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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What are proples opinions on winks ?
I personally love a wink. Hardly ever get them but when I do its so nice, knowing someone has seen something in your profile or pictures to send a wink is a massive confidence boost.
But I've seen a lot of people hate winks and ignore them completely, I send a wink as an indicator that I like the profile.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I send a wink if I like a profile to gauge interest. If they wink back I'll go to the trouble of following up with an intro, photos or whatnot; as they're asking. I'm same with fabs on pics. If I fab it I'm interested.
I think a lot of folk aren't meeting that often or are pretty saturated and don't have the time to respond to every message. Winks can save everyone a lot of time... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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99.9% of the winks we get are from people that don’t match what we’re looking for so we rarely check them. We much prefer a message as long as it isn’t a one word/line one. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I send them as an indicator of interest, if they send one back then I know of I send a message it won't be ignored or unwanted.
But yea I get that for some/most women that getting fabs from guys at the other end of the country must be annoying |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They're a waste of time"
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I differ. I take a wink as a , ooh, someone just winked, I’ll check them out. If I like them a night wink back and give them the awesome good news that I’m interested in them too. 
However, i myself am unlikely to wink, basically because of what you just said, I think lots think it’s a waste of time.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I personally think laziness x"
That’s a shame. Not everyone is lazy, the website added that feature, people are just using a feature that’s given to them.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't mind the winks or the messages. In fact I prefer it as I know that person has some interest in me. Then if there is some common interest I'll wink or message back.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Our of curiosity, all the people that say they don't like/use the wink system,
If out in a bar & someone winked at you what would be your response? "
I'd ignore it |
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"Our of curiosity, all the people that say they don't like/use the wink system,
If out in a bar & someone winked at you what would be your response? "
It would depend on the guy's position on the creepiness scale  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Our of curiosity, all the people that say they don't like/use the wink system,
If out in a bar & someone winked at you what would be your response? "
No response from me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Every time this question is asked I reply:
In general men like them and women don't.
Like sports then?
I like an 8 man scrum "
Is that why you've winked me 8 times this month? |
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"Every time this question is asked I reply:
In general men like them and women don't.
Like sports then?
I like an 8 man scrum
Is that why you've winked me 8 times this month? "
I can only wink once in 30 days |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Every time this question is asked I reply:
In general men like them and women don't.
Like sports then?
I like an 8 man scrum
Is that why you've winked me 8 times this month?
I can only wink once in 30 days "
You're overdue then. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Every time this question is asked I reply:
In general men like them and women don't.
Like sports then?
I like an 8 man scrum
Is that why you've winked me 8 times this month?
I can only wink once in 30 days "
That’s not the only thing you do every 30 days is it? |
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"Every time this question is asked I reply:
In general men like them and women don't.
Like sports then?
I like an 8 man scrum
Is that why you've winked me 8 times this month?
I can only wink once in 30 days
That’s not the only thing you do every 30 days is it? "
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"Every time this question is asked I reply:
In general men like them and women don't.
Like sports then?
I like an 8 man scrum
Is that why you've winked me 8 times this month?
I can only wink once in 30 days
You're overdue then. "
Am I??  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't mind the winks or the messages. In fact I prefer it as I know that person has some interest in me. Then if there is some common interest I'll wink or message back.
Typical to old to wink you  "
You're miles away, you wouldn't be able to see my wink from up there  |
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