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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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5 years ago. I was on holiday in Greece. She sent me a text to say she needs to speak to me in person. It took me a few days to realise 'she was dumping me' ahhhh. Anyway we met, and she cried on me. Honestly women. I mean she's dumping me and she's crying! To be fair it's never easy is it? Giving bad news. |
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Cheated on me with her housemate (and honestly god-knows who else now) for I don't know how long, and gave some bullshit reason for breaking up with me. Oh that was also the day after we landed back from a holiday together, and that was after I'd been working abroad too  
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Small was 6 months and 5 days old he came home from work on his 25th birthday and told me (by text) he was going to live with a friend but we'd still be together. 2 days later he sent me another text to say bye
Felt like I was back at school
Won't ever trust again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I took him to the cemetery and when he asked who had died, I replied our relationship. Walked away and left him to grieve his devastating loss of me. "
FFS that made me snort in an ugly way  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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6 years ago. I'd struggled for 6 months to find a full time permanent job, all I could get was part time agency work. She moved out, turned up 3 month's later, said it was "done" and left her engagement ring on the front step. Turns out she'd been cheating with a guy who kept coming into the shop she managed, was devastated at the time, looking back I think I dodged a bullet |
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"Small was 6 months and 5 days old he came home from work on his 25th birthday and told me (by text) he was going to live with a friend but we'd still be together. 2 days later he sent me another text to say bye
Felt like I was back at school
Won't ever trust again"
That wasn't a man. It was an arsehole... You are much more than that... |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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"I took him to the cemetery and when he asked who had died, I replied our relationship. Walked away and left him to grieve his devastating loss of me. "
Just making a note of that for my next relationship….  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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After two years I woke up to a text message saying. This clearly isn't working I think it's best we call it a day. I didn't respond just made a cup of tea and dunked in some bourbons. I felt better then. |
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"I took him to the cemetery and when he asked who had died, I replied our relationship. Walked away and left him to grieve his devastating loss of me. "
This could only have been bettered if you'd gone to the trouble of mocking up a headstone for the relationship  |
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Had a text asking me to come over. When I did she had my things packed and said it was over, she’d been seeing someone else beind my back
I wanted to stay and talk but she said he was on his way and needed me to leave.
She lives over the road from a park so I moved my car and waited to see him… he was shorter, fatter and not her type at all….
They ended up getting married. How do I know that? Six months after the wedding she messaged me asking if I wanted to have an affair with her.
I told her to fuck off and lay in the bed she’d made for herself |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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Nothing personally, but an ex of mine had a friend who went to work, came home and the flat he shared with his girlfriend was completely empty. She’d left him and took everything. Didn’t leave a note, nothing. This was in the day before mobile phones.
It completely fucked him up.  |
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"Small was 6 months and 5 days old he came home from work on his 25th birthday and told me (by text) he was going to live with a friend but we'd still be together. 2 days later he sent me another text to say bye
Felt like I was back at school
Won't ever trust again
That wasn't a man. It was an arsehole... You are much more than that..."
Thank you sir xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I took him to the cemetery and when he asked who had died, I replied our relationship. Walked away and left him to grieve his devastating loss of me.
Just making a note of that for my next relationship…. "
I know she's so brutal this woman. Poor man must have thought 'was I that much of a prick'? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never been dumped from a serious relationship. Her ladyship and I went through a phase of dumping each other when we first met as we were both aware that I had way top much baggageto be starting a new relationship but that was before we actually even got together properly. Nothing else besides that.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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May 2020, during lockdown. He called and shouted down the phone that he was coming up to collect his holdall and that it was over. It was a complete shock, never saw it coming. I was absolutely heart broken and felt I'd been kicked in the stomach. Over the next four months, I saw his true colours and just wished I left him first. Well shot of him! x |
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After five years of being together, she cheated loads always messaging other men, constantly lying, I never cheated on her, towards the end I know she was cheating again and was looking for an argument over little things and waiting for me to mess up and I did and went mental and hasn't spoken to me since, I sit back now and think I was lucky I could of been married to her, |
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I've experienced a dumping that took over 12 months to develop. 12 months of no sex, very little talking, lots of arguments and me asking a repeated question "shall we call it a day?" with no definitive answer. It was like death by a thousand cuts. Would have preferred an honest straight forward break up instead of wasting a year of my life ! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I've experienced a dumping that took over 12 months to develop. 12 months of no sex, very little talking, lots of arguments and me asking a repeated question "shall we call it a day?" with no definitive answer. It was like death by a thousand cuts. Would have preferred an honest straight forward break up instead of wasting a year of my life ! "
Usually the signs are on wall when 'it's over'. Or about to be. |
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Mid lockdown, lost my best friend and lover in one go due to her narcissistic ex using her kids as weapons and having to make a choice. It was the only way he could still get at her and ruin her life which he set out to do quite a while back. He found the one thing we could not defend on, lockdown was no help and I fought to the end. Smug twat. Karma I hope catches up. |
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Mine was back in 2017. Had been dating for 3 months then became official. Everything was going great, well so I thought, when he turned up the day before I went on holiday with my daughter and parents to end it. 2 days into my holiday I got a message off his ex saying he’d been in bed with her the 3 nights before he ended it. Hurt at the time, but I soon got over him |
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"Mine was back in 2017. Had been dating for 3 months then became official. Everything was going great, well so I thought, when he turned up the day before I went on holiday with my daughter and parents to end it. 2 days into my holiday I got a message off his ex saying he’d been in bed with her the 3 nights before he ended it. Hurt at the time, but I soon got over him"
He's an asshole. Glad you are over him. |
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The worst dumping was quite a number of years ago. A four year relationship had led to engagement. She dumped me a few days after our engagement party. She told me she had been seeing a guy from work behind my back for quite a while. The bit that really hurt was when she told me the that at the engagement party, while I was socialising with our friends, they snuck down to the main bar and were kissing. Not just stabbing me in the back, but twisting the knife in. I now know I'm well rid but it took me several months to get over it
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Dumped by text... She was never brave enough to give me a reason why... The not knowing had me thinking the worst. Didn't do me much good that.  "
That is so brutal.
It must have been hard on her to send you that text. |
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"May 2020, during lockdown. He called and shouted down the phone that he was coming up to collect his holdall and that it was over. It was a complete shock, never saw it coming. I was absolutely heart broken and felt I'd been kicked in the stomach. Over the next four months, I saw his true colours and just wished I left him first. Well shot of him! x"
Are you sure he didnt say i want my hole doll |
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By *aiseiMan
over a year ago
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I think it was New Year’s Eve, 2005. Dumped via text.
She gave some bullshit reason but I knew it was because she wanted to get E’d off her tits on a London river boat party which she was going to with her mates and didn’t want me to cramp her style.
They were all a bunch of powder and pill bunnies, didn’t realise until after I was invested in her. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"May 2020, during lockdown. He called and shouted down the phone that he was coming up to collect his holdall and that it was over. It was a complete shock, never saw it coming. I was absolutely heart broken and felt I'd been kicked in the stomach. Over the next four months, I saw his true colours and just wished I left him first. Well shot of him! x
Are you sure he didnt say i want my hole doll"
No he didn't actually! Don't be so damn crass  |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"5 years ago. I was on holiday in Greece. She sent me a text to say she needs to speak to me in person. It took me a few days to realise 'she was dumping me' ahhhh. Anyway we met, and she cried on me. Honestly women. I mean she's dumping me and she's crying! To be fair it's never easy is it? Giving bad news. "
I hate doing it , I hate being the cause of others pain but I end up doing it a lot it sucks, I would much rather be dumped and deal with the pain myself.
Last time it happened to me was over 30 years ago , it was horrible at the time took, months , years to recover but I’m pleased she did it now |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"5 years ago. I was on holiday in Greece. She sent me a text to say she needs to speak to me in person. It took me a few days to realise 'she was dumping me' ahhhh. Anyway we met, and she cried on me. Honestly women. I mean she's dumping me and she's crying! To be fair it's never easy is it? Giving bad news. "
i was dumped in japan once.. all ended when she threw a copy of the lonely planet at me and got the next flight home. i stayed on and drank sake in japanese dive bars. came home to find she had moved out and taken 1/2 the furniture.
2 years later she moved back in as my tenant when she did a masters degree.. |
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By *omer47Man
over a year ago
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"I haven’t been dumped since school.
I have ended my last two relationships though because shockingly, women also cheat."
Yes they are all on here slating the married men doing exactly what they are doing......pot calling kettle black eh |
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