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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Every woman I've messaged has not replied or messaged back,I always read their profile to make sure I fit what they are looking for before I do. I send clear face and body pictures,I'm tall, in shape and I understand not every woman likes that and that's totally fine but to not recieve one single reply is strange.
Is fab just not the place for me? |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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Your profile doesn't say a lot about you, and that's what I'd look at first.
You might think you match what someone is looking for, but there is no way of them knowing if that's the case based on what they can see.
Only you can decide if fab is the place for you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Add more text to your profile, more pics will help too
Remember men outnumber women here by a long way so it will take time to get a reply.
And try to start a conversation with them rather than just asking to meet straight away, thats what I have found works.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Your profile doesn't say a lot about you, and that's what I'd look at first.
You might think you match what someone is looking for, but there is no way of them knowing if that's the case based on what they can see.
Only you can decide if fab is the place for you."
Yeah I'm going to look at maybe making my profile a little more interesting! Thanks for the advice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Get some pics and make sure they are decent pics…if you don’t take a decent pic then…..well…..you could try a filter I suppose but if you do this you instantly lose masculinity points  |
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"Every woman I've messaged has not replied or messaged back,I always read their profile to make sure I fit what they are looking for before I do. I send clear face and body pictures,I'm tall, in shape and I understand not every woman likes that and that's totally fine but to not recieve one single reply is strange.
Is fab just not the place for me?"
--You need a profile to back you up... a picture (or two), some text, ticked interests, a non-lazy age range of 18-99 too maybe. People look for attentiveness not laziness.
And even then it's hard work. You need to browse Search and reach out. There are many more women than men on here I'm afraid.-- |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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"I'd say start with a profile pic
Does it really affect getting a reply even after having sent pictures? "
Pics in a message don't matter to me I look at a profile before I even open a message if the profile doesn't appeal then I may not even open the message or reply even if I do open it.
Look at it another way would you be interested in a profile that shows or tells you absolutely nothing about the person . |
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"Every woman I've messaged has not replied or messaged back,I always read their profile to make sure I fit what they are looking for before I do. I send clear face and body pictures,I'm tall, in shape and I understand not every woman likes that and that's totally fine but to not recieve one single reply is strange.
Is fab just not the place for me?
--You need a profile to back you up... a picture (or two), some text, ticked interests, a non-lazy age range of 18-99 too maybe. People look for attentiveness not laziness.
And even then it's hard work. You need to browse Search and reach out. There are many more women than men on here I'm afraid.--"
-Lol I mean many more men than women!  - |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'd say start with a profile pic
Does it really affect getting a reply even after having sent pictures?
Pics in a message don't matter to me I look at a profile before I even open a message if the profile doesn't appeal then I may not even open the message or reply even if I do open it.
Look at it another way would you be interested in a profile that shows or tells you absolutely nothing about the person ."
Very true I just thought sending picture over worked just as well but I appreciate the advice thanks |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"Your profile doesn't say a lot about you, and that's what I'd look at first.
You might think you match what someone is looking for, but there is no way of them knowing if that's the case based on what they can see.
Only you can decide if fab is the place for you.
Yeah I'm going to look at maybe making my profile a little more interesting! Thanks for the advice"
Any time.
A lot of people don't look at a message before checking out a profile, and so any pictures you send will that message are likely to be unseen if they aren't intrigued by the profile itself.
Happy fabbing. |
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"Yeah I'm going to look at maybe making my profile a little more interesting! Thanks for the advice"
Yeah pics (doesn’t have to be face or cock!) and some words about you and what you want and what you like and what you can offer  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Put on a Dress and learn to walk in 8 inch heels worked for me  "
It’s the truth after have 2 profiles
One medocer and one abusely awesome
And I am not talking about this one |
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OP
You have a serious chance of flipping this around here right+ now, there are enough fabalicious ladies on here reading this thread right now than can advise you on building a profile, so bite the bullet, dump the ninja pic and get yourself on the right road. |
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"Put on a Dress and learn to walk in 8 inch heels worked for me
It’s the truth after have 2 profiles
One medocer and one abusely awesome
And I am not talking about this one "
not for 1 sec did I doubt you,
I just tried to picture the OP in heels when he lives in and is afraid to come out of the shadows. |
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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago
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"Put on a Dress and learn to walk in 8 inch heels worked for me
It’s the truth after have 2 profiles
One medocer and one abusely awesome
And I am not talking about this one "
Nah, it was the way you served cake that time  |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
"OP
You have a serious chance of flipping this around here right+ now, there are enough fabalicious ladies on here reading this thread right now than can advise you on building a profile, so bite the bullet, dump the ninja pic and get yourself on the right road. "
Impressed with how you slipped the flattery in with the help for the OP there you absolute smoothie  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Put on a Dress and learn to walk in 8 inch heels worked for me
It’s the truth after have 2 profiles
One medocer and one abusely awesome
And I am not talking about this one not for 1 sec did I doubt you,
I just tried to picture the OP in heels when he lives in and is afraid to come out of the shadows. "
Couple off years ago I done a experiment on hear
Done a perfect man’s profile no copy and paste messages
Read profiles
Took 10 minutes to craft message
Got 0 return rate out off about 60-70 profiles
Done a tv/ts profile couple off medocor pics no much writing and a copy and paste messages
Message the same people got a 70% return rate
It’s all a bunch off bs ha ha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"OP
You have a serious chance of flipping this around here right+ now, there are enough fabalicious ladies on here reading this thread right now than can advise you on building a profile, so bite the bullet, dump the ninja pic and get yourself on the right road. "
Yeah I think i'll work on my profile, I just usually do the pictures and chat through messages but I'm going to have a photoshoot tonight   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Put on a Dress and learn to walk in 8 inch heels worked for me
It’s the truth after have 2 profiles
One medocer and one abusely awesome
And I am not talking about this one
Nah, it was the way you served cake that time "
Thanks but this was more a expement I done years go
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"Every woman I've messaged has not replied or messaged back,I always read their profile to make sure I fit what they are looking for before I do. I send clear face and body pictures,I'm tall, in shape and I understand not every woman likes that and that's totally fine but to not recieve one single reply is strange.
Personally if a profile with a blank pic messages we always ask for a pic, also think about what you are writing within that first message, I can’t comment on your profile as you have hidden it
Is fab just not the place for me?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd say start with a profile pic
Does it really affect getting a reply even after having sent pictures? "
Absolutely it’s the first thing anyone sees…
Think of your profile like a shop window… |
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"Every woman I've messaged has not replied or messaged back,I always read their profile to make sure I fit what they are looking for before I do. I send clear face and body pictures,I'm tall, in shape and I understand not every woman likes that and that's totally fine but to not recieve one single reply is strange.
Is fab just not the place for me?
--You need a profile to back you up... a picture (or two), some text, ticked interests, a non-lazy age range of 18-99 too maybe. People look for attentiveness not laziness.
And even then it's hard work. You need to browse Search and reach out. There are many more women than men on here I'm afraid.--"
I have to disagree I personally think there are a lot more men on here, there are couple profiles that state they are a couple and it’s just a guy and there are woman's profiles that are actually a guy trying to get pics lol |
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Personally if a profile with a blank pic messages we always ask for a pic, think about that very first message as well, the content of that message is the recipients first impression of you and your personality, I can’t comment on your profile as you have hidden it.
First impressions count so…
Profile pic
A good write up
A good first message
Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd say start with a profile pic
Does it really affect getting a reply even after having sent pictures? "
Have you had a reply?
Then try popping a photo on and then see if you have an increase in reply’s.
It’s not rocket science! And do you know why? Because we are not building rockets |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I couldn’t agree more with you, I deliberately don’t have a face pic on my public photos because of my job, I am happy to share a face pic once I know the person doesn’t know me or isn’t one of my clients ??
But I am not getting any luck either, apart from hundreds of men wanting to suck a golf ball through a hose ??????? |
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"OP
You have a serious chance of flipping this around here right+ now, there are enough fabalicious ladies on here reading this thread right now than can advise you on building a profile, so bite the bullet, dump the ninja pic and get yourself on the right road.
Impressed with how you slipped the flattery in with the help for the OP there you absolute smoothie "
it's an art form, truely |
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"Every woman I've messaged has not replied or messaged back,I always read their profile to make sure I fit what they are looking for before I do. I send clear face and body pictures,I'm tall, in shape and I understand not every woman likes that and that's totally fine but to not recieve one single reply is strange.
Is fab just not the place for me?
--You need a profile to back you up... a picture (or two), some text, ticked interests, a non-lazy age range of 18-99 too maybe. People look for attentiveness not laziness.
And even then it's hard work. You need to browse Search and reach out. There are many more women than men on here I'm afraid.--
I have to disagree I personally think there are a lot more men on here, there are couple profiles that state they are a couple and it’s just a guy and there are woman's profiles that are actually a guy trying to get pics lol "
--I meant more men than women obviously! There is a huge discrepancy with singles anyway (couples obviously not). |
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