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Ever wonder how others see you?

By *ereforgiggles OP Man over a year ago

Scotland

I mean obviously in my head I'm a suave and debonair rascal but I'm sure that most folk just ignore me cos I'm a bawbag... So just for fun, how do YOU see yourself?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Funny, random and kind

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By *ife NinjaMan over a year ago

Dunfermline

Friendly, bang average, alright for a middle aged bloke

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes I do wonder….

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By *ereforgiggles OP Man over a year ago

Scotland

"Yes I do wonder…."

Fucking incredible I'd say

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By *ife NinjaMan over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Yes I do wonder…."

Nice girl. Far, far too young for me to be looking at you

My apologies

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By *mily36CWoman over a year ago

. (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

Cake

mad

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nice. A bit smart. I think I’m funnier than I actually am.

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By *ucka39Man over a year ago

Newcastle

Nope never paid any attention, unless I've chatted here or off here I know it speaks volumes

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By *agic.MMan over a year ago

Orpington

Potential for greatness shackled by insecurities

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By *ancer36Woman over a year ago

Stirling

I see my self as a confident, quirky and friendly person x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Tubby, resting bitch face, boring

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By *wist my nipplesCouple over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

I think folk think I've got it all sussed. That's a bag of shite, though

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am a man of focus commitment and sheer fucking will waiting for lighting to strike me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Friendly (but apparently I don’t look it), confident and don’t take life too seriously.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am awesome wonderful careing bubbly and funny to be around

I really don’t take life to seriously

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Forgot to add that I know everyone thinks I’m hot as fuck. Always forget to add the obvious ones.

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By *affron40Woman over a year ago

manchester

I see myself as dark, sarcastic and prickly… which I can be… but then I realise how many people I adore and realise I can’t be that prickly…

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I dread to think!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A somewhat nerdy introvert with average looks.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ugly,fat and dowdy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *ornyindian33Man over a year ago

Birmingham

Yes I wonder.

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

No, I have a pretty good idea as to the varied views on me.

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By * F 2018Couple over a year ago

shropshire

Naughty, kind and growing old disgracefully

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By *heArrowsCouple over a year ago

"No, I have a pretty good idea as to the varied views on me.

You know my view on you.

Just wish I had more views of you

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By *avie65Man over a year ago

In the west.

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By *hortarseWoman over a year ago

Norfolk

Little and sweet very quiet and shy. I flirt to much in the real world.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Others think what they think good or bad i dont get a say in that so i dont worry over it

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By *heArrowsCouple over a year ago

I think people see me as smart and interesting.

I mean I hope the do or my ego is out of control.

People also tell me I'm solid.

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By *avie65Man over a year ago

In the west.

Tall flawed and shy.

What I'd prefer is:

Tall, witty and uttery fuckin disgraceful.

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By *uffsandCropsCouple over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Her - Not exactly the most popular forum poster right now

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By *instonandLadyAstorCouple over a year ago

Not where we seem to be...

I'm an ordinary chap with no illusions regarding my kerb appeal.

Lady Astor is the only reason people talk to me.

Without her I'd just be weird old bloke at the end of the street, with too many cats and smells of piss.

Winston

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not sure how others see me but I see myself as just me, imperfectly perfect/random/firm but fair. A fighter taking shit off nobody.

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By *iscean_dreamMan over a year ago

Llanelli

Kind, caring and sarcastic with a naughty side

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By *imbobaMan over a year ago

Glasgow

Honestly. I don’t care much for what people think of me. I know that those that take the time to know me generally like me. And that’s enough for me.

Oh. And most will think I’m a lucky bastard. Which is true.

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman over a year ago

I’d like to see myself as a confident strong woman, and I guess that’s the exterior, but the reality is a lot different

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I do wonder.... sometimes

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By *entleman JayMan over a year ago

Wakefield

I’ve never thought about it??? Let people make up their own mind.

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By *Bacchus.Man over a year ago

Torquay

You made me wonder and anxiety is taking over

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I used to wonder but not anymore. I know who I am and I've been told I'm a good listener, trustworthy and always has time for others in need x

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By *ife NinjaMan over a year ago

Dunfermline

Anyone who comes on this site has balls (metaphorically) of steel. You open yourself up to gawking and conjecture. You're all wonderful

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By *uffsandCropsCouple over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"You made me wonder and anxiety is taking over"

Don't worry about what others think. They won't know the real you and that's what counts

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

I don’t think anyone sees themselves as others see them so I just need to hope I leave a good impression on most folks I meet

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By *iscean_dreamMan over a year ago

Llanelli

"Anyone who comes on this site has balls (metaphorically) of steel. You open yourself up to gawking and conjecture. You're all wonderful

You wouldn't want them literally, imagine having to explain that when at airport scanners

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By *uffsandCropsCouple over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"Anyone who comes on this site has balls (metaphorically) of steel. You open yourself up to gawking and conjecture. You're all wonderful

Don't forget gossip.

How can anyone know the real person unless they know you personally?

I've been accused of being too nice, trusting, gullible etc in real life but that never comes across on here.

We portray an image but no one (unless they've met you) knows the real person inside.

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By *rincessPuddleDuck22Woman over a year ago

.•°°

I do wonder what people think about me but it really doesn't matter

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By *avie65Man over a year ago

In the west.

"Anyone who comes on this site has balls (metaphorically) of steel. You open yourself up to gawking and conjecture. You're all wonderful

You have hit the nail on the head there stealthy one. It takes a lot of confidence to open yourself to every one, and let everyone ogle your bits.

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By *o new WinksMan over a year ago

BSE

I worry more than wonder. I am not good socially so, at times like the social last week, I just appear aloof or boring.

Perhaps I am.

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By *ife NinjaMan over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Anyone who comes on this site has balls (metaphorically) of steel. You open yourself up to gawking and conjecture. You're all wonderful

You have hit the nail on the head there stealthy one. It takes a lot of confidence to open yourself to every one, and let everyone ogle your bits. "

We all have confidence issues buddy. Will anybody like me? Am I going to meet anyone? The rejections? I like the chat on the forum and the friends/connections I have.

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By *ucka39Man over a year ago

Newcastle

A little ray of sunshine

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I used to wonder, then someone told me I was stand offish and I worried that everyone thought that. Not so much anymore

I see myself as kind, a good friend and not stand offish at all!

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By *pongly-dongMan over a year ago

Bournemouth

Not really sure I want to know!! Oh go on then….

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Doesn’t matter how I see myself only how others see me.

But also, sarcastic, annoying, dickhead.

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By *ou only live onceMan over a year ago

London

"I worry more than wonder. I am not good socially so, at times like the social last week, I just appear aloof or boring.

Perhaps I am. "

It's really interesting, isn't it - I don't know you at all, but your veris suggest your worries are entirely misplaced! Funny how our brains work!

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan over a year ago

Coventry

I have very little faith in the Internet. Much prefer to get the measure of people in the real world.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Anyone who comes on this site has balls (metaphorically) of steel. You open yourself up to gawking and conjecture. You're all wonderful

Don't forget gossip.

How can anyone know the real person unless they know you personally?

I've been accused of being too nice, trusting, gullible etc in real life but that never comes across on here.

We portray an image but no one (unless they've met you) knows the real person inside.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman over a year ago

Reading

A mess of contradictions.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Funny, fucked up in the head, depressed, tired, boring, chatty, unsociable, happy, sad, grumpy, annoying kinda guy.

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By *ce WingerMan over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I see myself making sweet luuuuve to Jim's Mum

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By *igGfunMan over a year ago

Oxford

Funny, intelligent and spontaneous

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By *aptain Caveman41Man over a year ago

Home

Couldn't care less what others think of me as long as I try my best to help the people around me that is all that matters to me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

never cared about what other think we live our way and very happy so why worry about what others think ??

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By *he AmbassadorMan over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

In short OP

Nope.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple over a year ago

North West

I know how others see me on here and I know how Mr KC sees me. I'm not sure I see it myself though.

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By *c_FingersMan over a year ago

Stoke On Trent

"I mean obviously in my head I'm a suave and debonair rascal but I'm sure that most folk just ignore me cos I'm a bawbag... So just for fun, how do YOU see yourself?"

People will see you however they want to no matter what.

Be yourself and how others portray, see and think of you doesn’t really matter in the big scheme of thing.

What you think of you matters more ????

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I imagine people think I'm confident, sarcastic and maybe an exhibitionist? I am sarcastic, that's true

The rest is far from true.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If I understood what people saw in me more I may understand more why they want me around when I am not sure I want to be

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By *icole 123Woman over a year ago

Baildon,West Yorkshire

I come across confident,that’s how everyone see’s me,but my insecurities lurk in the background

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By *uciferLingerieMan over a year ago

Leeds

Day to day on everyday kind of stuff I couldn't care less, but with regards to my kink for lingerie it's only something I share with people with the same interest.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You either like me or you don’t, I couldn’t careless if you don’t like me, well that’s your problem not mine x

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

try not to think about it too much

mixed with couldn't care less to be honest

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Personally nope, I am who I am and if others have a different perception then whatever I do or say isn't going to make a jot

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By *aiseiMan over a year ago

Birmingham

"I mean obviously in my head I'm a suave and debonair rascal but I'm sure that most folk just ignore me cos I'm a bawbag... So just for fun, how do YOU see yourself?"

Honestly…..in a poor light. I see myself as smaller in almost every way than I expect myself to be.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

An annoying arse.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman over a year ago

ashford

Confident kind and mad x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I see myself as,.,......, Meh lo an absolute 5/10 fugly but I'll make you laugh

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By *hrista BellendWoman over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

On here my veris will tell you how people see me, I'm the same offline as I am online

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By *oungAtHeartCurvyCoupleCouple over a year ago

Glasgow

Mr young at heart Peter pan the man who needs to grow up lol

Mrs shy quiet kind loyal and tries to always please everyone

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By *ames-77Man over a year ago

milton keynes

I never wonder I couldn't give a fuck.. my closest mates look up to me my family love me the rest aren't worth thinking about

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By *arkus1812Man over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

I imagine I am seen as a cake making doddering old bugger

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By *agneto.Man over a year ago

Bham

Weird. Nerd.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I see myself as the guy who just chats on the forums, that nobody wants to arm wrestle with.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think others see me as fairly attractive and confident (tho I have my insecurities that I hide well)

I see myself as a sweet person who’s really deep and mature for her age x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think I'm a silly sausage

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By *ecky and justCouple over a year ago

Godalming

We would love to know how people perceive us.

We like to think that we’re friendly and approachable and like to enjoy ourselves without being pushy.

I like to think we’re kind people, who have others feelings in mind.

We also both see ourselves as slightly overweight..

Blimey, that was a serious post for this early..!

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By *aughty but nice...Man over a year ago

Staffs

I worry all the time how people see me

I want to be layed back and carefree but I think I'm trying to hard to do that so god knows how I actually look

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Im kinda like the class idiot I suppose. Rarely serious, hopefully amusing, and fun to be around. Oh, and I’m handsome.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If I understood what people saw in me more I may understand more why they want me around when I am not sure I want to be "

They clearly see something. Maybe ask them.

Hope you are ok.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m alright like. Got some good traits. Also got flaws.

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By *rhugesMan over a year ago

Cardiff

The older I get the more I realize I just don't understand how other people think lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I imagine people think I'm confident, sarcastic and maybe an exhibitionist? I am sarcastic, that's true

The rest is far from true. "

Being serious, Inconceivable, you come across as wonderful and genuine always. And that’s so lovely and refreshing to see.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"An annoying arse.

Mr"

Nah I like you, Mr

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Distinctly average and probably a bit of a bitch due to my lack of tolerance for people.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I provably worry about what other people think about me far too much.

I worry they see me as annoying and anxiety riddled..

When I feel good I think I'm friendly, funny (but probably not as funny as I think) and easy to get on with.

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By *merald Eyes XWoman over a year ago

Can you find me….

Hot

lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"An annoying arse.

Mr"

You're not!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I imagine people think I'm confident, sarcastic and maybe an exhibitionist? I am sarcastic, that's true

The rest is far from true.

Being serious, Inconceivable, you come across as wonderful and genuine always. And that’s so lovely and refreshing to see. "

You're way too nice about me!

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By *ife NinjaMan over a year ago

Dunfermline

"I provably worry about what other people think about me far too much.

I worry they see me as annoying and anxiety riddled..

When I feel good I think I'm friendly, funny (but probably not as funny as I think) and easy to get on with. "

You need not worry. Friendly and funny

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By *ea monkeyMan over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I can read people fairly well and often pick up on how people see me.

Sometimes I’m not so good and it requires being told or a long slow lesson

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I imagine people think I'm confident, sarcastic and maybe an exhibitionist? I am sarcastic, that's true

The rest is far from true.

Being serious, Inconceivable, you come across as wonderful and genuine always. And that’s so lovely and refreshing to see.

You're way too nice about me!

You deserve it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We would love to know how people perceive us.

We like to think that we’re friendly and approachable and like to enjoy ourselves without being pushy.

I like to think we’re kind people, who have others feelings in mind.

We also both see ourselves as slightly overweight..

Blimey, that was a serious post for this early..!

Gorgeous, funny, intelligent beings, with sexy twinkling eyes, living life to the full and allowing others to be part of their journey

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By *ollycouple71Couple over a year ago

manchester

"You made me wonder and anxiety is taking over

Don't worry about what others think. They won't know the real you and that's what counts

"
This x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I see myself as strong, independent abd on a scale of slightly annoying to arsey

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple over a year ago

chester

I think I’m a really nice person! Optimistic & I’m kind. In spite of the usual physical flaws, not bad for an old bird

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By *etcplCouple over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

A sliding scale of contradictions.

Fun but serious. Ugly on the outside but beautiful on the inside. Accepting but judgemental. Etc.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Old n knackered

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I get positive feedback and i choose to believe it

Warm, friendly, peoply person with a big smile and a joyful energy

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By *adyBugsWoman over a year ago

cognito

Nope been here too long and I’m too old to care.

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By *r SensualMan over a year ago

London

I like to believe people see me as a confident, respectful young gent with a sense of humour. Well that’s how I see myself anyway

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By *assie101Woman over a year ago

Kent

Probably best not think about it too much

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By *isty286Couple over a year ago

Dorset

When I read the question i did Wonder about it for about 10 seconds, then realised I don't actually give a flying f###, people have lost all thier social skills during C19, and as far as I'm concerned, they can keep thier opinions to themselves.

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By *ust PeachyWoman over a year ago

Prestonish

Yes and no tbh.

I like me - but I absolutely get why some people don’t. I’m definitely not everyone’s cup of tea but I think my heart’s in the right place.

I struggle a little on here because it’s all so public - and in spite of me being an ‘open book’ in many aspects I’m uncomfortable with the constant virtue signalling that seems to be compulsory in todays’ society if you’re to be seen as a decent human being.

For instance - I may help a blind lady cross the road, tie the shoes of an elderly woman so she doesn’t trip up or give money to a homeless person and have a natter with them - or simply pm someone on here who’s made it obvious on a post that they’re not in a great place.

I believe that’s just something that every half decent human being does on a daily basis - and doesn’t require a post on Facebook, insta, Snapchat, twitter or indeed here.

I guess some people don’t like me because they just see the person who tends to talk too much at times - but doesn’t see the rest because it’s not so obvious.

It’s fine though - I like me - and I’m ok if others don’t.

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By *o new WinksMan over a year ago

BSE

"I worry more than wonder. I am not good socially so, at times like the social last week, I just appear aloof or boring.

Perhaps I am.

It's really interesting, isn't it - I don't know you at all, but your veris suggest your worries are entirely misplaced! Funny how our brains work!"

My veris are from people who have met me. In a situation where I can communicate 1 on 1, I feel able to overcome my looks (I am a little scary looking) and allow my mind to meet theirs.

I am the product of a single mother home and as a result, have a female biased psyche. I share more interests with them than I do with men...which is compounded by my dislike of football...and find it easier to talk to female strangers.

This is mainly as a result of my inner insecurities.

The only upside of that unsuredness is a finely honed sense of humour that is my Testudo.

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By *illingVicMan over a year ago

Sevenoaks

Antisocial, deliberately contrary, lazy... yet flirty, generous and kind.

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By *ou only live onceMan over a year ago

London

"I worry more than wonder. I am not good socially so, at times like the social last week, I just appear aloof or boring.

Perhaps I am.

It's really interesting, isn't it - I don't know you at all, but your veris suggest your worries are entirely misplaced! Funny how our brains work!

My veris are from people who have met me. In a situation where I can communicate 1 on 1, I feel able to overcome my looks (I am a little scary looking) and allow my mind to meet theirs.

This is mainly as a result of my inner insecurities.

The only upside of that unsuredness is a finely honed sense of humour that is my Testudo.

Yeah, I understand that. Sorry if my post came across as rude - it was meant to be a compliment, as I thought your post really highlighted how the voice in our head about what others are thinking about us (mine is loud!) is often wrong!

Fwiw, I grew up in an all-female house too, and I also find women easier to talk to, though I also love football!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

On a good day, a sweetheart.. on a bad day a resting bitch face nightmare

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By *o new WinksMan over a year ago

BSE

Fwiw, I grew up in an all-female house too, and I also find women easier to talk to, though I also love football! "

Never thought of it as anything other than complimentary.

Apologies if my reply seemed curt.

See, its things like this that make me worry

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

I do sometimes wonder how other people see me, if for instance they say something that indicates they really have the wrong idea about me altogether. It doesn't go beyond that though I just find it amusing that they have that impression.

Unless I'm going to change myself I can't see any value in knowing what others think of me.

I know I have a completely ridiculous impression of myself. I'm a shade over 5ft, 65years old and a bottle blonde, I don't suffer fools and I'm inwardly rolling my eyes when I'm out shopping but in my head I'm 5ft ten, brunette and 40 with the patience of mother Theresa

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By *andyfloss2000Woman over a year ago

ashford

"I imagine I am seen as a cake making doddering old bugger

I see u as a very distinguished looking man!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Laid back, drama free and easy to be around … I hope

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sarcastic I imagine

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Easy going and friendly to some.

Pain in the arse & a bitch according to others.

Best not trying to get inside others' heads to see how they see us though. You'll end up demented.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Easy going and friendly to some.

Pain in the arse & a bitch according to others.

Best not trying to get inside others' heads to see how they see us though. You'll end up demented."
I see you as the elusive 1

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Can't say I have thought about it till now. If you like me you like me, if you don't you dont.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m as worried about how people see me as I am about a piano fallout out of a tree and landing on me.

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By *2000ManMan over a year ago

Worthing

Quietly confident.

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS over a year ago

Stockport

Old. Unattractive. Writes long essays in the forums that hardly anyone reads. Keeps using words like cis and terf and banging on about trans gender stuff. Depressed by the shitty state of the world and the majority of people in it.

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By *emorefridaCouple over a year ago

La la land

Yeah to a point, as I know my personality doesn't always show in the written form. So I think I'm far more serious than I really am

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

They question my sanity

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"An annoying arse.

Nah I like you, Mr "

Thank you.

It's mutual.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Old. Unattractive. Writes long essays in the forums that hardly anyone reads. Keeps using words like cis and terf and banging on about trans gender stuff. Depressed by the shitty state of the world and the majority of people in it."

Dunno about hardly anyone - I read your posts. Also agree with the assessment of the world and its people - I try not to let it depress me though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I could have written this sentence!