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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So years ago one of my best friends started dating this girl(around 20 she was). He was so happy he kept showing her off to me and all the lads. Look at her huge titts he'd say. And she was cute too. Yeah she was definitely a hit. And she was a really nice girl. Any ways a few weeks later I asked him 'how's the new girlfriend?' 'I dumped her'. He said. 'why'? I asked. Apparently she was awful in bed. Virgin. Well she came much to fast.
I don't know, but personally I would have taken a different path. I'd teach her and break her in slowly. However if it turns out to be mission impossible then I may have to call for back up. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Never heard a man complain a woman came too fast.
That's what he said Nora. But some girls orgasm much quicker than other's.
Did she say that’s it I’m done now, off you get?"
Nora he was telling the truth. I know him very well. But to be fair girls will dump guys too if their no good at sex. |
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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago
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"Never heard a man complain a woman came too fast.
Same  "
I was once with a lady who every time she climaxed had to stop and go to the toilet. After the 4th time I faked my climax and made my excuses.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m too old to get involved with advising youngsters. But attitudes sound very immature here. Poor girl lost her virginity for that outcome? Jeez, I was an ass when I was younger too. |
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"Never heard a man complain a woman came too fast.
That's what he said Nora. But some girls orgasm much quicker than other's.
Did she say that’s it I’m done now, off you get?
Nora he was telling the truth. I know him very well. But to be fair girls will dump guys too if their no good at sex. "
I wasn’t disputing whether he was telling the truth. I was just after more info as to why. Was the sole reason she was shit in bed because she came too quick? I’m intrigued |
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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago
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"Never heard a man complain a woman came too fast.
That's what he said Nora. But some girls orgasm much quicker than other's.
Did she say that’s it I’m done now, off you get?"
Sounds like my ex wife in the last few years of my marriage...she was one and done. She always finished before I had even really got going  |
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"Never heard a man complain a woman came too fast.
Same
I was once with a lady who every time she climaxed had to stop and go to the toilet. After the 4th time I faked my climax and made my excuses.. "
I think she needs to get that checked out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So years ago one of my best friends started dating this girl(around 20 she was). He was so happy he kept showing her off to me and all the lads. Look at her huge titts he'd say. And she was cute too. Yeah she was definitely a hit. And she was a really nice girl. Any ways a few weeks later I asked him 'how's the new girlfriend?' 'I dumped her'. He said. 'why'? I asked. Apparently she was awful in bed. Virgin. Well she came much to fast.
I don't know, but personally I would have taken a different path. I'd teach her and break her in slowly. However if it turns out to be mission impossible then I may have to call for back up. "
Not only do I not believe this so called story I just find the thought of it and posting something like this repugnant!!!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Never heard a man complain a woman came too fast.
That's what he said Nora. But some girls orgasm much quicker than other's.
Did she say that’s it I’m done now, off you get?
Nora he was telling the truth. I know him very well. But to be fair girls will dump guys too if their no good at sex.
I wasn’t disputing whether he was telling the truth. I was just after more info as to why. Was the sole reason she was shit in bed because she came too quick? I’m intrigued "
She was 20, she just didn't have much or any experience. Nora dear we've all been there. Honestly dear it's not rocket science. |
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"Never heard a man complain a woman came too fast.
That's what he said Nora. But some girls orgasm much quicker than other's.
Did she say that’s it I’m done now, off you get?
Nora he was telling the truth. I know him very well. But to be fair girls will dump guys too if their no good at sex.
I wasn’t disputing whether he was telling the truth. I was just after more info as to why. Was the sole reason she was shit in bed because she came too quick? I’m intrigued
She was 20, she just didn't have much or any experience. Nora dear we've all been there. Honestly dear it's not rocket science. "
Ok dear. Sorry dear. I’ll shut up now  |
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"I think the young woman in question probably dodged many bullets the day that charmer dumped her"
I was thinking the same 
This scenario sounds very convenient too 
Maybe someone is trying to get into the good books of the ladies of fab  
( who knows I’ve been known to be wrong before )  |
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"Never heard a man complain a woman came too fast.
That's what he said Nora. But some girls orgasm much quicker than other's.
Did she say that’s it I’m done now, off you get?
Nora he was telling the truth. I know him very well. But to be fair girls will dump guys too if their no good at sex.
I wasn’t disputing whether he was telling the truth. I was just after more info as to why. Was the sole reason she was shit in bed because she came too quick? I’m intrigued
She was 20, she just didn't have much or any experience. Nora dear we've all been there. Honestly dear it's not rocket science. "
What a wonderfully patronising response....dear |
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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago
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Is that like breaking in a new pair of shoes, and if they still nip after six months you pass them onto your mate to have a go in them?
As posted above, she certainly dodged a bullet there! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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" Look at her huge titts he'd say. And she was cute too. Yeah she was definitely a hit. And she was a really nice girl.
After your mate dumped her didn't you fancy dating her ?"
No I would neve date my friends ex. |
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By *mma29Couple
over a year ago
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"How long would you give the "breaking in" before you called for back up ?
Between 6 months and 9.
What would the back up be? "
If you have a problem, if no one else can help, and if you can find them...
maybe you can hire The A team |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How long would you give the "breaking in" before you called for back up ?
Between 6 months and 9.
What would the back up be?
If you have a problem, if no one else can help, and if you can find them...
maybe you can hire The A team"
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Never heard of a issue with women who cum to quickly  .I don’t believe their is such a thing as being crap in bed it’s about learning each other’s likes and dislikes and taking the time and patience.Sounds like she had a lucky escape tho as even tho your mate was older his attitude was extremely immature. |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
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Different perspective here. I used to have a very sensitive clit. Met a Dom on here and over a period of time I became less sensitive. You can retrain your body and it’s never too late. I was in my 40’s and it’s amazing what you can do.
I now also have the confidence to tell a guy what to do for my pleasure. If we don’t communicate no one learns or improves. |
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"Never heard a man complain a woman came too fast.
Same "
I orgasm really easily. It caused the breakup of one arrangement (his biggest kink was orgasm tease and denial and that just doesn't work with me), but I've also been accused of faking by more than one person.
I certainly don't need breaking in though, and good luck to the person who thinks to try. |
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"So years ago one of my best friends started dating this girl(around 20 she was). He was so happy he kept showing her off to me and all the lads. Look at her huge titts he'd say. And she was cute too. Yeah she was definitely a hit. And she was a really nice girl. Any ways a few weeks later I asked him 'how's the new girlfriend?' 'I dumped her'. He said. 'why'? I asked. Apparently she was awful in bed. Virgin. Well she came much to fast.
I don't know, but personally I would have taken a different path. I'd teach her and break her in slowly. However if it turns out to be mission impossible then I may have to call for back up. "
What a beautiful and not at all off-putting way to be introduced to sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Doesn't matter how well you know your friend, I say his lying!
Seems to me he was the shit one in bed and the fact he has zero respect for his "then" girlfriend by discussing private matters and telling his mates to look at her body just screams out he got out of his depth with a younger woman and couldn't keep up with her!
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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Your mate sounds like a twat and I'd say a liar as most men actually enjoy making women cum and most women continue after they do.
As for the whole breaking her in slowly part and calling for back up if it fails. Well that is just patronising to anyone and kind of reeks of selfishness rather than mutual pleasure which to me is what sex with someone should be about. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How long would you give the "breaking in" before you called for back up ?
Between 6 months and 9.
What would the back up be?
If you have a problem, if no one else can help, and if you can find them...
maybe you can hire The A team"
Well yeah the A team was plan B or was it C? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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No I would neve date my friends ex.
Why not ?"
If it was a friend who is not one of my close friends then I probably wou date her, but a best friend is a no go. It just doesn't feel right. We all have different ethics, morals, outlook in life and boundaries. This is one of mine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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No I would neve date my friends ex.
Why not ?
If it was a friend who is not one of my close friends then I probably wou date her, but a best friend is a no go. It just doesn't feel right. We all have different ethics, morals, outlook in life and boundaries. This is one of mine. "
I mean I get that. He's obviously tried "breaking her in" and failed, and you would hurt his ego by finishing the job right? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m very surprised this hasn’t been hijacked by men claiming to make all women cum quick.
Give it time."
If she had done that she’d still have a boyfriend. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So years ago one of my best friends started dating this girl(around 20 she was). He was so happy he kept showing her off to me and all the lads. Look at her huge titts he'd say. And she was cute too. Yeah she was definitely a hit. And she was a really nice girl. Any ways a few weeks later I asked him 'how's the new girlfriend?' 'I dumped her'. He said. 'why'? I asked. Apparently she was awful in bed. Virgin. Well she came much to fast.
I don't know, but personally I would have taken a different path. I'd teach her and break her in slowly. However if it turns out to be mission impossible then I may have to call for back up. "
And he was an expert ..what was stopping him from making her cum over and over again ? ..maybe it was him that was useless with such a sexual woman . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Your mate sounds like a twat and I'd say a liar as most men actually enjoy making women cum and most women continue after they do.
As for the whole breaking her in slowly part and calling for back up if it fails. Well that is just patronising to anyone and kind of reeks of selfishness rather than mutual pleasure which to me is what sex with someone should be about. "
I fully agree with you ,l've never met a woman who didn't enjoy having multiple orgasm's . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The lady definitely had a lucky escape, hope she find someone who cherishes her and doesn't speak derogatory about her to a bunch of strangers on the Internet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How long would you give the "breaking in" before you called for back up ?
Between 6 months and 9."
Could you not be lenient and say 7 to 10 months..at least you’d give the young lady double figures then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've heard older women say they'd love to 'break in' a younger man and teach him a thing or two.
I've heard women of all ages say they wouldn't fuck a man again if he was shit in bed.
I've seen women of all ages say on here that they would be pissed off if the man came too fast.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've heard older women say they'd love to 'break in' a younger man and teach him a thing or two.
I've heard women of all ages say they wouldn't fuck a man again if he was shit in bed.
I've seen women of all ages say on here that they would be pissed off if the man came too fast.
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It's Fab. Thems the rules. 
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've heard older women say they'd love to 'break in' a younger man and teach him a thing or two.
I've heard women of all ages say they wouldn't fuck a man again if he was shit in bed.
I've seen women of all ages say on here that they would be pissed off if the man came too fast.
It's Fab. Thems the rules.
Winston "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It’s not that rare for some women to orgasm very fast, some literally as soon as you penetrate them , but that isn’t bad sex it’s amazing sex "
I'm not being funny, but how is that amazing sex if she's over in secs? I would be so frustrated if this was the case. |
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"It’s not that rare for some women to orgasm very fast, some literally as soon as you penetrate them , but that isn’t bad sex it’s amazing sex
I'm not being funny, but how is that amazing sex if she's over in secs? I would be so frustrated if this was the case. "
Have you actually had sex?! A lot of women can orgasm several times. I lose count how many times I cum when being fucked. It's not a one pop shop |
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"It’s not that rare for some women to orgasm very fast, some literally as soon as you penetrate them , but that isn’t bad sex it’s amazing sex
I'm not being funny, but how is that amazing sex if she's over in secs? I would be so frustrated if this was the case. "
Women are all different. Some can have multiple orgasms so it wouldn't be all over. We met a couple once and Mr N said the lady came many times over while they were having sex.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It’s not that rare for some women to orgasm very fast, some literally as soon as you penetrate them , but that isn’t bad sex it’s amazing sex
I'm not being funny, but how is that amazing sex if she's over in secs? I would be so frustrated if this was the case. "
Have you ever had sex with a woman? |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
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"It’s not that rare for some women to orgasm very fast, some literally as soon as you penetrate them , but that isn’t bad sex it’s amazing sex
I'm not being funny, but how is that amazing sex if she's over in secs? I would be so frustrated if this was the case. "
Because the first orgasm for a woman isn't the end of the session |
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Your friend is a bit of an idiot or should I say, your friend exhibited the behaviour that of an idiot.
We had a friend who could cum while making out. It was absolutely brilliant. After 8 or 9 she would be done but the fun in getting her to that number was huge.
Maybe there were other issues between them. We don't know.
I'm sure they both had good lives afterwards. |
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"So he dumped her because she was enjoying herself too much?...  Bright spark, him
LvM
How dare women enjoy sex! "
The bloody cheek of it! And to enjoy it so much and so quickly, and possible repeatedly! Ridiculous
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"So he dumped her because she was enjoying herself too much?... Bright spark, him
LvM
How dare women enjoy sex!
The bloody cheek of it! And to enjoy it so much and so quickly, and possible repeatedly! Ridiculous
LvM"
Absolutely disgraceful! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It’s not that rare for some women to orgasm very fast, some literally as soon as you penetrate them , but that isn’t bad sex it’s amazing sex
I'm not being funny, but how is that amazing sex if she's over in secs? I would be so frustrated if this was the case. "
Genuine question (because I'm gobsmacked reading your post above OP).
How many women have you actually had sex with??
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It’s not that rare for some women to orgasm very fast, some literally as soon as you penetrate them , but that isn’t bad sex it’s amazing sex
I'm not being funny, but how is that amazing sex if she's over in secs? I would be so frustrated if this was the case.
Because the first orgasm for a woman isn't the end of the session "
It is for some women. It becomes too sensitive to continue. |
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"It’s not that rare for some women to orgasm very fast, some literally as soon as you penetrate them , but that isn’t bad sex it’s amazing sex
I'm not being funny, but how is that amazing sex if she's over in secs? I would be so frustrated if this was the case.
Because the first orgasm for a woman isn't the end of the session
It is for some women. It becomes too sensitive to continue."
So then the fella needs to learn how the only make that happen at the end. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It’s not that rare for some women to orgasm very fast, some literally as soon as you penetrate them , but that isn’t bad sex it’s amazing sex
I'm not being funny, but how is that amazing sex if she's over in secs? I would be so frustrated if this was the case.
Women are all different. Some can have multiple orgasms so it wouldn't be all over. We met a couple once and Mr N said the lady came many times over while they were having sex.
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Men can have multiple orgasms too, wet and dry. It's whether you can harness the energy and ride the wave of bliss without falling off.
I don't know, did she confess her sins to him that she's still virgin territory? And he wasn't fair on the poor lass. I saw her afterwards, she was not a happy bunny. Anyway we all live and learn. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I’ve read this whole thread with this look on my face
Yes! Me too "
Well it was only supposed to be a light hearted thread, but once again some just have to get into a right twist. Honestly. It's like primary school. Well working in one. |
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"I’ve read this whole thread with this look on my face
Yes! Me too
Well it was only supposed to be a light hearted thread, but once again some just have to get into a right twist. Honestly. It's like primary school. Well working in one. "
Presumably you have experience working in a primary school?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It’s not that rare for some women to orgasm very fast, some literally as soon as you penetrate them , but that isn’t bad sex it’s amazing sex
I'm not being funny, but how is that amazing sex if she's over in secs? I would be so frustrated if this was the case.
Women are all different. Some can have multiple orgasms so it wouldn't be all over. We met a couple once and Mr N said the lady came many times over while they were having sex.
Men can have multiple orgasms too, wet and dry. It's whether you can harness the energy and ride the wave of bliss without falling off.
I don't know, did she confess her sins to him that she's still virgin territory? And he wasn't fair on the poor lass. I saw her afterwards, she was not a happy bunny. Anyway we all live and learn. "
Not as many as women though , women can have orgasm after Orgasm but men have to recover , they might recover fast ok but recover they have too but women don't , it's all nature , I don't make up the rules , nature does .  |
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