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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Anyone else here is secretly an hopeless romantic?
I mean, you may think.. what? Kylie?? …
Really?
Errr, YES! This bitch right here
I go into stages of just day dreaming about love and being in love. If I like someone, I rarely follow my head and let my emotions lead me. (In good and bad as I’ve ignored red flags when in too deep)
I mean, I am such a softie ….what I really really want, is a guy who’s proud to hold my hand when outside and be proud of me
Am I ever gonna find him? 
Now, I always said I have my doubts on monogamy and I still believe that (I think relationships have a time frame), but I do love that magic you experience with some people every now and then! X
Who else is an hopeless romantic? X |
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I don't know if romantic love really exists. And I only realised that post kids. Because I have these two little humans who I couldn't love more if I tried. And that has altered my view of what love is. That's all babble and I apologise  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Some of the captions on your pics make me think romance is dead
Maybe it isn’t "
that was a long time ago… I was in my slut phase back then . Which I think I’ve grown out of
Im a reformed slut now
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I seem to have become one aka a sap yes  im supposed to be aaaard but the last few years events have changed my nature grrrr"
infact scratch that i think daydreamer is more accurate than romantic |
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"No I grew out of that, it's all great for a short time but then they usually change and the magic slowly fades away.
I'd rather never have sex again than give all my heart and trust to someone. "
You don’t have to give everything to someone to be romantic x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Aw Kylie. I love a bit of romance I do  . Just the romance though. I don’t want the love stuff. I believe you can have one without the other. "
I do love the romance!!!! X do you really think you can have the two separate? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No I grew out of that, it's all great for a short time but then they usually change and the magic slowly fades away.
I'd rather never have sex again than give all my heart and trust to someone. "
That magic, if somebody could bottle it up. Omg I’d be on that shit and shoot it up my arm right away ….  |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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I can be. Although some of the things I’ve done in the name of romance still make me cringe deep inside.
I once left a cassette with a love song on it, on the pillow of a guy I was fwb with, telling him it summed up how I felt about him…… never saw him again!
C R I N G E
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"Aw Kylie. I love a bit of romance I do . Just the romance though. I don’t want the love stuff. I believe you can have one without the other.
I do love the romance!!!! X do you really think you can have the two separate? "
Yeah. Although depends how you define it. I’m gonna go look at the proper definition |
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"Aw Kylie. I love a bit of romance I do . Just the romance though. I don’t want the love stuff. I believe you can have one without the other.
I do love the romance!!!! X do you really think you can have the two separate?
Yeah. Although depends how you define it. I’m gonna go look at the proper definition "
Hmmmm. Not sure. I think I mean I like someone who is romantic. Not as in “a romance”. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Yep. I'm a soft mare once you get past my walls - love romance. Love that feeling of falling in love, wish I could bottle the magic. I think romance is a wonderful thing. All positive emotions are and I'm enjoying embracing them in the cliched millennial poly way.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I can be. Although some of the things I’ve done in the name of romance still make me cringe deep inside.
I once left a cassette with a love song on it, on the pillow of a guy I was fwb with, telling him it summed up how I felt about him…… never saw him again!
C R I N G E
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me!!! I did the same to a school crush during secret valentines. And did a CD and sent it along with a note, with all the tunes that made me think of me and him.
C R I N G E
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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago
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"Anyone else here is secretly an hopeless romantic?
I mean, you may think.. what? Kylie?? …
Really?
Errr, YES! This bitch right here
I go into stages of just day dreaming about love and being in love. If I like someone, I rarely follow my head and let my emotions lead me. (In good and bad as I’ve ignored red flags when in too deep)
I mean, I am such a softie ….what I really really want, is a guy who’s proud to hold my hand when outside and be proud of me
Am I ever gonna find him?
Now, I always said I have my doubts on monogamy and I still believe that (I think relationships have a time frame), but I do love that magic you experience with some people every now and then! X
Who else is an hopeless romantic? X "
Just when I think you couldn’t be more adorable…boom there you go
I love romance. I’m very shit at sorting my own romance out but I have bought several non fab friends together who are now couples or married. |
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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago
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"Anyone else here is secretly an hopeless romantic?
I mean, you may think.. what? Kylie?? …
Really?
Errr, YES! This bitch right here
I go into stages of just day dreaming about love and being in love. If I like someone, I rarely follow my head and let my emotions lead me. (In good and bad as I’ve ignored red flags when in too deep)
I mean, I am such a softie ….what I really really want, is a guy who’s proud to hold my hand when outside and be proud of me
Am I ever gonna find him?
Now, I always said I have my doubts on monogamy and I still believe that (I think relationships have a time frame), but I do love that magic you experience with some people every now and then! X
Who else is an hopeless romantic? X "
Kylie, you've done it again
Some folk think you can't possibly have romantical thoughts being on a dating or a swinging site but that ain't the case here
I mean, a kick-ass sex life would be awesome too, just sayin'
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i think romance will never die, as you say " someone that is proud to hold your hand while walking through town etc " , wining and dining, date nights, flower petals waiting on the floor leading to a candle lit bath etc, it's all about meeting the right person that has the same thought process as you |
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"No I grew out of that, it's all great for a short time but then they usually change and the magic slowly fades away.
I'd rather never have sex again than give all my heart and trust to someone.
You don’t have to give everything to someone to be romantic x"
I know that, I'm romantic but I'm not looking to give my heart away to anyone. Hopeless romantics want relationships |
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"No I grew out of that, it's all great for a short time but then they usually change and the magic slowly fades away.
I'd rather never have sex again than give all my heart and trust to someone.
That magic, if somebody could bottle it up. Omg I’d be on that shit and shoot it up my arm right away …. "
I was convinced you were going to say up your bum |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hmm, another question to mull over from you, Kylie! I am not a romantic person. Or a softy. But I do believe in romantic love - a meeting of souls. Well that's what it felt like to me. I don't need the hearts and flowers and chocolates stuff. |
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I do believe i am a romantic, but also believe in the swinging lifestyle and I'm not sure how many ladies,(outside fab included) believe in this combination too
Does this sound like the dream situation to anyone else? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hmm, another question to mull over from you, Kylie! I am not a romantic person. Or a softy. But I do believe in romantic love - a meeting of souls. Well that's what it felt like to me. I don't need the hearts and flowers and chocolates stuff. "
On second thoughts, I need the chocolate.  |
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I am. I dream of coffee dates, cooking and cleaning together, talking about our busy days, and snuggling on the sofa in our pyjamas watching crap TV, making snarky remarks to each other which we laugh at.
*Sigh* maybe one day |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone else here is secretly an hopeless romantic?
I mean, you may think.. what? Kylie?? …
Really?
Errr, YES! This bitch right here
I go into stages of just day dreaming about love and being in love. If I like someone, I rarely follow my head and let my emotions lead me. (In good and bad as I’ve ignored red flags when in too deep)
I mean, I am such a softie ….what I really really want, is a guy who’s proud to hold my hand when outside and be proud of me
Am I ever gonna find him?
Now, I always said I have my doubts on monogamy and I still believe that (I think relationships have a time frame), but I do love that magic you experience with some people every now and then! X
Who else is an hopeless romantic? X "
I am with you on this.
However sex is compulsory. Good sex. Every day. Or there abouts.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We both are to some degree but not hopeless. For one thing we found love together.
Sex can be fun with others yet we never play apart so such experiences enhance our love else we are both shaken by the experience together and will talk about it whichever way it goes. |
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"No I grew out of that, it's all great for a short time but then they usually change and the magic slowly fades away.
I'd rather never have sex again than give all my heart and trust to someone.
You don’t have to give everything to someone to be romantic x
I know that, I'm romantic but I'm not looking to give my heart away to anyone. Hopeless romantics want relationships "
Yeah I know what you mean. That’s how I feel. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Anyone else here is secretly an hopeless romantic?
I mean, you may think.. what? Kylie?? …
Really?
Errr, YES! This bitch right here
I go into stages of just day dreaming about love and being in love. If I like someone, I rarely follow my head and let my emotions lead me. (In good and bad as I’ve ignored red flags when in too deep)
I mean, I am such a softie ….what I really really want, is a guy who’s proud to hold my hand when outside and be proud of me
Am I ever gonna find him?
Now, I always said I have my doubts on monogamy and I still believe that (I think relationships have a time frame), but I do love that magic you experience with some people every now and then! X
Who else is an hopeless romantic? X
Kylie, you've done it again
Some folk think you can't possibly have romantical thoughts being on a dating or a swinging site but that ain't the case here
I mean, a kick-ass sex life would be awesome too, just sayin'
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I know! Like I’m constantly thinking of romance and all x
So it’s totally possible, and also enjoy sex |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
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Not a hopeless romantic but I’ve a massive heart and when I let someone in (this is rare) I’ll love them with all of it, I’m a bit of tough but to crack and I’m not obvious in my romantic ways, I like the little things rather than being showered with gifts or lavish dinners - someone that you can just lay in a bath with and chat shit or snuggle up to on the sofa and pig out and they don’t care what you look like in that moment as they see you for more than that - that feeling of complete contentment with no detriment to excitement is where the magic is, I’d bottle that feeling if I could. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ll never be anything less than an old fashioned romantic.
I was lucky enough to have those qualities instilled within me by my dearest that grew up in an era where romance was expressed in way that seem long forgotten.
That’s very sad in today’s society to 
But I’ll never loose my values or those little romantic qualities that I hold dear and that can make a huge difference.
For the right woman I’d do all of those, but this is fab so I keep my romantic side a little more reserved.
However for the right one I go all out, she wouldn’t walk down the road unless I was on the outside of the pavement.
The door would be opened for her.
Her chair pulled out at dinner.
Her favourite song playing when she walked in.
Flowers spontaneously sent to her work.
A note with them saying we had dinner booked at her favourite restaurant.
Just the little things mean so much to both in my mind.
But I’m just me |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"i think romance will never die, as you say " someone that is proud to hold your hand while walking through town etc " , wining and dining, date nights, flower petals waiting on the floor leading to a candle lit bath etc, it's all about meeting the right person that has the same thought process as you "
Ha yes! I mean even just him holding my hand out and see him proud of holding it, is worth a lot to me x more than you would ever know |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No I grew out of that, it's all great for a short time but then they usually change and the magic slowly fades away.
I'd rather never have sex again than give all my heart and trust to someone.
That magic, if somebody could bottle it up. Omg I’d be on that shit and shoot it up my arm right away ….
I was convinced you were going to say up your bum "
I mean, that was the other viable option |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not a hopeless romantic but I’ve a massive heart and when I let someone in (this is rare) I’ll love them with all of it, I’m a bit of tough but to crack and I’m not obvious in my romantic ways, I like the little things rather than being showered with gifts or lavish dinners - someone that you can just lay in a bath with and chat shit or snuggle up to on the sofa and pig out and they don’t care what you look like in that moment as they see you for more than that - that feeling of complete contentment with no detriment to excitement is where the magic is, I’d bottle that feeling if I could. X"
I agree with you lovely!
I also prefer the little things rather than being lavished in stuff. I mean it’s nice to be treated every now and then, but I find little thoughtful things more important.
I just want to feel special in his eyes x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Had to add to this though….it’s about being in the moment, giving everything so that they see how beautiful they are.
How they make you feel inside.
The moments where you don’t give a fuck who is around when you want to kiss them and be lost in a world where no one exists but just those two people.
So many ways that I’d feel like I’m writing war and peace and swamping the thread so I’ll be good |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not romantic and I don't ask for romance from my other half either .
As long as there's love and care there ,that's enough for me."
what about a cream egg along with the messages? |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm not romantic and I don't ask for romance from my other half either .
As long as there's love and care there ,that's enough for me.
what about a cream egg along with the messages?"
I don't like cream eggs |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Had to add to this though….it’s about being in the moment, giving everything so that they see how beautiful they are.
How they make you feel inside.
The moments where you don’t give a fuck who is around when you want to kiss them and be lost in a world where no one exists but just those two people.
So many ways that I’d feel like I’m writing war and peace and swamping the thread so I’ll be good "
That’s so beautiful. YES YES YES |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm not romantic and I don't ask for romance from my other half either .
As long as there's love and care there ,that's enough for me.
what about a cream egg along with the messages?
I don't like cream eggs "
but a wee present is always nice isnt it,? |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
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"Had to add to this though….it’s about being in the moment, giving everything so that they see how beautiful they are.
How they make you feel inside.
The moments where you don’t give a fuck who is around when you want to kiss them and be lost in a world where no one exists but just those two people.
So many ways that I’d feel like I’m writing war and peace and swamping the thread so I’ll be good "
This…absolutely this xx |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
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"Not a hopeless romantic but I’ve a massive heart and when I let someone in (this is rare) I’ll love them with all of it, I’m a bit of tough but to crack and I’m not obvious in my romantic ways, I like the little things rather than being showered with gifts or lavish dinners - someone that you can just lay in a bath with and chat shit or snuggle up to on the sofa and pig out and they don’t care what you look like in that moment as they see you for more than that - that feeling of complete contentment with no detriment to excitement is where the magic is, I’d bottle that feeling if I could. X
I agree with you lovely!
I also prefer the little things rather than being lavished in stuff. I mean it’s nice to be treated every now and then, but I find little thoughtful things more important.
I just want to feel special in his eyes x "
Aw bless you Kylie! You are a wonderful person with such a kind and genuine aura about you, anyone would be lucky to find themselves in your company! You are special xx |
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"I'm not romantic and I don't ask for romance from my other half either .
As long as there's love and care there ,that's enough for me.
what about a cream egg along with the messages?
I don't like cream eggs
but a wee present is always nice isnt it,?"
Gifts yes, who doesn’t like to receive a gift that the other one has put thought and effort into?
But the main gift, the true gift is free….time.
Give your time and that’s far more precious than anything else.
That says that you care, you want that person to have your time. |
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"Had to add to this though….it’s about being in the moment, giving everything so that they see how beautiful they are.
How they make you feel inside.
The moments where you don’t give a fuck who is around when you want to kiss them and be lost in a world where no one exists but just those two people.
So many ways that I’d feel like I’m writing war and peace and swamping the thread so I’ll be good
This…absolutely this xx"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm not romantic and I don't ask for romance from my other half either .
As long as there's love and care there ,that's enough for me.
what about a cream egg along with the messages?
I don't like cream eggs
but a wee present is always nice isnt it,?
Gifts yes, who doesn’t like to receive a gift that the other one has put thought and effort into?
But the main gift, the true gift is free….time.
Give your time and that’s far more precious than anything else.
That says that you care, you want that person to have your time."
Doesn't it depend on your love language? Yours is maybe service at a guess? |
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"Had to add to this though….it’s about being in the moment, giving everything so that they see how beautiful they are.
How they make you feel inside.
The moments where you don’t give a fuck who is around when you want to kiss them and be lost in a world where no one exists but just those two people.
So many ways that I’d feel like I’m writing war and peace and swamping the thread so I’ll be good
That’s so beautiful. YES YES YES"
Awww thank you lovely, life is to short, those moments seem lost now a days.
They need a resurrection.
Who doesn’t want to make someone feel like they are everything?
Those that don’t then I wouldn’t hate.
More a case I’d feel sad for that they can’t feel and experience those beautiful qualities. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Not a hopeless romantic but I’ve a massive heart and when I let someone in (this is rare) I’ll love them with all of it, I’m a bit of tough but to crack and I’m not obvious in my romantic ways, I like the little things rather than being showered with gifts or lavish dinners - someone that you can just lay in a bath with and chat shit or snuggle up to on the sofa and pig out and they don’t care what you look like in that moment as they see you for more than that - that feeling of complete contentment with no detriment to excitement is where the magic is, I’d bottle that feeling if I could. X
I agree with you lovely!
I also prefer the little things rather than being lavished in stuff. I mean it’s nice to be treated every now and then, but I find little thoughtful things more important.
I just want to feel special in his eyes x
Aw bless you Kylie! You are a wonderful person with such a kind and genuine aura about you, anyone would be lucky to find themselves in your company! You are special xx"
thanks lovely!! X |
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