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over a year ago
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"So you start chatting to a new person on here, all is going well. You know when the conversation is flowing and it is pretty effortless. (This is still the first day or night).. the convo ends, say you have gone to bed.. do you message the next day or do you let them wait a while "
Reply as soon as I have something to say to them if I can which would normally be the next day. Try to avoid mindgames, both doing them and being the victim of them. |
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"So you start chatting to a new person on here, all is going well. You know when the conversation is flowing and it is pretty effortless. (This is still the first day or night).. the convo ends, say you have gone to bed.. do you message the next day or do you let them wait a while "
Message !, it's now 6pm |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends what your intentions are. Usually the guys that message me all the time and act super keen at first suddenly go dead silent and elusive after we have sex so now it just tends to make me a bit wary |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So you start chatting to a new person on here, all is going well. You know when the conversation is flowing and it is pretty effortless. (This is still the first day or night).. the convo ends, say you have gone to bed.. do you message the next day or do you let them wait a while "
Message when you want to.... Why play games; with someone you're getting along with? |
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By *Liam OP Man
over a year ago
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"So you start chatting to a new person on here, all is going well. You know when the conversation is flowing and it is pretty effortless. (This is still the first day or night).. the convo ends, say you have gone to bed.. do you message the next day or do you let them wait a while
Message when you want to.... Why play games; with someone you're getting along with? "
I wouldn't say it is playing games but fab is a whole different life to the real world. I probably won't contact them again anyway |
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"So you start chatting to a new person on here, all is going well. You know when the conversation is flowing and it is pretty effortless. (This is still the first day or night).. the convo ends, say you have gone to bed.. do you message the next day or do you let them wait a while
Message when you want to.... Why play games; with someone you're getting along with? I wouldn't say it is playing games but fab is a whole different life to the real world. I probably won't contact them again anyway"
Then why make this thread about it? |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
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Personally if you want to message them then do it - it’s not a case of being a man and messaging first people seem to think men should always make the first move it’s rather old fashioned I think.
Equally making someone wait when you actually want to message them is odd to me and a bit mind game like - just send the message your getting along anyway, nothing to loose xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So you start chatting to a new person on here, all is going well. You know when the conversation is flowing and it is pretty effortless. (This is still the first day or night).. the convo ends, say you have gone to bed.. do you message the next day or do you let them wait a while "
In these situations, I always think ‘what would I do?’  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So you start chatting to a new person on here, all is going well. You know when the conversation is flowing and it is pretty effortless. (This is still the first day or night).. the convo ends, say you have gone to bed.. do you message the next day or do you let them wait a while
Message when you want to.... Why play games; with someone you're getting along with? I wouldn't say it is playing games but fab is a whole different life to the real world. I probably won't contact them again anyway"
Does fab have to be different ?
If you meet someone and get on, why is it different where you met ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd like to think that my first message the following morning would indicate I'm genuinely interested in the lady ... but perhaps I've been reading that approach all wrong, I know how fickle fab can be and conversations only last az long as the next person. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That comes across as manipulative, and it’s something that would annoy me and put me off abit extreme but noted  "
I don’t know why it’s extreme, I don’t like people playing games, and I like regular contact to build a connection |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"So you start chatting to a new person on here, all is going well. You know when the conversation is flowing and it is pretty effortless. (This is still the first day or night).. the convo ends, say you have gone to bed.. do you message the next day or do you let them wait a while "
First thing next morning.
Then if they haven't replied again an hour later.
If there's still nothing by lunchtime then send another one asking what's for lunch.
They might be busy at work of course but on the off chance they're not - send another around teatime asking what they've been up to.
If you've still had nothing come 8pm then send a final message of the day asking if they're still alive/have been abducted by aliens/have fallen down a well, and also to tell them you're off to make a papier mache head based on their profile photo and that once it's done you're going to fuck it's pretty little mouth all night whilst thinking of them and crying because they've not replied to any of your messages all day.
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"So you start chatting to a new person on here, all is going well. You know when the conversation is flowing and it is pretty effortless. (This is still the first day or night).. the convo ends, say you have gone to bed.. do you message the next day or do you let them wait a while
First thing next morning.
Then if they haven't replied again an hour later.
If there's still nothing by lunchtime then send another one asking what's for lunch.
They might be busy at work of course but on the off chance they're not - send another around teatime asking what they've been up to.
If you've still had nothing come 8pm then send a final message of the day asking if they're still alive/have been abducted by aliens/have fallen down a well, and also to tell them you're off to make a papier mache head based on their profile photo and that once it's done you're going to fuck it's pretty little mouth all night whilst thinking of them and crying because they've not replied to any of your messages all day.
A"
Have you been reading my messages again?  |
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