Any expertise in filtering out of the unmatched is smart. It can save a lot of time. Some people have very limited free time, so using it wisely is a good thing. They may be refilling a slot that unexpectedly came free. And still do longer term planning |
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I had msg from cpl earlier in week first was chatty then said want meet so I said yes next minute sent me a time and said ok be here for 1500 but have finish by 1700.
I messaged back saying sorry I’m in work till after time said they then bombarded me calling me fake and timewaster.
My response was how is that when I’ve said am working and they responded well leave early if want us and then blocked me lol. So crazy
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I'm always wary of timeslots in posts. Sounds like a production line. What happens if you're enjoying it so much, you go over the alloted time? Someone knocking on the door ready to take your place?  |
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Getting ready and such takes time
With a set time it means I know I am going to be ready and fresh for that exact time
Wouldn’t think someone would appreciate me being ready from like 7 o’clock
Turning up at say 10 for me to be sitting with sweet marks and make up all botched due to the time it’s been on
Whare if we set a deadline off turning up at 10
At 9pm I can hop in a shower get ready and make up
Be ready for about 9.45pm meaning I am only sitting waiting 15 minutes before they come
That’s for me
Others could be different could be babysitter finishes at a set time to they need the meet by this time and away by that time
Could be one starts work at a set time |
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I'm a very punctual person. If we are to meet at 10, I'm there 5 min early and waiting till 9.59 to walk to the area.
But some things you need to be a bit more laid back and flexible about. And I would find it tough to put an end time on a meet. Be in by 6.15, must be out by 7.25 |
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We regually post meets with time slots. Having a life, that works around school runs and shifts ect. We post meets for say 1pm. That way we know we meet, play, vanilla up and can be at the school gate for 3pm.
Life is short, so we pack as much in as we can. Timed meets works for us. |
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jesus, I'd be glad to get a meet some time over the next 3 months 
is it me? 
