I've always seen it as a couple having sex to reclaim each other after one/both of them have had sex with someone else.
It can be extremely passionate, kind of your bodies way of saying "that was fun, but this is what I really want". |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"What does it mean "
Say you're seeing someone ReformedSlute. Then you meet someone else to bump uglies with. Then, when you go back to Brad (the man you're seeing), he has really, really hot sex with you as one of the ways of reconnecting with you. |
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"What does it mean
Say you're seeing someone ReformedSlute. Then you meet someone else to bump uglies with. Then, when you go back to Brad (the man you're seeing), he has really, really hot sex with you as one of the ways of reconnecting with you. "
Like have I broken up with Brad? Is it some sort
Of make up sex I’m not aware of?  |
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By *ssex_tom OP Man
over a year ago
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"What does it mean
Say you're seeing someone ReformedSlute. Then you meet someone else to bump uglies with. Then, when you go back to Brad (the man you're seeing), he has really, really hot sex with you as one of the ways of reconnecting with you. "
But why are you disconnected in the first place ? |
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"What does it mean
Say you're seeing someone ReformedSlute. Then you meet someone else to bump uglies with. Then, when you go back to Brad (the man you're seeing), he has really, really hot sex with you as one of the ways of reconnecting with you.
Like have I broken up with Brad? Is it some sort
Of make up sex I’m not aware of? "
No. It's when you are shared with someone else then the sex you have after with your regular partner. It can be pretty hot. |
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"I've always seen it as a couple having sex to reclaim each other after one/both of them have had sex with someone else.
It can be extremely passionate, kind of your bodies way of saying "that was fun, but this is what I really want". "
Thats how we see it to and we love it !! |
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"So what is reclaim sex and who enjoys it and why?
Guys who like being cucked I supposealways saw it as a hot wife thing. "
It’s not something that’s only for a certain dynamic. My husband isn’t a cuck and I’m not a hot wife we don’t do separate meets and we only play in same room .
Some of the hottest sex we’ve had is after we’ve watched each other with other people.It’s like our way of saying wow that was good but your amazing and I love you . |
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"So what is reclaim sex and who enjoys it and why?"
It is the sex that two people have that helps them gloss over the psychological ‘characteristics’ that cause them to need sex with other in the first place. It is intended to reassure - a yes for some there could be a degree of possessiveness associated with it. Everyone’s dynamic is subtly different so there win’t be a single catch all definition. It is a bit like ‘make up’ sec but with a specific motive.
Or it is just two people fucking after they fucked someone else.
Take your pick  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Always good to reclaim what is yours after it's been borrowed
I feel I shouldn't find that hot but it is!  "
Well it's hotter when you let them know they are better than what they just had  |
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"Always good to reclaim what is yours after it's been borrowed
I feel I shouldn't find that hot but it is!
Well it's hotter when you let them know they are better than what they just had "
I wouldn't know...haven't played that way |
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"So what is reclaim sex and who enjoys it and why?
It is the sex that two people have that helps them gloss over the psychological ‘characteristics’ that cause them to need sex with other in the first place. It is intended to reassure - a yes for some there could be a degree of possessiveness associated with it. Everyone’s dynamic is subtly different so there win’t be a single catch all definition. It is a bit like ‘make up’ sec but with a specific motive.
Or it is just two people fucking after they fucked someone else.
Take your pick "
Sorry.... But..... gloss over the psychological ‘characteristics’ that cause them to need sex with other in the first place?????
Please elaborate on what that means exactly?
Characteristics????
Need??????
And like make up sex? How so if there is no fall out or issue?
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"Always good to reclaim what is yours after it's been borrowed
I feel I shouldn't find that hot but it is!
Well it's hotter when you let them know they are better than what they just had "
Oh god yes! |
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By *ssex_tom OP Man
over a year ago
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"Always good to reclaim what is yours after it's been borrowed
I feel I shouldn't find that hot but it is!
Well it's hotter when you let them know they are better than what they just had
Oh god yes!"
Evie! Your getting excited  |
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"So what is reclaim sex and who enjoys it and why?
It is the sex that two people have that helps them gloss over the psychological ‘characteristics’ that cause them to need sex with other in the first place. It is intended to reassure - a yes for some there could be a degree of possessiveness associated with it. Everyone’s dynamic is subtly different so there win’t be a single catch all definition. It is a bit like ‘make up’ sec but with a specific motive.
Or it is just two people fucking after they fucked someone else.
Take your pick
Sorry.... But..... gloss over the psychological ‘characteristics’ that cause them to need sex with other in the first place?????
Please elaborate on what that means exactly?
Characteristics????
Need??????
And like make up sex? How so if there is no fall out or issue?
PW "
It can mean whatever you wish it to mean. That’s the beauty of it |
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"Always good to reclaim what is yours after it's been borrowed
I feel I shouldn't find that hot but it is!
Well it's hotter when you let them know they are better than what they just had
Oh god yes!
Evie! Your getting excited "
I'm always excited by your posts tom X |
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"I've always seen it as a couple having sex to reclaim each other after one/both of them have had sex with someone else.
It can be extremely passionate, kind of your bodies way of saying "that was fun, but this is what I really want". "
This is how it was for us. It was also our way of showing that we would put as much effort into each other as we would for the other couple or lady we were after meeting |
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We went to a club for my birthday a few years ago. It was great. We both had a blast. Messy and hot in the right ways and proportions.
I'm not possessive. I'm not a cuck. But the sex we had the following morning was some of the most passionate and best sex we ever had.
Maybe there was a part of my wife reminding me who owned me and a part of me reminding her who owned her. But mostly it just giggles, love and enthusiasm. |
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"We just find the whole "reclaim" thing cringeworthy. Reeks of insecurity to us."
what do you call it?
I cringe at lots of names, but that’s just my personal relationship with the word, not with what it represents.
Is this what you meant? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Has nothing to do with ownership for us, and certainly nothing to do with cuckolding. Reclaiming is just terminology.
The sex between my husband and I after I’ve been with somebody else is animalistic, passionate, intense, very deeply emotional, and amazing; fuelled with jealousy and horn from the build up of knowing where I’ve been and what I’ve been doing. |
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