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over a year ago
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“God you are so fucking sexy”
Heard this over and over in person (yes BRAAAG!) . So as another OP touched upon the femininity subject, I want to touch on the sexiness.
We know what standard beauty is or whatever, but
What does it mean to be sexy?
Is it like the way you present yourself? Is it an energy that others pick up on? Is in the eyes or the way you move?
Or a combination of all, perhaps?
How do you interpret sensuality and sexiness? What does it mean, when they tell you, you are so sexy!
Or what does it mean when you see someone and you tell them they are sexy
(Probably a question I’ll have to interrupt and ask the guys who find me sexy…  … Imagine… HOLD UP. What do you actually mean when you say I’m sexy please go into details ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To me its an energy and a calm confidence a look in her eyes a presence and feeling that i must speak to this woman or in extremes i must have this woman |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"To me its an energy and a calm confidence a look in her eyes a presence and feeling that i must speak to this woman or in extremes i must have this woman "
I agree that I think sexy is an energy and also confidence as midnight said.
Its very hard to explain it I think. It’s something you can feel tho |
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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago
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...it means they find you sexually attractive. It can be different things to different guys, not a question you can generalise, and yes, you would probably have to ask each individual in question |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"...it means they find you sexually attractive. It can be different things to different guys, not a question you can generalise, and yes, you would probably have to ask each individual in question "
Well obviously.  I know they found me sexually attractive
But how do you see sexiness? Do you feel is it purely on how they look. Is it an energy you feel from them? |
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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago
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"...it means they find you sexually attractive. It can be different things to different guys, not a question you can generalise, and yes, you would probably have to ask each individual in question
Well obviously. I know they found me sexually attractive
But how do you see sexiness? Do you feel is it purely on how they look. Is it an energy you feel from them? "
No (also not sure what you mean by energy)...but it can be something about their looks, personality, their voice, the way the think and talk....there's so many variables |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think it comes from within and radiates out  "
Ohhh I like this!
I have to say that I agree , also it’s something that you get the feel of, when you actually meet a person in the flesh |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"...it means they find you sexually attractive. It can be different things to different guys, not a question you can generalise, and yes, you would probably have to ask each individual in question
Well obviously. I know they found me sexually attractive
But how do you see sexiness? Do you feel is it purely on how they look. Is it an energy you feel from them?
No (also not sure what you mean by energy)...but it can be something about their looks, personality, their voice, the way the think and talk....there's so many variables "
I think Tmontana explained it pretty neatly, what I mean about energy x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think it matters a damn if others find me sexy. It matters if I feel sexy and to me that's being in touch with my sexuality and feeling confident in my sexual attractiveness.
My personal view fwiw. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't think it matters a damn if others find me sexy. It matters if I feel sexy and to me that's being in touch with my sexuality and feeling confident in my sexual attractiveness.
My personal view fwiw. "
YES !! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't think it matters a damn if others find me sexy. It matters if I feel sexy and to me that's being in touch with my sexuality and feeling confident in my sexual attractiveness.
My personal view fwiw. "
Don’t you think they go hand in hand tho.
Like if you feel sexy then it radiates and someone who’s attracted to you, will feel that sexiness in you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it comes from within and radiates out
Ohhh I like this!
I have to say that I agree , also it’s something that you get the feel of, when you actually meet a person in the flesh "
Yeah I think it’s an energy - there is the looks part but I think the whole someone can be and act os sexy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't think it matters a damn if others find me sexy. It matters if I feel sexy and to me that's being in touch with my sexuality and feeling confident in my sexual attractiveness.
My personal view fwiw.
Don’t you think they go hand in hand tho.
Like if you feel sexy then it radiates and someone who’s attracted to you, will feel that sexiness in you?"
Maybe. I don't care if men in general think I'm sexy tbh. It's tiresome on here. An empty compliment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it comes from within and radiates out "
It’s absolutely this!
I can’t tell you how many times I’ve not found someone aesthetically sexy…. Then sat and talked to them and before long they become the sexiest person ever!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it comes from within and radiates out
Ohhh I like this!
I have to say that I agree , also it’s something that you get the feel of, when you actually meet a person in the flesh
Yeah I think it’s an energy - there is the looks part but I think the whole someone can be and act os sexy "
That’s my view too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"...it means they find you sexually attractive. It can be different things to different guys, not a question you can generalise, and yes, you would probably have to ask each individual in question "
I find you sexually attractive  |
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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago
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"...it means they find you sexually attractive. It can be different things to different guys, not a question you can generalise, and yes, you would probably have to ask each individual in question
Well obviously. I know they found me sexually attractive
But how do you see sexiness? Do you feel is it purely on how they look. Is it an energy you feel from them?
No (also not sure what you mean by energy)...but it can be something about their looks, personality, their voice, the way the think and talk....there's so many variables
I think Tmontana explained it pretty neatly, what I mean about energy x "
..."something that comes from within and radiates outside " ...that can mean anything. Anyways to answer your question, no I Don't think it's purely physical and I also don't think it's an energy from within, I think it's a combination of traits that are linked to your appearance (or voice), personality and the way you think and conduct yourself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"“God you are so fucking sexy”
Heard this over and over in person (yes BRAAAG!) . So as another OP touched upon the femininity subject, I want to touch on the sexiness.
We know what standard beauty is or whatever, but
What does it mean to be sexy?
Is it like the way you present yourself? Is it an energy that others pick up on? Is in the eyes or the way you move?
Or a combination of all, perhaps?
How do you interpret sensuality and sexiness? What does it mean, when they tell you, you are so sexy!
Or what does it mean when you see someone and you tell them they are sexy
(Probably a question I’ll have to interrupt and ask the guys who find me sexy… … Imagine… HOLD UP. What do you actually mean when you say I’m sexy please go into details )"
You ask a lot of questions |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t feel like I’m ‘sexy’ for a number of reasons.
But I do think sexiness is something we carry. Like BDE (Big Dick Energy) for example. It’s hard to describe. I guess it’s confidence? It’s mostly that. And that carries into the way you are in spaces generally when you’re standing/ sitting/ moving. The way you communicate as well. I don’t find looks/ glances/ expressions all that sexy because it’s more about how it’s done than the act itself. An attractive person nervously biting their lip in an encounter with you is not sexy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it comes from within and radiates out
Ohhh I like this!
I have to say that I agree , also it’s something that you get the feel of, when you actually meet a person in the flesh
Yeah I think it’s an energy - there is the looks part but I think the whole someone can be and act os sexy
That’s my view too "
Obviously I meant the *way someone can be and act *is sexy
Damn autocorrect |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it comes from within and radiates out
Ohhh I like this!
I have to say that I agree , also it’s something that you get the feel of, when you actually meet a person in the flesh
Yeah I think it’s an energy - there is the looks part but I think the whole someone can be and act os sexy
That’s my view too
Obviously I meant the *way someone can be and act *is sexy
Damn autocorrect "
Spelling is sexy too  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"“God you are so fucking sexy”
Heard this over and over in person (yes BRAAAG!) . So as another OP touched upon the femininity subject, I want to touch on the sexiness.
We know what standard beauty is or whatever, but
What does it mean to be sexy?
Is it like the way you present yourself? Is it an energy that others pick up on? Is in the eyes or the way you move?
Or a combination of all, perhaps?
How do you interpret sensuality and sexiness? What does it mean, when they tell you, you are so sexy!
Or what does it mean when you see someone and you tell them they are sexy
(Probably a question I’ll have to interrupt and ask the guys who find me sexy… … Imagine… HOLD UP. What do you actually mean when you say I’m sexy please go into details )
You ask a lot of questions "
Im a curious girl, what can I say x |
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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago
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Yes I definitely feel that it’s all about the energy. I just know that I am sexy. No matter what size I have been and what physical type someone is into, there’s just an energy that some people give off that is just damn hot!
I know that I have it and yes confidence is most definitely a big part of it which is why I have got sexier with age despite young and slim women being the preferred norm.
Intelligence and strength of character play quite a major part also imho. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes I definitely feel that it’s all about the energy. I just know that I am sexy. No matter what size I have been and what physical type someone is into, there’s just an energy that some people give off that is just damn hot!
I know that I have it and yes confidence is most definitely a big part of it which is why I have got sexier with age despite young and slim women being the preferred norm.
Intelligence and strength of character play quite a major part also imho."
Love this  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes I definitely feel that it’s all about the energy. I just know that I am sexy. No matter what size I have been and what physical type someone is into, there’s just an energy that some people give off that is just damn hot!
I know that I have it and yes confidence is most definitely a big part of it which is why I have got sexier with age despite young and slim women being the preferred norm.
Intelligence and strength of character play quite a major part also imho."
Love this! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t feel like I’m ‘sexy’ for a number of reasons.
But I do think sexiness is something we carry. Like BDE (Big Dick Energy) for example. It’s hard to describe. I guess it’s confidence? It’s mostly that. And that carries into the way you are in spaces generally when you’re standing/ sitting/ moving. The way you communicate as well. I don’t find looks/ glances/ expressions all that sexy because it’s more about how it’s done than the act itself. An attractive person nervously biting their lip in an encounter with you is not sexy. "
BDE? That's really a thing? |
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By *obletonMan
over a year ago
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"But how do you see sexiness? Do you feel is it purely on how they look. Is it an energy you feel from them? "
To me it's the exact opposite of energy
****nerd alert!!****
Energy by definition is something you can measure and quantify
Sexiness is not |
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By *obletonMan
over a year ago
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"But how do you see sexiness? Do you feel is it purely on how they look. Is it an energy you feel from them?
To me it's the exact opposite of energy
****nerd alert!!****
Energy by definition is something you can measure and quantify
Sexiness is not"
replying to my own comment (not cool)
But I'm now imagining scenarios where sexiness can be scientificaly measured
Lab tech Bryson: "But professor, she's registering 3000 millifoxes on the Huntingdon-Whitney scale, how on earth is that possible?"
Professor:" Hmmm.... Fascinating .... (to test subject) do you dye your hair by any chance my dear?"
Test Subject: "why yes professor, I'm actually a natural redhead"
Professor: "see Bryson? my equipment is never wrong!!!!" |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"But how do you see sexiness? Do you feel is it purely on how they look. Is it an energy you feel from them?
To me it's the exact opposite of energy
****nerd alert!!****
Energy by definition is something you can measure and quantify
Sexiness is not"
Haha i think you are talking about energy in the most scientific way x  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"But how do you see sexiness? Do you feel is it purely on how they look. Is it an energy you feel from them?
To me it's the exact opposite of energy
****nerd alert!!****
Energy by definition is something you can measure and quantify
Sexiness is not
replying to my own comment (not cool)
But I'm now imagining scenarios where sexiness can be scientificaly measured
Lab tech Bryson: "But professor, she's registering 3000 millifoxes on the Huntingdon-Whitney scale, how on earth is that possible?"
Professor:" Hmmm.... Fascinating .... (to test subject) do you dye your hair by any chance my dear?"
Test Subject: "why yes professor, I'm actually a natural redhead"
Professor: "see Bryson? my equipment is never wrong!!!!""
 You've gone off on a little tangent there |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
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It’s an aura..some people just have it! Like a natural vibe about them that people feel drawn too, someone with an edge you just can’t put in to words xx
I find multiple things sexy not just people - music, dancing, art…that feeling you get when you just look at or hear something and it gives you a tingle down your spine xx |
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"But how do you see sexiness? Do you feel is it purely on how they look. Is it an energy you feel from them?
To me it's the exact opposite of energy
****nerd alert!!****
Energy by definition is something you can measure and quantify
Sexiness is not"
Ah, but that's it: it's definitely not something you can objectively measure. It's an x-factor. Maybe an aura, if energy's not the right term (scientifically). I've met lots of very attractive people who I didn't find sexy.
Maybe it is confidence - as others have said above, if they feel sexy then they'll be giving off a sexy energy. Not sure, but you sure know it when you see/feel it. |
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By *obletonMan
over a year ago
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"But how do you see sexiness? Do you feel is it purely on how they look. Is it an energy you feel from them?
To me it's the exact opposite of energy
****nerd alert!!****
Energy by definition is something you can measure and quantify
Sexiness is not
Haha i think you are talking about energy in the most scientific way x "
well yes - but that's the point - there is no other way to talk about energy than a scientific way
If you hand 100 people a meter and ask them to measure how many volts an electrical circuit is producing they'll all give you the same answer
If you ask 100 people who all agree that a particular person is sexy what it is that makes that person sexy you'll get many different answers - all of which will be vague and kind of nebulous.
Don't get me wrong - that's what makes sexy so gosh darned.... well, sexy
The fact that we can't pin it down, distill it and bottle it.
It's vague, it's tautological, it's..... sexy |
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"“God you are so fucking sexy”
Heard this over and over in person (yes BRAAAG!) . So as another OP touched upon the femininity subject, I want to touch on the sexiness.
We know what standard beauty is or whatever, but
What does it mean to be sexy?
Men can be sexy also , when you see a man that you find attractive do you think he’s sexy? Would you want to fuck him?
Is it like the way you present yourself? Is it an energy that others pick up on? Is in the eyes or the way you move?
Or a combination of all, perhaps?
How do you interpret sensuality and sexiness? What does it mean, when they tell you, you are so sexy!
Or what does it mean when you see someone and you tell them they are sexy
(Probably a question I’ll have to interrupt and ask the guys who find me sexy… … Imagine… HOLD UP. What do you actually mean when you say I’m sexy please go into details )"
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"“God you are so fucking sexy”
Heard this over and over in person (yes BRAAAG!) . So as another OP touched upon the femininity subject, I want to touch on the sexiness.
We know what standard beauty is or whatever, but
What does it mean to be sexy?
Men can be sexy also , when you see a man that you find attractive do you think he’s sexy? Would you want to fuck him?
Is it like the way you present yourself? Is it an energy that others pick up on? Is in the eyes or the way you move?
Or a combination of all, perhaps?
How do you interpret sensuality and sexiness? What does it mean, when they tell you, you are so sexy!
Or what does it mean when you see someone and you tell them they are sexy
(Probably a question I’ll have to interrupt and ask the guys who find me sexy… … Imagine… HOLD UP. What do you actually mean when you say I’m sexy please go into details )"
I guess, tho I’d use a different word maybe. Like “you are hot” rather than sexy
But would be the synonym that personally, I’d use for guy to let them know they are sexy and that I feel like I want them and they have that sex appealing energy about them |
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