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Are you happier with who you are or with what you’ve done?
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over a year ago
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Who I am. I like to think I'm respectful and open to the opinions of those around me in a non-judgy way while also having a good sense of humour and not taking things too seriously.
A lot of what I've done so far has only been because I've been lucky enough to have supportive parents and family which has allowed me to benefit from their hard work and I'd honestly say I've mostly fluked my own achievements  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely happy and no regert wouldn’t change a thing
There is times I think about going back and changeing something that cased me so much pain
But at the end off the day if I did I wouldn’t be who I am to day
Or be as blessed as I am to have the life style I have
For all the pain it brung me it did set me on a path to be sorted for the rest off my life and worry about nothing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ll say I’m not entirely happy with some things I’ve done, but it’s made me who I am now.
Body wise - I’ll work on that as my hormones sort themselves out.
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I'm happy with myself. I'm a good person who treats others well and I have a positive impact on people's lives.
I'm not perfect. I am a deeply flawed person. But I won't compare myself or what I do to others. That is a sure fire way to unhappiness.
I have to look at what others have done to get an eye on what I should have done. And as I said, that is a bad habit to be in. It's a race no one wins |
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A great philosopher once said:
‘ The world ain’t all sunshine and rainbows. It’s a very mean and nasty place. I don’t care how tough you are, it will beat you to your knees and keep you there if you let it. You, me or nobody is going to hit as hard as life. But it ain’t how hard your hit, it’s about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward.’
Not sure what he’s going on about….  but I’m still getting up each day and moving forward.   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I am happier with what I have done, but looking back that all seems futile now and has certainly got me nowhere."
Got you here. And I’m glad you’re here  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Who I am. I'm a fairly decent honest fella, with morals. I can't change my physical features, so, take me as I am  "
That you are! Stay beautiful, man. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am happier with what I have done, but looking back that all seems futile now and has certainly got me nowhere.
Got you here. And I’m glad you’re here "
What a kind thought; thank you! |
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"A great philosopher once said:
‘ The world ain’t all sunshine and rainbows. It’s a very mean and nasty place. I don’t care how tough you are, it will beat you to your knees and keep you there if you let it. You, me or nobody is going to hit as hard as life. But it ain’t how hard your hit, it’s about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward.’
Not sure what he’s going on about…. but I’m still getting up each day and moving forward. "
This reminds me of a answer I once gave. You can’t beat me down because I won't let you anymore xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Who I am. I like to think I'm respectful and open to the opinions of those around me in a non-judgy way while also having a good sense of humour and not taking things too seriously.
A lot of what I've done so far has only been because I've been lucky enough to have supportive parents and family which has allowed me to benefit from their hard work and I'd honestly say I've mostly fluked my own achievements "
Doubt you’ve fluked it. Be kinder to yourself. But your family sounds great!!
Also all the things you said about you definitely come through on here. You’re lovely |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm happy with who I am now, but I was happy with who I was in the past aswell.
Am I happy with what I used to be?,probably not, but I like to think I've changed for the better. "
Growth is important. Don’t worry about who you were. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm more than happy I'm proud of who I am. Do I have regrets over some of the things I've done in the past absolutely. "
Who you are is lovely from what I’ve seen on here. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What I've done.
I'm not a fan of me but I've never hated what I've done (despite it sometimes not being the best thing in hindsight)."
I’m sure you’ve done some fabulous things and some fabulous things for others. But I’ma fan of you. I know others are too. |
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Definitely the things I've done. I'm in a great position financially through sheer hard work and determination with no help from anyone bar myself which in turn makes me happy with who, what and where I am in life x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm happy with myself. I'm a good person who treats others well and I have a positive impact on people's lives.
I'm not perfect. I am a deeply flawed person. But I won't compare myself or what I do to others. That is a sure fire way to unhappiness.
I have to look at what others have done to get an eye on what I should have done. And as I said, that is a bad habit to be in. It's a race no one wins"
You know I must say that you do seem like gorgeous people. Remember that. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The two go hand in hand, if I hadn’t done what I have in my life, I wouldn’t be who I am. All those experiences, good or bad, make the person. "
I know but I just like to make people choose I guess.
Anyway, you’re good people. And I think you know that. But don’t forget it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Definitely happy and no regert wouldn’t change a thing
There is times I think about going back and changeing something that cased me so much pain
But at the end off the day if I did I wouldn’t be who I am to day
Or be as blessed as I am to have the life style I have
For all the pain it brung me it did set me on a path to be sorted for the rest off my life and worry about nothing "
Exactly. It all brought you here. And isn’t it great being here! Wonder where you’ll get to! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Who I am. I worked hard to get to where I am and I’m happy in my own skin. "
I love this for you. you’re beautiful but it’s so good that *you* know that |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A great philosopher once said:
‘ The world ain’t all sunshine and rainbows. It’s a very mean and nasty place. I don’t care how tough you are, it will beat you to your knees and keep you there if you let it. You, me or nobody is going to hit as hard as life. But it ain’t how hard your hit, it’s about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward.’
Not sure what he’s going on about…. but I’m still getting up each day and moving forward. "
A classic quote. I love that. Keep getting up and moving forward. It’s beautiful to see you doing that |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Definitely the things I've done. I'm in a great position financially through sheer hard work and determination with no help from anyone bar myself which in turn makes me happy with who, what and where I am in life x"
Inspiring. I’m sure you’re proud of yourself. I hope you are. You should be. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't have any options; the only thing I can do is to try harder (smarter) in the future and to approach that with a more positive proactive disposition."
You’ll get it next time. You’re strong and you’re great! |
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"I'm more than happy I'm proud of who I am. Do I have regrets over some of the things I've done in the past absolutely.
Who you are is lovely from what I’ve seen on here. "
Thank you that is kind of you to say |
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People seem to appreciate me for what I've done, which is mainly not being a cunt to others. Though I look around at society and some of the happiest people seem to be utter bastards (I guess it's easy to be happy if you don't have any conscience), while being who I am often brings me sadness and depression. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Happy with who I am, I guess partly cos it’s what I’ve actively done to be who I am today ! And if I look back to my early teen years, I thought I could only pray to one day die and be reborn in the next life, in the right body x
I guess I can still secretely pray for that every now and then, but let me tell you, I’m proud of me x  |
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Happy as people and life in general.
Don't worry too much about things we have no control over.
We have found just best to do stuff, don't overthink and never make a drama out of a crisis.
Each to their own but hope everyone can find happiness in whatever sphere suits them. |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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"What I've done.
I'm not a fan of me but I've never hated what I've done (despite it sometimes not being the best thing in hindsight). I’m sure you’ve done some fabulous things and some fabulous things for others. But I’ma fan of you. I know others are too. "
Oh Steve  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"People seem to appreciate me for what I've done, which is mainly not being a cunt to others. Though I look around at society and some of the happiest people seem to be utter bastards (I guess it's easy to be happy if you don't have any conscience), while being who I am often brings me sadness and depression."
You’re such a wonderful person, Polly. You do wonderful things for others, I’m sure but you’re a wonderful person. And your presence brings happiness to others as much as your actions may also. So keep being you. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Happy with who I am, I guess partly cos it’s what I’ve actively done to be who I am today ! And if I look back to my early teen years, I thought I could only pray to one day die and be reborn in the next life, in the right body x
I guess I can still secretely pray for that every now and then, but let me tell you, I’m proud of me x "
You beautiful beautiful human. God we’re so lucky to have you here. I’m glad you’re happy with who you are and proud of who you are. You bring happiness to us all everyday on here. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"With who I am…it took a long ass time to get to here and a lot of pain along the way, I’m damn proud of who I am! xx"
You seem a gorgeous person. And the pain is hard I know it is but thank God you got through it and we have you as the wonderful person you are now. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What I've done, not quite there yet with being happy with who I am."
You may not be but a lot of people definitely are. You’re lovely. But I’m sure that you’ve done some really really great things. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What I’ve done.
I bet you’ve done some great things.
Well, not to brag but yes, yes I have."
It’s not at all surprising. And you know what, sometimes it’s ok to big yourself up. Big up you, man. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm (Mr) happier with what I've done. I set myself a number of goals in life and have achieved them all, the problem now is figuring out new goals to set as currently I feel like I'm "existing" and not making the most of life. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Who I am.
I don't even want to think about what I've done. "
Who you are is a beautiful, funny person that brings joy to lots of us every day. Don’t worry about you’ve done if you don’t want to. We’re lucky to have you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Much happier with my past than present "
Man, it’ll get good again. But I’ve no doubt you’ve likely done some amazing things in the past. You will do again. And you’re a pleasure to interact with on here |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Happy as people and life in general.
Don't worry too much about things we have no control over.
We have found just best to do stuff, don't overthink and never make a drama out of a crisis.
Each to their own but hope everyone can find happiness in whatever sphere suits them."
You’re lovely. I love this. I’m glad you’re happy people. And I’m sure you spread happiness wherever you go. Keep doing that |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Who I am. I'd like to think I'm a pretty decent person but I can't say I've ever done anything remarkable 
LvM"
I bet you have! But I like who you are. A wonderful person who brings joy to us all in here. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Who I am happy with myself "
You should be. You are a genuinely nice guy and positive. and you make people happy! Always lovely seeing you in threads |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Only one- as always.
Tell me. Tell us.
What I have done is what has made me who I am.
HTH (Hope That Helps)"
And who you are is wonderful. So I know you’ve done wonderful things!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Who I am…. I’ve done some pretty despicable things when I was younger that I really am not proud of."
And out of that had come a wonderful human that makes up for terrible football opinions with much better wit and positivity. I always say it’s pleasure seeing you in here. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"who i am, what i have done has made me the person i am today "
I’m happy you’re here and happy with who you are. Bet you’ve done some awesome things too. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm proudest of being a mum so that's both I guess."
I guess it is. You’re a gorgeous person. On top of being a fabulous mum I’m sure. No doubt you’ve brought so much happiness to so many people (including me ) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I don’t really like anything about myself so wouldn’t say I’m happy with who I am, but I’ve accepted who I am now and I’m fine with it. Don’t beat myself up so much anymore and I’m more relaxed. "
You know, I felt this. But one thing I know is that you bring happiness to others. You are loved by others. It’s good that you don’t beat yourself up so much anymore but the next step is loving so much, maybe even everything, about yourself. It’s a journey you’re on. You seem lovely. Give yourself more credit please |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm (Mr) happier with what I've done. I set myself a number of goals in life and have achieved them all, the problem now is figuring out new goals to set as currently I feel like I'm "existing" and not making the most of life."
Hey Mr. A great philosopher said that it’s up to us to give life meaning. Whatever your next goals are in life, no doubt you’ll smash them all. You brilliant person!- you should be happy with who you are as well by the way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Who I am…. I’ve done some pretty despicable things when I was younger that I really am not proud of.
And out of that had come a wonderful human that makes up for terrible football opinions with much better wit and positivity. I always say it’s pleasure seeing you in here. "
Thank you very much
FYI they aren’t opinions, they are facts |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Much happier with my past than present
Man, it’ll get good again. But I’ve no doubt you’ve likely done some amazing things in the past. You will do again. And you’re a pleasure to interact with on here "
cheers dude for the kind words it wont happen but its nice to dream now and then |
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"People seem to appreciate me for what I've done, which is mainly not being a cunt to others. Though I look around at society and some of the happiest people seem to be utter bastards (I guess it's easy to be happy if you don't have any conscience), while being who I am often brings me sadness and depression.
You’re such a wonderful person, Polly. You do wonderful things for others, I’m sure but you’re a wonderful person. And your presence brings happiness to others as much as your actions may also. So keep being you. "
Thank you Steve xxx |
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"People seem to appreciate me for what I've done, which is mainly not being a cunt to others. Though I look around at society and some of the happiest people seem to be utter bastards (I guess it's easy to be happy if you don't have any conscience), while being who I am often brings me sadness and depression."
I appreciate you for who you are, which is reflected in how you conduct yourself and what you do
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By (user no longer on site)
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Im ok with things iv done from fab .. it was things always interested in doing.. somethings turned out to be something i not into somethings were amazing but something long-term doing wouldn't be my thing.. the rest is why im still hear lol |
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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago
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I am now very happy with who I am, because I am more than happy with what I have done: for a long time I was involved in a few toxic relationships that had eroded my self confidence, to almost zero
I got rid of them for ever
Permanently, irrevocably and indefinitely;there was no going back, ever.
Now, my policy is to listen attentively briefly and if I detect any hint of bullying, criticism or dismissiveness then that person is eradicated from my life, permanently.
I am happy with who I am, and what I have done.  |
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