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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Does anyone use this site for dating? Or is it purely just sex for you?
Reason I'm asking is that I've found dating sites to be pretty vanilla and mentioning anything out of the ordinary tends to scare most people off.
If your in a couple I'd be interested to know how you met and if you have any tips haha?
Where do I find the naughty woman of my dreams?  |
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okc is a good alternative for friendship and dates. It lets you look for hookups and label yourself from a big list of sexual preference too.
Fab is typically more of place to arrange meets.
You can make friends on here etc, but opening with it could put a lot of people off. Many here just want the sex. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I wouldn’t mind dating but the search tools aren’t as great as other sites so it’s hard to match with someone on your wavelength. "
An interested in dating option would be a good addition to this site I think. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Where do I find the naughty woman of my dreams?
Dronfield"
Been there and it was like a league of gentleman, local shop for local people. Scared me a bit  |
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For sure, lots of people have found relationships on here. Personally, I’m not sure it’s the right place to find the person of your dreams but I’m old and a cynic!
I do wish you luck and have lots of fun finding him/her. |
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"Plenty of extremely naughty girls in dating app from my experience. Just gotta know how to get about it
Yes, I agree. Lots of guys too.
I’ve said ‘open minded’ on mine. "
Plus it’s all about how you bring it up. On here it’s pretty acceptable to get into the nitty gritty of what you both like sexually right away. On the apps, not so much.
Go out on a date first and see if there’s a spark, then see if there’s any whips and chains to be found. I’d say about 90% of the girls I met had a very kinky side. And the best ones are the ones that don’t know it until you bring it out of them |
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By *ate_BMan
over a year ago
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"I wouldn’t mind dating but the search tools aren’t as great as other sites so it’s hard to match with someone on your wavelength.
An interested in dating option would be a good addition to this site I think. "
Agreed  |
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"I wouldn’t mind dating but the search tools aren’t as great as other sites so it’s hard to match with someone on your wavelength.
An interested in dating option would be a good addition to this site I think.
Agreed "
-Fab doesn't really profit from the this huge hookup database site (they keep its cost in a place that covers it) - you people are talking about it becoming something else again! Dating sites have loads of different features, admin and moderation. Which would cost money that people just don't want to pay. Keep it as it is I say.
Go to okc and use this as well. People can get together here already when it happens for them, of course they can. It's free as well.- |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I wouldn’t mind dating but the search tools aren’t as great as other sites so it’s hard to match with someone on your wavelength.
An interested in dating option would be a good addition to this site I think.
Agreed
-Fab doesn't really profit from the this huge hookup database site (they keep its cost in a place that covers it) - you people are talking about it becoming something else again! Dating sites have loads of different features, admin and moderation. Which would cost money that people just don't want to pay. Keep it as it is I say.
Go to okc and use this as well. People can get together here already when it happens for them, of course they can. It's free as well.-"
Can't see adding a tick box costing anything at all? They don't need to moderate it anymore than they already do. It would just be a little feature that a minority would use. I personally don't see any harm in it. |
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"For sure, lots of people have found relationships on here. Personally, I’m not sure it’s the right place to find the person of your dreams but I’m old and a cynic!
I do wish you luck and have lots of fun finding him/her. "
Not old.....age breads beauty  x |
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"I wouldn’t mind dating but the search tools aren’t as great as other sites so it’s hard to match with someone on your wavelength.
An interested in dating option would be a good addition to this site I think.
Agreed
-Fab doesn't really profit from the this huge hookup database site (they keep its cost in a place that covers it) - you people are talking about it becoming something else again! Dating sites have loads of different features, admin and moderation. Which would cost money that people just don't want to pay. Keep it as it is I say.
Go to okc and use this as well. People can get together here already when it happens for them, of course they can. It's free as well.-
Can't see adding a tick box costing anything at all? They don't need to moderate it anymore than they already do. It would just be a little feature that a minority would use. I personally don't see any harm in it. "
---It's the modding as much as anything. When I was a carer (and before I found this) I had to do dating sites a lot (over 15 years off and on), and you find out when speaking to people (I must have spoken to hundreds in the end) that they are full of people getting upset over things and making reports etc. You are bringing in love and family, children etc... it becomes an entirely different thing.
Fab have quite a tough attitude to the maintenance of this place (bare-bones but firm and fair - sometimes frustratingly so as we all know), but add a dating element to this and people will want a totally different approach. Maybe not you, but others certainly will. These forums can get sensitive enough as it is I think.
Also you'd have to keep out people who aren't interested in the sex, otherwise it will surely break down entirely! Dating sites are reviewed and listed everywhere - can you imagine if this free to join place became as well known as Tinder or even Match?
Ok, like Fab okc has a free blind-viewing format with free messaging too (though it isn't exactly cheap to view who is 'liking' you if you need that too), but it's primarily about dating first, and its sexy side works well off the back of that. I just don't think it works the other way around at all. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I wouldn’t mind dating but the search tools aren’t as great as other sites so it’s hard to match with someone on your wavelength.
An interested in dating option would be a good addition to this site I think.
Agreed
-Fab doesn't really profit from the this huge hookup database site (they keep its cost in a place that covers it) - you people are talking about it becoming something else again! Dating sites have loads of different features, admin and moderation. Which would cost money that people just don't want to pay. Keep it as it is I say.
Go to okc and use this as well. People can get together here already when it happens for them, of course they can. It's free as well.-
Can't see adding a tick box costing anything at all? They don't need to moderate it anymore than they already do. It would just be a little feature that a minority would use. I personally don't see any harm in it.
---It's the modding as much as anything. When I was a carer (and before I found this) I had to do dating sites a lot (over 15 years off and on), and you find out when speaking to people (I must have spoken to hundreds in the end) that they are full of people getting upset over things and making reports etc. You are bringing in love and family, children etc... it becomes an entirely different thing.
Fab have quite a tough attitude to the maintenance of this place (bare-bones but firm and fair - sometimes frustratingly so as we all know), but add a dating element to this and people will want a totally different approach. Maybe not you, but others certainly will. These forums can get sensitive enough as it is I think.
Also you'd have to keep out people who aren't interested in the sex, otherwise it will surely break down entirely! Dating sites are reviewed and listed everywhere - can you imagine if this free to join place became as well known as Tinder or even Match?
Ok, like Fab okc has a free blind-viewing format with free messaging too (though it isn't exactly cheap to view who is 'liking' you if you need that too), but it's primarily about dating first, and its sexy side works well off the back of that. I just don't think it works the other way around at all."
Didn't think of it that way! You've made excellent points to be fair |
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