I'm interested to know what have you done in the vanilla world that has almost let your secret out about you being a swinger ?
Me I quite often pull my bank card out of my wallet and my club membership cards fall out at the same time  |
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Took my uncle out for food after a sport event. Bumped into a couple I know well from Fab. Odd thing was, I was an hour from home. They were two hours from home. I was a bit tongue tied for a few seconds but between us on the spot we concocted a story. |
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The other day one of my work friends started talking about that shite TV show about swinging/open relationships etc. I realised I'd gone a bit far when I was explaining to her about poly relationships, triads and quads etc. I got a few quizzical looks.
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over a year ago
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I don’t differentiate between sex and swinging.
I generally haven’t spoke to my friends about having sex since I was a teenager.
Doesn’t matter what kind of sex, it’s still sex. |
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"Make jokes about cheese and pickle sandwiches and how it’s reference to my fab name to people that don’t know I’m on fab.  "
Plenty of people know I’m poly but don’t know about fab too. And that’s also funny |
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By *host63Man
over a year ago
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I don't advertise it but neither do I deny it if asked.
Its my life and my choice how to live it.
Mind you interest in me within the swinging lifestyle is so small it's hardly worth talking about it to outsiders these days. |
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I have slipped up a few times when talking about alternative lifestyle choices. My sister in law called me up on it. How do I know so much about swinging. "If you weren't married to my sister I would be very suspicious"
My nearly had a stroke but her sister made a comment about how many topics I could talk about.
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over a year ago
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Woman’s fashion tips like pairing a Dress with heels or something or a dress
Or talking to woman in general when they go off on seton things and I am talking to them completely understand what they mean
Had some odd looking off amzment out off it
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"Mainly making up reasons why we're going out and need childcare and when asked "did you have a good time?"
Errrrrrr yes, I had sex with four guys mostly at the same time *the voice in my head*"
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Nothing to hide.
Single guys don't suffer moral indignation from the lifestyle...well not as much.
My condom did fall out my wallet as I drew my bank card...in the bank...with the female bank manager.
Made worse by the fact it had worked its way out of the foil and was just a condom, on a wallet.
I moved swiftly and hope her indifference was ignorance and not fortitude.  |
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I'm not a swinger so not an issue. Two people know about the kinky side. I'm not secretive about being non-monogamous. Just very matter of fact about it and haven't had any problems! |
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