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Last time you canceled a date and why?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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About 6 years ago I was talking to this girl (she was in her 30's) via a dating site. So after a couple of weeks of chatting. We decided to meet up. Now because she doesn't drive, I thought I could drive to her and we could go for a drink/coffee. Obviously not to her actual house but a meeting place in public. So we got all tarted up for the big day. And ready. However it was her that was to decide where we were to meet up. But she just wouldn't tell(where). She just basically told me to go to her town and wait for further instructions as to where to go next. I thought, but its only a date dear. I mean it's not a marriage proposal or anything serious. I don't know, to me it felt like she was (going to) leading me on a wild goose chase. Sat in my room all ready to go, I messaged her to cancel the date. Oh my the poor girl was fuming. 'why, but, how...'. I'm sorry but you've worn me out physically and mentally. Wow did she give me some stick or what. Told my friends about it. 'you are so cruel Toan' was how one put it.
So yeah I just stayed in and bashed myself silly. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Chances are she would have been crap in bed and reached orgasm too soon and then you'd have dumped her after 7- 9 months!"
Well I never did find out.
I would only 'dump' her if it was mission impossible. However that won't happen! |
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"Chances are she would have been crap in bed and reached orgasm too soon and then you'd have dumped her after 7- 9 months!
Well I never did find out.
I would only 'dump' her if it was mission impossible. However that won't happen! "
 . Mission impossible as in if she can’t orgasm? And that won’t happen as in you can guarantee it? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I had just painted outside steps and forgot about them. Opened door later and twisted ankle stepping over and trying to avoid them. "
Don't forget the skirting boards. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Literally yesterday, I was meant to have a third date with someone at the weekend but I realised I wasn't feeling it.
I think Fab is enough for me for now. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Chances are she would have been crap in bed and reached orgasm too soon and then you'd have dumped her after 7- 9 months!
Well I never did find out.
I would only 'dump' her if it was mission impossible. However that won't happen!
. Mission impossible as in if she can’t orgasm? And that won’t happen as in you can guarantee it? "
Yes(95%)  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Chances are she would have been crap in bed and reached orgasm too soon and then you'd have dumped her after 7- 9 months!
Well I never did find out.
I would only 'dump' her if it was mission impossible. However that won't happen!
. Mission impossible as in if she can’t orgasm? And that won’t happen as in you can guarantee it?
Yes(95%) "
For the second question. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Iv never been on a date
Date is a better word than meet. “A meet”‘just makes me cringe. Ugh"
dont call it a meet either its either a bru a drink a joy ride or straight to bed honestly never dated in my life |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Iv never been on a date
Date is a better word than meet. “A meet”‘just makes me cringe. Ugh
Unless it’s a play date! . Even worse!
Sounds like spending the day with toddlers  "
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"Iv never been on a date
Date is a better word than meet. “A meet”‘just makes me cringe. Ugh
Unless it’s a play date! . Even worse!
Sounds like spending the day with toddlers "
. That would actually put me off someone if they said play date |
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"Iv never been on a date
Date is a better word than meet. “A meet”‘just makes me cringe. Ughdont call it a meet either its either a bru a drink a joy ride or straight to bed honestly never dated in my life"
Not even our little rendez vous in maccies. Was that not a date   |
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"Iv never been on a date
Date is a better word than meet. “A meet”‘just makes me cringe. Ugh
Unless it’s a play date! . Even worse!
Sounds like spending the day with toddlers
. That would actually put me off someone if they said play date "
I just imagine a brightly coloured padded room, but aye not exactly going to get me in the mood |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So how would people classify a "date", "meet" or "social" - just curious as I see them all differently but looks as though a few posters on here conflate them. Just curious! I wouldn't call a meet or social with someone from fab a date personally. |
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"About 6 years ago I was talking to this girl (she was in her 30's) via a dating site. So after a couple of weeks of chatting. We decided to meet up. Now because she doesn't drive, I thought I could drive to her and we could go for a drink/coffee. Obviously not to her actual house but a meeting place in public. So we got all tarted up for the big day. And ready. However it was her that was to decide where we were to meet up. But she just wouldn't tell(where). She just basically told me to go to her town and wait for further instructions as to where to go next. I thought, but its only a date dear. I mean it's not a marriage proposal or anything serious. I don't know, to me it felt like she was (going to) leading me on a wild goose chase. Sat in my room all ready to go, I messaged her to cancel the date. Oh my the poor girl was fuming. 'why, but, how...'. I'm sorry but you've worn me out physically and mentally. Wow did she give me some stick or what. Told my friends about it. 'you are so cruel Toan' was how one put it.
So yeah I just stayed in and bashed myself silly. "
I really don't like situations like this. If I'm travelling for the date I want to know where, when, best place to park etc a couple of days before.
Leaving stuff to the last minute or not replying to confirm that it's actually going ahead bugs the hell out of me.
Lately I've cancelled a lot of things (not just dates/meets) because of my fatigue and migraine combos. |
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"So how would people classify a "date", "meet" or "social" - just curious as I see them all differently but looks as though a few posters on here conflate them. Just curious! I wouldn't call a meet or social with someone from fab a date personally. "
For Me.
Date is dressed up for dinner and going out out
Meet is sexual
Playtime (yes Nora) Is kink related
Socials are generally friendzones unless our chemistry is apparent then it escalates rapidly |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So how would people classify a "date", "meet" or "social" - just curious as I see them all differently but looks as though a few posters on here conflate them. Just curious! I wouldn't call a meet or social with someone from fab a date personally.
For Me.
Date is dressed up for dinner and going out out
Meet is sexual
Playtime (yes Nora) Is kink related
Socials are generally friendzones unless our chemistry is apparent then it escalates rapidly"
That's the same as I see them, totally agree on those |
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"I don't think i have ever cancelled one, i have walked out on a few though
Ooh, sounds juicy. What happened?"
Just not the person i knew before we went on dates, people act a lot differently when around others than when on there own, like they need to be somebody they are not, and had 1 that just got so d*unk i had to ring her a taxi and left it at that |
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"I don't think i have ever cancelled one, i have walked out on a few though
Ooh, sounds juicy. What happened?
Just not the person i knew before we went on dates, people act a lot differently when around others than when on there own, like they need to be somebody they are not, and had 1 that just got so d*unk i had to ring her a taxi and left it at that "
Oh, how disappointing. |
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I've been cancelled on a few times, twice quite recently.
The only time I did it was last summer with a previous FB, I'd had an awful day and just wasn't in the mood for anything but an early night |
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