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"During a threesome, foursome or moresome, do you find it uncomfortable if at any point someone isn't actively participating and just watches for a bit? "
No. I'm an exhibitionist so I quite like being watched  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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So, not in a sort of dynamic where they watch?
Not really, maybe they're just taking it and catching their breath for a minute. I've never had a moresome but I guess if Bob just stared at me as I was doing all kinds to Peter, I'd feel a bit uncomfortable. If he's just watching for a bit and getting his perv on, fair enough. |
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over a year ago
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"During a threesome, foursome or moresome, do you find it uncomfortable if at any point someone isn't actively participating and just watches for a bit? "
No it’s a turn on! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So, not in a sort of dynamic where they watch?
Not really, maybe they're just taking it and catching their breath for a minute. I've never had a moresome but I guess if Bob just stared at me as I was doing all kinds to Peter, I'd feel a bit uncomfortable. If he's just watching for a bit and getting his perv on, fair enough."
That is so Bob. |
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No…once I’m in the zone, I couldn’t care less who’s watching…
I really enjoy sitting back at times and just watching the action. It’s part of the fun…joining in and watching and building up the excitement… 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It can get uncomfortable at a club when you end up surrounded by single men . Then you inevitably get the odd uninvited grope "
Or the old about to splat so decided to splat somewhere on you like you wouldn’t notice had that one before |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Somebody will be along shortly to explain the dynamics and differences between a MFMFMF and MMMFFF and MMMMF and MMFMM and FFFFM and FFMFF and how they best work. |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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"During a threesome, foursome or moresome, do you find it uncomfortable if at any point someone isn't actively participating and just watches for a bit? "
Nah. Myself and the Mrs regularly sit back and watch each other have fun. Mind its because we are old and knackered and need to take a breather.
If its been agreed up front, we also use that opportunity to take photos. |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
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"It can get uncomfortable at a club when you end up surrounded by single men . Then you inevitably get the odd uninvited grope
Or the old about to splat so decided to splat somewhere on you like you wouldn’t notice had that one before "
A simple ‘may I’ would help |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you) |
"It can get uncomfortable at a club when you end up surrounded by single men . Then you inevitably get the odd uninvited grope
Oh I meant someone who is involved, not a bystander  "
Oh that makes things easier. That’s not uncomfortable, we all need a rest now and then. Haha |
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Any time we were in a group setting we never noticed the people looking. For me it's definitely a focus thing. I'm not paying any attention to who is looking. And maybe I'm also showing off a bit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It can get uncomfortable at a club when you end up surrounded by single men . Then you inevitably get the odd uninvited grope
Or the old about to splat so decided to splat somewhere on you like you wouldn’t notice had that one before
A simple ‘may I’ would help"
Yes it definitely would help |
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By *acey_Red OP Woman
over a year ago
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"During a threesome, foursome or moresome, do you find it uncomfortable if at any point someone isn't actively participating and just watches for a bit?
Nah. Myself and the Mrs regularly sit back and watch each other have fun. Mind its because we are old and knackered and need to take a breather.
If its been agreed up front, we also use that opportunity to take photos."
I love watching partners |
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By *acey_Red OP Woman
over a year ago
Liverpool |
"How do you feel about it Lacey? "
Personally I enjoy watching, particularly watching my partners. I don't find it uncomfortable when someone who's involved takes a back seat to watch for a bit either. If anything I think if everyone involved enjoys that too then it removes the pressure for every person to be directly involved at every moment. I was just curious about how others felt. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How do you feel about it Lacey?
Personally I enjoy watching, particularly watching my partners. I don't find it uncomfortable when someone who's involved takes a back seat to watch for a bit either. If anything I think if everyone involved enjoys that too then it removes the pressure for every person to be directly involved at every moment. I was just curious about how others felt. "
Yeah that’s exactly how I feel about it. I’ve done it to take more of a break really, we’re not machines  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think it’s natural to take a step back and admire the view for a short period of time. Our first meet he stood and just watched for a while and then joined back in and we enjoyed putting on a show. |
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There was a time during a foursome that myself and the other lady settled back to watch and we got talking and after a while we were told to shut up and help or leave the room.
It was a really good chat |
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"How do you feel about it Lacey?
Personally I enjoy watching, particularly watching my partners. I don't find it uncomfortable when someone who's involved takes a back seat to watch for a bit either. If anything I think if everyone involved enjoys that too then it removes the pressure for every person to be directly involved at every moment. I was just curious about how others felt. "
I think this sums it up perfectly. I actually love a bit of watching too, but it's got to be natural, hasn't it? Ebb and flow, rather than any one person feeling like they're detached - unless specifically wanting/agreed to be a voyeur! |
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Never been in that situation where someone in the room isn’t an active participant.
Not sure how I’d feel about it, if it is was more than just a quick breather. Always had in my mind, if you are in the room then you are joining in. |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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"During a threesome, foursome or moresome, do you find it uncomfortable if at any point someone isn't actively participating and just watches for a bit?
Nah. Myself and the Mrs regularly sit back and watch each other have fun. Mind its because we are old and knackered and need to take a breather.
If its been agreed up front, we also use that opportunity to take photos.
I love watching partners "
It really is good fun to watch them enjoy themselves and to be able to do that clearly, as opposed to while you are also participating.
I’m not against watching strangers have fun in a club but its not the same. |
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Nah, not at all... it's a group activity, everyone has different moments.
Though that's from the experience of everyone knowing each other pretty well.
But then even if it was more of a stranger thing, I wouldn't be like "oi stop slacking Clive, we're on job-and-knock 'ere son"  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nah, not at all... it's a group activity, everyone has different moments.
Though that's from the experience of everyone knowing each other pretty well.
But then even if it was more of a stranger thing, I wouldn't be like "oi stop slacking Clive, we're on job-and-knock 'ere son" "
That is so Clive. |
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By *acey_Red OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Nah, not at all... it's a group activity, everyone has different moments.
Though that's from the experience of everyone knowing each other pretty well.
But then even if it was more of a stranger thing, I wouldn't be like "oi stop slacking Clive, we're on job-and-knock 'ere son" "
Clive never pulls his weight!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I often wonder if I'd be bored in a traditional threesome?!? Like if the guy is concentrating on the other woman, what would i do  "
Join in alongside the man and pleasure her too? |
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"I often wonder if I'd be bored in a traditional threesome?!? Like if the guy is concentrating on the other woman, what would i do
Join in alongside the man and pleasure her too? "
Ruby, I'd be joining in with you x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I often wonder if I'd be bored in a traditional threesome?!? Like if the guy is concentrating on the other woman, what would i do "
Don’t neglect the balls and maybe stick a finger between the buns |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I often wonder if I'd be bored in a traditional threesome?!? Like if the guy is concentrating on the other woman, what would i do
Be tied up waiting your turn?"
Oh now you are talking.. Ding, back in the room! |
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"I often wonder if I'd be bored in a traditional threesome?!? Like if the guy is concentrating on the other woman, what would i do
Don’t neglect the balls and maybe stick a finger between the buns"
Steady, you'll be shooting like a fountain fella |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I often wonder if I'd be bored in a traditional threesome?!? Like if the guy is concentrating on the other woman, what would i do
Don’t neglect the balls and maybe stick a finger between the buns
Steady, you'll be shooting like a fountain fella"
Dropping nuts like coconut tree to be precise |
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No, as long as they are still interested, suportive and enjoying what's going on. It's a very different when someone is clearly bored or not happy with what their parnter is doing/having do to them. |
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"It can get uncomfortable at a club when you end up surrounded by single men . Then you inevitably get the odd uninvited grope
Oh I meant someone who is involved, not a bystander "
It depends on whether they look like they are enjoying or not, if they aren’t then maybe just check in on them discreetly |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
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"No, as long as they are still interested, suportive and enjoying what's going on. It's a very different when someone is clearly bored or not happy with what their parnter is doing/having do to them. "
Surely if this occurs then they need to review their personal rules, it’s not for everyone and maybe it’s not for them . No one should endure watching what their partner is doing ( unless that’s what they’re into ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"During a threesome, foursome or moresome, do you find it uncomfortable if at any point someone isn't actively participating and just watches for a bit? "
No |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"During a threesome, foursome or moresome, do you find it uncomfortable if at any point someone isn't actively participating and just watches for a bit? "
I don’t know, I must not have. I’m fine with someone taking a breather, did we wear them out? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So, not in a sort of dynamic where they watch?
Not really, maybe they're just taking it and catching their breath for a minute. I've never had a moresome but I guess if Bob just stared at me as I was doing all kinds to Peter, I'd feel a bit uncomfortable. If he's just watching for a bit and getting his perv on, fair enough."
"Doing all kinds" to me is great! However, i dont know any one called Bob who can watch
P xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t mind a several people watching in a club open play room setting. It’s when someone has to be told no on several occasions that bugs me as it ends spoiling everyone’s fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not one bit.
It’s only natural for those involved to wanna watch this magnificent pagan beast in full primal mode.
In all seriousness though… I do enjoy watching at the odd interval myself, it’s all part of the overall experience and gives us horny conversations that go on for weeks afterwards |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We don’t find it uncomfortable at all; we love an element of exhibitionism / voyeurism. Sometimes L will ask me to sit out and watch for a bit while she performs and then call me back - drives me wild. Almost as much as when she takes a time out and watches - mmmmm |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"During a threesome, foursome or moresome, do you find it uncomfortable if at any point someone isn't actively participating and just watches for a bit? "
Isn't there times for everyone to just have to watch , isn't watching at some stage all part of it ? |
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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago
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It's fun to just watch them have a little one on one time, especially as they are just getting started, I enjoy the sensation of jealousy watching her cunt penetrated the first time, but then can't resist joining in to add to her pleasure. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No, as long as they are still interested, suportive and enjoying what's going on. It's a very different when someone is clearly bored or not happy with what their parnter is doing/having do to them. "
Oh i think this is the key point |
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"During a threesome, foursome or moresome, do you find it uncomfortable if at any point someone isn't actively participating and just watches for a bit?
Only if it's a news reporter "
Or Louis Theroux |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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"No, as long as they are still interested, suportive and enjoying what's going on. It's a very different when someone is clearly bored or not happy with what their parnter is doing/having do to them.
Oh i think this is the key point"
This |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"During a threesome, foursome or moresome, do you find it uncomfortable if at any point someone isn't actively participating and just watches for a bit?
Only if it's a news reporter "
Nothing we haven’t seen on channel 4 after dark |
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"During a threesome, foursome or moresome, do you find it uncomfortable if at any point someone isn't actively participating and just watches for a bit?
Only if it's a news reporter
Or Louis Theroux"
Not sure us lot are classed as weird enough for him  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No sometimes you just need to take a breath and enjoy the moment so why not sit back and enjoy the moment.
As long as they don't have a cuppa and a biscuit (Jaffa cakes) . X |
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