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Hi folks
I rarely post new threads buuuuuuuut ……. I’ve just looked in the ‘who’s looked at me’ - and one guy has viewed my profile exactly 22 times in the last 12 hours.
Now - I’m accustomed to guys viewing my profile 2-3 times per day at what I imagine is their optimum wanking time - and though it doesn’t exactly excite me it doesn’t bother me either.
However - I’ve never come across anyone quite this ‘keen’.
I’m tempted to block them - but I’ve done that about half a dozen times in the past 8 years - and only in cases of extreme abuse/rudeness etc.
So - I’m curious to know what y’all think? Have many of you experienced viewing at this level before? (I definitely haven’t) - and what would you personally do?
The evil cow within is tempted to message him to see if he has Alzheimer’s - maybe he views my account then instantly forgets? 
Opinions - or observations - please?
(Or alternatively - just post random unrelated shit like some of you usually do!  )
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I just presume they have a wank I get daly visitors who never messages me but look at my profile ever day
I just presume they have a wank and leave them be
I mean thay doing no harm to me and that’s what my pics are there for others to injoy |
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"One guy has messaged me like 30 ish times over the past few months gotta give it to him he's persistent. Probably thinks ill cave in eventually "
You will! One day you’ll reach breaking point and drive straight to that glory hole! |
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"I just presume they have a wank I get daly visitors who never messages me but look at my profile ever day
I just presume they have a wank and leave them be
I mean thay doing no harm to me and that’s what my pics are there for others to injoy "
Agreed my lovely. It was just the sheer number of views that flummoxed me slightly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If someone had looked at my profile 30 times in a day...firstly I'd think "well that doubles my usual amount" then I'd message asking "can I help you" in my best shop assistant tone |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
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"Peachy - he may like me and enjoys admiring your arse.
True - but it seems a LOT - no? X
Errrrrrrrm.
All I'm saying is that I'm glad I'm in stealth mode.
Me too! "
So you do keep looking at my cock pic. Lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Peachy - he may like me and enjoys admiring your arse.
True - but it seems a LOT - no? X
Errrrrrrrm.
All I'm saying is that I'm glad I'm in stealth mode.
Me too!
So you do keep looking at my cock pic. Lol
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"If someone had looked at my profile 30 times in a day...firstly I'd think "well that doubles my usual amount" then I'd message asking "can I help you" in my best shop assistant tone "
Tell you what - I’ll pm you his name - you message him to see if he needs your help! Deal? |
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By *LiamMan
over a year ago
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There is a couple that view me everyday, they winked me once.. so I sent them a message and they never answered.. now they still come back everyday, I feel like I need to block them also |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If someone had looked at my profile 30 times in a day...firstly I'd think "well that doubles my usual amount" then I'd message asking "can I help you" in my best shop assistant tone
Tell you what - I’ll pm you his name - you message him to see if he needs your help! Deal? "
I can ask on your behalf |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Really no need to out me like this when a simple message could've done  
I think you last viewed my account in 2012!  "
Think I've amended that now but of course, I now have to go for the record |
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"There is a couple that view me everyday, they winked me once.. so I sent them a message and they never answered.. now they still come back everyday, I feel like I need to block them also"
I only do that for extreme rudeness though - so I’d feel a bit mean Liam tbh. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just presume they have a wank I get daly visitors who never messages me but look at my profile ever day
I just presume they have a wank and leave them be
I mean thay doing no harm to me and that’s what my pics are there for others to injoy
Agreed my lovely. It was just the sheer number of views that flummoxed me slightly. "
Awww thank you and yes that number me feek out a bit as well
But on thinking fab gose dead if you don’t touch it for 5-10 minutes
So people can’t keep them selfs tab online 24/7
Wonder if maybe that’s what happened maybe not touched phone screen and fabs sight him off line and then he’s touched it to back out to see another pic witch would incur another profile view
Or were they really stagerd like 30 -40 minutes apart |
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"I just presume they have a wank I get daly visitors who never messages me but look at my profile ever day
I just presume they have a wank and leave them be
I mean thay doing no harm to me and that’s what my pics are there for others to injoy
Agreed my lovely. It was just the sheer number of views that flummoxed me slightly.
Awww thank you and yes that number me feek out a bit as well
But on thinking fab gose dead if you don’t touch it for 5-10 minutes
So people can’t keep them selfs tab online 24/7
Wonder if maybe that’s what happened maybe not touched phone screen and fabs sight him off line and then he’s touched it to back out to see another pic witch would incur another profile view
Or were they really stagerd like 30 -40 minutes apart "
About 3-4 times an hour on average - so I’m not sure if that might confirm your theory or not? X |
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"Sounds like he has no clue you can see he's looking and he plays with himself too much "
Too much? It’s probably in grave danger of falling off if he’s playing every time he looks!  Do I offer to send him sellotape - just in case? |
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"I looked, just the once. Although I think your pictures are amazing, I promise I won't look again.
That's probably given you another 200 views tomorrow, sorry "
Thanks - but I certainly don’t believe they warrant being looked at several times an hour. The chap in question clearly disagrees, however. |
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"Sounds like he has no clue you can see he's looking and he plays with himself too much
Too much? It’s probably in grave danger of falling off if he’s playing every time he looks! Do I offer to send him sellotape - just in case? "
You should probably ask him if he wants the number for his local wankers help group  |
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over a year ago
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"I just presume they have a wank I get daly visitors who never messages me but look at my profile ever day
I just presume they have a wank and leave them be
I mean thay doing no harm to me and that’s what my pics are there for others to injoy
Agreed my lovely. It was just the sheer number of views that flummoxed me slightly.
Awww thank you and yes that number me feek out a bit as well
But on thinking fab gose dead if you don’t touch it for 5-10 minutes
So people can’t keep them selfs tab online 24/7
Wonder if maybe that’s what happened maybe not touched phone screen and fabs sight him off line and then he’s touched it to back out to see another pic witch would incur another profile view
Or were they really stagerd like 30 -40 minutes apart
About 3-4 times an hour on average - so I’m not sure if that might confirm your theory or not? X"
Not shour then I was more thinking like 10-15 minutes apart
Definitely a old one for shour x |
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"Hi folks
I rarely post new threads buuuuuuuut ……. I’ve just looked in the ‘who’s looked at me’ - and one guy has viewed my profile exactly 22 times in the last 12 hours.
Now - I’m accustomed to guys viewing my profile 2-3 times per day at what I imagine is their optimum wanking time - and though it doesn’t exactly excite me it doesn’t bother me either.
However - I’ve never come across anyone quite this ‘keen’.
I’m tempted to block them - but I’ve done that about half a dozen times in the past 8 years - and only in cases of extreme abuse/rudeness etc.
So - I’m curious to know what y’all think? Have many of you experienced viewing at this level before? (I definitely haven’t) - and what would you personally do?
The evil cow within is tempted to message him to see if he has Alzheimer’s - maybe he views my account then instantly forgets?
Opinions - or observations - please?
(Or alternatively - just post random unrelated shit like some of you usually do! )
Hugs
Peachy "
If this was me Peachy, I would think they liked me, but they’re too shy to make the first move. If you like the look of his profile, send him a friendly ‘Hi, I saw you looking at my profile……’ message and see how it goes? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just presume they have a wank I get daly visitors who never messages me but look at my profile ever day
I just presume they have a wank and leave them be
I mean thay doing no harm to me and that’s what my pics are there for others to injoy
Agreed my lovely. It was just the sheer number of views that flummoxed me slightly.
Awww thank you and yes that number me feek out a bit as well
But on thinking fab gose dead if you don’t touch it for 5-10 minutes
So people can’t keep them selfs tab online 24/7
Wonder if maybe that’s what happened maybe not touched phone screen and fabs sight him off line and then he’s touched it to back out to see another pic witch would incur another profile view
Or were they really stagerd like 30 -40 minutes apart
About 3-4 times an hour on average - so I’m not sure if that might confirm your theory or not? X
Not shour then I was more thinking like 10-15 minutes apart
Definitely a old one for shour x"
Odd not old there my phone at it agein ha ha |
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"We have some who is at least a thrice daily visitor. It's kinda odd, to be honest. We've also had serial returners. I'm a saddo and recognise the pictures "
Lmao! I’m similar, but let’s be honest; some pics you can’t unsee…….. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I looked, just the once. Although I think your pictures are amazing, I promise I won't look again.
That's probably given you another 200 views tomorrow, sorry
Thanks - but I certainly don’t believe they warrant being looked at several times an hour. The chap in question clearly disagrees, however. "
If i am honest i have looked at your profile over the last year or so a bit. Local sexy woman.
Quite hot and look like fun.
I think 30 times in one night without a message is a little bit odd.
As long as not stalking you then no dramas? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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He might be reluctant to message and trying to pluck up the confidence to approach which he probably won't now this thread has been created. Profiles are there to be viewed, part and parcel of fab. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This isn’t something I ever look at, maybe I will.
If he’s only looking, maybe leave him to it. If it’s creeping you out, block him.
Your pics are very lovely  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes from men though "
What he said.
Op,I won’t show on ‘who’s viewed you’. I’m hidden. If I I would worry that people worry who looked at them.
It’s the actual worse and most useless feature on fab. It’s pointless. Fab should remove for the exact reason you just put.
People read far too much into it. You have sexy photos (no doubt) people are perverts. |
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I love visuals. Seeing a pretty woman just fills my day with joy to be honest. Therefore, I wouldn’t be surprised if I viewed profiles multiple times per day. Not to have a sneaky wank, but to look, enjoy.
I also don’t use stealth mode as I find that kind of weird! If I look, they can know.
22 times is a lot though. Unless it was me. Then it’s normal. |
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By *inx.x3Woman
over a year ago
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"Stealth mode, could someone elaborate please? "
Go to privacy settings and change this..
Hide on looked at me: You can hide yourself from showing on "who has looked at me" pages.
I show on "who's looked at me" pages (you don't).
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Blimey that’s a bit scary Peachy! Quite glad I never look now . I see it on updates if someone from my hotlist looks. Didn’t realise it came up that they’d looked more than once. Obviously one look is enough on mine |
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"We have some who is at least a thrice daily visitor. It's kinda odd, to be honest. We've also had serial returners. I'm a saddo and recognise the pictures "
I have one or two of those two. I just assume it’s their appointed ‘self love’ time. |
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"Blimey that’s a bit scary Peachy! Quite glad I never look now . I see it on updates if someone from my hotlist looks. Didn’t realise it came up that they’d looked more than once. Obviously one look is enough on mine "
It is a bit isn’t it? It’s just the sheer volume of views - ie at what point does ‘flattering’ become worrying.
I’m glad I look sod all like my pictures these days - at least he’ll never recognise me in Tesco. |
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"I must be one of the guilty ones I keep looking then I remember I already looked and I’m not what you want but I’m ever hopeful that you change your mind"
Aww I never mind people having a peek my lovely - it’s the sheer volume of views I found rather surprising. A few times I’m used to. X |
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"He might be reluctant to message and trying to pluck up the confidence to approach which he probably won't now this thread has been created. Profiles are there to be viewed, part and parcel of fab. "
Firstly - most people don’t use the forums.
Secondly - I was simply shocked by the number of views (rarely look but I don’t think that number has happened before) - and wasn’t sure what to think - so for the first time in a looooong time I started a thread to see if it’s pretty common for other people to get so many from one person. |
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"Hi folks
I rarely post new threads buuuuuuuut ……. I’ve just looked in the ‘who’s looked at me’ - and one guy has viewed my profile exactly 22 times in the last 12 hours.
Now - I’m accustomed to guys viewing my profile 2-3 times per day at what I imagine is their optimum wanking time - and though it doesn’t exactly excite me it doesn’t bother me either.
However - I’ve never come across anyone quite this ‘keen’.
I’m tempted to block them - but I’ve done that about half a dozen times in the past 8 years - and only in cases of extreme abuse/rudeness etc.
So - I’m curious to know what y’all think? Have many of you experienced viewing at this level before? (I definitely haven’t) - and what would you personally do?
The evil cow within is tempted to message him to see if he has Alzheimer’s - maybe he views my account then instantly forgets?
Opinions - or observations - please?
(Or alternatively - just post random unrelated shit like some of you usually do! )
Hugs
Peachy
If this was me Peachy, I would think they liked me, but they’re too shy to make the first move. If you like the look of his profile, send him a friendly ‘Hi, I saw you looking at my profile……’ message and see how it goes? "
He’s not quite what I’m looking for tbh. What I’m looking for is as common as rocking horse shit - which is why I rarely get laid! |
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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago
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Totally get you on this ...i can see why he'd want to keep looking x
Maybe hes shy lol
Not sure if id be flattered or concerned
If he was local I'd be a bit creeped out tbh
Or just over thinking lol |
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"I love visuals. Seeing a pretty woman just fills my day with joy to be honest. Therefore, I wouldn’t be surprised if I viewed profiles multiple times per day. Not to have a sneaky wank, but to look, enjoy.
I also don’t use stealth mode as I find that kind of weird! If I look, they can know.
22 times is a lot though. Unless it was me. Then it’s normal. "
I pervades a few profiles too - but very definitely never that often. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"He’s a rank amateur.
I’ve been and looked 23 times!
Fibber?  Btw - have you read that ‘Porno’ book? I got it from a charity shop but haven’t got beyond the first chapter or two. "
I have read it, it’s tough going when you try to read whilst also trying to translate some of the dialect in your head.
24 times. |
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"Totally get you on this ...i can see why he'd want to keep looking x
Maybe hes shy lol
Not sure if id be flattered or concerned
If he was local I'd be a bit creeped out tbh
Or just over thinking lol "
Exactly - that’s how I feel - which is why I’ve taken to the forums. At what point does flattered become concerned?
And thanks for the compliment btw. X |
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"Hi folks
I rarely post new threads buuuuuuuut ……. I’ve just looked in the ‘who’s looked at me’ - and one guy has viewed my profile exactly 22 times in the last 12 hours.
Now - I’m accustomed to guys viewing my profile 2-3 times per day at what I imagine is their optimum wanking time - and though it doesn’t exactly excite me it doesn’t bother me either.
However - I’ve never come across anyone quite this ‘keen’.
I’m tempted to block them - but I’ve done that about half a dozen times in the past 8 years - and only in cases of extreme abuse/rudeness etc.
So - I’m curious to know what y’all think? Have many of you experienced viewing at this level before? (I definitely haven’t) - and what would you personally do?
The evil cow within is tempted to message him to see if he has Alzheimer’s - maybe he views my account then instantly forgets?
Opinions - or observations - please?
(Or alternatively - just post random unrelated shit like some of you usually do! )
Hugs
Peachy
If this was me Peachy, I would think they liked me, but they’re too shy to make the first move. If you like the look of his profile, send him a friendly ‘Hi, I saw you looking at my profile……’ message and see how it goes?
He’s not quite what I’m looking for tbh. What I’m looking for is as common as rocking horse shit - which is why I rarely get laid! "
You need to lower your standards waiting ever hopeful lol |
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Most likely he’s just extremely horny and browsing fabs looking for a potential meet. Your just a long list of profiles he’s looked at 10+ times, plus a rotation of probably going to Facebook - Instagram - tinder - bumble - fabs - pornhub in an endless horny cycle |
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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago
Camberley occasionally doncaster |
"Hi folks
I rarely post new threads buuuuuuuut ……. I’ve just looked in the ‘who’s looked at me’ - and one guy has viewed my profile exactly 22 times in the last 12 hours.
Now - I’m accustomed to guys viewing my profile 2-3 times per day at what I imagine is their optimum wanking time - and though it doesn’t exactly excite me it doesn’t bother me either.
However - I’ve never come across anyone quite this ‘keen’.
I’m tempted to block them - but I’ve done that about half a dozen times in the past 8 years - and only in cases of extreme abuse/rudeness etc.
So - I’m curious to know what y’all think? Have many of you experienced viewing at this level before? (I definitely haven’t) - and what would you personally do?
The evil cow within is tempted to message him to see if he has Alzheimer’s - maybe he views my account then instantly forgets?
Opinions - or observations - please?
(Or alternatively - just post random unrelated shit like some of you usually do! )
Hugs
Peachy "
Hey Peachy,
Firstly, can't blame him
Secondly, he might just be clicking on every profile in order in his search or you might be getting caught multiple times if he is using the "back" key on his phone.
Thirdly, see first point.
G x |
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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago
Plymouth |
"Totally get you on this ...i can see why he'd want to keep looking x
Maybe hes shy lol
Not sure if id be flattered or concerned
If he was local I'd be a bit creeped out tbh
Or just over thinking lol
Exactly - that’s how I feel - which is why I’ve taken to the forums. At what point does flattered become concerned?
And thanks for the compliment btw. X"
your welcome lovely pics xx personally i would give it a couple days to see if he views a little less ,if it continued id be blocking no one should be made to feels uncomfortable on here xx P |
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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago
Orpington |
Would you have a different reaction if the guy was attractive? (By that I mean you actually finding him attractive)
Also this makes me realise how some people use the so called ninja mode and stalk other's profiles day and night...I personally find that more unsettling |
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"Would you have a different reaction if the guy was attractive? (By that I mean you actually finding him attractive)
Also this makes me realise how some people use the so called ninja mode and stalk other's profiles day and night...I personally find that more unsettling "
Of course they do. This is why I don’t have explicit pics. Some people crave that kind of attention though. Makes me feel a bit  |
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over a year ago
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"Hi folks
I rarely post new threads buuuuuuuut ……. I’ve just looked in the ‘who’s looked at me’ - and one guy has viewed my profile exactly 22 times in the last 12 hours.
Now - I’m accustomed to guys viewing my profile 2-3 times per day at what I imagine is their optimum wanking time - and though it doesn’t exactly excite me it doesn’t bother me either.
However - I’ve never come across anyone quite this ‘keen’.
I’m tempted to block them - but I’ve done that about half a dozen times in the past 8 years - and only in cases of extreme abuse/rudeness etc.
So - I’m curious to know what y’all think? Have many of you experienced viewing at this level before? (I definitely haven’t) - and what would you personally do?
The evil cow within is tempted to message him to see if he has Alzheimer’s - maybe he views my account then instantly forgets?
Opinions - or observations - please?
(Or alternatively - just post random unrelated shit like some of you usually do! )
Hugs
Peachy "
You obviously have turned him on |
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"Hi folks
I rarely post new threads buuuuuuuut ……. I’ve just looked in the ‘who’s looked at me’ - and one guy has viewed my profile exactly 22 times in the last 12 hours.
Now - I’m accustomed to guys viewing my profile 2-3 times per day at what I imagine is their optimum wanking time - and though it doesn’t exactly excite me it doesn’t bother me either.
However - I’ve never come across anyone quite this ‘keen’.
I’m tempted to block them - but I’ve done that about half a dozen times in the past 8 years - and only in cases of extreme abuse/rudeness etc.
So - I’m curious to know what y’all think? Have many of you experienced viewing at this level before? (I definitely haven’t) - and what would you personally do?
The evil cow within is tempted to message him to see if he has Alzheimer’s - maybe he views my account then instantly forgets?
Opinions - or observations - please?
(Or alternatively - just post random unrelated shit like some of you usually do! )
Hugs
Peachy
Hey Peachy,
Firstly, can't blame him
Secondly, he might just be clicking on every profile in order in his search or you might be getting caught multiple times if he is using the "back" key on his phone.
Thirdly, see first point.
G x"
Awwww thanks sweetie. Back at you. |
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"I 'look at' posters on threads that interest me...or hotlisters ,friends and locals who have recently updated profiles in some way .. or any looked at me's that look interesting "
Me too - but not 22 times. It’s the volume that shocked me. X |
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"Would you have a different reaction if the guy was attractive? (By that I mean you actually finding him attractive)
Also this makes me realise how some people use the so called ninja mode and stalk other's profiles day and night...I personally find that more unsettling
Of course they do. This is why I don’t have explicit pics. Some people crave that kind of attention though. Makes me feel a bit "
I think it’s just the sheer number that surprised me. 4 or 5 I’m accustomed to. I have foof pics. I like guys to see what they’re getting in to. Literally |
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"I’d leave them to it. If a guy likes what he sees that much then I’d just think to myself “I’ve still got it” and go about my day with a warm fuzzy feeling in my vagina "
I shall try to look at it that way. |
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"Hi folks
I rarely post new threads buuuuuuuut ……. I’ve just looked in the ‘who’s looked at me’ - and one guy has viewed my profile exactly 22 times in the last 12 hours.
Now - I’m accustomed to guys viewing my profile 2-3 times per day at what I imagine is their optimum wanking time - and though it doesn’t exactly excite me it doesn’t bother me either.
However - I’ve never come across anyone quite this ‘keen’.
I’m tempted to block them - but I’ve done that about half a dozen times in the past 8 years - and only in cases of extreme abuse/rudeness etc.
So - I’m curious to know what y’all think? Have many of you experienced viewing at this level before? (I definitely haven’t) - and what would you personally do?
The evil cow within is tempted to message him to see if he has Alzheimer’s - maybe he views my account then instantly forgets?
Opinions - or observations - please?
(Or alternatively - just post random unrelated shit like some of you usually do! )
Hugs
Peachy
You obviously have turned him on "
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"Would you have a different reaction if the guy was attractive? (By that I mean you actually finding him attractive)
Also this makes me realise how some people use the so called ninja mode and stalk other's profiles day and night...I personally find that more unsettling "
Ok - two points there. Even if I found him attractive I’d find that volume of views unsettling. (But no - I don’t)
Makes me very glad I no longer have public face pics tbh.
Secondly - I have ninja mode. I find you attractive. I perve at you once - maybe twice - each day. Generally on my lunch break. Then I grin and get on with my day.
Are you unsettled now? |
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"I think it's a compliment in a stalkerish kind of way. I've just had a look and can see why he views you a fair bit"
Thanks. I can see how it might be complimentary - but also stalkerish. I’m veering between the two frames of thought. X |
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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago
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"Would you have a different reaction if the guy was attractive? (By that I mean you actually finding him attractive)
Also this makes me realise how some people use the so called ninja mode and stalk other's profiles day and night...I personally find that more unsettling
Ok - two points there. Even if I found him attractive I’d find that volume of views unsettling. (But no - I don’t)
Makes me very glad I no longer have public face pics tbh.
Secondly - I have ninja mode. I find you attractive. I perve at you once - maybe twice - each day. Generally on my lunch break. Then I grin and get on with my day.
Are you unsettled now? "
I'm petrified |
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"Hi folks
I rarely post new threads buuuuuuuut ……. I’ve just looked in the ‘who’s looked at me’ - and one guy has viewed my profile exactly 22 times in the last 12 hours.
Now - I’m accustomed to guys viewing my profile 2-3 times per day at what I imagine is their optimum wanking time - and though it doesn’t exactly excite me it doesn’t bother me either.
However - I’ve never come across anyone quite this ‘keen’.
I’m tempted to block them - but I’ve done that about half a dozen times in the past 8 years - and only in cases of extreme abuse/rudeness etc.
So - I’m curious to know what y’all think? Have many of you experienced viewing at this level before? (I definitely haven’t) - and what would you personally do?
The evil cow within is tempted to message him to see if he has Alzheimer’s - maybe he views my account then instantly forgets?
Opinions - or observations - please?
(Or alternatively - just post random unrelated shit like some of you usually do! )
Hugs
Peachy "
Lol my guess is he’s trying to get your attention in the hope you would message him but I’d have hoped he would have taken the hint by now, if it’s as regular as that with no messaging!
Being a single guy on here, I can guarantee I’ve not had that issue haha! |
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over a year ago
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That's why ninja mode was invented! People don't become uncomfortable at being stared at, and you don't get your favourite content removed for being ever so slightly too perverted! |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
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"No idea- I can see the amount of people who have viewed but I never click into it x
Here’s a hint - don’t! You may never sleep again! Love your pics btw - but I think I told you that last weekend. "
Aw thank you gorgeous! Back at you and thanks for the hint xx |
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over a year ago
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I would find it amusing. He obviously likes your pics (who wouldn’t). It’s a bit like when someone fabs every single pic at once, I’d take it as a compliment J xx
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over a year ago
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"Sounds like me on the Morrisons shopping app, constantly going back to the bakery section to drool over the Belgian buns, before reluctantly clicking on the veg button  "
They see you looking.  |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"Sounds like me on the Morrisons shopping app, constantly going back to the bakery section to drool over the Belgian buns, before reluctantly clicking on the veg button
They see you looking. "
I'm waiting for the targeted ads to arrive on Facebook. |
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"Hi folks
I rarely post new threads buuuuuuuut ……. I’ve just looked in the ‘who’s looked at me’ - and one guy has viewed my profile exactly 22 times in the last 12 hours.
Now - I’m accustomed to guys viewing my profile 2-3 times per day at what I imagine is their optimum wanking time - and though it doesn’t exactly excite me it doesn’t bother me either.
However - I’ve never come across anyone quite this ‘keen’.
I’m tempted to block them - but I’ve done that about half a dozen times in the past 8 years - and only in cases of extreme abuse/rudeness etc.
So - I’m curious to know what y’all think? Have many of you experienced viewing at this level before? (I definitely haven’t) - and what would you personally do?
The evil cow within is tempted to message him to see if he has Alzheimer’s - maybe he views my account then instantly forgets?
Opinions - or observations - please?
(Or alternatively - just post random unrelated shit like some of you usually do! )
Hugs
Peachy
Lol my guess is he’s trying to get your attention in the hope you would message him but I’d have hoped he would have taken the hint by now, if it’s as regular as that with no messaging!
Being a single guy on here, I can guarantee I’ve not had that issue haha! "
I get you - it was just way too much - and you look nice for a young ‘in btw. |
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" That's why ninja mode was invented! People don't become uncomfortable at being stared at, and you don't get your favourite content removed for being ever so slightly too perverted! "
I don’t think I’ll block him tbh. I find it a little discombobulating (praying I got that in the right context) - but that’s all. I’m not hiding behind the sofa or anything. |
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"Sounds like me on the Morrisons shopping app, constantly going back to the bakery section to drool over the Belgian buns, before reluctantly clicking on the veg button "
I get that - now I’m a little overweight my Belgian buns look ok! |
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"I would find it amusing. He obviously likes your pics (who wouldn’t). It’s a bit like when someone fabs every single pic at once, I’d take it as a compliment J xx
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Thanks J - I get that it is - just found it a little much. Fabbed a few of yours too - great figure. |
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over a year ago
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Yes I have had a few couples profiles do this, they looked at my profile every hour or so for a few days. They didn't message or wink so I guess I was just useful wank material until I blocked them |
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"Yes I have had a few couples profiles do this, they looked at my profile every hour or so for a few days. They didn't message or wink so I guess I was just useful wank material until I blocked them "
---Well at least you didn't message them first!
So I'm guessing from this that a lot of women peruse their Viewing Lists for possible matches?
I didn't realise women did this tbh, I honestly thought that statistically they would have got too many.
I don't see myself remotely as any kind of hit on here (why would I, I'm not) but personally I get far too many views to seriously look back at them myself - especially in terms of repeat looking! Winks too, I mainly just delete them (esp on Fabguys, which is more comparable than here really ie for someone like me and women).
To me it's all about those messages, and in using Search.-- |
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Do people really think that 22 is that large a number over 12 hours?
Honestly, it isn't necessarily large all all. It probably covers morning, lunch and evening. This particular profile is big with lots of pics.. the person could even be viewing in a shorter time frame with various interruptions! Chances are he either doesn't see himself as being viewed in return, or just hasn't thought about it. Why does it have to be concerning in any way? 22 views is just the number 22.
I'll love to see the 'incognito' viewing stats of some people on here for those they've taken a shine to! They might (ahem) be a little surprised!
I do get it if someone doesn't find the guy attractive (and yes blocking is a privilege we all can safely use), but what if you really did? It wouldn't be creepy then surely, it would the just be rather flattering?
I think we're just smacking an invisible bottom here.-- |
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"Do people really think that 22 is that large a number over 12 hours?
Honestly, it isn't necessarily large all all. It probably covers morning, lunch and evening. This particular profile is big with lots of pics.. the person could even be viewing in a shorter time frame with various interruptions! Chances are he either doesn't see himself as being viewed in return, or just hasn't thought about it. Why does it have to be concerning in any way? 22 views is just the number 22.
I'll love to see the 'incognito' viewing stats of some people on here for those they've taken a shine to! They might (ahem) be a little surprised!
I do get it if someone doesn't find the guy attractive (and yes blocking is a privilege we all can safely use), but what if you really did? It wouldn't be creepy then surely, it would the just be rather flattering?
I think we're just smacking an invisible bottom here.-- "
Yes. It's verging on obsessive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not at that level but when I have pics up one lady looks every day 3-4 times a day. I haven't messaged as I don't meet her preferences, either that or it's a dude pretending to be a woman |
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"Is there a reason he wouldn't be able to message peachy ,like age or no pics etc ?
22 times does seem an awful lot in that time frame ."
He’s unverified so can’t message. He’s still at it. I really need to stop looking. |
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"Do people really think that 22 is that large a number over 12 hours?
Honestly, it isn't necessarily large all all. It probably covers morning, lunch and evening. This particular profile is big with lots of pics.. the person could even be viewing in a shorter time frame with various interruptions! Chances are he either doesn't see himself as being viewed in return, or just hasn't thought about it. Why does it have to be concerning in any way? 22 views is just the number 22.
I'll love to see the 'incognito' viewing stats of some people on here for those they've taken a shine to! They might (ahem) be a little surprised!
I do get it if someone doesn't find the guy attractive (and yes blocking is a privilege we all can safely use), but what if you really did? It wouldn't be creepy then surely, it would the just be rather flattering?
I think we're just smacking an invisible bottom here.-- "
I’ve only ever blocked people who are downright abusive. And 22 still seems a lot to me. I’m on incognito - but I’ve never viewed any one person remotely that often. There are far too many hotties on here to view them all that often! |
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"So he’s looked at your profile almost twice every hour!
That’s… that’s quite a going maybe he wanted to get your attention and decided that was the best way? "
The thing is - even if I’d been interested initially - I probably wouldn’t be by now. I think there’s such a thing as ‘too’ keen. Xx |
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"Some of these responses ! Is this really so 'creepy' ffs? If the OP has 'sent him the message' (which is a bit creepy in itself imo), the guy deserves a moaning thread of his own I think! One or two people on Fab do need to get over themselves a touch sometimes I feel 
Clearly we get what we want on Fab in spite of that which we don't. Is it so hard to show some grace and respect to those who don't interest us? I mean, if the OP found this guy desirable surely she'd surely be over the moon? She has a fairly long and intriguing (ahem) profile with over 30 pics too! I don't get what the issue can be other than getting those claws out!  --"
Where did I say I’d sent him a message? What message? I definitely haven’t messaged him and have no intention of doing so my lovely. X |
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"So he’s looked at your profile almost twice every hour!
That’s… that’s quite a going maybe he wanted to get your attention and decided that was the best way?
The thing is - even if I’d been interested initially - I probably wouldn’t be by now. I think there’s such a thing as ‘too’ keen. Xx"
Absolutely, I’d see it as maybe a warning they’d may be a tad overbearing Xx |
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"So he’s looked at your profile almost twice every hour!
That’s… that’s quite a going maybe he wanted to get your attention and decided that was the best way?
The thing is - even if I’d been interested initially - I probably wouldn’t be by now. I think there’s such a thing as ‘too’ keen. Xx
Absolutely, I’d see it as maybe a warning they’d may be a tad overbearing Xx "
Precisely - and not take no for an answer terribly well. |
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Hmm. I tend to click on people's profiles straight from forum posts trying to make a profile name stick against the picture I have in my mind of them. Unless you are prolifically posting and changing your profile picture as you go I doubt I'd come back more than a few times in a 24 hour period. |
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All I can say is thank fuck for stealth mode. I’ve dropped in and out of some profiles lots of times to perv/use as wank fodder. Sometimes multiple times a day or even hr, depends on the horn level! |
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"Hmm. I tend to click on people's profiles straight from forum posts trying to make a profile name stick against the picture I have in my mind of them. Unless you are prolifically posting and changing your profile picture as you go I doubt I'd come back more than a few times in a 24 hour period."
I rarely post - and I think I last changed my profile picture between the wars. My attention seeker days are very much over. I lead a quiet life with the cats and the crochet these days! |
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"Yes I have had a few couples profiles do this, they looked at my profile every hour or so for a few days. They didn't message or wink so I guess I was just useful wank material until I blocked them
---Well at least you didn't message them first!
So I'm guessing from this that a lot of women peruse their Viewing Lists for possible matches?
I didn't realise women did this tbh, I honestly thought that statistically they would have got too many.
I don't see myself remotely as any kind of hit on here (why would I, I'm not) but personally I get far too many views to seriously look back at them myself - especially in terms of repeat looking! Winks too, I mainly just delete them (esp on Fabguys, which is more comparable than here really ie for someone like me and women).
To me it's all about those messages, and in using Search.--"
I wasn't looking at it for potential matches, just had above average hits on my page and wondered why as I hadn't uploaded a pic. Then I saw the same profile over and over again for days, frequently looking but not making contact. If they would have messaged or winked I probably wouldn't have thought anything of it but as they didn't I thought it was a bit odd |
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"Yes. It's verging on obsessive.
Nah, only if you want it to be. I'd love to have some stats for this site! Esp for incognito.---"
Only if I want it to be?  that doesn't make sense. We have different perspectives. It only matters what the OP a thinks though. |
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"Some of these responses ! Is this really so 'creepy' ffs? If the OP has 'sent him the message' (which is a bit creepy in itself imo), the guy deserves a moaning thread of his own I think! One or two people on Fab do need to get over themselves a touch sometimes I feel
Clearly we get what we want on Fab in spite of that which we don't. Is it so hard to show some grace and respect to those who don't interest us? I mean, if the OP found this guy desirable surely she'd surely be over the moon? She has a fairly long and intriguing (ahem) profile with over 30 pics too! I don't get what the issue can be other than getting those claws out! --
Where did I say I’d sent him a message? What message? I definitely haven’t messaged him and have no intention of doing so my lovely. X"
--I wasn't referring to you personally. I think you just speculated over it (comically probably) and other people here have suggested it saying it's creepy etc, and my post was an answer to "all these responses"! which I do see as a bit over the top.
It's 22 views you see, I've worked in computers its no kind of number. You've just seen his face (or dick or whatever) a lot when you've scrolled down your viewing list. I'm genuinely sorry you don't fancy him!
FWIW I actually don't see blocking someone as being a terrible thing to do if you don't want to keep seeing him and this carries on over days. I still wouldn't want to call him creepy though (as some have) - that is too dramatic for a site like this imo. God knows how many views some people make invisibly! Someone told me once they visit my pics all the time. At the end of the day, blocking is ultimately how a lot of people administer this huge website, so one can really complain. (though of course a lot of us do lol)-- |
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"Hi folks
I rarely post new threads buuuuuuuut ……. I’ve just looked in the ‘who’s looked at me’ - and one guy has viewed my profile exactly 22 times in the last 12 hours.
Now - I’m accustomed to guys viewing my profile 2-3 times per day at what I imagine is their optimum wanking time - and though it doesn’t exactly excite me it doesn’t bother me either.
However - I’ve never come across anyone quite this ‘keen’.
I’m tempted to block them - but I’ve done that about half a dozen times in the past 8 years - and only in cases of extreme abuse/rudeness etc.
So - I’m curious to know what y’all think? Have many of you experienced viewing at this level before? (I definitely haven’t) - and what would you personally do?
The evil cow within is tempted to message him to see if he has Alzheimer’s - maybe he views my account then instantly forgets?
Opinions - or observations - please?
(Or alternatively - just post random unrelated shit like some of you usually do! )
Hugs
Peachy "
Hiya x that's a bit over the top if you ask me x it's almost like stalking x block him if you feel like he's got a kinda crush of the highest level on you x that's definitely far too much x even a horny guy like myself wouldn't do that lol xxx |
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"Yes. It's verging on obsessive.
Nah, only if you want it to be. I'd love to have some stats for this site! Esp for incognito.---
Only if I want it to be? that doesn't make sense. We have different perspectives. It only matters what the OP a thinks though. "
--Sure, which is what I meant, it's all how we see it. But I doubt he actually IS an obsessive person himself though. And my view of the stats is that he really isn't viewing the profile as much as some people 'feel' that he is, and he likely doesn't understand that he can go incognito either! (and maybe he doesn't realise that women look at this list that much too, though that does make more sense to me personally when I think about it more).
It could also be a bug on here or his ISP. He could be flicking through a tab system across the day - ok that's all unlikely perhaps, but it's not 100% foolproof here either fwiw. I wouldn't be too bothered about it unless it pisses the OP off over days. Then just block I guess, it's the way this place works.-- |
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