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over a year ago
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I have been chatting with a few people on here and they have said that they would meet with me but aren't meeting up at the moment yet are meeting others and having verifications posted.
Should I bother chatting any longer as it's feels like lip service saying they want to meet me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Without knowing everything about said people and the content of your conversations with them, I'd say they're just avoiding saying your not for them. I could be wrong (more often than not) |
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over a year ago
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My preference is to agree to meet someone I've been chatting to longer. I'm not gonna meet someone that I've only chatted to for say, 4 weeks before someone I've chatted to for 9 weeks. That's just an example.
And i make it clear that there's a difference between 'yea you seem a good person to chat to with a possibility of a meet'and 'yea we can chat here and it's good but I'm not going to guarantee a meet'
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Probably happens to everyone on here one time or other, just forget about it and move on, we have had a cancellation in the past after paying for hotel's and getting sitters, then seen a verification on their profile weeks later. We still went to the hotel found someone else and had a great time nevertheless. Needless to say we don't speak to them anymore and probably never will. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They could be working though a back oder wonko
I would probably just stop asking and if you injoy chatting to them keep chatting
And just hope they say a meet but would also look at others also
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"I have been chatting with a few people on here and they have said that they would meet with me but aren't meeting up at the moment yet are meeting others and having verifications posted.
Should I bother chatting any longer as it's feels like lip service saying they want to meet me "
Seen your thread and what l would say to you is ..send a message that you'll meet wherever ever it suits but after that do not message them again , that way you have done what you can but tbh l would'nt hold my breath either , this place is full of people that want compliments but will never meet cause they don't ever have any intention of, that's just the way it is. |
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